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My BF gets jealous when I talk to my guy friends. He tells me he’ll break up with me.

What should I do?

DAVE: Explain to him that you can’t live in a vacuum where you only talk to each other. But also stress that you understand how he could be jealous and that you’ll introduce him to your guy buds. If that doesn’t work, lose him.

BILL: If he’s the jealous type and you’re one to yuck it up with the guys, maybe you two are not meant to be. Nothing wrong with that—it happens all the time. Move on, and find the dude who’s perfectly suited to you.

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BY CAITLIN R. ON 10/22/2009 10:39:00 AM 37 COMMENTS

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omg he cares too much about u to break up with u if he didn't care about u then he would have not said that he is just saying that because he is jeaulos so just don't worry he loves u too much to break up with u. girly!good luck sweet heart

boysloveme on 2/13/2010 3:42:50 PM

i had the same problem with my bf but i just broke up with him it actully felt better and waz clear

hwada1 on 1/30/2010 10:52:12 PM

ok 4 1... i lov skillet!! listen 2 thm rght now... ok mod mod mod mod
i hav a bf and hes best friend lets say... his dan... ok soo dan haz a huge crush on me.. he admited it.. ive nown dan since 1st grde and only my bf since 4th... dan also haz a gf.... and he said he likes me 9.9 on a scale frm 1-10... wht shuld i do? dan also tld me he loved me.

cooline on 12/29/2009 10:39:30 PM

HELP ME! I am in love with this guy and I want to know if he <3 me, here r the deets: He is like a BGF He talks to me, he tries to make me laugh and he socializes with me He pays attention to me!

Hey chica, I'm not sure if he's in love with you, but it sounds like he is certainly in like with you.

Lynae P.

yodelle10 on 11/22/2009 1:45:35 PM

Girl brake up w/ him he gets to jelly and that must be annoying so it is over because he won't share u w/ ur BGF not cool!>

yodelle10 on 11/22/2009 1:41:15 PM

thats the thing about it he thinks he litterly gay...he kissed my bf 2

jellybean2010 on 11/15/2009 8:23:50 PM

thxxxx mod

jellybean2010 on 11/15/2009 4:49:11 PM

~MOD~MOD~MOD~ mod,i have a ? i was at church a few weeks a go and my bf and my crush (lets call him austan)was there(my crush is also 1 of my really good guy friends) and austan was just messin around and he kissed me on my cheek and my bf saw him...(my cruch likes me) and my bf hates him now....i try not to hug austan in front of him but i hug him behind my bfs back....i hate having to hide the fact that hes one of my good friends from him and i hate having to hide me talkin 2 him n huggin him behind my bfs back...how can i get my bf not to hate him??

Hey girly, let your boyfriend know that Austan is just a good friend and there's nothing romantic going on between you two. Tell him that he kissed you only because he was joking around, he wasn't serious. Introduce your boyfriend to Austan so he can see what acool guy he is.

Lynae P.

jellybean2010 on 11/15/2009 3:58:49 PM

MOD~ I really like my bf, obviously. I'm kind of shy though, so how do I be more...flirtier?

Hey girl! Just be confident! The more confident you come off as the more comfy you will feel!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

selenaFan97 on 11/8/2009 9:25:47 PM

I know guys can be that way right? My bf got mad because I was laughing with my BGF. Um. Jealous much?

selenaFan97 on 11/8/2009 9:24:31 PM

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club colors on 11/6/2009 11:04:25 AM

MOD MOD MOD i need help so for my birthday my boyfriend got me a $100 necklace, and i have no idea what to give him as a gift for his birthday!! I want it to be nice and something he'll actually use, but i can't think of anything. he's a video game geekish kinda guy, but he's really sentimental and stuff. what kind of thing should i get him?

Hey girl! Wow, nice gift! Try taking him out to dinner or something! Then give him a pic of you two in a frame with a nice card! He will def appreciate it!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

mxcgirl24 on 11/5/2009 9:48:26 AM

**MOD!!**
there is this guy in my skool tht likes me but i dont like him and he wont leave me alone he is getting 2 be 2 much rite now cuz he is being very annoying telling his friends 2 tell me stuff tht he cant say 2 my face but they r nice things anywho how do i tell him 2 get off my back... 4 good?!
thnx xoxo amani

Hey babe, Just be polite but firm and let him or his friends know that you appreciate how nice he's being but you're not interested. It might take a while but if you stand your ground he'll back off.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

soccergirlie on 11/4/2009 7:55:26 PM

MOD! MOD!~~
I need your help very badly! My bff likes the same guy I like. She told me today, and I was shocked! I didn't know what to say, so I told her how I liked him since CCD two years ago, and she said "back off" and then laughed, and walked away. She's usually the nicest person ever, the same with "our" crush. He flirts with both me and her, and I don't know what to do. At lunch I said, "Awww, how cute" when she got done flirting with him and she said "don't ever, ever do that again" just for saying what I said! Jeez! I'm thinking of asking our crush if he likes her first, just to see. Should I do that or what?

Hey babe,

Talk to your friend about it again and let her know that you're worried this guy will come between you. Even if you both really like him, it could seriously hurt your friendship which will probably last longer than any romantic relationship either of you have right now. If she really values your friendship she'll agree that both of you should back off for now.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

cookie_n_milk on 11/4/2009 5:04:11 PM

listen girlly... it happens to every guy just tell him that you are loyal and wont do anything stupid... that is the one trait that all guys have... gelousy ;)

hoopschick:D on 11/4/2009 7:56:39 AM

MOD!!!!!!!!!! Ok I asked this question 16 hours ago and haven't gotten a response. maybe you haven't gotten this. I am friends with my bf's friends, which is awesome. However, when ever I go over and sit next to my bf for half the lunch, they make heart cameras with their hands and say "awwwwwwww" over and over. It's really annoying, and my bf thinks so too. What should I do when they do it again 2day?

Hey girl! Try joking around and telling them to back off. You can tell them it's annoying but still be cool about it! And sorry, about the delay, girl!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

FutureAmericanIdol on 11/3/2009 8:17:07 AM

MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok so i really like this guy who just broke up with one of my friends were not close friends but freinds...And i like him and he likes me and just says he is not ready to have a girlfriend yet cause he just broke up with her a couple days ago and i get that..but i am afriad my friend who went out with him is going to get mad at me and were not close enough where i would feel comfortable asking her what she would think..i dont know what to do??? and also...ok so the main people i hang out with is my two bffs and 3 guy friends (1 of them dating 1 of my friends the other 1 is the one i like and he likes me) so that leaves my guy friend and one of my bffs and lets just say they wont b going out anytime soon..and my bff can be really obnoxious when she wants attention and she is always throwing candy and being really immature just cause she doesnt have a bf...I dont know what to do about that cause its getting really annoying!!!! HELP ASAP!

Hey babe,

If you're not close enough to talk to her about her boyfriend then maybe you're not close enough to be considered friends. Tell her how you feel about him or just go for it. As for your BFF, she needs to find a crush outside of your loop. Go on the prowl with her...she sounds like she's single and ready to mingle!

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

mn.maddie on 11/2/2009 9:56:12 PM

***MOD*** Hey! My boyfriend is like the smartest guy in school. He's kind of a nerd too, but I really like him. However, he has some things that he does that I don't like. For example, instead of raising his hand, he holds up one finger and holds his elbow with the other hand. Should I say something? It doesn't bother me THAT much, but my friends tease me about it. I really don't want to hurt his feelings. Also, since he's so smart he's always chosen when a teacher lets us work in small groups or in pairs. It kind of hurts my feelings even though I know he's not doing it on purpose. Should I talk to him about it? He is the shy type.

Hey girl! As for the hand-raising, it sounds like just a minor pet peeve. You can always playfully tease him about it to see if he'll change, but really, it's not a big deal. And as for being chosen, it's not his fault that he gets chosen to be someone's group. You can try talking to him about it though and letting him know that you really want to work with him for the next group project. That way if someone asks him, he can politely decline. best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

FutureAmericanIdol on 11/1/2009 7:08:38 PM

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Okay so i like this guy and hes popular. He is in 2 of my classes and i have seen him look at me a few times and when i look he smiles and i have seen his check me out before! Does this mean he likes me? and how can i signal to him i like him too??

Hey girl! He is pbly interested in you, strike up a convo with him.

Eryn G.

lulu7 on 10/31/2009 11:44:11 PM

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The girl said no. What should I do?

Hey girl! I am sorry, but I don't know.

Eryn G.

Smileygirl86 on 10/30/2009 6:28:45 AM

MODMOD ok so i have a big prob... my BFs breath smells AWFUL!!!! like no joke i start gagging every time i happen to smell it! i totally dont want 2 say anything, but its so bad i saw this girl who was exercising next 2 him walk away nd tell her friends he smelled rlly bad!!! what do i do?

Hey girl, why not try getting him some breath mints? Next time you're with him, take out a tic-tac and take one for yourself and offer one for him. It's a sneaky way to let him know his breath ain't exactly okay.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

jblover4lyf on 10/29/2009 5:32:38 PM

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I am so depressed. My crush asked out some girl who isn't interesting nor pretty. I really thought he liked me!!!! In gym, he was only throwing the dodgeballs at ME!!!! I can't get over him b/c he is really interesting and is the cutest boy in the school!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What should I do to make him want to ask me out?!?

Hey girl, you can't make a guy want to do anything unfortunately. I know it may be hard, but you've got to set this guy aside for now -- he's off limits. As for the dodgeball thing in gym, relax, girl. What may be flirty to one could totally be friend vibes from him. Just focus on being the best friend to him you can for now and see where it goes down the line.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

Smileygirl86 on 10/29/2009 4:09:07 PM

MOD!
im a little in need of a guy translation
theres an adorable guy in my latin class who i have a crush on.
we talk alot and slow danced @ homecoming.
TOday he was near me in the lunch line and my guy friend comes up and looks at us and says "is their something going on between you two?" and my crush looks away and blushes. Translation please? Can you tell what my crush thinks about me?
xoxo
~A

Hey babe,

It sounds like he might like you! Keep getting to know him and see if he makes it more obvious.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

volleyluv:) on 10/28/2009 7:35:55 PM

i never had a boy friend so now i'm scared what my boys that are friends are going to do

indainsgirl on 10/28/2009 7:33:36 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!
What should I do?? My BF is always talking about killing himself! I always have to stop him. He has said that he was going to kill himself like 5 times! His always sad and cutting himself. What should I do? Ive tried talking with him but he only says that he thinks he doesnt belong in this world. Thank you

sad_girl on 10/26/2009 8:00:25 PM

thanks lynae! you really helped me! (: btw i think your name is pretty!

FrenchHornPlayer1 on 10/25/2009 8:57:36 PM

MODMODMOD!!! i have a bf but i dont like him as much as i used to. i kinda wanna break up with him. idk how to because hes my first and and i dont wanna seem shallow. im so confused! thanks!!

Hey girly, you can't make yourself feel something you don't. So if you don't like him anymore, you should stop dating him. Never force yourself to do something you don't want to in fear of how you will look to other people. Break it to him gently that you'd like to stop seeing him. Too shy to confront him face to face? Write him a note. Hope this helps!

Lynae P.

FrenchHornPlayer1 on 10/25/2009 2:03:29 PM

i TOTALLY know what this is talking about. and i hate that. they always get jealous thinking i like my GBF. thats happened to me. TWICE. grr
lol
XD

kINNIEwini on 10/24/2009 9:02:54 PM

I think having a BF and BGF is great because you get to be around guys you like but you have to watch out because you sometimes end up really liking the BGF more than your BF. It does happen. Just a warning.

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Paramore_247 on 10/23/2009 4:08:28 PM

I have guy friends and they are awesome!! And you should tell your boyfriend in private that there is no reason to be jealous. If there is nothing between you and your guy friends then you shouldn't give your buds up Just tell your boyfriend that you can't control me in any way. And try to be understanding. You have the right to hang out with whoever! And threatning to break-up might be a good thing. If he can go talk to girls (BTW, I don't know that as a fact ;D) then you can talk to your guy friends!

Lots of Love,
Karikaylee

karikaylee on 10/23/2009 2:18:57 PM

can u guys plse stop postin those annoying spam messages!! MOD is there any way u can make sure those rnt posted? thnkz, cause they r driving me insane!!!!

Hey Girl, We totally appreciate that you girlies love posting on GL. We have received tons of comments about chain letter postings so we've decided to take 'em down to keep everyone happy! You shouldn't be seeing many more of them. Thanks!

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Gracie401 on 10/23/2009 7:22:59 AM

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Help me! The guy that i like acts like he likes me! He playfully pokes me (he calls them love pokes) and texts me alot! My sister texted him asking him something about going out with me and he responded thaat he was just playing me! When he texts me he tells me he loves me and wants to know what i will say if i go out with ! Is there anyway to read his mixed signals?I am really confused!!!

Hey girl, try to get the record straight from him. Tell him you don't want to be played and you want to know what's the truth. If he still sends mixed signals, let him go. He's not worth it if he's going to play with your emotions.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

fireballcutie101 on 10/22/2009 7:05:08 PM

Hmmm i'd have to go with Bill on this one. I mean my guy friends are awesome i cant live without them! hehe.

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SportyGal on 10/22/2009 5:50:53 PM

*Modddddddddd*
okay, so how do i get my crush to ask me out? or give some signals to hint him that i want him too? or if he wants a gf? and idk if he has ever asked a girl out or knows how or anything! how do i know this?

Hey girl, you can't make a guy do anything, but you can definitely give him some hints you're interested. First off, if you don't know this guy, get to know him. Talk to him. Start slow and get to know him more. Become his friend. When the time's right, start giving him some signals that you like him a little bit more than he may think. This is flirting. See how he reacts. Does he ignore the flirty things you say to him? Chances are he's not interested then. But if he plays along? Well, keep pushing that line and see where it goes. Good luck, girlie!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

bobbert1230 on 10/22/2009 4:43:57 PM

omfg same with mine!!!! but i sit beside my bf in class now. so hopefully he wont keep thinking tht ,my friends think hes insecure,same with my mom, but i dunno.

Maddyrox92 on 10/22/2009 3:20:19 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN.

elizabee28 on 10/22/2009 2:49:55 PM

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