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Unfortunate Fizzle

I went to a Bat Mitzvah and I had my period. Of course I was stupid enough to buy a white dress. When we were all playing Coke and Pepsi I got paired with my crush! But unfortunately, I had gotten so caught up in the party I forgot to go change. My crush and I were one of the last ones to get out so everyone was watching. When we stood, he shouted, "GOD! You leaked on my pants!" and I also had a HUGE stain on the back of my white dress. It was terrible!

BY JIAE K. ON 10/28/2009 7:00:00 AM 47 COMMENTS

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ummmm what does mod mean?

lindseyflynn on 11/19/2009 6:46:47 PM

hey i'm really scared about gettin my period. what if it happens during school?!?!? would i notice it before I go to the bathroom? help!

Hey girl! Don't freak too much. I know it's a common fear but you'll know if you start your period. It's a quick save and you'll be good to go!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

ginam on 11/17/2009 8:29:04 PM

omg i can totally realate. today i got my period in school and i wasn't prepared an i had on white skinny jeans and it leaked so badly. i ended up having to come home early becasue i was so mortified about it. now i'm afriad to set foot in my school building again... i heavily feel nervous now and even though i've had my period for nearly 3 years, it still freaks me out if i start it in school. today i should've figured out it was gonna start because i never have cramps but today i woke up with cramps so bad i couldn't stand up straight for part of the morning.

flyleafismylife on 11/17/2009 6:29:38 PM

If you love something set it free, then get the heck outta there cuz they will call the police and you will be charged with kiddnapping!!! ROFL

GL~Luvver on 11/17/2009 12:29:06 PM

i got my period and it not fun. my mom says that tapons would hurt( she used it when my age not like it ) but think i would at least like to try them because pads feel like diapers! also look at my profile and leave me help with boys.

audreyisme on 11/16/2009 9:51:56 PM

ouch.

Magifina98 on 11/15/2009 9:07:53 PM

***MOD!! MOD!! MOD!!***
well the second time i got my period i used a tampon because my friends invited me to go swimming. it wasn't bad at all wearing it or putting it in but it really hurt taking it out. so the next time i wore it longer hoping if i absorbed more it wouldnt hurt as bad, but it still hurt. should i switch to a diff tampon?

Make sure you're starting with "Junior" or "Light" tampons. But usually when it absorbs more, it's less painful to remove. Best,

Miliana B.

rockin_chick12 on 11/15/2009 9:52:43 AM

ohh that stinks! i havent gotten mine yet. then again im only 11

lalalululand on 11/12/2009 7:56:22 PM

MOD! Look i started my period in 5th grade and i wore pads. so well i think my pad was noticable because a guy thought i had a boys thing and i was super embaressed and they somtimes ask me that know what should i say. please help me MOd Mod

Hey girl, try going for lighter pads. Maxi pads will def stick out more than a thin pad or overnighter and you really don't need a pad that thick.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

flowergirrl235 on 11/12/2009 5:36:37 PM

wow,i feel so bad foryou rightnow.

emygirl11 on 11/12/2009 2:58:19 PM

When I had mine, I just went to the washroom and noticed, but i've never had something that bad happen at school, or anything. I HATE my period, though, and it lasts, like, 7 days. So annoying.

LampyLamper on 11/11/2009 5:03:08 PM

mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod
why do boys get so grossed out by this?

katzrock112 on 11/11/2009 9:39:07 AM

MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! Ok now that HOPEFULLY I have your attention...I woke up this morning with an AWFUL headache it got so bad that I threw up (I know gross right?) Later that day I went to the bathroom and there was blood ALL in the "crotch" of my underwear!This has happened a couple times before but with several months in-between..I'm confused did I 'start' and is it related to my headache???

Hey girl! It prob is your period. You could just have come down with pre-menstural symptoms and that is what the headache was. If you're super concerned head to the doc and they will be able to better help you!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

Totally_Animalz on 11/10/2009 6:38:39 PM

MODMODMOD
last year in 5th grade i got my period, a couple of times after i had it i leaked really bad one week, the blood covered almost all of my butt!!! I'm now in 6th grade and was wondering if ppl still might remember that from last year. I was also wondering if that is why all the boys i ask out say no [cause they think it's groose] [prob not though]plz help!!

Hey girl! Its been an entire year since that accident, so boys pbly forgot about it. They might not even remember anything, since its a new year, make it a new you. Just talk to as many guys as you can and be really nice to everyone. Guys might not be ready to date in 6th grade, so give it some time.

Eryn G.

randomgal32 on 11/10/2009 3:10:00 PM

He is a jerk! I hate it when guys are so immature about things like this. They really dont have to scream it out in front of a lot of ppl. But, next time be more careful.

rainbowpanda! on 11/8/2009 11:45:51 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
OK so how old do I have to b if I want to b a mod and what do u have to do

I became a mod after I interned at Girls Life in the actual office. Go to contact us on the girls life site to find out to contact them about being a mod and intern. The best age for being a mod is high school. Good luck! xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

girlzrock123 on 11/7/2009 11:47:07 PM

If guys had to go through what we do I dont think they would be so rude about it, I wish they could see how it feels, which they proably will once their voice changes =)

ginaxluver on 11/7/2009 10:18:59 PM

that stinks!!! I've started mine but, haven't gotten to "calendar" yet which stinks! no stains for me though

iLUVmitchell22 on 11/7/2009 5:46:49 PM

i got my period on a friday my first time, and luckily it didnt bleed through my pants. i didnt even notice i had it until i went to the bathroom like 7 p.m. that night! i guess i was one of the lucky ones...

crkickgirl on 11/7/2009 12:21:32 AM

mod mod mod!!!!! ok so i havent gotten my period yet but when i do im kinda nervous cuz i play competetive soccer and we practice 4 nights a week + games on weekends and i dont want to wear a pad but im also scaared of trying to put a tampon in! does it hurt?

Hey missy, as long as you get the right tampon for you it won't be uncomfortable. If you get one that slides in easy and fits, it won't hurt at all and you'll forget you're even wearing one. And you don't have to be embarrassed about wearing a pad. There are other girls on your soccer team and I'm sure they'll be or have been waering ones. We're all women and we all go through the same things, so no worries.

Lynae P.

nodluvssoccer on 11/6/2009 11:05:44 PM

MOD do you ahve to have alot of discharge to get your period?

Hey babe,

No, not necessarily. some girls have more or less discharge.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

valentina12 on 11/6/2009 7:20:45 PM

MOD MOD MOD ok so i am working just fine with pads. theyre cool. just that I want to try tampons to see how they are. im kind of scared though. should i go for it? thanks. by the way i had quite a few periods already.

Hey girlie,

If you're fine with pads, then I would say just stick with those! Maybe try a tampon next time you go swimming and you have you're period, but otherwise, if pads work for you then I wouldn't worry about it.

Thanks for posting!

Megan P.

Megan P.

lovevev on 11/6/2009 4:45:57 AM

OMG! I am so sorry for you girl! you were brave! I would of never left that bathroom if that happened to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lasyel on 11/5/2009 9:15:02 PM

Mod, I got my period yesterday and I think a boy in my math class might have noticed the stain on my pants. It was not very big and he did not say anything to me. Today I did not mention it at all, was this the right thing to do? I was so embarrassed! Thanks!

Hey girl! Yeah, you did the right thing. Chance are he had no idea so you coasted through it perfectly!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

bunny girl on 11/5/2009 4:17:15 PM

omg thats embarassing! im so sorry! (btw im waiting for my period)

monkeyga on 11/5/2009 3:16:47 PM

OMG!!!!! GOD GOD GOD! IM GONNA B SOOOOOOOOOOO... CAREFL FRM NOW ON! BT I FEEL SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO........ SORRY FOR U!!!!!!!!!! U MIGHT HAV FELT SO BAD! :0

popstarno1 on 11/5/2009 7:41:58 AM

AHH i would tottaly die! i feel sooo sorry for u!

fafa109 on 11/4/2009 7:58:09 PM

OOOF!!! i feel 4 u I've had a lot of stains in my past, but they're nothin compared 2 that.

ShadowGirl42 on 11/3/2009 7:28:45 PM

wow.. i sypmathinze with you. so last year on my second period i had a volleyball game. forgetting about the 3 day thing then it comes back i forgot i was still going to get it for one more day. so i put on my spanx (or really tight volleyball shorts) and played the game. my friend came over and then i went to the bathroom to pee. i then notice a HUGE stain on my pants. i mean like blood red. but heres the catch..they were black and it only looking like maybe they were a little wet, ya know? i could see the red b/c some of the inside was lined in white. i was so thankful that i couldnt find my team shorts in blue. i started throwing a bunch of what-if out there. but it happens! comment on my pro! ~~

monkeylover5239 on 11/3/2009 6:31:37 PM

thats embarresing and sorry poooorrrrr girrllllllll

graceygirl77 on 11/2/2009 5:41:35 PM

Ohh I would've have been sooooooooo ..... embarassed sorry about what happened.

keneshia on 11/2/2009 12:19:49 AM

guys r mean

dancechick7496 on 11/1/2009 9:53:27 PM

sorry about that he probably thinks it was cute that your forgetful

Qsnlemons on 11/1/2009 1:36:34 PM

totaly agery with absf

girlzrock123 on 10/31/2009 11:37:21 PM

OMG i am sorry bcuz i no that u don't want to hear this but he probably isn't a good boyfriend to have if he's such a jerk and you sound pretty nice so I would hope you guys didn't end up together.... Personally, I don't have my period and I don't want to. So I don't really know about stains and all that, but if you need any guy advice you can always come to me, k? =) I'm sure you must be mortified and I don't blame you.

wowthisisaboringscreenname on 10/31/2009 11:37:02 PM

its ok! guys are jerxs about this kinda stuff!

iloveicarly1 on 10/31/2009 11:24:27 PM

boys r sure immature bout this stuff, they r lucky they dont have 2 go through this os they should just shut up!

absf on 10/30/2009 9:42:39 PM

aw im sorry! he should have realized how embarrased you were and said something quietly.

sourpatchkidluver on 10/30/2009 4:50:20 PM

Something like that happened to me at school(((( It still haunts me but it will just someday become a thing of the past and u wont have to worry about it anymore;)

Muriel101 on 10/29/2009 7:47:29 PM