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I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend. All my friends have, and I’m not sure why I haven’t!

Is there something wrong with me? 

 -Still No BF

Hey girly! At your age, lots of guys and gals start dating. Ya know, relationships that are a bit more than just waving and smiling from across the classroom. But just because your besties are getting BFs doesn’t mean that there’s anything wrong with you!

All the single ladies

It’s totally normal to feel left out when your gal pals are off with their BFs, but there are tons of pluses to being a single sistah. You don’t have to stress about your first fight. Love talking to that guy in your English class? Chat away without worrying about a jealous boyfriend. And, most importantly, you have more time for Y-O-U. Spend that spare time trying out new hobbies, perfecting skills and doing stuff you love.

Ask HIM out

I’m not gonna lie to ya, it can be a lot of fun to have a BF. And newsflash: you can have an adorable date without having an official relationship. Ask a cute guy from geography to meet you at the pizza place to help you with your HW. Once you get to talking one-on-one who knows what will happen from there?

Not that kind of girl

But beware of dating a dude just 'cause all of your other chicas are taken. Tons of gals start dating before they’re really ready. That girl who’s already had 15 BFs since school started? Believe me, you don’t want to be her. If you’ve dated a ton of guys, you won’t be taken seriously. Relationships aren’t meant to last only two hours…or even two days. Since you haven’t had a BF yet, your first relationship will actually mean something to you.

Don’t worry, be happy!

For now, just sit back and enjoy! Talk to guys, get to know them better, make guy friends, and see what happens. Relationships that start out as friendships are often the best ones. So don’t fret! You’ll find your Prince Charming when the time’s right!

Xoxo,

Kristen Y.

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BY CAITLIN R. ON 10/23/2009 7:00:00 AM 159 COMMENTS

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I'm just like this girl in the article. I've never had a bf and I'd like one. I'm homeschooled and I don't get out much. When I want to, all my friends that didn't turn their backs on me when I started getting homeschooled, are always to busy with their bf or gf. In other words, to busy for me. So, how am I suppose to get a bf when I can't go out and all my cute guy friends are taken?

You need to find new ways to meet people. Just try to get out there and meet new nice guys. You can do this through your friends. Find a nice guy whos friends of your friends. Good luck! xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

fosterchy on 11/21/2009 12:24:42 AM

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This may be a little confusing but there's this boy in my grade named Jake and in 3rd or fourth grade i told him I liked him and he gave me this strange expression and the next day told me we were just friends, we haven't spoken of that day since and now in seventh grade I've caught him staring at me a lot, and we've been talking a bit on the bus, but mostly we're just arguing with each other,but sometimes we talk about stuff. Also one day he yelled that one of his friends liked me on the bleachers and he always stares at me-all the time. But it may be because I'm looking at him, but still its happened when I wasn't looking at him. The other day he was sitting closer to me on the bus, and what was strnage was that he suggested to his friends that they move over to the back of the bus (where I happened to be sitting) and he sat right next to me. Well please answer this question because i have no clue if he does likeme or not.

He might like you. But he also may just be giving you attention because he knows you used to like him. Dont look too much into it. He seems like a immature boy. xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

Caroline2123 on 11/20/2009 11:29:01 PM

MOD i need some help! anyway so this guy i really like now knows i like him. he is a year older though. i need help to know how to talk to him if he knows i like him!

Hey girl, the main thing is to act completely normal and don't I repeat don't act nervous. Be yourself and be outgoing and upfront. For some reason some girls think guys like when they tease them and play games...but they don't so try being upfront and yourself and I'm sure he'll fall for you.

xoxo Olivia

Olivia A.

catlove470 on 11/19/2009 2:06:03 PM

i JUST got my 1st bf. im in 8th grade. sooooooooooo xited!!!

iloverupert on 11/17/2009 11:02:41 PM

I NEED HELP ASAP!!! not sure if the first comment posted or not but oh well....i am 12 (and have had more than 1 boyfriend) anyway heres my problem. All of my friends, except me, have seemed to find a great guy who is cute,funny, juts overall amazing. Im usually good at having a boyfriend but its been a REALLLY long time since ive had a boyfriend....well atleast thats what it feeels like. I guess my biggest problem is that i really enjoy having a boyfriend and not being able to have one... i mean i dont even know any guys that like me! Ive never had a problem with this before and it feels like im the only one out of all my friends who doednt have a boyfriend. I dont see a reason why boys dont like me(not trying to be self centered or anything) im funny,nice,smart,pretty and play sports...anyway please help me!!!! and sorry bout it being so long

Hey girl! I just answered this one! Try looking back to where you posted! I wouldn't worry too much about the boy prob, you might not have found the right one to date right. keep doing your own thing and be yourself!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

lindz535 on 11/17/2009 8:57:19 PM

Hey..I know how you feel!

tdh1006 on 11/17/2009 7:37:41 PM

Mod, So there's this guy I really like and we've been talking and flirting for like a month. This weekend I asked him if he liked anyone and he said no...but then he continued to flirt with me. I don't know what to do anymore and he keeps giving me mixed messages. What should I do?

Hey girl! He might just like being friends with you and chatting it up! Try to flirt a little more and see if you can't get a better idea of how he feels!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

meranda on 11/17/2009 6:55:54 PM

HEY!!! WATS PAPPIN?!!!
Y'ALL SHOULD COME LOOK AT MY PROFILE!!!!
tuff sitch btw
been there...dont wanna go back LOL
now serious y'all come check me out - i'm desparately seeking some internet companionship
TTYL!!

pinkcookie on 11/16/2009 12:43:58 PM

MOD MOD MOD! Okay so I have never had a boyfriend before. But I kind of like this guy. He is in a lot of my classes and we talk all the time. I would say we are pretty good friends. He is really smart and funny and has a lot going for him. But there are two kind of bad things. First of all, he dated my BFF last year. Now she has a new BF and is completely over this guy, but I'm not so sure that he is completely over her. And also, I know that he does drugs. I am definitely against that stuff and would never do it. The only thing I don't like about him is that he does drugs. So what do I do? Should I go for it anyways? Or should I take the time to tell him how I feel about what he is doing? I'm afraid that if I tell him I don't like what he's doing, he will get mad at me. Please help!

Hey girl, before you do anything, make sure your bff is alright with you going after this guy. You def don't want to lose a friend! It's really not a good thing that he's into drugs. I would try talking to him more so you feel comfortable letting him know what you think about his bad habits. A successful relationship requires honesty and communication, so if you don't let him know, things will never be able to work out anyways. And if he gets mad? It's not a good idea to go out with someone who's values are so diff from yours. You can still stay friends, but anything more could be looking for trouble. Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

rainy029 on 11/15/2009 4:45:49 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD- i dont have the right email to mail it in so i thought maybe you could help me this way...
I have never had a boyfriend. But i like this guy a lot that i have known for a really long time. But, he is like in love with my bff. She doesnt like him back, but he wont take no for an answer. I try to flirt with him but its like im not even there. Sometimes he acts like he likes me, but than he just goes and flirts with other girls. i dont want to ruin our friendship but i really really like him. i dont know what to do. should i make the first move, or should i wait for him? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

Hey girl, it might be time to move on from this guy. Do you really want to be with someone who likes your best friend? Wouldn't it be better to find a fella who only has eyes for you? This flirtatious crush seems set on your BFF. But, if you still can't nix your feelings for him, let your BFF know how you feel. Ask her if it'd be okay with her if you pursued this guy. Since she doesn't seem to like him, I'm sure she wouldn't mind. Just a word to the wise, stay a little guarded when you make the first move. Good luck!

Jiae K.

Briela on 11/13/2009 4:47:07 PM

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weelllll me and this boy have been friends (not close but just friends) for a whilee and we both do a sport and we were texting each other evry night for the past 2 or more months and he would say hi to me in school and jst be really sweet and say im pretty and stuff and now we still say hi and text a little but its not like it was before and now im starting to reallyy like him as like boyfriend material i dont know what to do!!!! is there anything i can do to get things to be closerr lik how they were befor because i think he liked me tooooo????????

Hey girl,

Try moving the convo to more than just "HI" next time you cross paths. Ask him how his weekend was, what he's been up to, etc. Get things going again!

Caitlin R.

cgirl72 on 11/13/2009 4:26:08 PM

MOD MOD MOD i don't have the right email setup to send one in so maybe you can help me.
i am 17 and have never had a bf. i go to online school and don't really socialize, i don't have any bgf's and i don't like meeting people on the internet. i really would love to have a bf but i just don't know how to find one i guess i mean most people meet at school well my schools at home and im not i type that a guy would just come up to at the mall. any ideas?

Hey babe, it's ok to not have had a bf yet - many girls are in the same shoes as you. You should try hanging out with some of your girlfriends that have guy friends. Meeting new people is the best way to form friendships with all sorts of people. Be outgoing and confident and you'll be fine!

katelin s.

shelbsy on 11/12/2009 11:19:17 PM

MOD! when i post a comment, i cant remember where i posted it so i can look at a mod response. is there any way i can find them from a button on my profile or something?

Hey girlie,

Unfortunately, there isn't a button that you can just push to find your comment. Write down where you posted it next time, so you can find it!

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

nellie2m on 11/9/2009 10:42:10 PM

omg, these girls at my school will be like, wanting to go out with these few guys at my school, like seriously, just because they're like the only somewhat cute guys at our school. it's so messed up, when most of them are jerks. i can't stand them. guys at 14, are just so immature, i have a bunch of guy friends and i could never imagine going out with them. i think of guys like friends, if you go out with them, ater that you just waste what could have been an awsome friend, you can never think of them the same way. i don't really care that i've never had a bf, i don't think i'm missing out on anything.

popmusic on 11/8/2009 10:10:30 PM

I kinda like this guy and i always think im over him then we lock eyes its like were the only two people around. Do you think he likes me too or is it just me feeling this way?

dasoccerbomb101 on 11/8/2009 8:55:43 PM

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i asked this question yesterday but it wasnt posted

this may not seem like a huge problem but its making me pretty sad and its really frustrating. Theres this guy that i have been friends (not really good friends but more than acquaintances) with for a few years and last year i started to think he liked me. i never thought i would ever like him, especially before he liked me, but i got to know him and i started liking him. things were good last year and we talked a lot, and he always complimented me and went out of his way to talk to me. then during the summer we didnt talk at all and i thought about texting him or something but since i hadnt seen him in a while i kinda forgot about how nice he was and everything so i never ended up texting him. then at the beginning of this school year, he still acted like he liked me, and i still kinda liked him but i get really nervous showing that i like someone. now i like him even more, and he barely talks to me, and he hangs out with this girl all the time (idk if he likes her, and im not trying to brag, i just want to explain the situation, but i am smarter, prettier, and nicer than her. that sounds mean but its true) this always happens to me. a guy will like me, and by the time i like them they dont like me anymore! its so frustrating! what can i do to make him talk to me again?

I don't think that's what's happened here. I think he liked you but you just fell out of touch this summer. So just start talking to him again! Say hi, and ask what he did all summer! Start texting again. Nothing to lose here, girlie. Best,

Miliana B.

love2tumble<3 on 11/8/2009 12:25:17 PM

I'm 13 and don't have a Bf, but have guy friends, so I guess thats a start. Random fact, my english teacher is friends with a writer of the song DOWN by Jay Sean. Okay, really random.

bubblegum4 on 11/7/2009 9:11:50 PM

Girl,consider your self lucky.
Because, having a boyfriend is soooooo stressful.
Till this day my first love && me hate each other.
I go crazy everyday wishing we could get along,
how we used to.
So to me it's okay not to have a boyfriend at 15,
im 13. Sooooo it's cool.
But if you want a boyfriend try talking to boys
more, or sending your friends to ask some boys do
they like you.
But I would advise you, to stay single till your
ready!!

iL0VEY0U1O1 on 11/7/2009 4:31:09 PM

MOD !!!!!
911
ok im dating this awesome guy and well i was telling my friend and this girl who was near me was like o he asked my bff out a couple days ago thing was he asked me out 2 a couple days ago it made me feel weird kinda mad but im not mad at him at her she lied i asked him and MY BFF and they said i was the only 1 he asked and his 1st true gf so now i wondering did he really do it ? and idk my bff might or might not lie HELP

Hey girl! I think that you might want to talk to them and figure out what is going on.

Eryn G.

bridoll on 11/7/2009 2:30:09 PM

I am almost 14 and my bff and I are really whanting a boyfriend. Do you have any tips on how to pick up guys?

happyhamster on 11/7/2009 2:30:06 PM

MOD i need help!!!
ok im 14 i just started high school and i go to an all-girl school. My best-friend has had many boyfriends, my other friends have all had/have boyfriends. they are trying to push me on guys i dont kow or guys i went to grade school with who are like brothers. i love guys....who doesnt? but i dont know if i wan a bf right now. i have so much going on, still adjusting 2 school, and its hard 2 meet guys going to an allgirl school. im not saying if a guy i meet and like asks me out i wont say yes i just dont know want 2 go out w/ some1 like a bro 2 me or some1 i dont know. my friends say im wayyyy 2 picky and thats why guys i have met arent interested. im so confused!!! what should i do??? AM I 2 PICKY? i mean i havent even had a first kiss yet while my friends have...please help! i need advice asap!! THANK YOU!

Hey girl! Your time will come eventaully. You don't need to have a bf, if you don't want one. You can just talk to guys and see what is going to happen. You should go out with a guy that you like, dont force anything.

Eryn G.

Twilight01 on 11/7/2009 2:11:34 PM

I'm in th 7th grade and I've never had a bf!I'm not skinny and I know that most guys are probably turned off by a fat girl but,I like this guy that goes to my church,but not to my school!I need a lot of help and I was wondering if I should ask him or he should ask me!!!!!!

ForrestRun515 on 11/6/2009 9:26:17 PM

Thanks for this article.. It sounds like me and it gives me a lot of hope. Most of my friends have boyfriends and I always feel left out. I like this guy and i hope he likes me back.

cutiecakes on 11/6/2009 3:56:33 PM

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club colors on 11/6/2009 10:57:26 AM

Okay...so I'm seventeen, and never had a BF. I go to a cyber school- not many chances to meet a guy. The one guy I have a crush on goes to college, and I hardly get to talk to him anymore. Any suggestions on how to catch a cyber BF, or build the long distance friendship with the college guy?

Anabanana on 11/6/2009 12:28:49 AM

Mod!!!!
I really want a boyfriend, but at my school, relationships only last about a week... I dont know what to do. I want to start dating, but none of the boys take GFs seriosly

plz help!

Hey girl, wait until you find a guy who you just don't like because you want the label. When you find a guy who you like for his personality and what you two have, you WILL have a relationship that lasts longer than a week.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

luv2txt on 11/5/2009 8:44:08 PM

MOD~MOD~MOD~MOD~MODERATOR
please help me, i posted this b4 but forgot to put mod on the top

Well there is this guy i kindaa like. We talk all the time on msn and text, but I barely talk to him at school. I hung with him once after school , and it was kinda fun Smile. But idk why but it's so awkward at school to talk to him, but I'd like to talk to him more. He also hasn't been on msn lately... he was on fb like an hour ago but he never said hi.Frown . But on sunday night he asked me when i was free, but i havent really talked to him since then. Frown
What should i do?
And also, he apparently does drugs, which i don;t really care about unless he tries to make me do them.
thanksss ;D

Hey girl, I know you may not like to hear this, but this guy doesn't really sounds like good news. I wouldn't get too attached to him right now. It's totes okay to be friends, but dating someone like that is way not cool. This guy is not making good decisions for himself and chances are he'll drag you into those bad decisions too.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

NeverLoseHope:) on 11/5/2009 5:55:03 PM

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I like this guy ive never talked to him ever and i dont have any classes with him except lunch... I really want to talk to him!! but i cant find a good enoiugh reason to. I mean its just kinda weird to just randomly start talking to a stranger... right??? He hangs out with this guy that either really doesnt like me or really likes me... Im not popular so if he liked me he wouldnt make it obvious to anyone... but the guy i likes friend calls me fat and says im ugly and other demeaning things. I sometimes catch the guy i likes eye at lunch but he'll look away really fast... idk.... i just need some reasoin to talk to him.... plzzz helpp

Hey girl, sounds like that other guy isn't nice at all. I'd be careful, girl. Try catching your crush as he's leaving lunch and walking to his class in the hall -- when he's sans friends. Compliment him on something little and then start with small talk as a conversation. Good luck, girl, and don't let his mean friend's comments bother you. You're fantastic!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

kln1997 on 11/4/2009 9:53:58 PM

I am 14yrs old but what sucks is that all that matters in my school is dating. Everytime my best friend has a bf i always feel bad.i scarced thats i'm not going to get asked out because my best friends ex bf told me that i'm ulgy and no ones every going to ask u out and that he feel upset and every my school has a dance all the girls ask me if anyone asked me to the dance and i always say no. i just add my crush to my e-mail and feel really bad cuz he blocked me i know this cuz my friend always tells me when hes on but i sign in hes never on and i don't why he blocked me.

May_bby on 11/4/2009 8:39:08 PM

Hey.

Well there is this guy i kindaa like. We talk all the time on msn and text, but I barely talk to him at school. I hung with him once after school , and it was kinda fun . But idk why but it's so awkward at school to talk to him, but I'd like to talk to him more. He also hasn't been on msn lately... he was on fb like an hour ago but he never said hi. . But on sunday night he asked me when i was free, but i havent really talked to him since then.

What should i do?
And also, he apparently does drugs, which i don;t really care about unless he tries to make me do them.

thanksss ;D

NeverLoseHope:) on 11/4/2009 7:38:16 PM

i've never had a bf either yet i want one. sometimes i get depressed about it yet i can't tell my parents cuz they don't want me to date and i can't tell my freinds cuz they think i like boys.

moonbeam on 11/4/2009 1:21:45 PM

MoD ?? idk i am new
Okayy so I`ve been feeling REALLY depressed and down since the begining of grade 7. I have dated. And I would like to date again. But at the same time I want to fix whats wrong with me first.
I am going to counselling (bad stuff that happend with my mother) And its NOT HELPING me at all, if anything its just making it worse!
I feel like nothing matters anymore, and I just don't care that much about life anymore, and (run on sentance i know). I just don't know what to do!
Please help me!

Hey babe, it sounds like you're dealing with a lot right now. It's great that you recognize it and are working hard at trying to get better by seeing a counselor. Why not try writing down what you're feeling now in a journal and share it with your counselor next time you go? Let him/her know how you feel and I'm sure you can work it out. It'll take time but you'll be ok!

katelin s.

Eisha on 11/3/2009 10:04:29 PM

hey av got this huge crush on neighbor and i dont know what to do, av tried everything for him to notice me but none has worked and am not the kind of girl dat can jst walk up to a guy and pour out my feelings and he dosen't show me any sign at all its like he dosen't even know i exist what do i do cuz am loosing my mind..

phareeda on 11/3/2009 9:21:01 AM

hey girly
same here, i am turning 15 tomorrow, and i have't have a boyfried yet either. alot of my friends have as well. i would love a boyfriend too, but just keep talking to guys and don't dwell on the fact of what you don't have
~Sarah

voliballgrl64 on 11/2/2009 11:02:18 PM

Heyy girls!! I have a problem! I really like this boy and have since school started. But i don't know if he likes me that way... he might just think we're friends. I try to give him signs in Social Studies Class (cuz thats when i get to sit next to him!!) And im kinda worried about what my friends would say. Should I ask him out or should i wait? Please post comments on my profile!! I really need help!

Thanks Everyone!

Love,
Labluver1996

Labluver1996 on 11/2/2009 5:05:31 PM

mod ummm...i like this guy and ive known him all my life, but im pretty sure he sees me as a little sister. i can get any guy i want except him. he has a perfect girlfriend and everybody loves her. i have a bad habit of acting like her. is that wrong? i just think that maybe hed start to like me better!

Hey girl! It's undertandable that you try to act more like her, but if he's happy with her, it prob won't really make much of a difference. It's disappointing, but try talking to some other guys to get to know them better. You don't have to look for a bf right now, just try to meet other guys and keep an open mind sinde things aren't working out with your crush. Who knows? Maybe things won't work out between them. But until that happens, get to know other guys and see if one who is available comes along. best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

dreydl on 11/1/2009 7:56:20 PM

We appreciate that you girlies wanna post on GL, but we’ve received tons of comments about spamming with chain letters. To keep everyone happy we’ve decided to take ‘em down. Thanks again for posting.

lynae p.

misscute100 on 11/1/2009 1:37:23 PM

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Hi, I need help. I just started high school. I'm not allowed to date. There's this guy in my math class that I've known for a couple of weeks. We talk and stuff and he's okayish cute, but I don't like him at all like in a BF-way. He asked for my number and now he keeps trying to get us to hang out, but I hardly know him! And I don't want to hang with him! He mentioned that we should go to the movies, then asked if I'd make out at the movies! I said no, obviously, and now he just keeps texting and pushing to hang out. I told him no, and that I just want to be friends, and he says he gets it, but really don't think he does! Please help me. I don't know what to do about him!!

Hey girl! You should just explain to him that you will be friends, but your not sure if you can date. He will understand and if you hang with him, you will get to know him better.

Eryn G.

Ar~Ee on 10/31/2009 4:25:01 PM

What you are feeling is so normal. We all have felt like that, when my friends were getting bfs and I didnt have one I felt left out. And even worse was when they started talking about making out and spending time with their guy. I actually felt jealous a few times.

Now since I have dated a few guys I dont feel like that but its so nice to get to know what guys like and to get to know and spend time with them, but only if they are respectful and the right ones. Some guys are just jerks and if you end up with a guy like that, being single is better.

I have a weakness for cute guys with nice bodies, but dont we all. Just take it slow and dont do something you will regret or something you dont want to do when it comes to kissing and doing other things.

luckykel on 10/29/2009 10:06:00 PM

hey cool beans i had first comment! XD yay 1st time 1st!

volleybuzz on 10/29/2009 9:09:53 PM

hey i thought i put up a comment but i can't see it

volleybuzz on 10/29/2009 8:49:37 PM

its like i like this boy, but every time i was about to ask him out, my best friend would, and that is irritating me. i just dont no what to do, but i dont go with my best friend boyfriends, but i really like him.........help

samiya_1997 on 10/29/2009 8:38:55 PM

MOD PLZ HELP!
i don't really get guys. How do you know if they want to, be with you? I know there are Hints and stuff but, how do you know for sure?

Hey girl, that's the thing: you really can't know for sure unless they bluntly tell you. All you can do is give it time and go with it. You can flirt and give the guy your own signals -- let him know you might just like him and if he asked, you wouldn't reject him. From there, it's in his hands. Keep your eyes open and ears out. There's always signs. It's just a matter of catching the right ones.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

volleybuzz on 10/29/2009 8:22:31 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD
I am also in this same situation. I am 14 and have never had a bf before. Actually, no guy has even ever really talked to me before. I am nice, and I dont think Im ugly, but who knows what the guys think about that....Anyways, I don't like talking to guys that much because I'm shy. What can I do to get them to notice me more besides talking to them? How can I get my first date, because I like the traditional way of guys asking girls, not girls asking guys.

Hey girl, take a deep breath. I know it may seem like you're the only one but let me assure you, I have tons of friends who are 18 and up (wow!) who are gorgeous and wonderful girls and haven't have BFs yet. There's no rush. There's no race. The thing I suggest doing? Just being you. Get to know guys and don't be scared. Even if they're not BF material, they can still be great friends. Be confident about the wonderful girl you are because some guy will be lucky to date you some day. And for now? Focus on getting to find out who you are and being the best you you can be!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

ladybuglover28 on 10/29/2009 7:05:34 PM

its okay girl i just got my first one i dont think he even likes me but i like him

animalsrule105 on 10/29/2009 6:25:29 PM

one of my best friends ( a guy) asked me out. but we live like an hour away and his fam is CRAZY like drug addicts he doesnt have a phone and they were living in a shelter. i miss him.

football playa 4eva! on 10/29/2009 5:59:28 PM

hey check my profile.

crazyteen on 10/29/2009 11:52:04 AM

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hey ok so i like this guy(of course). he goes to my school and he would like sit by me and stuff in lunch and n all our class's we had together we would talk and stuff like all the time!! and he even half hugged me once or twice!! but idk if he likes me or he just thinkz im his buddy????? i always say hi buddy in the hall's and stuff and he will say hi and smile back!! he even would walk with me to my first period class every day!!! but there is a problem i left the school cuz my mom wanted to home school me so i never see him any more and he doesn't have a cell so the only time i get to talk to him is on facebook but he barely ever gets on because he has swim team!!! so i guess what im saying is i have 2 questions!!! do you think he likes me????? and did i totally screw it up by leaving school to be home schooled if he does????
sorry its really long but i just had to right it all out!!!!

Hey girl, it sounds like this guy's signals could go either way. As for your school decision? Way more important than a guy, and he should play no role in it. You can leave him facebook messages, write on his Wall, etc. -- there are always way to stay in touch. You made your decision because it was what's right for you. No regrets there! Just be optimistic and stay in touch with this guy. BGF or something more, he's still a friend worth keeping.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

sweetlyssie13 on 10/29/2009 12:41:55 AM

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I like this guy and it is sorta wierd cuz my sister is married to his brother.. so are we related? i dont think we are cuz my sisters husband is just my brother- in- law.I am not sure if he knows i do.. but we talk like online quite a bit.. but i have talked to him in real life like a few times or something.He is really nice nd not like any other guys out there..but heres the prob.. He used to like one ofmy friends and so did she but now i am not sure if she does any more.. but the other WIERD thing is my sisters other half sister likes him 2 (I have a sister who has the same mom as me but not same dad.. and she has another sister who has the same dad but not the same mom) sorry if this is confusing but i have not told anyone and i probly wont.. cuz im not that kinda girl and i just cant get myself to say anythin

. but any ways .. she likes him now and hhe likes her now.. but i REALY wanted him to like me and i se is name like EVERYwhere it drives me crazy LOL .i dont know what to do and how to get him to like me if thats the case.. but i guess thats just Gods job to figure that out. Sorry that this wsa soooo long well i could use some advice . thx ALOT

Hey babe,

I think since your sibs are married it would be a really bad idea for you guys to date. You're not blood related but you're still family and that could get complicated if you break up. Try to get over your crush on him, but stay friends. It might help if you get some space from him for awhile.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

bball_luver32 on 10/28/2009 8:40:39 PM

Hey, at least you don't have a third grader crushing on you! He just won't leave me alone!

Robo girl on 10/28/2009 7:37:22 PM

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