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It’s easy to get sucked into a world of unrealistic pressures and expectations. People make us feel like you should look a certain way and act a certain way, and sometimes if you feel just fine as yourself, peers try to tear you down for it. With so many negative blows to a girl’s ego, how do you stay confident?

What feature do you love about yourself?

What are some of your talents?

What’s the best complement that anyone’s ever given you?

Have any advice for girls who may have low self-esteem?

How do you stay above the influence of haters?

BY JIAE K. ON 10/16/2009 11:28:00 AM 18 COMMENTS

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Hey MOD What practice could I do to be confdent when i'm going to my Drama class cause i'm shy to perform in drama and i don't want it to affect my grades and i'm scared people might find my performancce not funny or something dreadful might happen to me.

Well, just focus on knowing your lines. If you know your lines really well, you can be more confident that you will be fine when you perform. Just know that nothing terrible will happen if you mess up, because everyone messes up sometimes. Just be confident xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

hip_hop_hottie on 1/16/2010 8:10:02 PM

MOD, I just got my period... Is it okay for me to start to shave ?

Hey girl,

You can start to shave whenever you feel ready.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

hip_hop_hottie on 1/11/2010 9:48:52 PM

MOD MOD Mod.. This is a VERY weird question... so im in 7th grade and i dont shave yet. i want to but idk how to ask my mom. im sure she would say yes but i dont know when or how to ask her. my legs are smooth for some reason, but there is still hair there.... how do i ask her. a lot of my friends started in 5th grade.. HELp

Hey doll! Just let your mom know, when you two are alone, that you have unwanted hair on your legs and you'd like to shave them. It sounds like she'll give ya permission.

tyler j.

selena_wiz_lover on 12/30/2009 3:33:50 PM

the features that I love about me is my eyes smile and that I'm tall
What are my talents... I love to write I draw
the best compliment that anyone has given me is that my teacher and parents say that I'm a good writer and my other teacher says that I'm a strong and very good cello player
have any advice for girls who have low self-esteem is don't care what guys say about you really know that your a beautiful girl and don't think about how you look so much be confident show who you really are
How do you stay above the influence of haters? don't go into any drama stay out of it don't say anything about it

orange_lover09 on 11/22/2009 11:55:57 AM

What feature do you love about yourself?
my smile and my hair
What are some of your talents?
dance, vball
What’s the best complement that anyone’s ever given you?
Your beautiful inside and out
Have any advice for girls who may have low self-esteem?
Be proud of who you are everyone is different

How do you stay above the influence of haters?
love them

cottoncandiee2 on 11/21/2009 1:42:34 PM

What features do you love about yourself?
I love my eyes, and my hair
What are some of your talents? I am a natural athlete so anything with sports
What's the best complement that anyone has ever given you? Your a great person and really pretty
Have any advice for girls who have low self-esteem? I have low self esteem but things that make me feel better is realizing all the great stuff that i can do and whenever you feel bad about yourself think about those things because you are truly a great person
How do you stay above the influence of haters? I just don't get involved with people like that

animalgirl13 on 11/9/2009 4:41:19 PM

What feature do you love about yourself?
MY EYES AND MY HAIR

What are some of your talents?
writin signin and actin

What’s the best complement that anyone’s ever given you?
your beautiful (from my x)

Have any advice for girls who may have low self-esteem? write yourself a note LIKE YOUR BEAUTIFUL post it in Ur bathroom so every time u go in u say it and soon you;ll realize u r!

How do you stay above the influence of haters?
ignore them and jux dont talk bout it

OOPS I POSTED THE OTHER ONE BLANK SRRY

mayte411 on 11/9/2009 12:57:11 PM

What feature do you love about yourself?

What are some of your talents?

What’s the best complement that anyone’s ever given you?

Have any advice for girls who may have low self-esteem?

How do you stay above the influence of haters?

mayte411 on 11/9/2009 12:48:31 PM

Here is a playlist I made on my iPod so whenever I feel like I have low-esteem I can listen to it!
1. Freckles by Natasha Bedingfield
2. Fly by Hilary Duff
3. Make Some Noise by Hannah Montana
4. Life's What You Make It by Hannah Montana
5. When I Look at You by Miley Cyrus
6. Believe in Me by Demi Lovato

memory975 on 11/5/2009 10:39:04 AM

What feature do you love about yourself?
*I love that I'm not overweight or anything
What are some of your talents?
*Singing, writing songs, drawing
What’s the best complement that anyone’s ever given you?
*Idk... Sometimes people say I'm a good singer
Have any advice for girls who may have low self-esteem?
*Uh I have low self-esteem! But really it's more important on whats on the inside. It people judge you by how you look they could be missing out on a really good friendship.
How do you stay above the influence of haters?
*Hmmm IDK

memory975 on 11/5/2009 10:34:52 AM

What feature do you love about yourself?
my hair, my height, and eyes. but mostly my eyes. they're forest green

What are some of your talents?
sing, act, guitar

What’s the best complement that anyone’s ever given you?
"she took my breath away" my guy friend told that to his mom and i heard about it from my mom and it was the sweetest thing i ever heard!

Have any advice for girls who may have low self-esteem?
take this survey! and listen to demi lovato's "la la land"

How do you stay above the influence of haters?
i just ignore them! THEY ONLY HURT PEOPLE BECAUSE THEYRE INSECURE!!!!!!!!!

iloverupert on 11/4/2009 12:33:32 AM

MOD!
How do i rock my uniform...i checked your Uniform 911 ? i it didn't help much because my school uniform requires wearing navy blue socks, kilt that should reach your knee and other lame stuff what do i do

Hey babe,

Work your accessories and your shoes.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

hip_hop_hottie on 10/26/2009 10:20:04 PM

What feature do you love about yourself?

My eyes. They are a beautiful blue and I always get compliments on them.

What are some of your talents?

I can play the violin and I'm a great dancer.

What’s the best complement that anyone’s ever given you?

They said I was pretty. Simple, but it made me so happy. I felt on top of the world and so proud.

Have any advice for girls who may have low self-esteem?

Love yourself. Instead of looking in the mirror and saying 'I'm so ugly' look in the mirror and say ' I love my eyes.' or 'I love my freckles'.

How do you stay above the influence of haters?

I remind myself that they are probably insecure and stick with my true friends.

cheytai on 10/25/2009 7:14:53 PM

MOD!*!*!*!
What do people wear when Mountain biking???

Hey babe! I think bikers where tight shorts sometimes with the pads in the butt area. (That way you can go for a while without feeling uncomfortable! ) Also it may be smart to wear sunglasses, and of course to wear a good helmet. Perhaps a helmet with a rim to shield your eyes from the sun.

Megan R.

☮Bubbly☮ on 10/24/2009 11:25:05 AM

What feature do you love about yourself? Well I really like my skin, lips, eyebrows and legs.

What are some of your talents? Writing, kinda tennis and volleyball, and being funny

What’s the best complement that anyone’s ever given you? Well, when people say that I'm a good friend, that's the best compliment I could get.

Have any advice for girls who may have low self-esteem? You need to look at yourself and tell yourself that you've been given what you have for a reason. You ARE beautiful, and smart and funny, and when you decide that you are those things, you will be.

How do you stay above the influence of haters? Well I just try to stay out of their way, eventually they'll get bored and get over themselves.

ShopperSoccerGurl on 10/21/2009 7:01:45 PM

What feature do you love about yourself?
*My hair and my eyes

What are some of your talents?
*Writing, listing, helping people out

What’s the best complement that anyone’s ever given you?
*To me a complement is when people say thank you, when I give them advice or helped them out. It makes me feel all tingly inside

Have any advice for girls who may have low self-esteem?
*Write you're beautiful on your mirror so every morning when you wake up you'll know it's true.

How do you stay above the influence of haters?
*yes

yellow_mariah on 10/18/2009 12:56:15 AM

What feature do you love about yourself? My true blue eyes and my beaautiful eye lashes.

What are some of your talents?
gyymnastics, math, and talking

What’s the best complement that anyone’s ever given you?
Some people tell me that I am really pretty. It makes me feel wonderful.
Have any advice for girls who may have low self-esteem?
I have high self esteem so I am going to say "who cares what other people say about you, when they talk about you they are just unhappy with their selves. Be true to yourself. Dont change something because someone talks about you. The only opinion that matters is yours. Go get em'!

How do you stay above the influence of haters?
exactly same thing i said before!!!!

cheertta1 on 10/17/2009 8:40:56 PM

What feature do you love about yourself? my eyes + eye lashes-they're super long, all my friends are jealous!

What are some of your talents? sports for sure, and writting

What’s the best complement that anyone’s ever given you? My teahcer has been teaching for well over 15 yrs and every yr she'd have her class do a report on the same book every year. She told me (and the class) that mine was the best one she's ever gotten!

Have any advice for girls who may have low self-esteem? do things that make u feel good, like eating healthy + exercisng that will totally make u more confident. or by just being by urself is fine

How do you stay above the influence of haters? dont cause any drama and stay out of it

SportyGal on 10/17/2009 9:30:46 AM

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