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Your BFF has found a new crew and a new attitude. She's been spreading lies and saying hurtful things about you. You've been friends with her for a while but this chica has changed.

My BFF and I tried out for cheerleading during summer vacation. I didn't make it but she did. When we came back to school I found out that she was talking about me behind my back. So I asked my other friends what she said. She called me ugly, a wannabe and weird. She also made up lies—one of them was that at a sleepover I wanted to go home so I cried.

BFF Fix- It: This bestie has turned into a bad seed. It was so wrong of her to do such mean things! But before jumping to any conclusions, ask her about what went down. Listen to your gut feeling. If you feel as if she's lying, then sadly it's time to end the chapter in the friendship. Think there's hope and she'll come clean? Go ahead and give her another chance—with caution.

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BY CAITLIN R. ON 10/19/2009 7:00:00 AM 14 COMMENTS

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Mod!my bestie is getting on my nerves.first she called me fat when i am the skinniest girl in my grade.she is obeast and about twice as fat as i am. then on the phone she called me poor when im not rich but definitely not poor. she always complains about how she cant afford anything even though every two weeks she comes in with new clothes.and then shes also been bragging forever about her new ipodnano.at the same time she can be really nice and caring. should i stay friends with her or not?

Hey girl! She might just be jealous so maybe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel.

Eryn G.

luv798 on 12/27/2009 6:50:19 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!
One of my bestie talks about me when Im not around and she even talks about me when I am around!But when I decide not to be her friend and talk about her, she starts being nice but then I feel guilty! Srry bout the spelling! Please help Im stuck here! Thnx

Hey girl! Don't talk about her... in fact, ignore her. She's not a friend if she's talking bad about you and you don't need that in your life.

xoxo

liz

Liz L.

KcgPink on 12/26/2009 2:06:11 AM

So me and my four friends have a babysitting buisness going. When we first started it, we were switching off girls for babysitting jobs on the number of jobs we've had. Now my friends all think we should give the jobs to the people who don't have spending money. I'm the only one who has spending money. I don't think it's fair because my friends all spend their money as soon as they get it. I tried to talk to them about it, but they all got mad and said it was fair because we started this job to earn extra cash. So i wont be getting jobs anytime soon. I'm thinking about splitting off and doing my own service. I have one person who lives on my street and her kids love me so I would be able to get jobs from her. And also if I do babysitting by myself, the parents would have to pay less than if two of us babysit. What do you think I should do??? also now my friends are mad at me because i told them my reasoning and they are ignoring me. How can I get them back????

thanks
xoxoxo <3<3<3

soccergirl444 on 12/11/2009 6:05:58 PM

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I was really mean unintentionally to my BGF thru texting one time, and I talked to him, and sincerely apologized, and he told me it was okay. Does he really mean it?

Hey girl! Its ok that kind of stuff happens so its ok. You aplologized and its ok.

Eryn G.

Twilighter134 on 12/9/2009 3:31:47 PM

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My friend is constantly lying. She's lied about sexual abuse from her ex-BF(when she was with him), having sex with/dating our friends BF behind her back, being pregnant, being abused by her dad and then moving in with her current boyfriend for a few days. It's like I don't know her anymore.

Hey girl! It's important that your friend gets help and speaks with an adult or guidance counselor. Let her know you're here for her during these hard times, that's the best you can do for now. Give her a hug and tell her you miss her.

Megan R.

xXMaddestHatterXx on 12/1/2009 7:35:35 PM

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rightfield1 on 11/18/2009 8:36:28 PM

wow that sux!! my friend is trying out for cheerleading and i really want to but i am shy and don't know anyone who is trying out...she said (in front of my mom) that we would try out together but when i txted her about it, she told me that she was trying out with other ppl! i got really mad but hey... what can you do? lol im fine now though...

cutiepie4567 on 11/8/2009 4:19:00 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!i told my "friend" bout' my new guy and then over the summer she completely turned into a different, mean, obnoxious person.now she is telling people that that guy got me pregnant and just because i am a little country and he is a lot she thinks that people will believe her-and some do!!!!!!!!
what do i do!!!people are callin' me prego!help! and thank you!

Rumors are always hard to deal with. I suggest you tell anyone who says your pregnant that its not true. Dont get hysterical or too defensive about it though of they wont believe you. If you just laugh it off and act casual then the rumors should die down. Good luck! xoxo kerra

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barrelracingchick on 11/8/2009 12:35:07 AM

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My friends keep trying to get me to kiss my bf on the cheek. I wanted to... So i tried to today but got so scared! I want to but what if a teachers sees? we hug alot and teachers dont say anything! But im so scared 2 do it!!! What should i do?

Hey girlie,

I think you should kiss him on the cheek! If you are worried about the teachers then do it before or after school or when you are hanging out during the weekend. Don't be scared, he'll be so so so happy when you kiss him on the cheek!

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

alyssa7n on 10/23/2009 5:31:27 PM

MOD MOD MOD!! I have changed my attitude, and found another group of friends. I still hang around with my old buddies though. I was really tired of my friends treating me bad last year. So I came up with this "I don't care" kind of attitude and I feel that things are going much better this year. Are some of the girls calling me a backstabber behind my back, or talking bad about me. I always feel that they are. I don't want to hurt them, even though they hurt me last year. THANKS!!!

Hey babe,

That's great that you are feeling better this year and not letting your friends hurt you anymore. Try not to care what they are saying about you (if they are or not) and just keep living with that carefree attitude.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

AcePrincessGal on 10/23/2009 5:06:50 PM

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*clubmusichearts* on 10/23/2009 4:59:20 PM

OMG my friend was a cheerleader and she did the same thing!

groovygoat on 10/23/2009 12:18:16 AM

ugh! my friend is swearing so much now! she lies, tells my secrets, and she even told a dude we were talking to where i got my bra from!!!! just out of the blue!

CAMEL490 on 10/19/2009 9:09:00 PM

Geeze!! Wth im so sorry
Who needs her anyways, thats what happens to ppl when they become cheerleaders i guess

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