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Ask Lucky: I'm REALLY OK With My BFF Dating My Ex!

 

My friend likes my ex, but she’s worried it will ruin our friendship if they go out. I’m so over him, and I really don’t mind if they date.


How can I make her understand it’s OK?


You and your bud seem genuinely concerned about each other’s feelings. If you’re really OK (and you’d better be extra positive) with her dating your ex, then tell her you appreciate her putting the friendship first but that you no longer like him like that. Give her your best, and mean it.


No need to go overboard—it’d be weird to insist they date. It might seem like you’re trying to pawn him off, and what if he’s not interested in her? You don’t want to put her in a position to be turned down by your old guy. If either of them choose not to pursue dating, just let it go.


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BY CAITLIN R. ON 10/20/2009 7:00:00 AM 5 COMMENTS

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my bff is dating my ex but she doesn't even care if it would ruin our friendship!

spazzychick101! on 11/3/2009 11:20:44 AM

ok yea be carefull i agree i can't stress more that you need to be carfull shes obviously a good friend. you need to make sure your over hum 100% and you won't be creeoed out when shes talking about him in ways that might be unconfortable to you

swimmerxox on 11/3/2009 9:42:44 AM

i think that is good that you and your bff care about each others feelings like that.... i wish my bff would do that.........tacos are good.....yum :p.........

SweetStrawberry101 on 10/28/2009 12:49:38 AM

It is not a problem but one thing to be careful about is what happened to one of my friends. One of her other friends started dating her ex and my friend said it has become terrible because her friend is now telling her what she does with her ex in private and it hurts her. I think that is just mean and one time she even told her she thought she was pregnant.

luckykel on 10/23/2009 6:14:40 PM

Ur a good friend, and so is she for putting the friendship first! And you may say that now but when/if they start dating u could start feeling a bit jealous or something

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SportyGal on 10/20/2009 8:11:49 AM


    

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