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brandytwin on 11/8/2009 9:22:05 PM

Hey katelin s. I love your icon thingy! the hearts are so cool and my cousins and I made something like that out of cheerios once. ur a great mod!

mkroberts96 on 11/5/2009 11:24:50 PM

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I more question. I'm getting my first cell phone for my b-day! What kind of phones are good that have a good texting keyboard and is just an overall good phone?

Hey babe, I'm not really sure, I would check with your service provider and ask your friends. Be sure to look into things like internet access (and costs!) while looking.

mkroberts96 on 11/5/2009 11:19:53 PM

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so I really like this guy and I don't know if he likes me back. What are some ways to be sure if he likes me or not without asking him directly? Also how can I be flirty to hint I like him without actually telling him? we sit right near each other in 2 classes. Help very soon please like within the next ten minutes!

Hey babe, if he's looking at you a lot and being extra smiley and flirty then chances are he likes ya. Try to talk to him more and ask him about everyday things like music, tv shows and movies. Be yourself and confident and you'll be fine!

mkroberts96 on 11/5/2009 11:14:43 PM

You Know, I'm having the same problems with my BF. I really like him but he keeps flirting with another girl. It really gets on my nerves and I can't believe him.

KookyChicka on 11/4/2009 8:23:24 PM

hey i know lots of people just talk bout their problems but i wanted to say something about the story above (BF flirts with other girls). When bill and dave give their advice it seems kinda sexist that they say all girls want to hear honesty and then complain if its not what they hear... I mean 1. guys do the same thing sometimes! and 2. not all girls do that! i was a little offended actually.

Bubbles3508 on 11/1/2009 8:38:31 PM

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misscute100 on 11/1/2009 1:35:53 PM

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Im going out with my best guy friend now. But, we only talk with friends around now. I don't want us to be a couple who never talk alone. I wnat us to be more. But, when I get close to talking to him alone, I get nervous. how can i stop getting nervous ?

Hey babe,

Try to think of some things to talk about before you're alone with him so you won't be worried about what to say. That might help with your nerves a bit!

xoxo Allie

cj24 on 10/30/2009 4:13:03 PM

MOD MOD MOD my crush is going to ask me to homecoming tommorow but im too scared to say yes, but if i say no he will be sad and think i dont like him. I also really dont want to tell my parents im going with a date. HELP!!

Hey missy, there's only one thing for you to do: say yes! When you get nervous and feel yourself about to say no, thinking about how long you've waited to hang with your crush and the fun night you guys will have together. It's not good to keep secrets from your 'rents, so ask them if you can go with a date. Tell them it wouldn't be anything serious, you guys would just be hanging out having fun. Even offer to introduce him to your 'rents, so they won't worry. Good luck and have fu at homecoming!

Lynae P.

animaluver438 on 10/23/2009 10:29:13 PM

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I have a friend that's obssessed over a guy. She thinks he's in love with her and that's all she ever talks about. She finally aked him out and he said no. She wants to talk about wat a big of a jerk he is right now, but soon she'll be in love with him again. I've always been supportive 4 year but she does it over and over again. I try and talk to her sometimes about other things but the subject always goes to him. I've been thinking and I think shes doing it all to get attention. Is it wrong for me to want to talk about my guy probs? How do I get my probs out and how can I get her off this drama without being a jerk? Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey girl! I've def been in your shoes before. It's hard when a girl-friend is so obsessed with one particular guy, it's like that's the only thing that's ever on her mind. Next time you get a breather-moment, why don't you ask her if you could get her suggestion on a guy problem, or if you could vent about a guy who's confusing you. That way you guys will be able to BOTH share your guy-thoughts. Let her know also that there's more to life than just the drama...maybe try bringing up an activity you both like...like ask her if she wants to go to the mall or movies, or if she wants to go play tennis, cards, make jewelry, etc. If you do something distracting, she'll be less likely to obsess over the guy.

Megan R.

Ari or Ana? on 10/23/2009 6:41:01 PM

Love the advice, so true, but its so hard to understand that!

superstar911 on 10/23/2009 5:56:43 PM

he has eyes too, but he shouldnt talk about other girls that much. talk to him about it or break up with him. you deserve better

tennis1696 on 10/23/2009 5:48:17 PM

if i were u i would break up with him it seams like he cares about them (if he talks about it to u)more than u

sportygirl18 on 10/23/2009 3:09:07 PM

amr.freak,

It's really hard to tell parents lots of things but, (unfortunatlely -sigh-)you tell them or they find out (I hate it when that happens lol XD). Does your parents know the family of your BF? If so, ask your parents to invite them over a BBQ or something and then tell both parents, If your parents do not know the family It's never to late to meet them But, you really should tell them..

Lots of Love,
Karikaylee

karikaylee on 10/23/2009 2:36:42 PM

I have the same problem too. I, sometimes see my bf talking to girls and i think girls are flirting with him and I really get jealous. I dont know what to do anymore. I am really confused and everything. I mean we been together for 3 years but its on and off relationship but i really love him and he always tell me he loves. uggghhh.... I hate this jealousy feelings.!!

iloveme1992 on 10/22/2009 10:04:11 PM

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ok well i really like this guy and i used to think that he liked me back,but then he found out that i liked him and he started to tease me less. do you think it is cause he doesnt like me as much or because he doesnt think he really needsa to flirt as much cause i already like him?
please help!
-lolgirl523

Hey girl, sounds like it's cause he doesn't like you back sadly. He probably doesn't want to lead you on. Sorry, girlie, but it sounds like friendship is definitely an option for the moment.

xoxo

lolgirl523 on 10/22/2009 7:43:29 PM

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lolgirl523 on 10/22/2009 7:14:35 PM

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ok well i really like this guy, but idk if he likes me back. i used to think he liked me cause he was always picking on me nand stuff. he still does it now, but not as often. the only problem is that he knows i like him and idk if he is picking on me less because he doesnt like me anymore or if it is because he knows that i like him so he thinks he doesnt need to make his liking me as obvious. if this makes any sence will you please help me?

Hey girl, try sending him some signals and seeing how he reacts. He's clearly giving mixed ones on his own and it's up to you to sort 'em out.

xoxo

lolgirl523 on 10/22/2009 7:05:51 PM

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ok my friend really likes this guy and as a joke i was calling him using her phone. the prob is that when he answered i got kinda shy and hung up. now he is annoyed with her and idk what to do. also he hasnt ever met me cause i go to diff school. im afraid he doesnt belive her when she says that it was me and not her. i tried telling him that it was all my fault and that he shouldnt be annoyed and also that im really sorry. how can i make it up to her and how can i tell him that it was my fault without having her tell him. (i dont have a phone) i really need help!

Hey girl, just tell the guy up front what really happened: you were playing with your friend's contacts, and you accidentally called him. Tell him you didn't mean for anything to happen. If you need to for your friend, you can keep things hush, hush by twisting the truth a bit and saying you accidentally dialed the wrong number. While in most cases lying is never okay, it's also important you keep your friend's secret. But all in all, just explain. It'll be fine.

xoxo

chelsimer on 10/22/2009 5:47:43 PM

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I have a huge crush on a guy at my school. I have his cell phone number but I dont think he has mine (when my old phone broke, my friends gave me their contacts) I really want to text him, but I dont want to.........
sound stalkerish
be totally obvious
or sound weird.
He looks at me in my classes, Im positive, he knows me sorta well (our parents know each other and I carpool with his sister and mom for dance) and he talks to me sometimes. we had a free period in algebra and our teacher was showing 5 of us a magic trick, and he came over and stood next to me. I guess he likes me back because he tries to impress me in pe, sometimes he acts like he likes me too. but getting back on track....
I really want to text him but not just "Hey wats up?" I cant really meet him anywhere either, except dance 2nite, so maybe like c u @ dance" or something. PLEASE PLEASE HELP MODS OR Girls!

Hey girl, I'm a li'l hesitant about you texting him randomly, but if you do, make sure to start your text by stating who you are and who gave you his number. Then your reason for talking to him: start with something reasonable like you need HW or something. Then get into the dance tomorrow. Be careful, girlie. There's a fine line between taking initiative and being a bit creepy when it comes to texts.

xoxo

luckyducky14 on 10/22/2009 5:30:34 PM

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1)My crush has a youtube account. Well, actually it's him and his friends. Well my one friend Edward told me to go to his account and see what he commented. I did and the comment included very bad word. I don't know if it was him or one of the friends. I'm looking on the bright side and saying it wasn't him, but I don't know. As far as I know, and that's a lot since we've been friends since 1st grade, he doesn't swear. I'm upset and can't think straight. I would talk to him, but I am too scared to call and I only see him at school (or on the bus with lots of people I've known since ever), even though he is only a minute away. So what should I do? 2) I am really bad at hanging up on the phone. Any tips?

Hey girl, relax a bit. Chances are it's not Edward who wrote that mean word, and there's no reason to assume it was. Let it go for now. If he starts saying it in front of you though? Call him out for it. Bad words are just that -- bad -- and there's nothing wrong with correcting him when and if the word(s) is uttered from the horse's mouth.

xoxo

lasagna on 10/22/2009 5:27:32 PM

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I went out with this guy I really liked for about a month.
But then last week this other guy went up to my BF and said that I had sent him to tell him that I wanted to beak up with him. But I didnt! Now we don't even talk and he is SO mad at me! I miss hiim so much! Do you think if I asked hiim out again he will take me back?

Hey girl, call him and explain what happened. Leave a voicemail or a text if he doesn't answer. Explain you didn't ask for this guy to talk to your BF and you actually want to be back together. Let him know when it comes to your relationship you're the only source he'll ever need to know what's going on. You'll be okay.

xoxo

jojo.meg17 on 10/22/2009 5:06:24 PM

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Ok so i kinda like this guy, and we talk all the time!! we sit next to eachother in class,and our locker are next to each other!And his GIRLFRIENDS locker is on the other side!!! He always smiles at me and we stare at each other then lose eye contect and we laugh togeter. i have nooo idea what to do!
HELP

Hey girl, I think right now you've gotta stick to being friends. This guy is taken, girlie, meaning he's off limits. You've gotta respect that. You may have sparks now, but wait until after (and if) he and his gf break up before you start to fan the flames.

xoxo

downhillchick on 10/22/2009 4:34:10 PM

MOD***MOD***MOD Heeeey! I want to tell my crush i like him, but am very nervous. I am pretty sure he likes me because he shows a lot of signs and flirts like crazy. Ex. i was talking to a friend of mine saying i like someone and he herd me and stared freaking and saying things like 'Who is it. Tell me!' in a really protective and worried tone. Yet i am still completely nervous he is going to say 'no'! Anyway... do you think it would be okay if i had a friend ask him out for me? I mean i am so nervous to the point where my stomch hurts sometimes. Sorry it's so long. Would love your help! Lots Of Love- ChEsApEaKe

Hey girlie,

Try to tell this guy on your own that you like him. Guys don't normally like it when your friends ask them out for you. I know it's nerve-wracking. But once you get it over with, you'll feel so much better!

Thanks for posting!

Megan P.

Megan P.

dancing4ever1997 on 10/22/2009 3:59:18 PM

MOD MOD MOD okk so heres the issue, my bff got a a bf. only thing is, she had gone out with him a few times before and he ended up hurting her feelings. i want to tell her that she could totally find a new guy who treats her right, but she wont listen. how can i tell her that she could get a better guy without getting on her nerves or getting mad at me?? thxs alot!!

Hey girlie,

This is an issue that your friend will probably have to figure out on her own. Try to warn her politely and say that you care about her, and then stay out of it and let her do her thing.

Thanks for posting!

Megan P.

Megan P.

Crazy Chica 14 on 10/22/2009 3:25:42 PM

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today in class my guy friend who i dont like askedmeto play nervous. i was bored (and im a goody two shoes and im tired of it) so i did. he endedup feeling meup under mybra and now i feel really bad.and guilty., wats wrongs with me>!>

Hey babe,

It's okay to regret it and now you've learned from the experience and you won't let this kind of thing happen to you again.

xoxo Allie

m&mcutie on 10/21/2009 8:04:49 PM

ok that is exactly what i meant sorry my friend typed it and even i was confused that is why i asked for your help

lolgirl523 on 10/21/2009 7:49:40 PM

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ok my bff has a major problem here it is in her own words.....
ok soo well this nerdy guy wuz like DO U HATE me and he was lik NO Y WOULD I IDK and im like CRAP!! cuz i think he likes me and my friend likes my bf and i sit nxt 2 her in most of my calsses and when i do he always looks at me but i say hes looking at my friend but its pissing me off. alsooo...
he is ALWAYS flirting w/me and my SO CALLED friend is always flirting w/ my bf and soo friday were gonna test it out by saving a seat nxt me and nxt 2 alfred and c who she sits nxt 2 soo yah IM STILL JEALOUS!!! she thiks the world revoles around her and i already told her and and no1 likes her either she just sits w/ us cuz she thinks we all like her. what do u call walking between us while were slowdancing and nocking me over when were holding hands???? and then taking my spot and folloing HIM while hes alone rather then me and having 2 MAKE her get away while we try 2 hold hands UGH i HATE HER SOOOOOO MUCH
can you please help her? thanx a bunch

Hey babe,

I'm not sure I quite understand the whole question, but from what I can tell a guy likes you and you don't like him and your "friend" is flirting with your boyfriend. If that's not what you're asking about, just clarify it for me and I'll answer again. For the guy you don't like, if he keeps flirting with you you're going to have to tell him that it's making you uncomfortable and that you want him to stop. For your flirting friend, you're going to have to talk to her to. Let her know that if she keeps up this behavior she is going to lose all of her friends - and it sounds like she's already doing that. Trust that your boyfriend won't fall for her act. You can even talk to him about it, if you want to be sure about him.

xoxo Allie

lolgirl523 on 10/21/2009 7:39:49 PM

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it's really annoying because all the boys in my class and other classes are crushing on my and it makes me really self-conscious and then i realized they are crushing on me because of who i am that was all good and it made me feel good i was liked so much but then my friends get jealous because all the boys like me and not them. what should i do?

Hey babe,

It's not your fault. Your friends should know that, even if they're jealous. Just try not to rub it in their faces too much by talking about it too much.

xoxo Allie

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cupcake*cutie on 10/21/2009 6:01:05 PM

What a JERk!!
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MsLopez123 on 10/20/2009 11:06:24 PM

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I had the worst day at school today. Theres this guy lets call him riley, Well riley bothers me every single day and makes fun of me and says im ugly and hes cooler than me and stuff like that. One day a few weeks ago he said something really mean and it might be sexual harrasment. Idk what to do? I told my mom and she says ignore him, i do but he sits next to me and still bothers me. What do i do to make him stop?

Hey babe, sorry to hear that. It's good that you told your mom. She's right, try to ignore him as best as possible because people like that just keep pushing you when they see that they can get a reaction out of you. So if ignore him and pretend that it doesn't bother you, chances are he'll stop. However, if it does borderline sexual harassment, then I would tell your mom again and she can contact your school - or if it's immediate, tell a teacher.

Sky780 on 10/20/2009 9:48:43 PM

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I really really like this boy soooooooo much!!!! I really want him to ask me out and I think he is so sweet and nice. The problem is: I think he is crushing on my BFF. Which I hate! It's horrible. Their lockers are next to eachothers. Should I ask him if he likes her?

Hey babe, I would just hang out with him as much as possible to get to know him better. Be extra flirty and smiley and I'm sure he'll get the hint. If the time is right, you can always ask him if he has a crush on you or your bff.

Smileygirl86 on 10/20/2009 9:12:20 PM

thanks, taeler!!!! u and the other mods r sooo helpful!! there should b a mod appriciation day!!!

haha, you're welcome! We're so glad we can help! We def try our hardest to help you gals out as much as we can!

-Taeler

hollywoodgirl37 on 10/20/2009 8:53:13 PM

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2 questions . . .
i like my crush and he likes me (dream some true!) but he keeps talking a/b this "hot" girl that doesn't go 2 our school and how he wants her # - not 2 me, but around me. she exists, 2 - some of my friends have seen her. is he just saying this 2 make me jealous?
also, im flirting back w/ him, but how do i get him 2 ask me out without doing it myself? i can't, trust me on this 1, CAN'T ask him out myself or ANYTHING like that. hes cooler than me if u know wht i mean . . .
HELP!!!!!!

Hey girl! Just keep doing what you are doing. Flirt with him and hint to him that you think he's cute. Don't worry too much about another girl. If he really likes you it won't matter too much about her! Overall, be confident!

-Taeler

hollywoodgirl37 on 10/20/2009 8:42:16 PM

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I feel as if my shyness is really ruining my life. It's so easy to talk to someone and goof off when a friend is there by my side but I notice that often I can't talk to someone unless a friend is by my side [dont get me wrong in class while doing group work when you have to talk I will talk up a storm or when doing a project] but just talking to someone about something other than schoolwork is sometimes hard for me to do [even though in my head I want to say something I wont bother actually saying it]. Any advice?

Hey girl! Sounds like you already have a great personality so having the confidence to speak up is what you need! Trust yourself and be comfortable talking about whatever! The more you do it, the easier it is!

-Taeler

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Club Creativity on 10/20/2009 4:55:58 PM

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it seems like i always fall fo rthe players at my school...i really like one of em but he dumped me for a 5th grader (hes 7th)...it bout broke my heart and everday at lunch he sits at a diff table than me but across from me (assigned seats)...he always talks to his friends and looks at me and smiles...ive dated him twice and hes told everone that he loves me but...idk...all my friends say that i fall for a player cause i am one...i like alot of guys and have cheated on a couple of em b4...what should i do???? ik need help???? pleze answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey girl! They might be right, you might want to slow down on boys for a while and just take a break. You should try sticking with one guy and seeing if you like it and how it goes.

Eryn G.

VampireChic_12 on 10/20/2009 4:35:19 PM

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ok well my day is going horrible....can you help?
i got sick on sunday nite so i feel terrible;my head hurts, my bones and muscles ache, my head and nose are stuffed up, and my throat is sore. to make it even better, im on my period and i have to wear pads because im sick. ugh. also, we're getting a new roof so i hear pounding overhead. my mom is at an appt. rite now and my dad is at work........its too loud to sleep any ideas on what to do or how to make my day better?

Hey girl! So sorry to hear you don't feel well. Try laying down and watching a movie. Drink lots of liquids today, like orange juice and tea. Relax and try napping later. You need as much rest as you can get!

-Taeler

Hershey on 10/20/2009 10:05:51 AM

MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HELLPP!
so me n my ex broke up do to alot of drama! his rents found out bout us n he had to break up wit me (cuz he wasnt aloud to hav a gf n wer in 6 grde) but after he broke up wit me he went out wit an 8 grader exactly after! then he broke up wit her cuz he apperently wanted me bak but uh uh i said nooo cuz he new i hate him n stuff. well the day after our breakup alot of people found out n over 17 people hurt him lik playflly pushd him n wud say ur messed up n stuff n then he sed hes such a jerk bla bla bla... alot of pathetic stuff right? well 2 days after he is going out wit a 7 grader now! it dosnt even look lik he even cares about her lik he never talks about her ever. he tells my frend that he still inda liks me but he nos im still mad. hes the aperently "cutest guy in skewl" which bein his gf had alot of turn offs which ment alot of girls going up to him n hating me. im the only gf so far that he stayed wit longer n i bet he actually LIKED. ive never shown any sad emotion for him cuz ive been jus plain out mad at him but i do miss him.. hes really confusing n hes now the "playa" in the skewl but uhh.. idk wat to do!

Hey girlie,

He sounds to be like bad news bears. I'd stay away and move on like you've been doing. He's obviously just rebelling against his parents for saying he was too young to have a GF. He might still really like you and has realized that he messed up, but hasn't going about winning you back in the right way at all. If you decide to give him a second chance be very careful because he might be the type of guy to hurt you all over again.

xoxo Keltie

ilovecamprockncb on 10/20/2009 12:55:28 AM

WHAT A JERK! WELL NOT THAT iM TRYING TO B MEAN BUT iTS THE TRUTH. ONE OF MY FRiENDS BF WAS LiKE THAT SO SHE JUST TOLD HiM STRAiGHT TO HiS FACE TO STOP iT OR THEY WERE THRU SO HE SAiD NO BABE iM SORRY. SO THEY WERE HAPPY AGAiN. SO GiRL DONT B AFRAiD... TAKE CONTROL. LOL=)

Maria_bby on 10/20/2009 12:12:51 AM

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Please help! This guy I have liked for a long time just asked me out... through an email. I thought I was just getting over him, but now I don't know. I can't tell if he's desperate for a GF or if one of my friends egged him on.

Hey girlie,

If you've liked him for a long time then what's the problem?! You should be super excited that he asked you out. He might have felt the same way and just never had the courage to say anything until now. If the feelings are still there then say yes and give it a shot!

xoxo Keltie

band_geek13 on 10/19/2009 10:30:00 PM

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megan p. that was great advice and i like him too how should i tell im like him if im gonna move by the end of november

Hey babe,

It's always nice to have a shot at being with someone even if it's just for a short time. If you are going to be able to leave in November without being crushed about leaving him then go for it.

xoxo Keltie

*BEAUTY* on 10/19/2009 10:22:06 PM

help! so im going out with this guy, he's super sweet and amazing, he wants to go out on friday to seee paranormal activity but im only 13 i wanna go but my parents dont even know we're together, and i dont want to tell them because im scared they might tell me to break up with him, i really really like him and we've been through so much that i wanna go to this date but i dont wanna tell him taht my parents wont let me idk what to do!

amr.freak on 10/19/2009 10:15:18 PM

MOD!!
So, I tried to post this about an hour ago, but it didn't work. Let see if it'll work this time :]
I'm Sweet Sixteen, [for 1 more month] and never been kissed, I haven't even had a boyfriend until about a week ago. Now I need advice on 2 things. a) I'm veryyyyyy nervous.This'll be my first kiss, (as I said before) and I really don't want to mess it up. and b) I'm not allowed to dare (pathetic, right?) until I am a senior. However I don't have a problem with going behind my parents back.
Thankss sooo muchh :]]
And if any of you GL Babe's out there have any advice, go to my profile and post it there!!
Hugs&&Kisses.
--CEA--

Hey babe,

Everyone is nervous about their first kiss, so I'm sure your BF is nervous too. If you are ready to kiss him lock eyes, touch his chest or arm and see if he gets your vibe. Go in slowly and relax your lips. You'll get the drift on where to go from there.

Good luck!

xoxo Keltie

cea0503 on 10/19/2009 9:46:07 PM

thank you Keltie

i have another question too but this ones a little less depressing lol. my homecoming dance is this saturday and i have a dress but its not very fancy, and everyones talking about their dresses and theyre all really fancy so idk if im gonna be like the only one that doens't have a short silky dress with sparkles and bows. what kind of dresses did girls wear to your homecoming dances? and what kind of shoes should i get? small heals or flats? sorry and thank you

Hey girlie,

No worries. My homecoming dance was always pretty casual because prom was so formal. I'm sure you are going to look great. Add some funk to your outfit, some cute makeup and a cute hairstyle and just be confident in what you're wearing. Kitten heals are always super cute, but just make sure you get shoes that you'll be comfortable dancing in for the night!

xoxo Keltie

Matagirl13 on 10/19/2009 9:35:46 PM

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theres this guy that i was friends with from kindergarten to 8th grade, and he had always liked me, but i didn't really like him that much, he was just a good friend. then at the beginning of 8th i started to really like him and we got really close, and we went out from november 4th to january 10th, when he texted me saying he thought we were better as friends and it was over, but he really wanted to stay friends. well after that he never talked to me again. it took me a while to get over him, but i did, and i hardly even think about him anymore and i don't like him AT ALL. but now were freshmen and he got a new girlfriend a couple weeks ago and i see them walking around school together holding hands all the time and idk why but its like getting hit by a train everytime i see them. its like hey he was mine first, but i don't get why i feel like this cause i really don't like him. how do i stop feeling like this ?

Hey babe,

That sucks, but don't worry...it's not because you still like him. It might have something to do with the fact that he just stopped talking to you for no reason, which hurt you more than the breakup. Try to focus on meeting other guys and stop thinking about him all together. It'll take a bit of time, but when you have a new crush you'll forget about the old one.

xoxo Keltie

Matagirl13 on 10/19/2009 9:04:48 PM

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How do you tell when a guy likes you?
I have trouble decoding 'guy code'. I've read diff articles and I can't find anything good.
Any advice?

Hey babe,

'Guy code' is different depending on the guy. Generally if a guy likes you he'll go out of his way to poke fun at you, joke around with you and even seem like he's being mean to you. If you were good friends and things have suddenly become a bit awkward between you then he definitely likes you because he no longer knows how to act around you. If you think a guy likes you and you like him give him some signals, so it'll give his the confidence to make his move.

xoxo Keltie