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You Use, You Lose

 

I was dating this guy for about five months. I gave him some gifts and he gave me nothing (which I was fine with). I was always nice to him, gave him hugs and was basically a really great GF.


One day at school my BFF told me look and pointed to him. He was mocking me and making fun of me and laughing. I got mad so I broke up with him. He yelled at me and called me really mean names. All of his friends told me the next day that he was dating me to get to my BFFs (two of them!).


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BY CAITLIN R. ON 10/21/2009 7:00:00 AM 43 COMMENTS

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***********MOD************ I'm looking for summer internships and volunteer works.I'm going to be 15 yrs. old by the beginning of summer. Do you know any websites or places I should look into? The more details the better. Thanks:]

 

Hey chica, depending on how far or close you live to Baltimore, you could intern with GL. I had an internship and it was really fun. Everyone is so nice and I learned a lot. What do you think? Smile

Lynae P.

Stargirlcandy3 on 3/21/2010 2:45:17 PM

OMG THAT JERK! USING U TO GET TO UR BFF'S???????????????????? luckily ur bffs are so awesome they would never cheat on u! Smile comment on my prof!

catsrule450 on 2/26/2010 11:22:29 AM

MOD.
Theres a guy (my ex). Hes so mean tu me. He will call me names, or once he even sat tu the table next tu me and talked about me ebough so I cood hear hes like oh shes so ugly Im so over her or say Im stupid, or he will look at me then laugh. Just little things tu piss me off! I told the principle that he was being mean tu me and its stopped (i think I looked weak when I did that but it realy started making me depressed)I like a guy that hangs with him and hes realy sweet. But it hurts me when he plays along with my ex. But then when Im alone with him hes sweet.My ex is realy mean tu me still! IDK WHAT TU DU HES SO MEAN!!!!!!!!! PLEASE HELP




Hey babe! Avoid this guy at all costs, he is bad news! Stay confident and don't let his words effect you.  You know that he's stupid and not worth your time.  Stand up for yourself and then just completely ignore him and pretend you don't hear or see him! Hang out with other friends and other guys.  He'll get bored if he knows he's not bothering you and he'll stop.  
Megan R.

purpleblueorange on 2/2/2010 6:19:47 PM

OHHH i woulda killed him!!

lauren68 on 1/28/2010 6:11:30 PM

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silversash on 12/7/2009 9:30:48 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD dear mod my friend always hits the guys i like i dont want to confront her because she might tell my crush wat do i do

 

Hey girl, I know it may be hard, but you should give your friend a heads up you like or was thinking of going out with some guy before she starts flirting with 'em and seeing them as fair game. Sometimes all a girl needs is a li'l notice so she'lll switch her target.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

ab22364 on 11/26/2009 6:46:16 PM

I'm sorry, that happened to you. what a jerk.

sixteengirl93 on 11/22/2009 12:59:03 PM

that sucks now hes mean

fancypance98 on 11/9/2009 10:53:36 PM

boys suck!the only guy u can always depend on is ur dad.wtf was he thinking

bballmaggie23 on 11/7/2009 6:53:24 PM

boys suck.

coffeeforever445 on 11/1/2009 3:09:25 PM

u dont deserve him and ur bffs dont deserve him, no one does hes hopeless

absf on 10/30/2009 9:57:32 PM

Thats really sad...like really sad.

eagle on 10/27/2009 8:19:56 PM

wow i am glad im not dating way to much trouble

shyanne4cad on 10/26/2009 2:55:13 PM

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

nerdygal on 10/26/2009 11:26:07 AM

WAT A LOSER!!! I CANT BELIEVE HIM!!! NEVER LOOK BACK GIRLIE NEVER LOOK BACK! IF A GUY EVER USES U TO GET TO A BFF HES NOT WORTH ANYBODY'S TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sorry just reely mad...hes a jerk! i just cant believe guys sometimes, ya know?

nerdygal on 10/26/2009 11:25:46 AM

guys are such JERKS!

spazzychick101! on 10/25/2009 9:05:21 PM

MODMODMODMODMOD so i like my bgf. a lot. and im not sure if he likes me. he lives on the other side of the country, so if he did we would be a ling distance relation ship. we r best friends, and i want to tell him but i dont want to wreck what we have or break his heart or something awful. HELP

 

Hey girl!  If you are okay with having a long distance relationship, try flirting to see what his reaction is, or just tell him.  If you tell him, and he's not interested, let him know that you want to stay friends.  Since you two are close, things will get back to normal.  If he's into you too, then you can work out some sort of way to stay in touch.  Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

Gale4ever on 10/25/2009 6:43:24 PM

omg! that happened to my friend malia, chrisused her to close to her other friend... how sad, she s so pritty though!!

*Fantastical* on 10/25/2009 5:20:30 PM

Hey girls!

Comment on my profile!

advicegirl on 10/25/2009 12:12:20 PM

Dude! That happened to me!

24/7_daydreamer on 10/24/2009 9:24:49 PM

JERK MUCH!!!???lol

dizzyds96 on 10/24/2009 1:40:46 PM

HERES A AWUFUL STORY..>!!!
Ok so My friends friend was going out with a guy n he took her on a date n my friend secretly went because they were going to kiss that night. So he kissed her first n HIS FRIEND WAS IN THE BACK VIDEO TAPING THEM..!! It was all planed he got them kissing them him pushing her away..!! Her BF broke up with her and they posted that video on somewhere (not sure) saying "Ciara tried to kiss me" Her whole class saw it n now shes so embaressed..!! This is what my friend told me..!! If that did happen it was horrible..!! Guys r SUCH jerks..!!
All the best
Kayla
P.S if a guy that had lots of Girlfriends or is Popular dont say Yes RIGHT AWAY cuz it could be a trick..!!

Paramore_247 on 10/24/2009 1:29:21 PM

Ugh what a jerk!

sparky4me on 10/24/2009 1:04:11 PM

i feel so bad for you!

gymnast22 on 10/23/2009 9:50:03 PM

y r boys so mean?!!!! gosh!!!! u can't live with them and u can't live with out them!!!

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P.S. what a jerk!

*clubmusichearts* on 10/23/2009 4:55:12 PM

OMG! That jerk!

SelenaFan on 10/23/2009 1:03:41 AM

O M G! what a jerk! you deserve way better than him!

kaylee4290 on 10/22/2009 10:13:13 PM

MOD
I'm still not sure what to be for Halloween.
I want to be something scary. My friends arn't really going as anyhting like that;one is Lady Gaga and the other one is a barbie. I don't really want to be something like that.
Do you have any ideas? Thanks so muchSmile




Hey girl, why not trying being a vampire or witch? Totally scary. For a more girly costume, you could be a zombie pop star. (;

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

Pigclock on 10/22/2009 7:07:35 PM

♥♥♥MOD♥♥♥MOD♥♥♥MOD
there's these 2 guys that i like. 1 of them is really cute, but hes super popular. I think he flirts with me sometimes, but i don't know if he likes me. Some people also think hes a jerk, but hes sooo sweet. the biggest problem is that my bff liked him 4 a long time, and she might get mad if i ask him out. the 2nd guy i like is cute, and i can tell him anything. hes popular, but i think i might have a chance w/ him. i flirt with him more than the 1st guy, but i like them both.
What should I do???????




Hey girl, there's nothing wrong with liking more than one guy so give it time to see how it goes. I think in your heart you know who's the better fit. It's all a matter now of listening in and going with it. (;

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

kkgrl5584 on 10/22/2009 4:55:45 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD I overheard my crush talking to a boy and the boy said, "Bill you can't do that, you'll end up like Matt." Matt was the guy who asked me out. And Bill is my crush! How do I find out if he likes me for sure?

 

 

Hey girlie,

 

Just give it a little time and try to talk to your crush as much as possible, smile at him here and there. You'll know soon enough!

 

Megan P.

Megan P.

Smileygirl86 on 10/22/2009 3:35:18 PM

wat a jerk! i'd dump him in a heartbeat like u Laughing

lilmssunshine on 10/22/2009 11:55:54 AM

So sorry girl..!! U deserve better..!! I gotta check out some of the Sweeties to feel better..!! Frown I wish I had a NICE BF..!! But unfourtly the guy I liked turned out to be a real jerk Frown

Paramore_247 on 10/21/2009 7:37:45 PM

poor u awwww u'll find a better man that will enjoy ur love i wish i cud be a great gf like u

daninic on 10/21/2009 7:03:56 PM

omg my bf broke up with me and i still like him we have been going out for like 2 days!!! ugh i dont talk to him that much ... i dont even know y he asked me out if he woulkd break up with me in like 2 days! i was so sad but i heard him say he didnt even miss me one bit and i still love him! ah man! Frown Frown Frown ok lol

fluffy kittenz on 10/21/2009 6:03:24 PM

Wait 2 of your BFFs?That's messed up!You deserve SO much better!

actress96 on 10/21/2009 5:46:43 PM

modmodmod
my friend is dating this guy ill call him Preston and hes mad at her for not talking to him but at recess he plays basketball and doesnt talk to her. so now they wont talk to eachother. so she wants to break up with him she asked me to tell him for her and i was going to but he was all depressed ans his friend Tommy told me that his parents were getting divorced and that they were scars on his wrist. i told Tommy that Sheryl wanted to break up with Preston. Tommy told Preston. now im a little upset at Tommy because i told him not to tell anyone and im not sure ehat to do.




Hey babe,

First of all, your friend should have handled this herself, probably, especially if there's a lot going on in her bf's life right now. It's not your fault that Tommy said something and you did what your friend asked you to, so the only thing you can do is offer to be there to talk to Preston if he wants to. Next time, maybe try not to get involved in other people's relationships (even if the ask you) because it can get complicated.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

hoodie_obsessed on 10/21/2009 5:07:00 PM

um wow. thats immature , you deserve a REAl boyfriend for a great girl like you

Maddyrox92 on 10/21/2009 4:17:57 PM

I hate peole like that!!!!
grr......
they make me made

piegirl1515 on 10/21/2009 4:10:25 PM

thats not very nice!

pointeprincess on 10/21/2009 3:48:08 PM

AGH!!!!!!!!

littlestarr22 on 10/21/2009 11:02:35 AM

Wtf! How was he mocking you? and i beat ur BFFS knew all about his lil plan!

Check out my profile girls, and please leave a comment, thanks!

SportyGal on 10/21/2009 8:11:21 AM

That's horrible! Sorry..he wasnt worth u

stlouis16 on 10/21/2009 7:46:08 AM


    

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