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Safe to Pick Pimples?

 

Is it safe to pop pimples? I’ve heard it can leave scars.


If it’s OK to pop, what’s the best way to do it?


The correct answer is to let your bumps be. Seriously. Avoid picking, which usually makes zits last longer, turn red and multiply like bunnies.


If you must, here’s a lesson from Dr. Coyle Connolly, dermatologist, Voorhees, N.J.: 1) If you have a whitehead, take a warm shower to open the pore. 2) Hold a warm washcloth on the zit. 3) Give the bump a few gentle, firm squeezes. 4) Stop! If you can’t get it, leave it alone. Otherwise, it might pop inside your skin and cause an inflamed mess. If white goopy stuff comes out, and you see a little blood, you’ve probably gotten it all. Dab on a bit of benzoyl peroxide cream either way, and hope for the best.


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BY CAITLIN R. ON 10/28/2009 7:00:00 AM 108 COMMENTS

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Hey, I have a big problem. Ok well i really dont get reguar pimples, you think i am lucky well NO!! Insted of regular pimples, i get sistic pimples, i think. They look like red welts on your face. On time i got one just about 2 inches under my eye, and it made the whole area and the part under my eye all puffy and red. It looked like i got hit in the face with a bat!! How can I prevent them and get rid of them when i do get them, what is the best way to cover them up?? Help me, and buy the way they really hurt when you touch them.

citten on 11/20/2009 3:26:02 PM

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hey, i was wonderin if washing your face, using rubbing alchohol or witch hazel on your face then putting on moisturizer will work to get rid of "blemishes" (pimples, zits & blackheads)??
thanks! xoxo sam




Hey girl, there are tons of home remedies, but the truth is when it comes to acne problem, the best thing you can do is use over-the-counter products. Home remedies have had mixed results, and none really consistently and universally work.

xoxo

 
Alyssa B.

soccermicci on 11/18/2009 8:35:02 PM

You know, it really does help to just leave your face alone. Don't pop, pick, or scratch your pimple! I've noticed that when I do get zits, they go away in, like, 24 hrs. if I just don't touch them!

readerchic101 on 11/14/2009 10:20:05 PM

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i have severe acne i have had acne since i was in grade 2 it is really depressing when i get teased because of my face i just want it to go away i am in desprite need of something to fix my acne im in grade 7 and i want clear skin by high school i already have severe scarring i looked on the internet and it costs about $500 per session to laser treatment done that is way to much money to go thorugh 20 minutes of laser treatment i need something to clear my acne im in deprite need of assistance and i just want my acne and scars to be gone more than anything in the world all my friends have clear skin and it doesnt seem fair that i have to come home crying becuz people at school were making fun of me while my friends go home not worrying a about a thing please help me i already use proactiv and it helps but i doesnt get rid of the scaring..............is there any inexpensive treatments that are proven i am willing to pay up to $150 to clear my skin

 

I am so sorry to hear about your situationa and I so wish I could offer some great advice.
Unfortunately since I’m not an expert on the matter, I don’t want
to point you in the wrong direction. Try having a chat with your parents because I know they’ll be more than happy to help you get
things squared away. And, talk to your doctor. I think he or she can really help you. Best,


Miliana B.

nellyl on 11/8/2009 1:10:16 AM

Mod...
Do you know the cause of whiteheads on armpits because I get them.

 

 

 

Hey girl! It's completely normal. These whiteheads form from sweat and dirt in your armpits. It's no big deal. If you wanted to try something, you could try using a face wash on your armpits in the shower. It might help. If it gets serious, you could consult a doctor. Good luck girl!

 

xoxo Kerra

Kerra S.

4yah101 on 11/8/2009 12:21:30 AM

CHECK OUT MY PROFILE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

winneconnerocks on 11/7/2009 8:42:43 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD! well i am 12 years old and i havent gotten my period yet. my bff just got hers today and i have ALL the signes of getting mine. she has like- none. i have pube hair and boobs, discharge and everything. she only had discharge. i am really jealous of her because i always thougth that it would be really cool to have my period. when do you think i am going to have mine? ps my mom got hers when she was 16!!! i dont want to wait that long!!! sorry it was so long.. please help me!

 

Hey missy, your period is coming. All those signs you're getting are warnings for your bod to get ready for it, so you'll get it when the time is right. Smile

Lynae P.

gigglylexi on 11/6/2009 9:06:29 PM

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Ok thanks anyways!

thesandlotfan on 11/4/2009 11:19:54 PM

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I don't have as many pimples as I did before, but I still have some. I wash my face but it seems like it takes forever for the pimples to go away! Most of my friends have like clear skin and no pimples,and I want to have clear skin too.
Do you have any suggestions on what type of facial cleansers I can use? Or how can I wait patiently for them to go away?
Thanks!




Hey girl, I know it's hard, but you're just going to have to wait. Neutrogena has some products and other brands do as well targeting acne. You can experiment with them, but the fact is most people don't have clear skin at your age. There's no miracle treatment, sadly. You can just try to get close. 
Alyssa B.

thesandlotfan on 11/4/2009 11:09:15 PM

i got scars :8

sans11 on 11/4/2009 12:23:26 AM

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so im really self concious (as in ive had 4 E.D. within 2 years) and idk what to do anymore! i cry myself to sleep cuz how i feel about myself?what should i do? after i eat i feel all gulity and im trying not to be bullimic again or aneroxic,but its soo hard Frown 




Hey babe, it sounds like you're going through a tough time right now. Try writing down some of the things you've been feeling in a journal just to vent a little. Then, talk to a close friend or relative that's an adult or even your school counselor. Talking about it really will help ya to feel better and can help you on recovering.

 
katelin s.

addiwuvsyew on 11/3/2009 9:45:21 PM

I've tried to stop picking pimples but I can't!

HyperTea on 11/3/2009 8:53:44 PM

MOD MOD MOD hii!! i'm having some friend problems. okay, so my friend (let's call her potato) always acts strange at times. like one day, potato is super happy and friends with me and my other friend, and the next day, she completely ignores both of us, and ONLY us. All of a sudden, potato becomes bffs with our other friend..(lets call her chip) and when me and my other bff try to hang out with chip, she (potato) just gets chip's attention all over again. I've tried calling her over the phone after school asking her why shes all rude and stuff and all she says is that she's not "in the mood." and the next day, she's apparently our friend again like nothing happened. but it's constant and getting REALLY annoying!! what do i do?? thanks and sorry its so long and confusing!!

 

Hey girl! She could just be going through a lot of personal stuff. Try ignoring it and just riding it out with her. If it doesn't stop in the next few months, try talking to her again!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

goldenhamsta on 11/3/2009 8:47:05 PM

Hey girl! That's just stuff that shouldn't be going into your body. Try talking to a doc if you want some more details and try to not do it!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

degrassifanclub101 on 11/3/2009 7:05:41 PM

Hey girl! Yeah, you really shouldn't be doing that. It could cause some major health problems.

-Taeler

Taeler L.

degrassifanclub101 on 11/3/2009 6:43:58 PM

MOD MOD!!! Yesterday, I went to find my mom and I found her outside, smoking, and then she tried to hide it from me. I've seen lighters and cigarettes all over for a year or so and had a pretty good idea that she smoked, but it still really upset me when I saw. What really hurt was that she tried to hide it from me. I've been avoiding my mom since yesterday and I'm not that comfortable talking to her about it. I thought about going to my school guidance councilor, but the idea made me uncomfortable. What should I do?

 

Hey girl! You can def talk to someone about it. Don't feel uncomfortable about it, it will feel really good to let it out and discuss it. Try mentioning to you mom how much you don't like it and see how she responds!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

cullenvampire01 on 11/3/2009 5:07:26 PM

MOD i need help makin friends...idk what 2 talk about because i dcont reall y know very many people! and every time i try 2 make friends i come off as annoying...do u have any advice on how to act or what 2 talk about?t Thanks!

 

Hey girl! Just try getting to know one or two people. Ask them questions about themselves and listen to them. Try talking to a few every day and see what happens !

-Taeler

Taeler L.

butterfly12345678910_ on 11/3/2009 4:41:23 PM

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Hey me n my friend didnt gett invited to our good frieds birthday party. We were great friends over the summer and we brought each other to the beach multiple times. We also had sleepovers over the summer. Now she totaly ditched us for 2 girls in my class. She had a party n we should have been top on the list. She was only aloud to invite 5 people, but ya no hard decition. Then i confront her on Halloween. There was a big fight. I forgave her but we still are a little angry. She is also mean to us in school. Should we ditch or give it another try.
-Catherine

 

Hey girl! You should sit down and tell her how you feel about her being mean to her and ask her why she does this. You can tell her that you want her to treat you like a friend and still want to be friends. I would do that and then see what happens.

Eryn G.

citten on 11/3/2009 1:33:24 PM

MOD MOD MOD! okay i have major troubs! I REALLY like a guy who is 'popular' and is always talkin in the hallz and i know he used to like me cuz of bod lang but its after fall break and he hasnt to much as looked at me :/ i have likeed him b4 he liked me and i didnt know how to flirt without looking like a idiot! to clear that up i want to know askin out tips and flirting tips plus does he still like me??

 

Hey girl! Hard to say! You should try smiling at him or try talking to him some more! Then, you can get a ides of how he may be feelin!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

beaches4ev on 11/3/2009 1:10:58 AM

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When I sleep I get really bad bags under my eyes when i wake up. I've tried sleep masks, sleeping upward, getting extra sleep, and even sleeping sitting up. Nothing seems to work. I sleep for about 8 hours each night. Am I getting enough sleep or, is it more serious like stress?




Hey babe,




Some people need more than 8 hours of sleep. You might just be over stressed though. Try and relax and do things like go for a walk, listen to music, read a book, hang out with friends. You could also use a cold compress over your eyes or use cucumber slices for 15 minutes in the mornings to help with the bags under your eyes.




xoxo Keltie 
Keltie E.

mai12345678 on 11/2/2009 11:44:53 PM

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My hair is SOOOO boring!!! Its shoulder lenght,Dirty Blonde and is just plain boring it never fluffs up or anything!! Any ideas to make it look somewhat stylish!!??
All the best and thanks
Kayla




Hey girl. Try putting curlers in your hair or using a curling iron to give it some volume. Also, dry your hair upside down in order to create a fuller look. And blonde hair is definitely not boring!! Smile (I've got blonde hair) Get bangs or something cute like that to amp up your style!

xoxo

Liz 
Liz L.

Paramore_247 on 11/2/2009 3:57:22 PM

OHMYWORD!
Telling us not to pick zits is like telling us to use proper grammer while textingg, NOT GOING TO HAPPEN! Seriously, if you wash your hands before you pick the zits, use peroxide and then wash your face what's the big deal? I know this guy who doesn't pop zits and I can't even talk to him, it's disgusting! I want to barf everytime I see him.

And to EVERBODY who keeps whining about acne, Wash your face, see a dermotigist, get over it. There is only one reason why your face is the way it is; you. You can't sit there and blame genetics for the un-cleanliness of your face.

I don't mean to sound like a big rude jerk, but I just find it annoying that pEople will blame everybody else for their problems except themselves! Don't blame a facewash for your bumpy face!!!

Shopbballbri on 11/1/2009 11:23:02 PM

MOD!!! thanks, also, there is this guy, but he is 2 yrs younger than me. the other day he poked me 2 get my attention then told me something TOTALLY pointless. and he talks to me a lot, but only when most of his friends arent around.. im sooo confused......

 

Hey girl! Hmmm..he may just like talking to you. Take it day by day and see if anything happens again!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

nickjonasfuturegirl3000 on 11/1/2009 9:31:12 PM

MOD: i like this guy and i flirt like crazy with him. but, potentially, if we were a couple i wouldnt know what to say, like actually talk to him without it being super akward?

 

Hey girl! Well, just take it day by day and see if you actually start going out. You can worry about that once it comes. Just be yourself and be confident!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

bobbert1230 on 11/1/2009 9:02:24 PM

MOD!!! because of halloween i have candy, and i have never eaten so much in my life. i think the only reason im eating so much is cuz im stressed about school. is there anyway i can easily burn of the calories and stop being so stressed about school? thanks soooooo much

 

Hey girl! Take a walk. It will clear your head and burn off some of your candy calories!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

nickjonasfuturegirl3000 on 11/1/2009 9:02:20 PM

Hey girl. Since you have had the baby for this long already, I think you should have a clearer idea of what you want to do with him or her. Also, you are 13, which means you are really young to be thinking about anything regarding marriage. Talk to your mom or a conselor about the big choices you have to make very soon!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

UhOh_ThenBam! on 11/1/2009 9:00:13 PM

hey mod! i'm like having a teensy prob here (or maybe not so teensy). lately, i've been feeling WAY over-whelmed. i'm in my 1st year of high school (yay me!) lol & i've had an "un-balanced sched". it means that i have more academic subs than other ones. i hardly ever see my bf (last time i saw him was like IN THE SUMMER!) we go 2 a diff school. & like i've been SOO depressed & even if my bf tells me i'm really pretty, i don't b-leev him. it's liek so over-whelming & now i hardly ever sleep or eat. i'm usually either tired ro sick & it's really bugging me. i wanted to speak to my guidance cousnelor, or maybe get so help with my homework, but i'd feel humiliated after i come out. any advice? should i talk to my guidance counselor? thnx so much mod ^_^!!!

 

Hey girl!  You should definitely talk to your counselor if you're feeling that stressed out.  You might also want to look into getting a tutor.  And don't feel embarassed!  Everyone needs help with something.  It's part of being human.  And it's better to get help and do well than to do nothing and get a bad grade. Definitely talk to your teachers to see if there is anything you should do differently and talk to your counselor about tips for how to manage your time better.  Good luck! xoxo Kristen

Kristen Y.

tammyakamiko on 11/1/2009 8:00:17 PM

MOD MOD MOD. any ideas for how to style shortish hair?? like shoulder length?? thanks!! Laughing

 

Hey girl!  Try scrunching your hair for a fun and flirty look.  Add a headband or barette for a sweet touch.  For something a little edgier, try using bobbypins to pin back the sides for a sleeker night look.  best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

goldenhamsta on 11/1/2009 7:50:41 PM

Hey!help a sista out.my pimples are embarrising.it hurts to try and pop.well,ima try that thing it says for advice.if it dosnt work.what should i do next.i use clean and clear,but gosh i still grow pimples o my forhead.cant tou imagine how that feels.

Autumngurl39 on 11/1/2009 4:14:09 PM

Hey girlies!

This is your one and only Club Girl's Only! If you love Fashion, Beauty, Makeup, School, Dance, or even shopping, THIS IS THE PLACE FOR YOU! Plus we have tons of jobs open: MODs, Head of (Beauty, BFF, school, Guys), Vice Prez, and way more! I'm Gemma, the prez of this club. If you want to join, let me know and I will send you the new member app!

~Gemma

Club Girl's Only on 11/1/2009 2:30:56 PM

MOD MODMODMODMODMODMOD help! i feel really crummy about myself right now cuz i just ate a LOT of halloween candy and my face feels all greasy and i feel bad about not having worked out in a while..... is it ok that i jusst ate a TON of candy? no, i no its not, but wat can i do now?helpme!

 

Hey chicky, cut yourself some slack. It's Halloween, the only time you can stuff your face with candy. But it is good to have a scheldue for working out, so set aside a couple days a week to exercise. Smile

lynae p.

disneychik on 11/1/2009 2:17:49 PM

What do I do???? There is this boy that I like but I don't know if he likes me back. I flirt with him but I can't tell if he is flirting with me. Also My parents won't let me date so if he does like me what should I do? PLEASE HELP!!!!

 

Hey chica, for right now keep him as a friend. This way you'll be following your 'rents rules and getting to know the guy a little better. Pay more attention to his bod language to figure out if he's flirting or not. Watch his eye contact, gestures and what he says and you'll be able to tell. Smile

lynae p.

Carina1996 on 11/1/2009 1:56:42 PM

MODMODMOD!! Ok, I have a major problem- Iv'e liked this guy in WPB for almost 2 yrs. He lives by my cousin. I see him every time I go there. It's been 2 yrs and I only know his name, and not even his last name... I have been dreaming bout him every night. Getting his #, finding out his last name ( Iv'e had that one 3 times..) I dont know what to do- I don't wnt to flirt with him ( if i ever get the chance ) just to find out he has a gf.... I cry @ nite cuz I feel that we should be together. I dont feel comfortable talking bout it.... I haven't spoken of it in 2 yrs.....please help.. am I in love?How should I talk, flirt w/ him next time i c him?? Thanks,

 

Hey chica, if your cousin knows him, ask them to introduce you. If they don't, you have to make a move. So the next time you see him, make yourself talk to him. You could start a convo by complimenting him on something, asking him a question or just saying "Hi". Once you're talking to him and you run out of things to say or get nervous, think about things you would want a guy to ask or say to you. Just show him you're friendly and a cool person. And everytime you go back to WPB, make an effort to talk to him. When you're ready, ask him out! Hope this helps ya! Smile

lynae p.

LargoBabe on 11/1/2009 1:21:13 PM

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I have acne all over my face! (on my chin, on my nose, on my cheek, etc.) What products should I use to get rid of it?

 

Wash your face, eat fewer oily and sugary foods,  and use a light facial cleanser. Best,

Miliana B.

emsha81 on 11/1/2009 10:18:01 AM

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Someday, I want to get my nosed pierced. How bad will it hurt? (rate from 1 to 10)

 

Not sure, but I bet a lot. Do some research, girlie. This is a big step. Make sure you have your mom's approval too. Best, 

Miliana B.

coolbeachgirl on 11/1/2009 10:14:13 AM

Hola peoplez!!! Smile

coolbeachgirl on 11/1/2009 9:59:41 AM

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I have a HUGE blackhead near my nose and i tried using facial scurbs or acne treatment to get rid of it. It does'nt work! Frown What do i do?

 

It should pass soon. But there are special blackhead treatments, usually ones that stick to your nose and then pull out the blackheads. Try that. Best,

Miliana B.

coolbeachgirl on 11/1/2009 9:54:55 AM

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Okay I like this guy, named Conner. He is in almost all my classes and he sits right behind me in most of them. We are always goofing around together and just having fun. I think of him as a good friend… One time I went to one of his soccer games and after we were goofing around and he was chasing me around trying to shoot me with his water bottle (It was raining anyway so it didn’t matter if I got any wetter.) My dad says this is a sign that he likes me, but I’m not sure. One day on the stairs he told me he found out that I like him.
Should I ask him out? What is he says no things will get really weird for the rest of the year, but I really have a crush on him. Do you think he likes me? Should I ask him out?

 

I think he has a crush on you, but you shouldn't ask him out. Call me old fashioned, but if he feels the same way, then he should do the asking. Plus, that way, he won't reject your asking. But I do think he likes you and I wouldnt be surprised if he asked soon. Best,

Miliana B.

lilxhammer13 on 11/1/2009 9:16:26 AM

i just pop it wen its ready

waspl on 11/1/2009 3:03:49 AM

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So today, I was at my friend Kayla's house for a halloween party. Her next door neighbor is a realyy, really mean and "popular" girl Brianna. She dressed up as a playboy bunny...weird...anyway, one of my BFF's went to Brianna's party instead of Kayla's. She prank called me and i thought it was her, but it was actually Brianna insulting me! i dont know what to do! do i face her at school? or face my BFF?
and i'm jealous because my crush went to brianna's party...:/ blahh. made me kind of sad...i don't know how to deal with that either!
Please help? thankss Smile
and how do i deal with jealousy? because my crush went to Brian

 

Hey girl! You should talk to her and tell her how you feel.

Eryn G.

keroppi on 11/1/2009 12:21:02 AM

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Okay so i like this guy and hes popular. He is in 2 of my classes and i have seen him look at me a few times and when i look he smiles and i have seen his check me out before! Does this mean he likes me? and how can i signal to him i like him too?? Also i am quite shy at school but once i get used to hte person im no where near shy

 

Hey girl! You can smile back at him, he is pbly interested in you.

Eryn G.

lulu7 on 10/31/2009 11:48:40 PM

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I have used EVERYTHING when it comes to acne... i am currently using Skin id it hasnt really been working lately. I dance everyday of the week. What can i do that will clear my skin??

 

Hey girl! You should ask your mom to take you to the dermotoligst, they can help you.

Eryn G.

dancediva1220 on 10/31/2009 11:10:38 PM

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i have acne on my chest (i know that is sort of gross) and i cant wear any type of low top because of it. What can i do to get rid of it?




Hey girly! You can find body washes at the pharmacy store that are good for clearing skin. Clean and Clear body wash will work. As long as it has an ingredient in it that clears acne it should help. If that doesnt work go to a dermatologist to ask. Good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

irishkaren on 10/31/2009 9:02:24 PM

those are tips i have never heard of before...cool

irishkaren on 10/31/2009 4:35:06 PM

I just gave myself pink streaks for Halloween (wash out dye of coarse) OMG can't wait to go trick or treating with my friends! Smile

AMP on 10/31/2009 4:34:15 PM

I think everybody who has acne picks at them. I'm on meds from a dermatologist now and my acne is getting better.

AMP on 10/31/2009 4:29:13 PM

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I just got my cartilge pierced like 2 hours ago...and the lady who was doing it said that it could get infected if i sleep on it...but i sleep on both sides! (i got it done on the right ear) was she just saying that to scare me or can you really get it infected that way? she also said that bumping it could lead to an infection like she said her daughter was hugging a friend and it got infected....can this stuff really happen!?!?

 

 

Hey girl! I am not sure, just be careful with everything.

Eryn G.

vana903 on 10/31/2009 3:26:27 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD? what are some good up coming movies i could see with my bf? thanks!

 

Hey chicky, you guys could check out This is It, Paranormal Activity, Where the Wild Things Are or Saw VI.

Lynae p.

spazzychick101! on 10/30/2009 11:34:50 PM

i think it might leave scars on some girls

sweetchic1116 on 10/30/2009 9:22:26 PM

MOD I have a mole under my chin Frown What about that?

 

Hey girl, what's wrong with having a mole underneath your chin? It's a beauty mark!

Lynae p.

littlemissbunneh on 10/30/2009 8:58:23 PM



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