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My BFF and I have been friends since we were really little, and suddenly this year she is hanging out with a whole other group! I don't care if she has other friends, but whenever I want to hang out with her, she usually ignores me and talks to her other peeps.

Also, all of her new pals are really popular. I'm kind of shy, so I don't fit in with them. I want to stay friends with her, but I just don't want to get mad at her and ruin our friendship.

Hey babe, I totally feel your pain. I think every girl has gone through something like this at some point in their lives and it can make you feel really lonely and confused. You have to remember that if your friend is true blue she's not going to just ditch you as soon as a new group comes along.

Excited about new peeps

Your pal is probably enjoying the new excitement that comes when you start hanging out with a new group of people. Give her a little time to get to know her new friends without putting pressure on her to hang with you every sec.

Plan a friend date!

When you think you're ready, talk to her about what's been going on. Maybe you could plan an outing just the two of you with a movie and pizza. When the time is right, tell her that you've missed her. Can't get the words out in person? Write it out in a note. Ask her if you can come with her the next time she hangs out with these new girls. Chances are, if she likes them then you will too, and vice versa.

Do your own thang

And don't forget that it's always great to make new friends! So why don't YOU seek out a new group to hang with, too? Join a new club or sport that you've always been interested in. You'll meet a whole bunch of buds who share your passions so you'll have puh-lenty to bond about. Go for it!

-Katie S.

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My bestie gets reallly confused with our HW assignments, a lot! Whe i try to help her, she just gets mad at me and gets more frustrated. It's not like I'm forcing help, she asks for it. It's making me really stressed. I want to help her, but she just gets really angry! What do I do? Please help!
Thanks!

Aw, sometimes my little sister does the same thing. I would just talk to her and tell her that you will help her if she needs it but that you do not appreciate her getting angry with you. Hopefully she will see that you are just trying to help.

Kayla C.

lolgirl006 on 3/5/2010 7:16:18 PM

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This is my first year at middle school, and I'm kind of a socially awkward kid. I've made a few new friends, but I'm not sure where to go from there. I want to get closer to them, but I'm not sure how without it being awkward. My close friends at the moment have been my best friends since kindergarten, but I don't remember how we became so close because we've been friends for so long. Any advice?

Hey girl!

In order to make new friends, just be friendly! Even though you may feel awkward about it, strike up a conversation. Ask what the homework is for tonight or if they want to work on the in-class assignment together.

Liz R.

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rightfield1 on 11/24/2009 7:01:13 AM

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I have having a serious problem with some popular girls at school. They keep teasing my friends and I that we are Lesbians, or BI. I know we all are NOT! Im getting sick and tired of it! Just a couple days ago, my friend and I were leaving the room together to go get something for the teacher and one of the popular girls said 'OHH! are you guys going to the bathroom to make out?' I said HECK NO and yet they still tease us. Do you know how I can stop this? I don't want to go to the counselor because I don't want to be a snitch. My friend doesn't either so what can we do? I'm tired of it and I want it to stop! PLEASE HELP ME!!!! THANKS!

Hey Girl,

This sounds like such a frustrating situation! These girls are probably just jealous and bored with themselves. As long as you and your friends know that you aren't lesbians or bi, then who cares what these other girls think? If you and those you actually care about know the truth, then that's all the matters! Next time they ask if you are going to the bathroom to make out, say...no, are you? You keep asking about it so I think it's on your mind.... Don't let it bother you! If they see that they are getting you upset, they'll keep it up. Blow it off, act like you don't care what they think (even if you do!), and eventually, they'll stop!

Good luck and keep your chin up!

claudia n.

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* on 11/20/2009 9:36:45 AM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD we have a dance at my school and I don't know what to wear! I want to wear my skinny jeans but with what?

Hey girl, skinny jeans are a great idea. You could pair them with a fun tank top. Maybe zebra print or sparkles. Anything goes, but make sure it is fun and bright since you are going to a dance!

xoxo

Olivia A.

17ann on 11/19/2009 3:00:59 PM

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This sort of happened to me... Last year, two girls (let's call them Julia and Renee) transfered to my school, and we ended up becoming best friends. The beginning of this year, we were still extremely close, but then right after Homecoming they stopped talking to me and became new BFF's with this girl that I really hate (Imogene). Imogene really hates me, too. (Because she liked this guy, Joey, and he liked me. Which isn't my fault, at all, but she still hates me.) But yeah, she completely turned Julia and Renee against me. Now they never talk to me or text me or anything. It wasn't a total surprise... me and my old friends aren't super-popular, and Imogene is, and this sort of thing has happened several times before - I make friends with a new girl, and then Imogene and her friends turn her against me. But Renee and Julia and I were best friends for over a year, and I hate the fact that our friendship fell apart. I would definitely prefer it if we had a fight or something, so I at least knew what went wrong. So I'm just wondering, should I confront them and ask why they're not acting like my friends anymore? Or should I figure that it doesn't matter WHY they're not my friends, and just ignore them and hang out with my old friends?

YouKnowYouLoveMe on 11/16/2009 4:38:47 PM

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I am joining volleyball and im practically the only un athletic person there This my first sport and im worried that if we arent good enough friends that we wont be a good team and im also worried because they may get mad because im not very good! How can I be better friends with them

Hey babe, just try your best and that's all you can ask of yourself and all the team can ask of you, too. Ask one or two of your closest friends on the team to practice with you so you can work on some of the stuff you need the most help on. That way they'll see that you're making an effort and you'll get to hang out with them at the same time.

katelin s.

soccerrox1997 on 11/12/2009 9:30:25 PM

thank you mod! (:

icecream123 on 11/10/2009 12:03:18 AM

MODMODMOD- so one of my friends is kind of like this. she wants to be popular(its very obvious) i feel like she uses me and my other friends. Like She will hang out with us and sit with us at lunch and then all of a sudden when someone better comes along(more popular) she ditches us for them and she wont even talk 2 us when we see her... then they she and her new friend get into a fight she comes back to us and acts like nothing ever happend, It is very annoying and we all feel used... what should we do?

Hey girlie,

You need to confront her and talk to her and really think about if you want to be her friend. Let her know how her actions are affecting you and your friends and how she makes you feel. Be open and honest and get to the bottom of it all.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

icecream123 on 11/10/2009 12:03:04 AM

say ur name 10x
say ur moms name 5x
say ur crushes name 3x
on the nearest friday u will be kissed by ur crush

cutiepie4567 on 11/8/2009 6:05:35 PM

MOD MOD MOD! There's a site that i love with 1 major problem: People make YouTube videos. Sometimes they don't even tell you that they are! Like they'll post a video of you doing something embarssing and people will come up to you and say, "Now, why'd you do that?" I feel uncomfortable now and am watching my actions and speech. But this is limiting me from hanging with friends and i really don't like it. I don't think the site can do anything about it, and I don't want to talk to my parents about cause they might ban me from the site, so what should i do?

Hey chica, whenever your friends are about to tape a video, tell them you don't want to be in it. Instead film the video for them. This way you'll still be apart of the fun without being in the video.

Lynae P.

lyragold2 on 11/8/2009 2:33:24 PM

hey girl,
i kinda know what you are going through. i've been best friends with my friend for 10 years and we are still really close. but sometimes i feel like she's leaving me to go hang with our new high school friends. i think you should just go and talk to her and try and sort things out, that's always the best thing you can do. another thing you can do, is just keep being nice, try and ignore it, and hey while your at it you can make new friends too good luck
~sarah

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Club Girl's Only on 11/1/2009 2:19:12 PM

MOD im new to HS and most of my friends (accept my best friend thank god) went to other schools. HS is great but i dont really have my "group" anymore. im talking to a handfull of new girls and i like them alot, but how can i become more than just a girl from class? id really love to become great friends with them but also should i or how can i pull my bestie along for the ride? Thanks Mod!!!

Hey chica, ask them to hang out with you and your bestie outside of school. You guys could go to the mall or the movies on the weekends. That way you guys will get so used to hanging with each other during and after school, that you will just gravitate towards each other and form a group.

lynae p.

beatleschick1616 on 11/1/2009 1:49:03 PM

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Well, I was supposed to go to my friends party today but I kinda bailed because I wanted to go trick-or-treating with my family! When I go back to school should I make up an excuse. or should I just tell her the truth? I'm kinda scared to tell her the truth because I know she will probably shun me!

Wow, some friend if she'd do that! But in all honesty, I would tell her your family wouldnt let you go and you had to trick or treat. In the future, let her know before you change your plans. best,

Miliana B.

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linalolo on 10/31/2009 6:54:01 PM

Guy like that like you but they do not want to tell you.like me a guy like me but he did not want to tell me! 12:43pm october31,2009 halloween

brilney on 10/31/2009 2:43:35 PM

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Hey, so tomorrow is my birthday and my BFF was supposed to come to my house but she's sick so she can't. I feel so horribly, terrbily awful saying this, but I can't help but feel like she's wrecked my birthday. I LITERALLY have nothing to do now, and trick or treating by myself lonesome self sucks. All of my friends already have plans and I feel like I'm on the verge of sobbing. I feel so selfish but I can't help it. How do i deal?

Hey babe,

It sucks that your birthday plans got ruined but you can do something with your friend when she gets better. It won't be quite the same, but you'll still get to celebrate with her.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

angelgirl555 on 10/30/2009 6:58:56 PM

thank u mod!

Photochickie on 10/30/2009 1:05:39 PM

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I'm really upset. My friend keeps hurting me, verbally and physically. She hits me and she says things like "You stink". We were in home ec today and she was like "can you just help me!!" as if I wasn't helping but I WAS. She's only mean to me, I mean I'm in all of her classes and her locker is next to mine but still, I was about to cry. What do I do?

Hey babe, it's never ok for someone to physically or verbally hurt you. You need to tell this girl that you're not going to take it anymore and if she keeps it up, you should consider ending the friendship. Real friends don't treat others like that, ya know?

katelin s.

maddie246 on 10/29/2009 9:20:28 PM

MOD MOD MOD what would be a convo to bring up to bring up to a guy uve never really met..or a way to get them to notice u

Hey girl, it's always easy to talk to a guy if you have a class together. Just ask him for HW. IF you don't though? Little things like compliments go a long way. Tell him you like his shirt and ask where he got it. Be creative, and you'll find a way to make it work.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

volleychicka on 10/29/2009 4:22:04 PM

MOD!!! my friend has been really rude and mean to me lately and i'm not sure what exactly i did. i'm pretty and a lot of guys like me and i have lots of friends, so i'm not sure if it could have started out as a jealousy problem or what. but i recently just got an amazing boyfriend and now she says she hates him even though she has never taken the time to get to kno him. so now she is ragging on me and my bf and he is a good guy and feels like its all his fault that my friend and i are fighting. i really dont want to break up with my bf, but i also really dont want to stop being friends with my bff. Help?!

Hey girl! You should def try talking to her. She may feel a little replaced by your new bf. Let her know how important she is to you and that you don't want anything to get in the way of your friendship!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

jazzyness on 10/29/2009 1:35:31 AM

All MODs..
Thank you so much for all of your help!

Anytime, girl! GL's all about helping girlies like you.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

elena_bliss137 on 10/28/2009 11:12:20 PM

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I kind of need to do SOMETHING to make them lighter because since they're dark you notice how long they are and they're really long!

Hey girl, chances are no one else really notices them. For example, guy hair? Dark and curly, but it's socially OK. You can always consider shaving 'em (European women tend to do that, I think) but it's not required at all. Trust me when I say they're fine. No girl is going to judge you on your arm hair, promise!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

memory975 on 10/28/2009 11:01:24 PM

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So my crush(who i really really like)is going to this school that is really hard to get into and the school decides by drawing names out of a hat(kinda). i put my name in but i doubt i'm getting in. i'll forget about him if i don't go to that school, but i don't want that to happen. but if i do go to that school, i'll be away from all of my friends. and this year was my first time meeting the guy. really stuck on this!!!!

Hey girl, see what happens with admissions. If you don't go to the school, know there WILL be other guys that will have that same effect on you. No worries. If something's meant to be, girl, it will happen, I promise. Hang in there and follow your heart. It always leads you in the right direction.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

vickychen231 on 10/28/2009 11:00:49 PM

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I kind of have three Qs but on one subject. 1) I'm going to bleach my armhair because its so dark, so where can you get it bleached and how much is it? 2) Does it make a big difference if you have dark brown arm hair? 3) Is it a thing where you have to keep doing it like once a month to keep it light? Thanks and please respond!

Hey girl, you shouldn't have to bleach your arm hair, but you can get facial bleach at your local drugstore (to darken unwanted facial hair). I'm not sure on the price exactly, but it shouldn't be more than $5-10. As for Q2, I'd imagine it'd actually look unnatural. When it comes to bleaching (Q3), you've got to do it every other week. I would not suggest bleaching your arm hair, honestly. It's better to keep it natural.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

memory975 on 10/28/2009 10:26:18 PM

mooodddd!!!!!
ok so today i wore eyeshadow. i was feeling really pretty and stuffs but my friend told me that she looked better then a did. it was for spirit week and the other day, it was color day and i wore a patchwork skirt and she told me i looked like a granni!! what do i do?!

Hey girl, don't mind what she's saying. She's not being very nice and chances are you looked amazing and had a great time doing it. Don't let one girl's opinion ruin your own. Be confident!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

PicturePerfect on 10/28/2009 10:01:44 PM

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I have some unruly hair, and I like to style it different ways.I would like hot rollers or maybe a flat iron to change my hair up on different days.
My mom is worried I might burn my hair. The thing is, I wouldn't use it everyday, and I am super careful with everything I use.
How can I convince her to let me get one? And what are some good ones that won't burn my hair and work really well?
THANKS!

Hey girl, why not try regular rollers/curlers you can sleep in overnight? You'll get that curl sans the heat! As for flat irons and curling irons? I use a curling iron, but I'm careful to use products for damaged hair that'll give my hair a little more moisture. Be sure to get your dead-ends cut regularly too -- heat causes more to form unfortunately.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

supershopper266 on 10/28/2009 9:39:44 PM

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I'm going to be an 80's aerobic trainer/fitness person for Halloween. Thing is, I have NOOO idea where&what to get for my costume! Also, how should my makeup be? Thanx

Hey girl, '80s is all about outrageous! Try digging in your own closet for an oversized sweater you can turn into a boat neck and a tank you can wear under it. For those nylon pants, hit a fitness store or fun shop like Forever 21. Accessories? Sweatbands galore! Check Claire's, Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, or even a fitness shop for the perf things. And the make-up? Blue eye shadow, rosy cheeks, and color to the extreme! Have your mom help! She lived in the '80s so she'll def know how to make it work!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

elena_bliss137 on 10/28/2009 9:32:01 PM

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my bff and I were planning since like late August to trick or treat together but today I was texting her about what time she was coming over and she's like " oh, well our other friend is having this huge party that I was gonna go to." I know that we planned to trick or treat together before she was invited to the party plus I wasn't invited to the party. So now I don't know what to do like I don't want a huge argument with her.

Hey girl, while you can't change your friend's mind, remind her she made that promise in August and that you cleared your plans for her. See if she can do both: go trick-or-treating with you earlier and then go to that party. Ask her if she can ask if you can come too -- maybe as her plus one? Find a way to compromise. With a little work, you can def reach that middle ground.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

itstessie23 on 10/28/2009 9:30:24 PM

Happened to me! Ended up with better friends in the end. I know that somedays you may feel REALY lonley but in the end it will be all god

dancingrl345 on 10/28/2009 9:21:55 PM

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Hey Alyssa! I heard you give great advice, so...
I just found out my crush likes me...should I be excited?? 'Cause I feel like I'd be more excited if he asked me out.

Hey girl, you should def be excited. That's awesome. Try talking to him and see what happens. Let him know you're free this weekend and well, let him take the bait from there. Good luck, girl -- this guy just wants some assurance you won't reject him if the rumors are true, and talking to him and hinting you're interested does that! I see a great romance in the works!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

tap_dancer on 10/28/2009 9:18:24 PM

MOd! help! how can i flirt with my crush? can you give me some real examples. For example, if he says i look good today, iwould reply "dont i always look" and our convo would go on from their. Any other examples? thanks a bunch!

Hey girl, I wouldn't go that far. I'd turn compliments he gives you into ones for him. In your example, if your guy says you look good today, you can always smile, look directly at him, and say "I'm not the only one," implying he does too. It's little subtle hints that show a boy you care and keep his interest.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

coolerthanu on 10/28/2009 9:15:58 PM

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HOW come when I just tried to post a question for you it wasn't put up?

Hey girl, questions and comments have to be checked by a mod. Give it some time and it'll prob be up soon.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

nikki01195 on 10/28/2009 9:10:42 PM

Going through it

nikki01195 on 10/28/2009 9:05:08 PM

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hi,
last year i was going out with this guy and i realized about 6 weeks later that i really didn't like him that much. i broke up with him. there was this kid on his bus that is a year older than us. this year he always yells stuff like HEY YOU BROKE UP WITH (my ex bf) BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T WANT A BF" it's really embarrassing. i have just been ignoring it, but what should i do???????? plus, i am one of those people who wants everyone to like them. crazy, but i do. so it's been an issue
PLEASE HELP!!

Hey girl, you're doing the right thing by ignoring him. He's just trying to get a reaction out of you. When you give him none enough, he will stop. Just hang in there.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

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Club Beauty on 10/28/2009 8:59:15 PM

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lately I'm not liking my friends. I basicly have 3 groups if friends. On group is the immature group. I mean they're not really immature I'm just very mature for my age. So we don't have to much in common. And my bff from that group is really getting on my nerves lately. I find myself not wanting to be around her because she too quite and boring. Then there's the other group. My bfff of that group isn't always honest with me. It's not really a huge deal about what she lies about but she can always be honest with me. She lied to me about what she was doing for Halloween. She told me nothing but I heard she's doing something with I girl I don't like. And I don't care. How can I tell her that she can e honest with me? And my 3rd bff is too worked up with her bgf who I think she is in love with. She ignores me when he's around and it hurts. I was planning on doing somethin with her for Halloween since July. Now she wants to do something with him and she's boy even inviting me to join. I'm hurt.
I have a problem telling people how I feel. Wht can I do to make it less hard?
And because of bff3 I have no plans for Halloween. Well. And because if me. I'm stupid and I hate mysel and my friends. On Halloween I just want to sit in my room all alone and cry.
And sorry it's so long. Thanks!

Hey girl, first of all, you should not hate yourself. You're amazing, girlie, and you shouldn't let your friend drama bring you down. As for the three BFFs, let's take it case-by-case. BFF #1: She may be quiet and boring, but at least she's reliable, right? You'll find reliable people are way hard to come by. Try calling her up and seeing what she's doing. BFF #2: Honestly is always the best policy, but it's never a good idea to go off of gossip. Instead of accusing your BFF of lying, just let her know she can tell you anything and leave it at that. If you catch her in the act of lying, then you can call her out on it, but no need to provoke a fight right now. And BFF #3: Oh, boys can make everything complicated, right? If all else fails and you can't do anything with BFF #1 or her group, call her and remind her of the plans you made before. Maybe invite one of your guy friends and make trick-or-treating a double date. Take a deep breath, girlie, and don't let the friend drama bring you down. You can still have a great Halloween if you're open.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

nikki01195 on 10/28/2009 8:53:21 PM

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I really like this 1 guy(C), and I always thought he liked me, too. The problem is that a few days ago me and C were talking but it felt different talking to him. He seemed to not talk to me as much and seem distant. I am starting to think he may not like me anymore, not even as a friend! I was really sad and to make it worse my BFF came he went to go talk to her and started hugging her and flirting with her!! My BFF didnt flirt back cause she knows I like him but he kept on flirting with her anyways. I dont know what I should do about this guy. So what should I do??

Hey babe,

If he's flirting with your friends right in front of you, I think he's probably not worth crushing on. Get some space from him for awhile and see if he goes back to being a nice guy again.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

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I_luv_devin on 10/28/2009 8:09:01 PM

MODMODMOD!!!- ok so ive been going out with this guy for like a month. i really like him, and he's the perfect guy, but my mom doesn't know im dating him! its not that i dont think she would approve-she knows him and thinks he's cool and a good guy and everything. i just dont know how 2 tell her! i was gonna send her an email, but wat would i say? do u think i should send her an email? do u have any other ideas (i really cant just tell her 2 her face, i would freeze up and b all jittery)?
thank u so much!!!!

Hey babe,

I think a handwritten letter might be a little more friendly than an e-mail. Just let her know why you were nervous about telling him, how long you've been dating your bf, and why you like him.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

spotadot on 10/28/2009 7:42:20 PM

i love making new friends! trust me girl, there's a social butterfly in us all (:

septemberxblue27 on 10/28/2009 7:17:58 PM

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ok so fieldhockey season just ended, which means i wont be getting exercise 5 days a week. last year during winter, i gained about 10 pounds, and i've lost about 8 of it, through sports season (field hockey AND lacrosse) i'll be doing sports only 2 days a week through out the winter. but i dont want to gain all this weight again this winter! its really hard to lose, plus im going on a cruise this february soo i need to be in shape. i was thinking about joining a gym to go to like 2 days a weeek or something. its really hard with holiday season for me to not gain weight. what should i do?

Hey babe,

Just make time to work out and think about making healthier choices during the holidays. Remember how hard it will be to lose that weight again whenever you get tempted.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

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clubsnickerdoodle on 10/28/2009 7:00:26 PM

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Thanks so much for the advice! I appriciate it a ton!

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wallofllamas on 10/28/2009 6:54:09 PM

MOD!!!! I really want new friends!! I am home schooled so it is really important to me to have lots of friends but i am having a problem with to of my friends. My first friend-let;s call her K- I met K in fifth grade at my church. She was great then but now she seem's crazy and imature i just don't like her and i don't wanna be friends anymore but it is hard! and then my other friend M is really shy and won't do anything with me. Whenever we are at church and i want to go talk to more people and do things she just wants to sit and talk or just kinda not want to interact. I want new friends but i don't wanna be mean or leave M alone. how do i do this?
thx Megan

Hey babe,

It's okay to grow out of your friends - everyone does it at some point. Take a stand with M and invite her to come with you to meet people but go without her if you have to. If she really doesn't want to be alone, she'll come with you.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

Photochickie on 10/28/2009 6:53:02 PM

MOD!!!!!
I have never been so depressed in my entire life. I have been in love with my boyfriend for 6 months before he asked me out in September. I was ecstatic, but we had issues right away. There was constant drama, and he wasn't always as nice as he should've been. I had to be patient with him because his mom and his sister have a life threatening disease, and he takes care of them. I always felt I was more into him then he was me. He didn't treat me well at all, in fact he was a lot nicer back when we were friends. Recently, he has been talking to his ex girlfriend, and asked to invite her on our date this weekend. I was furious, since he barely has time for me. I talked to him, openly, about it, and he said i was controlling. I understand why he said that, because I texted him constantly when I had swine flu and I had nothing else to do. Tonight, my best friend, my hero, broke up with me. (On my birthday!!!!!!) I am devastated, and he said he still wants to be friends. I don't know what to do. My heart is broken. I have never hurt so much. I can't stop crying. Was i in the wrong???
~nickj29
~nickj29

Hey babe,

You were absolutely not wrong! It was really inappropriate of him to ask his ex along and you were right to tell him no. Even though he has a lot of things going on in his life, it sounds like he wasn't being very good to you. Especially breaking up with you on your b-day! You're better off without this guy, even if it doesn't feel like it now.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

nickj29 on 10/28/2009 6:48:42 PM

MOD MOD MOD
okay so my friend had really dark brown hair and she died it platnum blonde it looks horriable!!! and now she wan'ts my oppinion but i don't want to lye but it would kill her if i said i didn't like it help!!!

Hey babe,

It's only a white lie if you tell her you like it. It's not as bad as a real lie. It will hurt her feelings less.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

seaturtle2442 on 10/28/2009 6:47:27 PM

hmmm i want new friends but i wanna keep the old

Photochickie on 10/28/2009 6:42:38 PM

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