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Choosing a Boy Over My Besties?

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I am into dating but all my closest friends are against it. I know girls should always come before guys, but I really want to tell a guy I like him and I'm afraid of disapproval from my friends.

Now I really like this boy and he might ask me out. I know I shouldn't be afraid of my friends judgment, but I don't know what to do?!

- Loveisdeadly'

If a boy asks you out and you want to be his GF, go for it. You just might be ahead of your friends in the boys department. So don’t wait around for your friends to start dating, too.

But, you do have to make an extra effort with your friends if you have a BF. Explain to them why you want to go out with your crush and make sure you don’t completely blow them off to spend time with your new guy. They won’t appreciate that you are ditching them for boys when they don’t approve of them in the first place. Spend plenty of time with them and don’t always talk about your dude. Friends come first! They’ll be the ones that will be there for you when the boys are gone.

Love ya,

Lara

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Ok, so, remember how i was takin about that Mike dude??? Well, i saw him yesterday.... an while snowboarding i was takin pixx of him (lol sneeky me) n l8r, he stole my phone, n was lookin through my pixx an saw the 1s of him, n was like "well, apparently ur in love with me, since u have like 10 pixx of me..." -- n then after he looked through ALL my pixx (764 total) he renamed this rlly hot pic of him: "Mike Is So Hot"...

Im gonna ask 4 his # thurs... but should i: 1. ask 4 it straight up?? 2. have my friend ask 4 m4?? 3. sorta kinda slide it by tht we should exchange #s??

Ok, so plzz answer tht, n do u think he might like me??? thxx soooooooooo much!!!!!! sry its sooo long!!
Chey

cheyz09 on 1/22/2010 7:36:00 PM

i cld nevah put a dude b4 meh girlzz!!! i wld x=plain how i felt 2 em an they wld understand :b

cheyz09 on 1/22/2010 7:35:41 PM

***MOD***
The past few days so much has happened between my crush/BGF and I. For example, I was complaining about the tons of homework I had and he said to me "awee you poor baby" but in a playful kinda way, then I saw "I know" and we both smiled at each other and he reassured me that he knows I will get it all done. Also, a few days ago I was walking in the hallway with my friend and I saw him walking with his friends so all of a sudden when I turn into another hallway, and he does the same, he puts out his arm (I believe it was on purpose) and I bump into it! I turned back at him and smiled but he had a confused look on his face like he didn't know what he did but I knew for a fact he did it intentionally-it was THAT obvious. One last thing, whenever we walk together to class or somewhere he always bumps me and we always get really close. What does all of this mean?! Does he like me? Sorry if it's too long!

Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. ?, Your Blog Patrol Babes

Sammy d.

evercole95 on 1/9/2010 3:52:17 PM

So, my crush, like me. I think.. I don't know how to make it "offical." I'm always texting him, and he usually texts me back. Sometimes he does sometimes he doesn't. He looks at me at school and smiles but he never talks to me. I'm so confused. And how do I make him know I like him?

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lilAngel_96 on 12/10/2009 5:08:21 PM

If you like the guy , tell him, but dont get so cought up in dating, remember, your girls come first, your nothing without them

theatergirl27 on 11/25/2009 12:38:57 PM

Ok, my crush ended up in the same homeroom as my BFF and I'm in a whole different room. I know my BFF hates him but I'm scraed that my crush will fall in love with her, I mean, with her cute freckles, and those dimples when she smiles, who wouldn't like her? I just don't want my crush fallin' for my bestie. And to make it worse, my crush and my BFF sit right by each other! HELP!!!!!

Kattrox421 on 11/22/2009 2:47:51 PM

MOD!
my bf asked me to the next dance but i already told my 2 bffs i'd go with them. i told him no and now hes mad at me. one of my bgfs said i made him cry. What should i do?!

Hey girl! You could go with him and your friends to the dance. It will be a lot of fun to go with a group of people.

Eryn G.

smile13 on 11/17/2009 4:21:28 PM

yes, friends should b4 bfs. my bf asked me to the next dance but i promised my 2 bffs i'd go with them. he got kinda (a lot) upset but a promise is a promise!

smile13 on 11/17/2009 4:17:42 PM

modmodmod so i heard somewhere that if you keep your hair in a ponytail that it won't grow cuz they ponytail holder cuts off curclation. that was about 3 monts ago and i didn't believe it but now i asked my friend the same question and she said ya that it did and it kinda makes sense my hair has only grow like maybe half an inch since then what should i do i hate the way my hair looks down but i hate just putting it up in a pony. my friends all say it looks pretty down but i don't know wheather to believe them.
p.s there's this guy in my class that im trying to impress, more like get him to notice me, and would you think if i did my hair down or diff. and started to wear makeup, eyeshadow and that would that get his attention, he's never dated anyone as far as i know and he's really shy but bffs with the most popular guy in our class.what should i do?????

Hey girlie,

Wearing your hair in a ponytail won't keep it from growing, but it might break and/or damage your hair if it's constantly up in a tight elastic. The norm for hair growth is about 1/4 inch per month, so half an inch isn't too far off the mark. As for your friends, I don't think they'd tell you to lie and wear your hair down. I'm sure it does like really pretty and that it's a good change from always wearing your hair up. Plus, it'll get that guy in your class to notice you in a different light. Try and talk to him. Even if he is she, he should still be able to say 'hello.'

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

jewelsrox on 11/16/2009 9:41:34 PM

hey girls! if you need help with anything check out the advice section of my profile and leave me a comment! i have lots of experience giving advice and would love to help you out! talk to you soon!
~ellie~

hugatree95 on 11/8/2009 8:47:16 PM

MOD!MOD! How should I tell my boyfriend that I wanna break up with him? I still kinda like him, but I am starting to like this other guy that likes me too. So I just wanna let him down easy & tell him I need to get my thoughts straight or something like that.Plz help! -Auds

Hey girl! I think that's exactly what I would do. Let him know you really want to talk to him about something. When the time's right, let him know you still kinda like him, but you're confused about your feelings and need time to sort it out. Let him know you still want to be friends, but this relationship is not what you want anymore. Sure, he'll be disappointed, but at least you're letting him down gently. best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

jello4eve on 11/8/2009 8:44:10 PM

MOD!MOD!(Kristen Y) How should I tell my boyfriend that I wanna break up with him? I still kinda like him, but I am starting to like this other guy that likes me too. So I just wanna let him down easy & tell him I need to get my thoughts straight or something like that.Plz help! -Auds

Hey girl! I think what you said is exactly what I would do in that sitch. I'd tell him that I really needed to talk to him about something important. When the time is right, tell him that you still kinda like him, but you're confused about your feelings and you need some time to figure things out. Let him know you want to stay friends, but you don't think this relationship is right for you anymore. Sure, he'll be disappointed, but at least you'll be letting him down gently. best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

jello4eve on 11/8/2009 8:43:46 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD! I've been dating behind my parents back for a while because they don't approve. I hate keeping secrets from my parents. How can I get them to let me officially "go out"?

hey girl! Try sitting the 'rents down for a chat. Listen to what they have to say and try to compromise. See if a "group date" with a lot of gals and guys would be ok, or even offer to let them meet the guy before you go on a date. I know it's frustrating, but they're just trying to look out for you. best of luck, Kristen

Kristen Y.

fashionluver on 11/8/2009 7:25:14 PM

Thanks Lynae P. Il try but still apart of me dont wanna be friends!! Im going to take your advice and go for it!!
You guys rock!!
All the best
Kayla

Paramore_247 on 11/8/2009 5:43:34 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD Ok so me and my ex-BGF have not talked for a while cause we got in a fight n its been two weeks now and I have moved on I dont like him anymore and im happy!! Now today he comes back n says hi n he wants to be friends again n that he is sorry!! I really liked him but im happy n I dont wanna get back into the mess again but part of me wants to be friends but I dont know if he means it but i do wanna be friends and I dont!!! HELP If I shouldnt be friends what could I say????? All the best Kayla

Hey chicky, try being friends with him again. If it doesn't work out, then you can move on. But you'll never know fi you don't give it a shot.

Lynae P.

Paramore_247 on 11/8/2009 4:12:50 PM

Dear MOD,
I have two really close guy friends.They mean a lot to me. One of them is dating this girl ( who I heard was very...possessive) but he's really happy. The other one has always been rejected and turned down but he's done so much for me, he's like a brother he even helped me and my first bf come out of our shells and confess to each other. Well he's been acting quite different lately like txting other grls asking for naked pics ( as a joke) and like being really bossy all of a sudden. He told be that he and the other girl ( thats going out with Friend#1) are going out behind Friend#1's back and that he's ashamed but he won't break up with her bc he doesn'
t know when another girl will ever like him. He told me not to tell, but now I'm not sure what to do. He's always been there for me ...but so has friend#1. what should i do?

You shouldn't get involved in that or they will both get mad at you. Let is pass because it seems like unnecessary drama. Maybe tell your other guy friend to tone down this new attitude of his--those texts he sends arent that funny. Best,

Miliana B.

deliAxoxo44 on 11/8/2009 12:47:05 PM

MOD!
im going to the movies tonight with my friends what should i wear. its going to be kind of cold. i have fair skin red hair and im tall so wat would look good

How about jeans and boots with a long jacket and scarf? You could curl your hair and wear a hat, or you could wear it straight and put a clip on the side.

Megan R.

fired up on 11/7/2009 11:36:35 AM

MOD!
my school dance is coming up and i dont know how to dance. not like waltzing but not skanky club dancing. like the perfect middle that i can just dance in a group with a bunch of my friends

Hey babe! To make yourself more comfortable you could try practicing at home in the mirror to some good dance music. Try swaying a little side to side, and bend your arms a little bit. Move around and have fun. Practice makes perfect!

Megan R.

fired up on 11/7/2009 8:53:30 AM

MOD MOD MOD hi. my best friend and i like the same guy. ever since we told each other that, theres been some competition between us whenever he is around. i've liked him since forever and he likes me and another girl. not my best friend. i dont want us to fall aprt just cuz of a guy, but i want to go out w. him too. what do i do? sistas over mistas? i want it both ways, but that'll nvr happen.

Hey girl, I think I answered this one already, but I think you should drop the guy. This is one crush that should be crushed. Boys will come and go, but girlfriends last forever. And it sounds like you guys have been friends for too long to let a guy break you up.

Lynae P.

rawrxoxo on 11/6/2009 9:16:53 PM

Hey mod! 1 Quick question, what age do you think is the right age to start dating?

Hey Girly, There is not really a perfect age to start dating. You should start dating when you are ready to. It is important to be totally confident in yourself and to love yourself first (as silly as that sounds!). Once you've got that down, then you will be ready to share feelings with someone else!

claudia n.

Im.Unique.YAY! on 11/6/2009 3:29:11 PM

tell the boy you like him then if it works great then tellyour friends that you are happy and that you really want then to be happy a boy likes you follow it up with a joke but if he doesn't you then forget about it and don't tell them

horseygirl10156 on 11/6/2009 10:06:42 AM

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xXxAngelicaxXx on 11/6/2009 9:11:20 AM

MOD MOD MOD i need help I'm looking for a guy who is listening to metal and is loving & careing. How to find him? I've got no idea and I'm not really social, people usually ignore me. (I think it's because they think I'm too little)

Hey girlie,

You might find that there are some really loving and caring guys out there who don't listen to metal. But you could try going to a local concert with some friends and seeing if any boys from school are there. If you see anyone you know, go up and say hi.

Good luck!

Megan P.

Megan P.

xXxAngelicaxXx on 11/6/2009 9:10:20 AM

if u really like this guy and he makes u happy ur friends should be happy for u.... and if they arent then they arent your real friends

peacelovecrazy1103 on 11/5/2009 9:40:04 PM

MOD~MOD~MOD
I've been texting my bgf/only trustworthy guy friend/my crush for over 7 hours today since we had no school! It's crazy! I really like him but if I told him I'd be lying to one of my friends and 2 of my friends know the rest don't. I wana tell him but I don't cuz I told him I like someone else, whom I also like, but not as much. I've told him a lot of things I haven't told a lot of my friends who are girls. I'm so confused... what do I do?

Hey babe, I think you should def take a chance and let him know. You never know how he feels unless you ask him and who knows, maybe he feels the same way? Go for it! It's worth a shot, right?!

katelin s.

maddie246 on 11/5/2009 9:22:25 PM

**MOD**
There was this guy that i reallyyyyyy liked alot and he liked me back. We kinda had a thing for a little bit until i found out he told another girl he liked her too. I was really upset with him and for a while was mean to him. He said that he was really really sorry about it. but i was still mean to him. then i realized that i needed to forgive him. So i talked to him about it and apologized for being so mean to him. He said it was okay and now i dont know if i should just stay away from him or go after him again...any advice??? I dont want to get hurt again, but i also like him alot...help!

Hey girl, I say let him go. Sounds like there's a lot of drama there and it's best to let it die then go back on that history. Give it some time and see if you can be friends -- I don't think you can right now, but that's def a possibility in the future.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

sweet_n_shy on 11/5/2009 7:56:18 PM

MOD~MOD~MOD I was texting my bgf and I told him who I like. The thing is I kinda like him too. I got his number on halloween and we've been texting pretty much non stop after school. I told three of my friends that I liked him before but I just told two of them I don't like him anymore when really I like him more than I did before. I also sent him "I kinda like you but more as a friend." cuz he asked if my friend liked him cuz she was making it really really obvious. The real reason I told him I like someone else is because I wanted to know if he likes someone and he doesn't right now. Now I'm tying myself in this huge mess. Can you help me please?

Hey girl! Your sitch is totally fixable. Just try staying neutral and staying cool. Keep texting him and try to get to know him better. If you know him on a more personal level he might see you as more than a good friend.

-Taeler

Taeler L.

maddie246 on 11/5/2009 8:12:44 AM

Mod
Thanks so much for the advice Keltie E! I told her that I used to like him and she was totally cool with it. She said that even if I still liked him she still wouldn't have a problem! That's what bffs are for!!!! And I am moving on to a new crush that's blooming!!! It's kinda weird for me cause I've liked the same boy for two years but now that it's over...;) but yeah now I'm confused on what to do to talk to him more cause he's in a few of my classes and a great dude! But it kinda stinks cause he sometimes hangs with people who are....let's just say not me... But any advice on how to strike up a better Convo with him cause everyday he says I like this guy who's my bgf, tho I don't cause I like him but he said it really loud In front of my bgf and I think he heard but I def don't want by bgf thinking I like him like that cause I don't.
Thanks so much!
Softballstar67

softballstar67 on 11/4/2009 11:50:23 PM

MOD
My friend said he would set me up with his god brother and he told me he said he liked me and theni asked him if he liked me and he said he did but he had a gf. how can i get baq at the boy who tryed to set me up with him

Hey girl, revenge is never the answer so I wouldn't. What I would do, however, is confront the boy who set you up and tell him that. Let him defend his claims sans falling into one of yours.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

watergal47 on 11/4/2009 10:49:41 PM

MOD MOD MOD!
i asked my mom and she is ok with it as long as my dad is! HOW AM I SUPOSED TO TLK TO HIM BOUT it when he freaks out if i have a frined that just happens to b a guy! AHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!! I NEED HELP!!!!

Hey girl, how about letting your 'rents get to know this dude before you tell 'em the news? Your dad might be a li'l calmer if you let him meet your gentleman first. Let him get to know what a special guy you have. Your parents want to see you happy and want to make sure you're getting the best. Let 'em see this guy is that and more before dropping the bombshell.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

MidnightSun42 on 11/4/2009 8:45:16 PM

MOD MOD MOD
My mom says I'm not old enough to date. I'm turning thirteen this upcoming Sunday. My mom says I have to be over sixteen, which means like, seventeen. That's really old to only be starting to date. & Now she has all the rules about me hanging with friends, & my dad is stepping in, even if I don't live with him. I'd love to have my guy friends over to show my mom how amazingly polite and nice they are, but she won't let me. Help?
Oh. & I have a lot of zits & zit scars. How do I get rid of them safely?
Thanks (:

Hey girl, let's break this down: guys and skin care. On skin care, try looking for over-the-counter acne washes. Neutrogena has great products that target keeping your skin clean and clear. Over the summer, we ran a four part article about getting clear skin. You can check out the first part here: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/08/05/clear-skin.aspx. As for the guy prob? It can def be hard if Mom is saying no to dating, but know she has good intentions. Try inviting your guy friends with your girl friends -- a healthy mix. It's a way to get 'em into the house so your mom can see how great they are. And changing the rule for good? Sit down with your mom and present a mature argument. Discuss it. She set that age limit because she wants you to be mature when you date -- an adult discussion is your way to show her you can be mature now and she doesn't have to wait.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

AsIAm. on 11/4/2009 7:59:44 PM

MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD!!!!
ok so my crush just asked me out and i said yes. unfortunately that means i have to tell my mom which means i have to tell my dad. How can i do that when i have absolutely NO idea how they will act?
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey babe,

Talk to your mom about whether or not she thinks you're old enough to date to start the convo. If she seems like she's not sure, maybe you could have her meet your crush to show her how great he is. If you're reasonable about her reaction and try to be as mature as possible she'll be more likely to be okay with it.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

MidnightSun42 on 11/4/2009 7:14:37 PM

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MidnightSun42 on 11/4/2009 7:12:06 PM

Mod
I really like this guy. I just found out today that he has a girl friend.

Should I still like him?

Hey babe,

It's okay to still like him, if you think you can handle knowing that you can't do anything about it. It would be really mean to flirt with him while he has a gf so if you can enjoy liking him without trying to make it go anywhere, that's fine. If you'd rather like a guy that you can have a future with, try to get over him and move on.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

umbrella101 on 11/4/2009 5:34:57 PM

poor u no girls deserves that!

shortylikemine on 11/4/2009 1:16:29 PM

poor u no girls deserves that!

shortylikemine on 11/4/2009 1:15:48 PM

MOD MOD MOD!! ok so im going out with this guy and hes really nice but i dont like him in a lovery dovey way ( i like him as a friend). i went out with him becauuse i found out that he really really liked me and all my friends told me to say yes. I also really didnt want to break his heart. But i have a crush on another guy and i feel so weird going out with one guy but really liking another. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

Hey girlie,

If your heart's not into this guy, then it's kind of like you're leading him on. I know it's really tough to break-up with someone, but it wouldn't be right to stay in a relationship when you've got feelings for someone else.

Good Luck!

Megan P.

Megan P.

crushincutie101 on 11/4/2009 11:30:54 AM

MOD~MOD~MOD
My friend and I who have every class together and do pretty much all the same things like the same guy. She sed that we shouldn't let it tear us apart but I think it will. HELP!

Hey babe, she's right in not wanting a guy to get in the middle of a great friendship. If you can't work out who can date him then move on and find great guys for each of you or just enjoy having fun and being single!

katelin s.

maddie246 on 11/3/2009 10:20:16 PM

MODS! Thx for all u advice! Your advice helps a ton!I d some f the advice u girls told me & I have a boyfriend(a nice one!=D) & my life is doing great! Thanks for the help!

Hey girl! So glad we could help! We try our hardest!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

jello4eve on 11/3/2009 8:50:02 PM

mod mod mod i really really really like this guy(let's call him Nick). but my one of my bff's other friend likes Nick too. i told my bff that i like him and she was trying to keep it a secret from the other girl (because she will hate me if she finds out) but she said maybe when she pointed to Nick in the year book she figured it out. today she came up to me in the hall and she kept getting in front of me so i couldnt go around her. luckily my bff helped me by going in front of me so i could get around her. now my bff and i thinks she hates me. i am scared that the other girl will purposely talk bad about me in front of nick so he wont like me what do o do

Hey girl! Well, If he believes her then he isn't good enough for you! Try talking to him and getting to know him! He will know you then and not what other people say!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

alljonas on 11/3/2009 8:22:22 PM

MOD One of my good friends' brother is a freshman in high school and I am in 6th Grade. I think he might like me cause he always talks to me a lot and he is never mean to me. Anyways usually older brothers don't mess with their younger sister's friends. He also friended me on Facebook. I know it probably is just him being polite but (JIC) I kind of like him too. Is it too big of an age difference though?

Hey girl! It might be. But he might like hanging out with you and talking to you. Keep chatting and try flirting a little! Couldn't hurt, right?!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

furuba97 on 11/3/2009 7:24:25 PM

to all the girls that want guys to notice them:
i used 2 b just like that! this school year i tried 2 b more confident and now i hav TONs of guy friends and a boyfriend. i know it might sound hard but it works.
God Bless! <3

skijumper4life on 11/3/2009 5:43:50 PM

i had bfriend and i broke up with he because his friend broke my arm and then throw paint in my eye and everything chanced he would say he hates my and call me names like $@!$#&^@ ad he would't say this stuff when we where dateind so i would say no caues he could use you for power.

JJ12345 on 11/3/2009 5:33:23 PM

MOD!! I've been waiting for a response to 2 of my questions for 16 hours. Why is it taking so long?

Hey girl! So sorry about the delay! Sometimes it takes us a little longer to get to all your questions! Thanks for being patient!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

FutureAmericanIdol on 11/3/2009 8:22:50 AM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!
Ok so my BF and i are totaly getting closer everyday. We hang out alot and talk whenev we get a chance. We like eachother alot and i dont think there is anything rong with that. the only problem is that all of my friends except for my BFF are TOTALY against us going out! They cant except the fact that i like him and think we should break up. I actualy spend most of my time with them but i try not to bring up my BF. Unfourtunatly they end up complaning about him and me going out! What can i do! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey babe,

That SUCKS that your friends aren't supportive of your relationship. You need to talk to them about it and tell them how much you love them and how much you appreciate your friendship, but they you really like your BF and want to give things a shot with him. Tell them that you would appreciate it if they would support you rather than try and push you away from him. True friends are friends who are there for you no matter what your situation is. Good luck! Have you BFF chime in too if you are too scared to talk to your friends about this alone.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

MidnightSun42 on 11/2/2009 9:55:51 PM

MOD MOD MOD mod mod mod MOD MOD MOD!!!!!
So in the new issue of gl, (with kay panabaker on the front) I noticed that on page 75 in the top right hand corner that there is a box with "the five golden rules" well number one is never steal ur bffs bf crush or ex. The guy I like now (well actually I'm sooooooo over him...) is going Out wit my bff, and I since I'm not even a little in to him there is no problem....but there's a catch.....she really wants me to tell her who I like but I told her I will when the time is right(I figures when the broke up..not soon but later I would tell her) I'm not gonna "steal" him cause I'm not into him but how should I tell her when the time comes she is my bff
Thanks so much!
Softballstar67

Hi Softballstar67,

If you're so over him then he's not your crush, right? So tell your BFF that you used to like her BF, but you like her a lot more and got over that. And tell her you are currently seeking a new crush

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

Softballstar67 on 11/2/2009 9:04:42 PM

trust me the guy is replacible but ur besties aren't their priceless don't let them go!!!

blueberry1357 on 11/2/2009 1:57:26 AM

MOD!!!! I have a boyfriend & we play basketball together(with some of his buds & my buds) at lunch recess time. I wanna sit next to him during lunch & sometimes just talk with him by myself. How do I ask him to do that? Or what? Plz help.

Hey girl! Just go for it! Snag a seat by him for a few minutes at lunch and try telling him to meet you after school or before to chat for a few!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

jello4eve on 11/1/2009 11:03:25 PM

♥MOD MOD MOD♥ I have this friend and she is kinda getting on my nerves and I DON'T want to hang out with her anymore. She is constantly insulting the fact that me and my bf are together. She hates him and is always trash talking him in front of me. This makes me feel disgusted. That is not the only reason why I dont like her. She is always rude to me and bothering me. How do I tell her i don't want to hang out with her without making her mad. We've been friends for a really long time!

Hey girl! Just let her know you don't appreciate her comments and that you would never speak that way about anyone she cared about. You don't have to flat out tell her you don't want to hang anymore. Let her know she's out of line!

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