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I like this guy so I made up a fake BF from my swim team who I came up with over summer last year. I had him dump me through a note and everyone believed it. Now I'm BF-less and the guy I like I'm never going to see again 'cause he lives 30 minutes away. I really wanted to tell him that I liked him but I couldn't 'cause I was too chicken. I told his cousin since she's my friend but I think she told him and everyone else, and I'm going to see the people she told.

To make matters worse, I asked a guy who was an awesome friend of mine if he likes me 'cause he's in 7th grade and I just graduated 8th grade (all my friends thought we'd make a good couple). I'm afraid that I wrecked our friendship and I think my crush heard me ask him. I'm now stuck in a big old tangle and I don't know what to do.

HERE ARE SOME SOLUTIONS I THOUGHT OF:

1. Ask the guy I like out and tell everyone I never really had a BF before.

2. Ask my friend out 'cause I kinda like him even though he doesn't like me.

3. Wait and don't ask out either and keep the fake BF thing a secret.

4. Ask another guy that I like out (totally different guy), even though he has a GF.

5. Or do none of those and tell everyone that my BF was never real and make myself a liar.

I don't know what to do. Can you please help or give me more suggestions to make myself crazy over?

- swimmin and strong '

First, you should just come clean about the whole fake BF thing. It might be tough, but it's always better to tell the truth. If ya have trouble doing it, just write everyone a li'l note and explain what went on. You might get teased, but it will die down.

Next, you should realize that you don't absolutely need a BF. You're a great, smart gal all by yourself and you don't need a What do YOU want the most? Which guy and situation would you be most comfortable with? Write a list of pros and cons for each situation and pick from there. Props for being brave enough to ask him someone out yourself.

Finally, talk to your friend. Explain the situation and apologize.

Love ya,

Lara

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lollipops20 on 2/16/2010 6:42:41 PM

Mod mod mod!! OMG! don't know what to do...
ok so i like this guy (T) and i kinda like this other guy (D). well i like T more than D but D asked me out, but i want to go out with T who is a grade older than me. he said he kinda liked me. i don't know how to let D down easly.
btw. i told me friend that i liked T and she told T and so he thinks i want to go out with him. ugg i need help!

Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes

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freaked1997 on 2/3/2010 10:05:39 PM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN.

purplemandms on 12/20/2009 8:59:15 PM

um dude, i did the same thing, unforutnatlely i didnt do the best possibe thing
just tell him that u like him straight out
find moral support
and you'llk find out if u really like him or not!

best wishes

purplemandms on 12/20/2009 8:58:56 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN.

lilAngel_96 on 12/10/2009 5:08:52 PM

MODMODMOD ok i've left a ton of comments and they've all been answered thanks so much!! but sorry i have another!!

ok so i like this guy a ton (10 months now) let's call him Peter. So my bff and i took peter's stuff and threw some of it in the garbage (something the entire class does to people as a joke) we did it yesterday and then he was joking and went to my locker and found my stuff piled outside of it and kicked it (not meanly) then today we did it again and i think he may have been flirting. then he went outside the room again and took my backpack and picked it up and was gonna go take it to the big garbage can but i got it in time and then he told me that he sits in my desk in language (as if he were going to do something.) it might sound like hes being mean but if you go to my school, that's not mean. so do you think he likes me???? and do you think i should leave a note in my desk for him to find??? sorry this is so long. thanks so much!!!

Hey chica, sounds like he may like you. If he didn't he wouldn't be joking back with you. I think leaving a note in his desk is a great idea. What are you thinking about saying in the note?

Lynae P.

Ali2468 on 12/9/2009 7:26:32 PM

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silversash on 12/7/2009 9:19:31 PM

Mod! I am so excited, my crush asked me out today! He's my first bf and I am so happy!!! Yay!!

Hey girl! Congrats! What a good day !

-Taeler

Taeler L.

Lisiebob on 12/4/2009 10:25:17 PM

wow thats a mess.

kupkake13 on 12/1/2009 7:49:57 PM

**MOD** im like real close with this guy.. everyone thinks were going out but were not. my bff thinks he majorly likes me. he was in my technology class and we sat by each other. he would sit sooo close to me that out knees were like constantly touching.and we walk together everyday after class. yesterday he wanted to walk with another one of his friends but he didnt want to leave me behind..

Hey girl, sorry I had to delete some of your comment, it was just a bit long to fit on the site. But from what you are saying I would def say he likes you. And if you like him I would take the next step and ask him to hang out, outside of school. If you guys start dating that would be the time to tell him you don't care if he hangs out with his friends.

xoxo

Olivia A.

i_no_im_awesome on 11/19/2009 3:54:51 PM

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ok so in Feburary at my school we have this King of Hearts dance. It is THE dance of the year (way bigger than prom) It's on the SUnday of Valentines Day weekend. Now i know that that is a LONG way away but my friends and i were wondering when a good time to ask domeone to go.like is january to late? to early? can you help us!

January would probably be a good time to ask!

Megan R.

swimstar27 on 10/31/2009 11:19:08 AM

Hey girlies!,

If you have any questions on guys,periods or anything else,just leave a comment on my profile and I'll answer as soon as posible!

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Coca-Cola Fan on 10/30/2009 10:02:34 PM

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so there's this guy, ha shocker right?

, well i like him but i Seriously can't tell if he likes me back or not. I have people that i don't even talk to tell me that he likes me and that we always flirt and we should date. which we do flirt...CONSTANTLY! to summarize: "he's the new kid and i liked him we flirted alot then my friend asked him to homecoming they went together but ppl said just cuz he felt bad for her but then he asked her out i was crushed then a week later they broke up so kinda liked him again but then he said he liked my other friend i was crushed again then he didn't like her anymore i kinda liked him again then he found out i liked him he said we were just friends i was crushed again and now my friends are saying i should tell him i really like him cuz he said he'd give me a chance." he Always flirts and gives me hugs and compliments me and even tells me he wants to kiss me and ppl even started calling me travis. I do like him but i don't know if i want to take the chance of getting hurt again. Do you think i should take the chance?

Hey girl, to love is better than to not love at all. I say take the chance. You may get hurt, but you'll regret not doing it because honestly? Something tells me this time could be the charm. Good luck!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

dramadork on 10/29/2009 7:04:41 PM

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emmytwilightlover97 on 10/25/2009 10:42:09 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!! Okay, so there's this guy in my class whos super HOT and kind of funny, so I'm Crushin on him. He plays b-ball and so do I, we go to a really small school like 15 in our Freshman class, and anyway all of my girls tell me he's a jerk, We have 7th through 12th grades in our high school so he would hardly talk to us in 7th and 8th grade. Now that were Freshmen, he's totaly cool with our class. Anyway, he sits behind me in math class and flirts with me, well, I'm super ticklish so he will poke me in the sides and do suff like that or hr will just ask me a question about something when I'm pretty sure he knows the answer. What throughs me is that he will tell me abourt diff. girls from other schools who "Really like him" or how one of the guys in our class has a gf and he's gonna meet her firend. Then in hte summer, I had my b-day party and he was actually excited about going,that is what he's mom told my mom (There really good friends and our brothers play baseball together and they are in the same class) I've been friends wiht him since we were in dipares adn I know he used to like me, but I ca'n ttell if he does now! SO just a recap, I like him, can't tell if he likes me, everyone says he's consedded and a jerk, (which he does have a "big head" but that's just his personality, adn I dont' know what to do! PLEASE HELP ME, SORRY IT'S SO LONG!!

Hey girl! You should just trust yourself about him and not listen to what everyone else says. He might be telling you about other girls to get your reaction so he could like you but the only way to know for sure is to find out from him directly. Just take it day by day and see what happens!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

mg let it be on 10/25/2009 10:39:56 PM

MOD ok so i was at this group thing at my parish tonight and we were watching a movie. I was sitting really close to this guy(small couch and there were 4 of us on it)and he was flirting with me...i think. well we were texting and he said that i looked pretty tonight and then we were playing 20 questions and he asked me if i liked anyone.. does he like me???

Hey girl! He might! You should go for it and try to ask him who he likes!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

potterfreak11 on 10/25/2009 10:16:01 PM

thanks mods!

vana903 on 10/25/2009 8:13:26 PM

MOD MOD MOD =D I told my mom what you wanted me to say.. and she said i can date him, but she said to always be honest with her and don't show pda in school. Im so happy! Thank you soo soo much!!!!!!!!!
Kristen Y.

PurpleSmileyzz on 10/25/2009 7:30:37 PM

MODD! I like one of my bgfs....and he likes me too....well at least thats what he told my best friends.....he said he was gonna ask me out...but one of my frinds told him that i wasnt ready for a bf right now (since i had just gotten dumped a few days before) but now i wanna go out...but i dont want it to be weird....we havent talked about liking each other...should i talk to him about it? pluss he rides my buss with all my other friends and i know that people would make fun us since we are all friends...so help? haha thanks!

Hey girl! If you like him, try asking him out on a date yourself. Your bgf prob thinks that you told your friend you weren't ready for a bf, so he doesn't want to pressure you. But if you ask him to go on a date, it'll show him that you're def interested too. And don't worry about your friends teasing. They may joke around for a while, but if you're happy, they can't touch you! best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

vana903 on 10/25/2009 6:50:33 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD Last year this one guy really liked me, but I'm not sure if he still does. Now I like him. Any advice on how to get him interested again?

Hey girl! The best thing to do is try getting close to him. Talk to him when you get a chance, or smile, wave, and say hi when you two lock eyes. Ask him how he's been, how his weekend was, or what he thinks about that crazy teacher. If you're friendly and show him you're interested, the sparks could def reignite! Best of luck, Kristen

Kristen Y.

glambitiongrl on 10/25/2009 6:14:07 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD Today at school I was caught making out with my boyfriend, the principal called my mom(she doesnt know i have a bf) and i dont know what to do! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey girl. The best thing to do is come clean to your mom. That way, she'll atleast know it was your bf and not some random guy you were smooching with. Let her know that you do have a bf and you were kissing him, but you're sorry. From now on girl, try to avoid that pda at school. School's not the appro place for it. Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

PurpleSmileyzz on 10/25/2009 6:11:35 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD How many comments or questions should u post on GL each day?? How do u become a MOD like some sory of membership because I would REALLY want to be an MOD??? Thanks 4 everything!!! All the best Kayla Oh and Is there a place where you can check where you posted things because I put an mod somewhere and I have NO CLUE where I put it...!!

Hey girl! You can comment as many times as you want. To be a GL mod, you have to be an intern at our office first. If you live in the Baltimore area, send us in your app! If not, you can always try joining one of the clubs on the site and modding there. I don't think there's a way to go see where you posted comments. Next time, just try to remember where you posted, so there'll be no confusion. Best, Kristen xoxo

Kristen Y.

Paramore_247 on 10/25/2009 5:51:59 PM

MOOOOOOOOOOOOD MOD MOD MOD My Bf of around a week HAHA is really awkward with me now that we have started dating! before when we were just friends it was easy and it flowed... but now he is SO awkward! how do i make it not awkward? the most he does is hug me! at he hardly does that! my friends said to jsut go up and kiss him to let him know it is okay to do things like that with me and make him less shy about those sorts of things... what do you think i can do to make it less awkward? everyone says that since he is shy i will have to make all the first moves... HELP! thanks xo

Hey girl! I suggest trying to intiate things a bit. I wouldn't go up and kiss him just yet because it may startle him. But, instead of waiting for him to hug you, feel free to hug him or hold his hand on your own time. This will give him a little confidence that you're okay with how things are and that you're still into him. Since he likes you a lot, he's prob nervous about physical bf/gf stuff, so try to show him that it's nothing to stress over. Keep cracking the same jokes and talking as naturally as you did before you were going out. It'll help him to relax a bit. Good luck! xoxo Kristen

Kristen Y.

sarah_96 on 10/25/2009 5:49:14 PM

Mod! I say sorry a lot. How can I get confident?-Emma

Hey chica, to become confident you have to tell yourself that you are as good as anybody else. Make a list of all the things you are good at. The list can include anything, making a goood bowl of cereal, getting good grades, playing soccer well anything you are good at. Then everyday when you wake up, repeat that list to yourself. Also try smiling and standing up straight. Make sure you keep yourself up, by dressing nice and keeping your hair done because when you look good you feel good! Hope this helps!

Lynae P.

emma333 on 10/25/2009 4:58:45 PM

MODD MODD MODDDDD! when your bf dumps you...how many days do you have to wait to go out with someone again. but not making everybody think you are a slut and stuff...?

Hey chicky, whenever you're ready is when you should start talking to other guys.

Lynae P.

vana903 on 10/25/2009 2:32:13 PM

MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD hola so i keep posting questions and either i forget where i posted them or they dnt show up so sry if u have gotten this question more than once her we go its about a guy in my class..that i like obv. big shocker rite so here we got its long but i need some good advice. instance #uno- the other day i wad telling him when he was being silly that he was anoying and that we tlk about him behind his back and i was joking and he kniew it then when we were leaving hhe was like bye ill b tlking aboiut you instance # doseee- i ask him random quesyions all the time and i flirt he flrits back example i asked him who his best friend is and he counts them up and then asks me back, i asked him baseball or football and he tryed to impress me (im guessing) by saying i play base ball and i like to watch bothe but im playing fb next year instance # thres- he tells me random useless things all the ime such as hell be like i made a hole in my paper when i was trying to mae a period at the end of the sentence and i sad wow so interesting you shuld write a book about it nad he says ok ill call it my period haha i was laughing then he finally got it and we were like to everyone p's writing a book called haha so funny so hes gonna b absent tomorrow from school since hes going to a dallas cowboy game and hell bon the plane coming home(he tld me that 4 billion times) the thing is i only tlk to him 1st period social studies when i sit near him and sometimes in spanish cause my teacher makes us write stories and i always make fu ny one s and i includre him in tghem by sayin =g he sannoying and stuff...so heres the ending what do u make of all this wther he likes me or mnot cause i have no idea please dnt lie be honest even if its like he hates you and dont make it one sentence sry to be a bother cause it took me 4ever to type this thx buh beye

Hey missy, sounds like he likes ya to me. He talks to you whenever he gets the chance and tells you things I'm sure he wouldn't tell anyone else. You guys both make each other laugh and you enjoy each other's company. So I think he is defintely interested in you. Ask him to hang out sometime!

Lynae P.

bianca97 on 10/25/2009 2:25:26 PM

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Ok so last night my bff had a party I was very exited because this guy from her school( we do not go to the same school) would be there now this guy was her "ex bf" I put qutations cause they went out for two days and she only said yes cause she felt bad for him then dumped him oN the second or third day they were "going out" I was exited to see him because she and I were txting him on her phone and I talked
To him and stuff to...when I asked her what he looked like she said some harsh things that I wasn't expecting and these were just about what he looked like..so at the party we actually got to meet in person he was not in my opion the bad way she described him...he turned out to be a really nice sweet polite guy. After the party since we had officially meet my bff and him we asking each other question through a txt she ran out of questions so I started taliking to him and we were askining each other questions...at the party everyone was wearing make up bit me so jokingly I said "I'm naturally beatiful so I dont need make up don't ya think?" he snugged his sholders but then answered me in the txt and said that I look good anyway..,. Which made my day cause I thought he was kinda cute and my bff thinks he ugly.... Then later on her txted me would yougo out with me if I asked not that I'm asking you now.like a good bff I asked my friend if that would be cool with her she sao yes...but then said that it would maybe bother her...I am a grade older then them and honestly I would never go out with a guy I just meet and will only see again maybe two more times. I think she said that it would bother he at the end cause she thinks she's guy repellent cause no one has ever likeliked her even tho she kinda used him and stuff I don't want her to be mad cause he asked me and I don't want her to think I am stealing her friend who I would never see, since I kinds like the guy I said maybe cause I just meet you and it's kinds breaking the girl code by going out with ur bffs e. I don't know how she really feels about this situation cause she clearly doesn't like him and I may not ever see him again...it also flatters me cause I can tell this dude is kinda into m...my bff did not seem mad when I asked her the question he asked me I just dont think she relizes that I won't probaly ever see again and she just kinda broke this dudes heart. Amy advice I'm so confused!!!!!! Thanks so much!!! Softballstar67

Follow your heart but still be true to your girl. If youre unsure, don't date him just yet. Things will get easier with time. Best,

Miliana B.

softballstar67 on 10/25/2009 11:22:29 AM

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I need some cool hair ideas! My hair is just barely at my shoulders! What can I do with it??

Mcr girl on 10/24/2009 10:44:31 PM

Mod Mod mod Help ok i like this guy who I volunteer with at church in the kids classes. i got my friend to ask him who he likes because she car poles with him. and she asked him and he he ask if it was me how liked him and she said yes and asked if he would like me back and he said maybe! What dose that mean? in class me and my friend see hem staring at me allot and one day after class me and my friend were being silly singing pauperizes in the back of class. he came up to us then walled back. DOSE HE LIKE ME???????????? PLZ TELL ME HOW I FIND OUT IF HE LIKES ME!

Hey girl! The only way you can know for sure is to talk to him directly! Try talking to him or flirting with him and see what happens over the next few days!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

macky__hot-lover on 10/24/2009 1:43:41 PM

I DONT GET IT????

dizzyds96 on 10/24/2009 1:38:50 PM

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Paramore_247 on 10/24/2009 11:39:15 AM

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I lived in Atlanta for 9 years. Then I developed a crush on this one guy. We were really good friends. Then we had to move away from atlanta, but we still go there some times. I still like him ALOT, and all my friends that live there say he liked me, too. I really miss him, and think about him all the time... what do i do? I want to ask my friends for his email, but.......... how?

Let them know you miss your friend...you don't have to let them know you like him as more than a friend. Ask them if they have his number of e-mail and start chattin!

Megan R.

girlsliferulez1234 on 10/24/2009 11:27:01 AM

Mod so this guy gus joke around with me this summer a lot and now that i don't see him but his friends which are my friends are like gus misses you,gus likes you and they asked me if i had a bf.They also end up talking about him when i'm there to like they wished he was there last night. Mean anything?Kayla xoxo

It def could mean something! Try getting Gus's number or talking to him online to see if he'd want to hang out more in the school year.

Megan R.

redsoxlover on 10/23/2009 8:23:44 PM

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There's these 2 boys in my class & one I

talk to alot. Then the other one(B) I only sit near hi in literature & I talk to him there. B my friends told him I like him although he said he doesn't like me cuz it would be too awkward, but he acts like he likes me. Then A told me earlier this yar that he likes me but I said I didn't cuz all my friends were making fun of me. I wanna tell A I like him although I'm not sure if B & other ppl will think I'm deprite. Wat should I do? P.S. I have my Halloween carnival today!!!=)

Tell the boy you like him if you will feel comfortable with your decision afterwards. You should tell him if it's on your mind and bothering you. You have nothing to lose if you tell the truth. Have fun at your carnival!

Megan R.

jello4eve on 10/23/2009 6:30:25 PM

oh yeah and girl, do solution one, just dont tell anyone about ur fake BF! kk bye!

nerdygal on 10/23/2009 6:03:07 PM

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we r having a halloween dance this friday at my school and im wearing a woodland fairy costume and it comes with wings. im gonna wear some chocolate brown boots and brown opaque tights. im gonna wear some neutral shades of makeup.
what happens if a guy asks me to dance and i dont like him??? and if my crush asks me to dance (i dont think he will cuz i thiiiiink he hates me) ill say yes but how should i say it, and all my friends except my BFF think i hate him back. I NEED HELP I AM SOOO VERY NEW AT THIS!!!
so very new... oh yeah and do u think my costume will look ok, cuz the boots dont have heels. and i havent worn a skirt in front of a guy in like a year or so...
so very new... plz answer all my q's even tho there is alot of them sorry!!!

Hey girlie,

First, guys love girls in skirts. Second, the boots will look great. Third, if you don't want to dance with a guy then just let him down gently. And fourth, if your crush asks you to dance shoot him a smile and say yes.

Have fun!

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

nerdygal on 10/23/2009 6:02:18 PM

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*clubmusichearts* on 10/23/2009 4:53:42 PM

Mod I have one more thing to so last week the other guy that I like dan he was behind me walking to his next class i couldn't walk past him and he turned around and looked at me and he also went a different way which is the way i go.Then i'm pretty sure today heading to lunch i herd his friends talking about me and when i was in the hallway today i was kind of talking to someone and his best friend turned around and looked at me idk if it mean anything though what do you think?
Kayla xoxo

Hey Kayla,

His friends could definitely be checking you out because he likes you. If he makes an effort to talk to you or walk to class with you or to acknowledge you those are all good signs.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

redsoxlover on 10/23/2009 4:28:53 PM

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i like this kid one of my classes soooo much we talk all the time and if we arent he always finds reasons to talk to me. He is so cute and I want to go out with him really badly.... How do I tell if he likes me before I ask?

Hey babe,

If you talk all the time then he probably does like you- at least as a friend. So it wont be weird to ask him to hangout. After hanging out it will be more obvious whether he likes you as more. Just be your wonderful self and I'm sure things will work out. And hey, even if he doesn't like you as more, it sounds like he would make a great friend. Good luck!

Katarina E.

undercoverpony on 10/23/2009 1:47:13 PM

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Okay so there is this guy that i like and he likes me back. We e-mail like 3 x a day but rarely talk at skool. He wants to ask me out but he knows that my rents aren't really 'cool' with it. I want to go out w/him but i don't know how to tell my rents w/out them losing their cool. We will be going to HS next year i was thinking of asking him in HS. Should I ask him out and tell the rents or leave it till HS??

Hey babe,

If you both like each other then I would go ahead and talk to your rents. Explain to them why you feel like you're ready and mature enough for a relationship, but also ask them why they want you to wait. Being receptive to their opinions will show them that you're mature enough for a boyfriend. Tell them that you're willing to wait until HS if that's what they wish, but also let them know that if you start dating you will still follow their rules. Maybe together you can set up some ground rules. Like when he comes over you guys can only hangout in rooms where other people are, or you can only talk on the phone for so much time each day. If you're willing to make adjustments that they feel comfortable with, they're more likely to let you start dating. Good luck, hope it all works out!

Katarina E.

Magifina98 on 10/23/2009 1:19:43 PM

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I know it's usual for girls to wan what they can't have, but it's getting ridiculous. I've liked several different guys after the past few months, and they've all moved away, to university or another school, or another ciry entierly. how can i catch guys closer to home?
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Hey Chica, It def sucks when a friend or crush moves away! Join clubs inside or outside of school.. get involved in your community! This is an awesome way to meet people that live in your neighborhood. Don't worry, your luck is sure to change!

claudia n.

bearea96 on 10/23/2009 9:20:18 AM

Ok this is just story that I want to share cause I feel like it lol
Ok well the guy I like and I always sit toegther in science (and btw I get there first and he chooses to sit with me ) and well anyway we always sit in the back by the plug ins. and there are some days were people take his spot so they can charge their computers (we get laptops at school) and its so cute cause the other day he goes..Emma you need to stop letting them take my spot. I don't like it! ..and well he getrs mad it so cute! lol that was stupid but I just had to share lol

swimstar27 on 10/22/2009 11:39:10 PM

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there was this guy that i used to really like he liked me back and we were kind of together but i found out he lied alot about me like he told me how great i was but he got mad whenbi stopped liking him cu he was a player and told my best friend i was the worst ect. now i have trouble forgetting him and this guy i like now is getting annoyed with me cuz i im having trouble trusting him when he compliments me and when he says hes gonna hug me i remember the last guy and it makes me sad
how do i trust this new guy more and forget about the othe guy and justvlive my life again

Hey girl, I'm really sorry about the last guy. It can definitely be hard moving on and trusting again when some guy kind of wrecked that. But the thing to remember? Your new guy isn't that old guy. He isn't that person. He isn't going to treat you the way your ex did. Set the past aside, girlie, and tell this new guy why you're having a little trouble -- another guy just hurt you a lot. Let him prove you wrong and show you not all guys are like that awful one in the past. Because your future with this new guy, girlie? It'll be something that lasts.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

dolphingirl1114 on 10/22/2009 5:19:08 PM

elizabee28 on 10/22/2009 2:48:39 PM

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P.s I'm best with flirting tips/advice. ;)

reeg-a-lene on 10/21/2009 10:40:58 PM

hi girls!
ok so i kinda like this guy in my select choir group. i'm really good at making friends with guys but i get nervous when it comes to boyfriends or asking them out. Should i get to be his friend first? should i get to be better friends with him first or not? let me know on my profile if you have any tips! thanks

lovemusic!23 on 10/21/2009 6:28:25 PM

MOD MOD MOD ok so this is kinda random but i recently got contacts and there so awesome but can i still wear eye liner, mascerra, and eye shadow? thanks for your help

Hey babe,

Yes, but make sure you put your contacts in before you put on the makeup, since your eyes can tear up and make the makeup run if you do it after.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

fluffy kittenz on 10/21/2009 5:55:14 PM

ok no offence but #4 makes u seem really... um... slutty. i'm sorry but that would really hurt me if some girl asked my BF out when she knew that i'm his GF
i'm not saying u r one i would never say that. i don't go around telling people that ,trust me. i don't just say that kind of things about ppl. i'm not that kind of girl.

angel365 on 10/21/2009 4:35:37 PM

I would say 3 but definately NOT #4. that could be very bad. Good luck!!

pupellie on 10/21/2009 8:14:09 AM

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Okay, so I know you must get asked this a billion and one times a day, but I like a guy. He knows I exist because we've had mini-conversations before.
Example: I was in a science group with Nakayla and my friend Alyssa. His partner worked at the table behind us and we talked back and forth, asking them what does heliocentric means (which i now know) and I can't remember what else we alked about but he was smilng
Example two: And today in science (the first example was a long time ago) i was sitting at my desk and someone put their hand in front of my face and I was so startled, so I turned around to see who it was and it was him haha, I am SO obsessed
Okay, so do you think he might like me? Even as jjust a friend? And if you don't, please just say "no" and not "well, he might..." you know what they say, honesty is the best policy!
Also, if your answer was yes, what can I do to show him I like him?!!
Thank you for reading my boy-obsessed letter!!

Hey girl! Honestly, he might. Hard to say just from those few instances! you should talk to him more and try to find out more about him! You'll be able to tell not just if he likes you but how much you like him!