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Like a guy on a sports team? Ask him all about it! If you know a little bit about the sport he plays and he's on you're bound to get talkin'. If you play the same sport—like both of ya are on bball—ask him to help perfect your moves.

No worries if you don't play the sport he's into. You can still ask tons of questions about last week's game, the upcoming playoffs, what position he plays, some of his signature moves, the general rules of the game, etc. Guys heart playing AND talking sports.

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BY CAITLIN R. ON 10/22/2009 7:00:00 AM 31 COMMENTS

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MOD just so we r clear i can use a tampon and i havent had my period yet sorry for asking again i just wanted to make sure

Hey girl! Not sure what the first part of your question is. You might have asked a mod who was on earlier!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

Kissible on 3/7/2010 9:42:06 PM

mod mod mod mod mod
iv always wanted to see what it feeled like to use a tampon but i havent had my period yet so will it hert me if i use a tampon and i havent had me period yet but my mom says that im close to having it (im 12) so please hurry

hey girl! You could practice if you want to.

Eryn G.

Kissible on 3/7/2010 8:36:25 PM

This is covered. Do it all the time. Did it all the time. His basketball season ended last month.

bluebubbles444 on 2/18/2010 10:44:37 PM

i just got back from my crushes hockey game they lost but they still played really good lol its cool cuz i actually know whats going on in the game unlike one of my friends that was with me. her and my other friend think he likes me cuz he would always show off when he was near where we were sitting, but he has a gf!!!!!!!!!!!!! which sucks cuz she is rude and thinks shes all that and she hates me! but i kind of hate her sooooo touche!

eki_dancer13 on 2/6/2010 11:20:26 PM

my bf plays soccor... the sport i dnt like anymre!! i used 2 ply.. i used 2 like it.. i'm an extremley fast runner.... but some kid tried 2 knock me out so i dnt ply anymre.... plus i play volleyball, bball and softball. basketballs my fav sport!!! and he isnt very good at it

cooline on 1/17/2010 8:08:23 PM

MOD MOD MOD Is it true that guys will not go for girls that are tomboys? Or do they like girls when they are tomboyish? I am a tomboy, and I don't know if the reason my crush won't talk to me is cause I'm not girly enough? Thanks so so so much! You don't know how much this would help!!! <3 Hannah

Hey girlfriend, well every guy has their own type. Some only like blonde girls, some like smart girls, others like tall girls, it all depends on the guy. But never change yourself for a boy. If he really likes you, he'll like you for you and won't want you to change. Happy New Year chica!

Lynae P.

FeartheFork on 12/30/2009 4:10:35 PM

Mod Mod Mod :] okay, theres this guy in my school named chris and i kinda like him. we dont really talk at all because the only time i see him is in the hallways and after my basketball practice because we both play basketball for our skool. i kno that he knos that i sorta like him because my friend told him. whenever we walk past each other in the hallways we always make eye contact. what does that mean? is he interested? and how do i start up a conversation with him? i dont wanna just start randomly talking to him cus then he might think im weird. Help! lol

Hey missy, he could be interested in you, now you just have to talk to him to find out. When you see him in the hallway wave and smile, and even give him a compliment. You could say something like "You look nice today!" or "Nice smile." When you see him after basketball practice you could ask him how it went or if he would like to practice together sometime. Do those work for ya?

Lynae P.

holistrprep88 on 12/27/2009 4:31:10 PM

I prefer my boys to be not all athletic because a lot of the time they are too popular then.

bubblegum4 on 11/13/2009 6:43:01 PM

This will work super well. Ok so my crush is the biggest sport freak I know. He plays football, flag football, basketball, swims, dives, etc. This will totally work.

thing4321 on 11/11/2009 4:38:26 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD! My parents will only let me go on a group date but None of my friends have the guts to ask a boy to one with me. What should I do?

Hey girl! Ask your date to bring a bunch of friends too. That way you'll both be there together, and you'll both have close friends to help ease any awkwardness. Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

fashionluver on 11/8/2009 8:52:44 PM

We appreciate that you girlies wanna post on GL, but we’ve received tons of comments about spamming with chain letters. To keep everyone happy we’ve decided to take ‘em down. Thanks again for posting.

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tennislover on 11/8/2009 1:35:22 PM

I have had a crush on a guy since 2nd grade... he doesn't play sports, he knows I like him, I know he likes me, he's really awkward around me, and I wanna ask him out! What 2 do!!!!!

FeartheFork on 11/1/2009 6:22:43 PM

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all right, so i dated this guy and we only went out for like 2 weeks then he sent me this text saying we shouldn't go out anymore (it was because of another girl =P) and that was about a month ago, now i'm almost over him and i think i might have the slightest of crushes on his best friend, i was texting him the other day and he seemed really sweet and maybe a little into me too and he's really cute! there's only 2 lil probs, 1.he's kinda shy and idk if he would ask me out 2.my bff kinda has a crush on him but sometimes she does and other times she doesn't like right now she's really ticked off with him right now cause my bgf said that he said that he doesn't think she's girly enough for him and said that he wouldn't go out with her, but one of my guy friends was the one she found out from so it might not even be true but one day she hates him the next she's in love with him =P do you think i should go for it? or is it breaking girl code? it is only a crush but i don't want to hurt her
thanks a ton!! =)
☮♥=)whitney

Hey babe,

Talk to your friend and make sure she's okay with it if it looks like it's going to get more serious but for now just keep getting to know him and then he'll get more comfortable with you and you can figure out if you like him enough to talk to your friend about it.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

beauty4girls on 10/28/2009 5:55:29 PM

cool!
my crush's baseball season just started!
great convo starter
now for the guts...

mini_ginny on 10/27/2009 8:44:58 PM

cool!
my crush's baseball season just started!
great convo starter
now for the guts...

mini_ginny on 10/27/2009 8:44:27 PM

mod- u probably are expecting what im about to say: im having boy issues. ok, i sit by this SUPER cute guy in math, and we talk all the time. i used to have a crush on him, but i didnt really know him that well back then, so i moved on. but now ive gotten to know him, and its just make me like him more! i try to flirt with him in math, (its the only class i have with him) but im not the best at flirting. its either waaaay obvious to the guy that i like him, or its not enough. but we have had some really sweet moments together, like a couple times we have just busted out laughing for no apparent reason, and let me tell you, he is SOOO adorable when he laughs! do u think he likes me? and how do i subtly let him know my feelings for him? thanks so much! and sorry about the length. xoxo, annie

Hey girl! It's really hard for me to tell if he likes you or not. When you're flirting with him, just take a deep breath and relax. Guys love a girl who's fun to be around, so just let your gorgeous personality show. Crack some jokes, give him a sweet smile when you catch his eye, and tease him about his quirks a bit. It sounds like you already have fun together, so if you just flirt a bit and keep getting to know him better, things could def work out for ya! Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

crkickgirl on 10/25/2009 5:19:33 PM

Mod!!!!!!!!
What's a good idea of something to do on a first date? Me and my friend want to double date, but everyone says going to the movies is too much for a first date. I'm out of ideas!

The movies really arent too much. It's not too intense (no major convos needed) and you can get some ice cream after or something. Plus, if youre not sure of what to say, just talk about the movie! Best,

Miliana B.

mkroberts96 on 10/25/2009 12:10:12 PM

thanks milina(:

purpleoctupus on 10/25/2009 11:26:32 AM

MOD
my crushes friend told me that my crush didnt like me): but if my crush DID like me i dont think he would tell his friendssss, idk how to see if he likes me with out making a COMPLETE FOOOOOL of myslef!!! HELP.(:

Don't go to his friends. Go to him and hang out with him. If he doesnt like you, at least youll have a new friend. Best,

Miliana B.

purpleoctupus on 10/25/2009 11:05:25 AM

heyy MOD,
the last few weeks ive been getting headaches a lot, but only when im tired and dont get a lot of sleep or i am really stressed over something, is this normal?? should i just owrk on getting more sleep?? thnx(:

It's completely normal to feel like that and def just try to get more sleep! Best,

Miliana B.

purpleoctupus on 10/25/2009 11:02:40 AM

MOD that is great advice but like all my friends and my crush play soccer. I dont. Im on the swim team all year and I feel like my firends have more 2 talk about with my crush. What do I do?

Try talking about stuff you all have in common...like movies, tv, music, other entertainment. Or you could ask them to tell you a story about soccer. If they're telling the story to you, it'll be new for you and they'll all want to talk to YOU about it.

Megan R.

Mrs.Pattinson on 10/24/2009 10:42:13 AM

MOD
my crush is homeschooled and i dont know how im supposed to flirt w/ him or talk. do u have any ideas? please help! by the way i know him through the sport we play, tennis, i see him at practice and stuff so ya. thanks again.

Try asking for some tennis tips! Or ask if he wants to practice outside of your tennis clinic.

Megan R.

tennisroxursox on 10/24/2009 1:20:27 AM

MODMODMODMODMODMOD hey this is kinda random but can i put hand cream from bath and body works on my legs? it says its for your hands and kills germs and stuff but can i use it on my legs too? thanks

Hey babe! I don't see any harm in it...but lotion for your legs may be sold in a larger quantity for a better $deal...so it will cover your entire legs without running low!

Megan R.

fluffy kittenz on 10/23/2009 7:27:20 PM

I did this and he asked me to go see one of his games!

pointeprincess on 10/23/2009 7:23:07 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!! so my crush tells me crazy but funny stories. what are some things that i can say besides WOW and that's crazy!! i have actually noticed that he has stop[ped telling some stories like that! what are some ice breakers o say and start a convo to him! thanks girlie!!

Hey babe,

Tell HIM a crazy or funny story about you or a family experience or something that happened to a friend. Talk to him about stuff you did on the weekend or school sports or homework or random TV programs. Laugh at his stories if they are funny or get more involved in the conversation by talking about a similar situation that you were in.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

sugarbaby12 on 10/23/2009 4:57:41 PM

MOD:
i really want to ask this guy out, but i'm not sure how not to be nervous. any tips? and i don't even know if he wants a gf or has ever asked anyone out (saves me the pressure

) or if he likes me or if he is to scared or something. i don't think he likes me but he talks to me

how do i figure out this info???

Hey girlie,

Everyone loves hearing that someone likes you if they are into you or not. I think you should tell him that you like him and see if he wants to hang out. You are going to be nervous, but showing him that you have the confidence to go up to him and ask him out is going to blow him away. Guys are hard to read, but generally if a guy likes you he either makes fun of you, flirts with you or is just really awkward around you.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

bobbert1230 on 10/23/2009 4:02:36 PM

my boyfriend is really really good at hockey and he loves it. So we sumtimes talk about that lol ;)

Maddyrox92 on 10/22/2009 9:36:21 PM

I talk to my crush about baseball and basketball and football! And now, he supposedly likes me!

Smileygirl86 on 10/22/2009 9:14:13 PM

Yeah this does work I talk on and about how the guy I like did at his football game and he seemed to really enjoy talking about it...

Alidster on 10/22/2009 6:17:08 PM

This actually works i've tried it! Ok so me and my crush both play basketball but hes rlly rlly good. I asked if he knew how to hold the ball like out with his hand and he told me it was called "palming" and we had an entire convo about it and he was rlly glad he got to show off his bbal smarts with me

Check out my profile girls, and please leave a comment, thanks!

SportyGal on 10/22/2009 5:52:59 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN.

SunnyDelite on 10/22/2009 3:51:48 PM