LOGIN OR SIGNUP

Matagirl13 on 10/29/2009 8:20:35 PM

hey i see the problem its my first post yeah

chocalateluver on 10/27/2009 9:49:11 PM

MADMAD i think im having a party for my birthday next weekend! What are some game, songs, decoration, ect. i need!?! Thanks so much! ~K♥

Hey girl! Pick out a theme you like and go off that. Find streamers, candy, and games that go with it! Get creative, chick!

-Taeler

surrender♥ on 10/27/2009 6:01:02 PM

MOD! my friend is really obsessed with things like boobs and periods. She always said I was gonna be the last one to have my period ( i was first) and that she has big boobs and i am flat chested. She shows off her bras and tells me things about periods like she is a body expert. She also snaps my bras and stares at my boobs. How can i make her stop. Its like i dont know her anymore!

Hey girl! She may just be going through a curious phase. Tell her to stop if you're super uncomfortable and let her know it's weirding you out!

-Taeler

rox_ur_sox on 10/27/2009 11:46:57 AM

Mod Mod Mod Mod (sorry for being so off topic to the little adive-question-paper-thingy! I tried posting somewhere else but my post never came up!)
Okay, so, to make this short, there is a boy (Z). I like said boy. He knows my name (obviously Sam) and we've talked a little before. We're past the whole "Hi, my name is..." stage. What are some conversation starters that I can use?
And do you know any way I can see if he has a girlfriend?
Please and thank you!

Hey Sam,

Talk to him about common interests (he might play a sport you like or like the same music or hang out with the same friends). Be flirty and joke around with him. Talk about school or classes or homework or football games, etc. If you don't want to ask 'Z' if he has a GF directly then ask one of his friends if he does.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

samm213 on 10/26/2009 8:59:01 PM

thx xx

candrea on 10/26/2009 11:40:44 AM

MOD I have an amazing BFF, she's helpful and caring. The problem is that she's quite popular. At times, when we hang out she walks off and starts talking to her popular friends. I don't know them that well so I feel a little left out. I've talked to her about many times but she tends to get a bit upset. My other BFFs aren't that popular and they've noticed it too.

Hey girlie,

Since you've already talked about this with your friend, try to follow her when she goes up to her other friends. Who says you can't join in the convo to? Try to make friends with her friends and then you won't feel as weird when she talk to them!

Megan P.

Megan P.

candrea on 10/26/2009 11:16:37 AM

MODMODMODMOD Hi. So I have this group of friends I like to hang out with. There are about 6 of us, but one of them I CANNOT STAND!!!!She's super annoying and now I'm hanging out with this other girl that is sometimes really mean but she's better than that really annoying girl. But I feel bad cuz all of my friends really hate that mean girl(now call her Amara)and I have a feeling they're gonna start gossiping about me. What should I do??!!

Hey girl! I suppose that is the risk you take hanging out with a girl who isn't so nice to people. If you don't want people to gossip, you should make sure you're being nice to everyone. It's your character that matters.

-Taeler

vickychen231 on 10/25/2009 11:41:24 PM

MOD Okay so Im having a party and invited some of my friends from my old school. One who goes to school with me now rsvpd, one said she couldnt go, and the other 2 never said anything. One of the friends I email once in a while but the other I havent talked to in like a year. Do you think thell rsvp? Also the party is on friday but do you think I could still invite a couple other friends from school?

Hey girl! They will prob respond if that email address is still active. You can always try finding out a phone number or address instead. If they don't rsvp, that's disappointing, but at least you asked! If your 'rents are alright with you inviting some more people, go for it! Tell them you're sorry it's so last minute, but you'd really like them to come. Have fun! ~Kristen

Kristen Y.

StargirlWizard on 10/25/2009 8:22:18 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD! I've been really upset lately. My group of friends is falling apart. My bff doesn't talk to me much anymore. Two of my other closest friends are so clingy they have forgotten about the rest of us. Everybody is just so distant from every one. Most have one person they stick to. We have cliques inside our clique! this is really starting to upset me because I'm loosing my best friends! We are freshman in high school. I was hoping all the drama was done with. But it has gotten worse. People get mad for no good reason. I'm always stressed and I hardly sleep anymore. I have my bgf, but he's really all I have. How to I put an end to all the drama and clingy friendships to get my group back together again? Please help!

Hey girl! You should try getting all your friends together for dinner or for icecream sometime. Tell them that you really want to talk about something. When you're all there, let them know that you want to stay close and it feels like everyone is drifting. If they all realize you feel this way, they may work to make things better. But don't be afraid to meet other people and make new friends too. High school is a time to expand your horizons! best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

craziesadie19 on 10/25/2009 6:49:25 PM

hehehehe i don't like sharing too much. don't get me wrong i actually do share im not like a little brat about it but i say i don't like ssharing im mostly kidding

swimmerxox on 10/25/2009 5:04:47 PM

MOD~
My friend says that if you drink rasperry or peppermint tea it helps get rid of the cramps whe you're having your period. Is it true? I have it right now, I've never had cramps before but I'm starting to get them pretty bad.

Hey girl! Tea might help, but I am not sure.

Eryn G.

selenaFan97 on 10/24/2009 10:34:59 PM

can someone help me i like talking to my bff and same thing with her but some times she stops listening to me and start talking about some thing else and itz driveing me NUTS, i hate nuts

kitty_kat_love on 10/24/2009 10:06:53 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!!
please help me! my bgf is going out with this girl, and she doesn't like hiim, she told me that she is just using him to make her ex mad! i don't want her to hurt him, but i don't want to hurt him either! should i tell him, or should i just keep it to myself????
please help! thanks!!

Hey babe, maybe you should encourage the girl to talk to him about it. If she refuses, you could bring it up to guy that you have a hunch that's what's going on, but try not to get involved too much in it. Just offer your support to him and let him know you're there for him.

katelin s.

Kristin95 on 10/24/2009 12:05:53 PM

MOD! MOD! MOD!
Ok so I have a ton of great friends but I really want to make more. Can you give me some tips of how to make new friends? Thanks a bunch!

Hey babe, try joining a group at school or pick up a new sport. Also, hang out with your friends who have other friends. I'm sure you'll meet new people in no time!

katelin s.

4evamusicluver on 10/24/2009 12:04:52 PM

mod mod mod! my sisters best friends mom invited me to my sisters bestfriends party. But im afraid that my sisters friend might not want me to go. Should I go?

Hey girly, why not go to the party with your sister? That way you and your sis will arrive together and it will look like your sister invited you along.

Lynae P.

teamJasper22 on 10/23/2009 9:04:33 PM

MOD
thanks for answering my other question. but i don't really want to hang out with my little cousin. not that i don't like her but she's 5 years old. hanging out with 5 year olds is not really want i want to do at school. also they also seem to share with each other. for example my sister had a bunch of candy in her pocket and she said it was from the friend and my friend has done the same thing.

Wow, that is way little. That said, helping younger kids is actually a cool thing to do. You shouldn't not hang with them just because they're hanging with your younger cousin. You should hang with your cousin and them because you want to spend time with them. Be open.

xoxo

kgirlpanda on 10/22/2009 7:31:53 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
Okay. so here is the deal.
i got invited to my friend rachels party and i rsvpd cuz i was having my own party but then my friend backed out on me. then the next day she says she wants to come again for sure. plus then the other person rsvps too.
the prob. is, is that if i got to rachels party, then we may or may not go trickortreating and thats the big thing for me and if i stay at my party then i go trick or treating for sure. plus i kno my other firend wont back out unless her mom dies or something like that.
and then but since the other one already backed out on me once, idk if she will do it again since she already did it once. but if u backs out plus my other friend backs out im stuck with no my party n no rachels party. so which one? rachels party or my party and trust that they wont back out again?

Hey girl, since you're throwing your party, you've gotta stink to it. If no one shows, you can always go to Rachel's as a back-up.

xoxo

ladybuglover28 on 10/22/2009 7:20:22 PM

this is so cool because my friend talk about my mom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Alyssa B.

prettygril on 10/22/2009 6:15:25 PM

i like tis web place

prettygril on 10/22/2009 6:12:45 PM

MOD
i feel like me and one of my friends are drifting apart. her and my twin sister (who is also her friend) only share with eachother, are always together at recess, never really talk to everyone else anymore and are always hanging out with my little cousin. it seems like i'm losing my friend and sister to my little cousin. i don't know what to do!!

Hey girl, why not try hanging out with them together? There's no reason why the four of you can't be friends. Sharing is caring. (;

xoxo

kgirlpanda on 10/22/2009 6:10:29 PM

MOD i need help! my homecoming dance is saturday and im a freshman so idk exactly how everythings gonna be. i have a dress thats not surer fancy but idk what to have with it like what kind of shoes or purse or am i gonna need a sweater to go over it? i have shoes from a few years ago that are little heels that i wore to my cousins wedding but im not sure if i should wear heels to the dance or if i should get flats. and i need somewhere to keep my stuff during the dance so i guess i need a purse, but idk what kind and am i supposed to hold it when im dancing? and for the sweater...my dress is a halter top and idk if its supposed to be super cold. itll probably be hot inside but outside ? do i need to get one? Sorry for all the questions but im nervous about all of this !

Hey girl! You can def wear heels but do whatever makes you most comfortable. You can bring a purse that straps across you so you don't have to hold it or find a place to stash it when you get to the dance. And, see what the weather is like first, then decide on a sweater!

-Taeler

Matagirl13 on 10/22/2009 9:21:43 AM

MOD MOD MOD! I have this friend and she is really controlling. She's always telling me to go throw away her strash a once and do all these little chores for her like I'm her maid. Once she even made me put toilet paper on the seat for her when we were at a restaraunt! It's not that i can't do it it just gets annoying. So should i tell her no and that i don't want to do it or just deal with it. She also does a number of other things that annoy me.

Hey girl! Tell her to do it herself! You can say it nicely or jokingly but make sure she gets the point. She should def being doing those things herself!

-Taeler

artistarw on 10/22/2009 7:03:52 AM

MOD! I've been having a problem lately. It feels like i don't have any friends

Like I've noticed that all my friends from last year don't really talk to me that much and i always feel like a tag along. I don't have any classes with any of them so i can't really try to reconnect with them either. While the people in my classes are nice and I can talk to them they already have their cliques and I really don't fit in. I'm in all advanced and honors classes and there are only two types in the classes, populars and nerds

I don't really fit in those groups

I've been sayig that my friend who I met in six grade(eighth grade now) is my BFF and even though we've been hanging out more it just makes me realise that we don't even click. And she's totally changing because I used to curse alot and she'd always tell me I'm going to go to hell and I stopped cursing alot. Lately she's started cursing like its cool or something and it's really weird cuz she's alwas seemed like a goody two shoes to me even though she doesn't get good grades. I've only cursed at her once in like sixth grade when we were having a fight and she hadn't ever cursed at me until yesterday. She was all like " that's why I don't want to *beep* sit by you cuz you say I'm doing stuff wrong". I had drawn a picture and taped it to our seat and she drew on it and I said eww because she wrote Team Edward on it and told her that it didn't look right because of the pen she used. I really hate this and I'm so sick of feeling llike a tag along

Help!

Hey girl! Maybe you should try striking out on your own. Try talking to some of the girls in your classes. Just ask them questions about an assignment or about teachers. You can start being friendlier with them. Growing up can be really tough and maybe your girls are just going through a phase. Try to be understanding and just go with the flow!

-Taeler

notyourbiz on 10/22/2009 2:47:15 AM

*******************MOD MOD MOD******************** My friend has been mad at me for two weeks. She has been leaving me out and inviting people to her house without inviting me. It's because I couldn't give her a ride to fear farm because there wasnt enough room in the car. I honestly think she's overreacting, so I guess I'll just ignore her? And then my other friend got mad at me because I dated a guy she likes, so I told him we should just be friends. I felt horrible. But the problem is that me and him still act like we're together (we hold hands, hug, etc.), and I don't want my friend who likes him to get the wrong idea

What should I do? I JUST WANT THINGS TO GO BAK TO NORMAL!

Hey girl! You should def talk to your girls. Lay out how you feel and maybe even apologize. And, you should prob stop holding hands and hugging if you don't want to give her the wrong idea. Just talk to them and tell them how you're feeling.

-Taeler

haley160 on 10/22/2009 2:04:43 AM

Heyyy Girlies...
Sad for this girl...
*MODMODMOD*
So this guy I like is in 8th grade, but I never get the chance to socialize with him. Whenever I catch him looking at me (I probably look at him waaayy more) our eyes meet (aaahhhhhh) and he doesn't seem like he thinks I'm a stalker, like my friend's crushes. He looks at me with a hint of sincerity and its oh-so-ah-dorable. My friends are friends with him (a lot of people are) and I asked them, whenever they talk to him, to kind of mention me. I want to become friends with him, but I think if I do, when I talk to him, I'll give it away that I like him...what do I do?!?!?!?!?!?! Ohh and even if you're not a mod you can answer this if you can...
Never Forget,

Hey girl, take it easy right now. It's great this guy is sweet, but it's way important to take things slow. Moderate yourself. Make a promise to just stick to being friends first. This guy has to get to know the wonderful Y-O-U before he can even start likin' you like that. Introduce him to that person. I promise, girlie, you'll be great! Good luck!

xoxo

hearttheclique_17 on 10/22/2009 12:17:31 AM

MOD !
Okay so I like this guy. But I'm not sure if he likes me or not!
He was my old classmate/locker buddy sort of (he'd always ask whats for homework everyday)
the last day of september after school he said "Hey Kayla." I heard him but didn't say anything back because I thought he wasn't staying it to me. He then said again "Hey Kayla, I haven't talked to you in like a year." I just said "Hi" then he said "Yeah thanks" and went to catch his bus. I was nervous so I only said hi, I'm not sure if he heard me though.
I've had a feelings that he likes me, yet, I have feelings that he doesn't like me at the same time.
SO mod, what are signs that tells a guy likes a girl? (Sorry if this is SO LONG, i'm really confused and curious!) thanks MOD ♥

Hey girl, it's hard when it comes to guys definitely because a lot of signs they give -- the stares, the conversation -- can be either romantic or friendly. Thankfully, we just posted an article with a few hints and tips that might help you figure out if this cutie really has eyes for you. Check it out at http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/09/16/advice-love-crush-dating.aspx. Good luck!

xoxo

MiniSpell on 10/21/2009 11:57:09 PM

Mod
Today a guy gave me his number saying to text him. I didn't really talk to him so I don't know what to say or anything. I'm not sure I'm even going to. If I do what should I say?

Hey girl, why not just starting off with a casual 'what's up?' If he doesn't have your number, you can always introduce yourself too so he knows who's speaking.

xoxo

Sk8xoxo94 on 10/21/2009 10:58:43 PM

I'm on the no-share-girl side! It's her food, her clothes, and her stuff! Yeah u should share with friends but it sounds like the friend only wants the benifits from the non-sharer! No wonder she doesn't share, this girl is moochin' off her!!!!!!!!!

Purpleboo on 10/21/2009 10:38:17 PM

Mod~
I'm sorry I already bugged you with another question, if you're the same mod, but I have been wondering this for a long time and it's not something I feel comfortable talking to my friends about.
Ok, so last year I had two bff's. Let's say their names where A and B. A has been my close friend since the third grade, she just became my bff last year, and so did B. In the beginning of the year they were always fighting over me and arguing a little over who I played with, but then it changed. B started getting jealous that me and A were hanging out too much and she wanted A all to herself. I didn't care so much but then B started acting like a jerk. I told her I didn't want to be her friend anymore, and A copies me since she likes me more than B. So B started crying and she didn't have any friends. But then A started getting scared that our teachers would find out about the fight and she would get in trouble. See, she has this whole thing about getting in trouble. She's scared of everything and never takes risks. So, she wanted to be friends with B again. I got a little mad, but tried not to show it. I knew that part of the reason she was doing this was because B was acting all nice and fake whenever I wasn't around to A. So now they're friends and it's a new year.
But now they, A and my other friends, think I'm a little mean for not liking B and are always asking me what's wrong with her. I was geting upset because they knew what B put me through last year and I told them all about it, but I still didn't show it.
B has been acting nicer than usual to be lately and whenever she comes out of her one of her classes she looks at me hesitantly, like she's going to say something and brushes my arm lightly but on purpose. I have been wondering if I should be friends with her again. She has faults, but she can be a very nice person. And, I also think I need a new bff, since A is starting to not act like herself and she's bad at standing up to people. What should I do?
*I'm REALLY sorry this is so long*

Hey girl, I think you should def give B a chance again. You'll find that the arguments you had were silly in the first place, and that true buds don't let stuff like that come between them. As for your BFF sitch, why not instead of focusing on finding the one girl to call your BFF, you focus on the close friends you have now? Sure, friends are WAY important, but you don't need to have that BFF position filled 24/7? Just be the best friend you can and put the past behind you. Tomorrow's a new day so make it different. Good luck, girlie, and hope this helps!

xoxo

selenaFan97 on 10/21/2009 9:55:21 PM

The first thing I would do is excactly that, give her tough love. I would say, "I would like to share this with you because you're my friend, but
you never share things with me and I would like you to because I always share things with you."

selenaFan97 on 10/21/2009 9:38:54 PM

Modmodmod~
I just moved and want to change my home address that GL has to my new address so that if I win something from one of your giveaways, you guys will ship it to my new house, not my old one. How can I do that? Thanks!

Hey girl, each time you enter a giveaway, you enter your address I believe, so you can modify it then. For subscription changes, check out https://secure.girlslife.com/Default.aspx so you can make sure your mag is getting sent to the right place.

xoxo

selenaFan97 on 10/21/2009 9:36:05 PM

MOD!
I really want to grow my hair out. So what are the best was to my my hair grow faster?
Thanks!

Hey girl, while there are no official, natural ways to make hair grow overnight (hair extensions don't count), the best way to grow your hair long is to give it time. Be sure to cut off dead-ends every so often, but don't take much off the length. You'll find with time your hair will grow to that ideal length -- you've just gotta let it grow until then. And in the mean time? Hair clips will give it a 'lil length in between.

xoxo

cbb123 on 10/21/2009 9:09:57 PM

I find nothing wrong with what your friend is doing. She doesn't want to share food because it's, well, HER food. And some people are protective of their clothes. Maybe YOU shouldn't be looking for the benefits. And the "well, I did this and I did that..." never works.

xxgatorzrock on 10/21/2009 9:08:10 PM

MOD- I've been out of school for days caus I've been sick. I want to make a big splash and wear a cute outfit to school. What should I wear?

Hey girl, it may be cooler, but you'll def make a good impression with a cute pair of colored denim jeans and a loose fitting v-neck top. Don't forget the accessories! Bangles and necklaces are must!

xoxo

livvybee365 on 10/21/2009 9:06:51 PM

Check out my profile
I am trying to get 200 comments!
Anyone who can help please do!!!!!!

tang454 on 10/21/2009 8:40:54 PM

MOD!!
how can i convince my mom to let me go trick or treating with my friend? im in grade 9, but she doesnt want me going around a neighbor hood that she doesnt know. helppp

Hey babe,

see if your friend's mom can help convince your mom that the neighborhood is safe. coming from another parent it might be more convincing.

xoxo Allie

gorgeousgirls on 10/21/2009 8:16:53 PM

HEY girls do u like Paramore?? Do u love Paramore?? well then this is the club 4 u!! Club_Paramore is all about Paramore!!

Club_Paramore on 10/21/2009 8:03:07 PM

MOD MOD MOD
honestly i think i have the worst life ever. everyone in my house hates eachother and we cant say atleast 3 words to eachother without it turning into a fight. my sister is the only one who get me. and i get her too. but my mom had her with a different man before my parents got married so it seems like my dad hates her. and he doesnt mind showing it either. and on december 11 my sister gets kicked out of the house for sure and im scared i wont be able to make it without her here with me. my mom is too scared to stand up for herself to my dad so he is always walking all over her. and its pretty bad. and my brother is just over all annoying(i had an anxiety attack once because of him) i need help before things become really bad....

Hey babe,

If you're having problems at home and are worried about your sister you should talk to a teacher or a guidance counselor at school who can get help. You can also try talking to your family about how you feel, if you feel comfortable enough doing that.

xoxo Allie

cnell411 on 10/21/2009 8:00:56 PM

MOD!
do you know where you can buy basketball shorts for cheep? cause really need some for gym but im not sure where to buy them. thanks

Hey babe,

You can probably find some pretty cheap at Target or Kohl's or somewhere similar. You can definitely find them at sports stores like dick's or sports her way, though it might be more expensive there.

xoxo Allie

gorgeousgirls on 10/21/2009 7:58:31 PM

BOO! You've been spooked by ClubSnickerdoodle! We want YOU to join us on October 31, Halloween for some black and orange fun! Yes! ClubSnickerdoodle will be holding it's 1st annual Halloween Party! All day long, we will be celebrating, and join us for articles about Halloween, a contest, and MUCH, MUCH more! It'll be our biggest party yet and you don't want to miss this! Tell your GL friends, and why not meet some new friends when you attend the fabulous Halloween party! See you there! Love your friends at ClubSnickerdoodle!

decemburr96 on 10/21/2009 7:55:32 PM

MOD
thank you. and thank you for the super fast reply (:
but do you know how to use it? haha

Hey babe,

You just put it on a cotton ball or something similar and rub it on your face.

xoxo Allie

xomrsmaryjonasxox3 on 10/21/2009 7:49:43 PM

MOD
do you know if rubbing witch hazel on a zit will help heal it?

Hey babe,

I've heard it works for some people. You can try it out and see if it works for you.

xoxo Allie

xomrsmaryjonasxox3 on 10/21/2009 7:46:28 PM

MOD!!
does it bug you when people ask you guys questions?

Hey babe,

Not at all! Modding is our job and we're all doing it because we want to help you girlies out with all your probs.

xoxo Allie

gorgeousgirls on 10/21/2009 7:38:24 PM

thanks allie.
your my favorite mod! thanks for always answering questions so quickly :]

Hey babe,

You're welcome! And thanks, it's no problem.

xoxo Allie

k123k on 10/21/2009 7:36:31 PM

MOD!!
there is a halloween dance comming up at my school and it will be my frist high school dance. i really want to go but i have heard that they get really wild and a lot of people are drunk and i dont want to get stuck in a situation like that. what should i do? i used to LOVE going to dances in middle school. i would never drink but i dont know what to do if everyone around me is drunk. i dont know if these rummors are true either. do you have any advice? thank you

Hey babe,

You can always avoid the drunk people if there are any, but I think you should give it a chance. If you don't have a good time you don't have to go to anymore.

xoxo Allie

k123k on 10/21/2009 7:30:52 PM

mod mod mod mod and girls
mod mod mod mod
big problem i am pretty sure this guy i really don't like likes me and he asked me today if we could be friends and i said yes to not be mean but i really don't want to be his friend at all hes weird and i can't just be friends cause someone asked i have to want to be friends i tried being someones friend last year cause they wanted two and it didn't work what do i do please help!!!

Hey babe,

Now that you've said yes, you might as well give him a chance to prove you wrong and turn out to be someone you might actually like. If it doesn't work out, you can either start to distance yourself from him or tell him honestly that you don't want to be friends.

xoxo Allie

wednesday1408 on 10/21/2009 7:30:19 PM

!!!MOD!!!!
i know this is reallllyy off topic but.

Hey babe,

I deleted the question like you asked. You might still be getting into a regular pattern, even after two years, or a change in your diet might be causing it. I wouldn't worry yet if I were you.

xoxo Allie