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This boy and I are going to a dance together, but I'm not sure if we are going as friends or as more than that. He asked me to go homecoming with him because he heard that I liked him. When I asked him if he was going with me because of that, he said of course not. At sports games, we act like a couple and flirt the whole time. At school, we walk with each other, and at parties, we pretty much hang out the whole time together.

The only issue is that I don't know if we really are a couple. Sometimes he will flirt with me nonstop but the next day he'll avoid me. I almost feel like I like him a lot more than he likes me. He has even talked to my girlfriends about asking meout and his friends always tease me about him. How do I tell if he likes me more than just a friend? I'm so confused.

Hey girl,

I totally know how you feel. It's SO frustrating when boys circle around their feelings and never make it clear. But you know what? It just

might be that your almost-BF is confused just like you! He could be wondering right now, "does she like me or not?" So in order to solve this messy puzzle, here are some tips that will get you and your boy together for good!

Make sure this is ONLY about you and him

When you want a guy to know how you feel and you want to know what he feels you can't have the whole "she said, he said" deal. In other words, he shouldn't hear things through your friends and you shouldn't tune in so much to what his friends have to say about you and your guy. It should be simple: you talk to him; he talks to you. When word travels through a grapevine, it gets a little too crazy and sometimes too much for a person to handle.

Make the first move

If this guy asked you to homecoming, it¹s a pretty good sign that he's interested in you. So the first move was taken care of by the guy. But let's face it: homecoming is a HUGE event and it gets hectic. If you really want to get closer to him or at least know what's going on in his mind, make the next move and ask him out. Watch a movie, grab something to eat, and just make sure the entire school isn't around. It'll give you more one-on-one time to REALLY talk.

Don't panic over his little actions.

It's great to flirt and hang with the guy you like. But just because he doesn't act into you every day or all the time, does NOT mean that he¹s trying to avoid you. Like any person, your guy probably needs some space and time. Who doesn't? If you keep it cool and let the flirting happen naturally, he'll like how chill you are. I know these tips aren't drastically big steps, but that's all you'll need in this crush-mess. He'll have the chance to really get to know you and appreciate you more than he ever did. And that will undoubtedly let your

guy realize what he's gotta do. ;]

Best wishes,

Jeannie

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im on vacation right. so, there's i guy i keep seeing at the pool, and he's really cute, and i want to talk to him, but i dont know him at all, so i dont wanna just go up and say hi... wat shud i do? o, and i dont wanna be like super flirty, cuz my fam will be ther.

Hey! You can flirt by just being friendly! Smile and wave! A convo can start from there!

Megan R.

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choc_o_holic on 12/28/2009 6:16:22 PM

mod i like this guy and he kinda likes me back and i was the first to make a move...i told him that i like him and then he admitted that he likes me back!! my friends all tell me that wed be really cute together and all and one of my friends wants to tell him to ask me out and i dont really care if she does. him and i hang out often...like with other friends...but how can i ask him to do something just him and me?? thank you!!

Hey girl! Ask him to go see a movie or invite him over to watch one with you. You can make it not awkard by keeping it casual. Make sure to ask him yourself though, it might get weird if you get to many friends involved in the asking process!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

Live Laugh Love<3 on 11/26/2009 10:32:29 AM

my best frind is dating my ex wat do i do

feona98 on 11/25/2009 11:14:49 PM

ok so i like my ex and he likes ALL of my bff's and he is always flirtig with them but the weird thing is that he is always flirtting with them when i am right there for example: one day my best frind kacey his new gf wanted a hug and i was standing next to her so he agreed then i walked away and he told her never mind but when i walked by him he grabbed her and hugged her right in front of me. so yeah i do NOT know what to do and i am being so confused and the thing that really annoys me is he tries to act all cool around me and matthew is really good at it because i am starting to like him again but when he herd i was over him he started flirting with me. HELP

feona98 on 11/25/2009 11:12:28 PM

well i have a guy freind who is also my ex but i still like him everybody says he still does but whenever i confront him he gets shy and walkes away and i am always confused my friend lily and her cousin another 1 of my best frinds helped me to get over him but it still hurts so to everyone out there who has had a broken heart i know how it feals.

feona98 on 11/25/2009 11:04:11 PM

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There is this movie based on a book me and my crush are obsessed with. It's coming out next year but I'm scared because what if I see him there? We'd both like camp out at the movie theater if we could... we both love the books so much. (#1 Fans!) If the movie starts at 1am, I don't care. I'M GOING! But what if I see him there?

Hey girl, it's some time away so don't sweat it. But before that movie comes out, why don't you talk to him? You've got that book in common: no reason why you can't be friends.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

littlemissbunneh on 11/25/2009 9:48:03 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!! me and this guy in my class txt eachother 24-7. but we don't talk in skool a lot but we have been talking more. most of time we will ask eachother random questions when we txt. one of my questions was, "if you had to go out with any girl in our call who would it be" he answered, "u or shelby" who is another girl in my class. (I go to a small school, so everyone knows eachother) he asked me the same question and i said either him or this other guy in my class. do you think this means that he likes me? and also, i have modded a few times and havn't gotten a responce. which is totally fine but i just wanted to no if there was something wrong with my questions or something. thank u so much! ~Maddy

Hey girly, sounds like he may like you, since he said he wouldn't mind dating you. I'm sorry your previous question wasn't posted, sometimes our site acts up. But thanx for being so patient with us.

Lynae P.

grlydancer969 on 11/22/2009 3:16:11 PM

Girl i know what your talking about. best thing to do is block him so he cant get to you.

amber21 on 11/20/2009 4:30:58 PM

Hey wats up... i am so bored

zana bear on 11/20/2009 3:00:49 PM

MODDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Is there an east way for telling a boy you Arent interested in a relationship without hurting his feelings? I just want him to know that I am too young to be dating but I don't want to hurt him or make him regret telling me. Please help!!

Hey girl, unfortunately there's no way to say it without hurting him. Be gentle when you do. Tell him you're super flattered and like him a lot, but you're just not ready for a boyfriend right now. He'll understand.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

Emilyhn on 11/19/2009 8:43:50 PM

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Hiya Mod well my bf broke up with me in August and i really miss hima and want him back I know your job is to help us get over them and to move on but i need help on how to win him back his feelings for me are starting to go cold and our breakup was based on a whole misunderstanding and fight please please please help me get him back

Hey girl, think hard about why it didn't work. Some things aren't meant to, but it looks like this might be one of them. Let him go for now. I know it may be hard, but there are TONS of other guys out there without that history. Get to know some new ones and if they still aren't as great, see what your old BF is up to. If two people are really meant to be with each other, they will, but if you love or care about someone, you'll let them go.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

Miuluver789 on 11/12/2009 8:43:24 PM

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I am really close with my guy friend and he says we are friends with "benefits" (hugs and kisses and hand holding sort of thing.) He hugs me all the time and puts his arm around me. We danced together at the school dance too. We are really close and have a ton in commen for example we both are in select choir at school but i never get to talk to him because hes a tenor and im a soprano and we also do band but he plays the saxophone and I play the vibes and the piano. we walk home together with my other friend almost everyday when we dont have choir or band after school and we flirt with each other the whole time. We "fake" dated one time to fool my other friend and to prove this girl who asked him out wrong. Since he broke up with his gf two weeks ago, he has got asked out 7 times by different girls and has rejected them all. I dont know if he waiting for someone because he wont tell me who he likes even though i kinda think he likes me. At the dance last week, he hung with me the entire time and we danced a little bit instead o dancing with his date (i didnt get a date). I think we are juts friends because thats what he says but he always come out of his way to hang wiht me and shows a lot of affection towards me unlike he does to his other friends that are girls. Should I try to talk to him about what he thinks or should I wait for him to come to me?

Hey girl! This guy sounds super confusing! One thing is for sure though, he definitely thinks you're a cool girl, who is worth spending time with. Maybe he doesn't want to ruin your friendship by dating you. It's not fair for him to lead you on though. If he's going to be dating other girls,then you should be out meeting other guys too. Let him know you're confused and you care about your friendship, but you don't want either one of you to get hurt by jealous feelings or misunderstandings.

Megan R.

lnm1996 on 11/7/2009 10:15:59 AM

MOD! What are signs a guy is playing games with you and signs that hes just being nice and charismatic basically being himself? And if hes playing games with you how do you handle him (especailly if you really like him).

Hey missy, one way to tell if a guy is playing games with you is if he makes up a lot of excuses. If his answers to your questions seem a little weird or if he's starts lying, he may be up to something. The way to handle that is to talk about it with him. Find out why he feels he has to lie to you. If talking with him doesn't work, it may be time to break things off. If a guy is calm and nice you know he's being himself. If he doesn't switch up or change around certain people, he's a sincere guy you can defintely trust.

Lynae P.

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club colors on 11/6/2009 10:46:28 AM

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Last week (exactly) i broke up with my bf of two weeks because he was SOOOO awkward and would barely hug me or put his arm around me and it was just in general awkward.... but i still have some left over feelings and i am worrying that i didn't give the relationship enough time... I dont know what to do! Know he is all sad and angry toward us and his other friends.... I feel guilty and im not sure if breaking up was the right thing to do!!! PLEASE HELP!!!

Hey babe, I would talk to him about what's going on. Maybe he's just shy and will take extra time to warm up and get comfortable with you. If that's the case then sure, maybe he's worth a second chance. Talk it out and you'll be ok!

katelin s.

sarah_96 on 11/5/2009 9:36:32 PM

Don't worry about it! Just go with the flow! And if all else fails just ask! What's the worst he could do? Say no? and if he does just act relieved like you didn't want to be going out!

xolotsoflaffsxo on 11/5/2009 6:48:46 PM

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My ex-BF told one of his friends that I was stalking him even though i'm not. His friend told me and my BFF asked my ex-BF why he was telling people this if it wasn't true and he completley denied ever telling anyone! Should I talk to him about why he said that or just ignore it? What do you think it means if he spreading these rumors about me(this isn't the fist rumor he started)??

Hey girl, I'd say just ignore it for now but if he's been doing it a lot, yes, you should confront him. I can't say why he's doing it, but he def can. Talk to him with a friend about it and ask him what's up.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

swimmer1014 on 11/5/2009 6:18:56 PM

The good thing is i am homeschooled so i dont have to get embrassed by that way.(it gets lonely sometimes...).The bad thing is i dont see him a lot. So i am trying to get his number. I know him because we go to church together and we are in a band together. So we talk a lot. I only see him mondays(practice), thursdays(night), and sunday(band & leaders). He goes to westminister. But me and him know someone that goes there soo..
I have to go to church @6:oo tonight so before 6:00 i will be on here.
i dont know if i should put my email for everyone to see so idk yet how to give it to you...

soccernerd on 11/5/2009 11:12:04 AM

soccernerd,
thanks for the advice. i can't be here at 4/4:30 because of after school activities. if you want, we can email. if not, thats cool too. i'll check in later. anyway, we don't wear uniforms in my school so wearing something different wouldn't have that much of an effect since you can wear anything you want (of course, appropriately). i think he might know i like him because of some other incidents, but i'll get into that tomorrow. i'm a freshman too, and he's a sophmore. so the age thing between your guy and mine are pretty close. oh, and a few freshmen and seniors i've heard went out before so i think a junior and a freshman is alright as long as you're sure he has some feelings for you in return. because its such a long shot and with him being older and all, you don't really wanna risk humiliation. but once you're sure of that, it's totally cool.
as for your sitch, you could still ask him. you could say that you always forget the homework by the time you get home or forget to write it down or whatever. if you have a friend that's a junior, you can ask them if they have his number. not really sure what the best way is because i'm not really sure of what's happening here. but good luck!

TwilightLuva8 on 11/4/2009 9:38:36 PM

i have to go so if you have any questions are anything send them tonight i will loook at them 2orro and meet me here at this one @ 4:00 to 4:30. I will have good advice by then.
Bye

soccernerd on 11/4/2009 8:57:50 PM

Thanks. My computer turns off at 8:00 (parents). So we can talk more message here at this one 2orro at 4:00 cuz i get to see him (blake)tomorrow. So yeah. But i am grounded from the phone so i have to get his number any ideas??
Dont worry your boy is not two years older than you like mine. I am a freshman and he is a junior. But he is hot and we have so much in common so i am all good....

soccernerd on 11/4/2009 8:41:12 PM

twilightluva8,

I am definitly with you on the whole moderators thing
Well it looks like he doesnt see like that. He doesnt know you like him. He is probably thinking of you more as a friends.
Are you a shy girl?
Because what i think you need to do is get his attention-not in a bad way. Just show him signs you like him and that you are available
Here is some tips:
1. One thing you can do is you can dress cute but not too showy. I know we have to wear dumb uniforms. But you can add to the uniforms. You can add some cute bracelets, do your make up and make your eyes look dramatic. Try exact lash and get the stuff for your color eyes. They show you eactly how to apply it on the back. It is a REALLY BIG help.(dont look like a clown). You can use clear minty gloss (victoria secret) so when you talk he will get a sexy vibe from you. You can get a cute bright electric blu jacket (forever21). You can wear cute headbands with bold colors. Just plain colors. Some hair styles you could use is do your hair curly in a side ponytail and your bangs curled and out. A kinda messy, sexy look.
2. You could also act casual around him and when you say goodbye give him a nice warm hug and walk away(casual). Some perfume that would make him melt would be victorias secrets dream angel heavenly. Guys at my school love the way i smell with that. they would even steal it sometimes to smell it or they would ask for another hug)haha
3. You could give him complements.
4. Ask him for help in the class yall have.
5. look at him in class and give him a sweet smile.
6. dont giggle, pass notes, or gossip to get a guys attention. They think its stupid.
Any more questions???
I was happy to help. Good luck. Go get him. He is lucky you picked remember that!
Remember if he treats you wrong forget him. I know its hard but it will save you a lot of heartache.

soccernerd on 11/4/2009 8:37:13 PM

soccernerd,
Oh, and to your comment about the phone number...
You should just ask him for his number. Guys don't really like guessing games so being straightforward without being in their face is preferred. What I did, since I'm not that outgoing kind of gal, is I handed him my cell in the hallway with a new contact already open. It was obvious that I wanted his number and it required no words on my part.
Of course, if he ever asked why, I'd just say it was for homework or whatever. But he didn't ask so ;]

TwilightLuva8 on 11/4/2009 8:21:08 PM

soccernerd,
heyy, thanks for the reply. its nice to know someone's reading this besides moderators! anyway, i'm not really sure of his study habits. sometimes i wonder when he actually does his homework because when we text he's always playing xbox or getting back from baseball. at first i thought that it was just about the work, but since it's honors biology, i'm thinking he actually has to work to keep up with the pacing and all even if its the minimum. I'm not sure how he doesn't have the notes since they're due certain days and my teacher explains them and goes into further detail that day. Also, he's never asked me for the notes or anything before and as you know, it's already november. Not sure what's up there.
As for what he's like, I can't say much about personality and all since it's kind of how you see someone that you can gauge what they're like. What I can say is he has a younger brother in my grade that he's pretty close with since they're always together in the hallways and sit with each other during lunch along with his friends and his brother's friends. I know his brother and he knows me, but we don't really talk too much unless we have a class together (which we don't this year). His brother used to say hi to me in the hallway when he did, but I think I'm definitely closer with him than his brother since we text and all, and his brother and I don't even have each other's numbers. Anyway, he seems like a decent guy that he wouldn't do anything intentionally mean to anyone or anything like that, and he's also pretty funny but not at other people's expenses.
With that info, any advice you can give with that?

TwilightLuva8 on 11/4/2009 8:12:52 PM

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Okay, sorry, reposting this because I forgot to put MOD! haha... moving on...
I have a crush on the guy who's a year older than me. We're both in high school, and he's in my biology class. We've been flirting on and off for the past couple of months, mostly on. He used to say hi to me in the hallway a lot, but not so much anymore. But he didn't talk to me in class when we were in different lab groups as much as he did in the beginning of the year in the same lab group. He talks to me more now that we switched back into the same group. He asked to copy my notes today and said he would give them back to me after lunch. I agreed, and when I saw him after lunch, he said he didn't finish and he would give them back to me after gym the next day (which we have together but not with the same teachers since he's a year older). I was a little confused if it meant anything, what do you think? Also, the on and off flirting is getting a bit tiring. It's fun sometimes, like we used to text a lot when I first got his number but its more balanced now. I just want to know if he likes me like that or if this is just a friend thing. I've been through the flirt mill again and again, so I officially cannot tell. Please please please help!

Hey babe,

It's hard to say. He might be keeping your notes because he really didn't have time to copy them or he might be keeping them for an excuse to see you more outside of class. I think you should probably assume that he just wants to be friends unless he gets more obvious and consistent with his flirting.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

TwilightLuva8 on 11/4/2009 8:02:22 PM

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I really like this guy. He's on my bus, but three grades older (two years). He's a real big sweetie, but I have two problems.
1) Everyone on the bus takes anything we say pervertedly and starts making fun of us.
2) I just found out he had sex, but really regretted it after. As in, depressed for a long time. I don't know if I should accept that... ignore it...?
Help!
Love, S. <333

Hey babe,

If this guy is two years older than you, I think that's too old, especially if you know he's had sex before. You might really like him, but two years can be a really big difference at your age and it's probably a bad idea.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

AsIAm. on 11/4/2009 7:49:41 PM

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I have had a crush on this guy in my class for 2 months. Two of his friends found out and said that he didn't like me, so I assumed it was true. However, he is still flirting with me! All my friends say that they think he likes me. Why would he flirt if he's not interested?! It's only hurting me!

Hey babe,

some guys just really like to flirt, unfortunately, even if it hurts girls' feelings. Try to stay away from this guy for a bit. If he really likes you he'll talk to you and try to figure out why you're avoiding him, but if he's just flirting with you for fun he'll probably move on. Then you can figure out for sure how he feels.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

whowillibe on 11/4/2009 7:34:56 PM

TwilightLuva8,
Your guy sounds like the guy i use to date. He acted exactly like you just explained and i was all confused and sometimes he would use me to do stuff like because he knew i liked him he would ask me to get stuff and i would do it(i didnt see what was going wrong).Dont every let him have advantage of you. All you will get is a broken heart and youll be sorry. But sorry girl he might be looking somewhere else or he is busy. Does he do any sports, jobs,or does he study actually for test????? He might even be avoiding you because he is scared to like you because he is older. Some guys are like that. They just want to be like their friends and if something is not cool they wont do it. Im not saying your guy is like that at all-dont get me wrong. What is he like?

soccernerd on 11/4/2009 7:23:25 PM

I know i sent this earlier but no one said anything.
Do you think i could get a guys number by talking to him then say
"Maybe we could talk some time"
if he asks "whats your number?"
I could act like i am looking for it in my pockets
then i could ask sweetly
"i lost my phone number, can i have yours?"
My friend told me to do this. Is it cute or dumb???

soccernerd on 11/4/2009 7:06:43 PM

I have a crush on the guy who's a year older than me. We're both in high school, and he's in my biology class. We've been flirting on and off for the past couple of months, mostly on. He used to say hi to me in the hallway a lot, but not so much anymore. But he didn't talk to me in class when we were in different lab groups as much as he did in the beginning of the year in the same lab group. He talks to me more now that we switched back into the same group. He asked to copy my notes today and said he would give them back to me after lunch. I agreed, and when I saw him after lunch, he said he didn't finish and he would give them back to me after gym the next day (which we have together but not with the same teachers since he's a year older). I was a little confused if it meant anything, what do you think? Also, the on and off flirting is getting a bit tiring. It's fun sometimes, like we used to text a lot when I first got his number but its more balanced now. I just want to know if he likes me like that or if this is just a friend thing. I've been through the flirt mill again and again, so I officially cannot tell. Please please please help!

TwilightLuva8 on 11/4/2009 7:06:17 PM

~*~ MOD ~*~
Is it "slutty" to have a crush on multiple people but NOT mess around with them? I mean, eventually you will end up liking one person out of all of them, but for now it's hard to choose one.

Hey babe,

Nope, I don't think so! As long as you're not flirting with more than one guy and leading them on, then there's nothing wrong with it.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

forevermoi on 11/4/2009 6:09:41 PM

Do you think i could get a guys number by talking to him then say
"Maybe we could talk some time"
if he asks "whats your number?"
I could act like i am looking for it in my pockets
then i could ask sweetly
"i lost my phone number, can i have yours?"
My friend told me to do this. Is it cute or dumb???

soccernerd on 11/4/2009 4:36:56 PM

matthew123

I guess this dudes name is matthew right? I use to be just like you afraid to ask guys out because i thought the guys "had" to ask the girls out. But then i started to see it doesnt matter if you like him you like him theres no buts about it. You should give it a shot. You will seem like the confident girl and people will start to follow. People at my school started to do it to. Have you gotten any signs that he likes you - like he smiles at you , waves at you, and etc.?

soccernerd on 11/4/2009 3:39:02 PM

i like this boy named mathew and he is soooooooo cute i want to ask him out but i dont know if i shoukd and all my friends tell me to do

mathew123 on 11/4/2009 2:15:21 PM

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I have a really big crush on a guy. But, I doubt he sees anything in me because we barely talk and it's never about anything important. I can't make myself start a conversation with him because he KNOWS I LIKE HIM. Help please!

Hey babe, ya never know how he feels about you unless you start talking to him. Be cool and casual and ask him what tv shows, music and movies he likes. Be yourself and confident and get to know him better and then take it from there!

katelin s.

vickychen231 on 11/3/2009 11:18:29 PM

soccernerd,

Its up to you if you want to date a junior if you are a freshman. Many of the girls at my school do it and I would go for it if the guy was hot. My parents may not want me doing it but if I really liked the guy and he liked me I would try to get with him.

luckykel on 11/3/2009 10:56:18 PM

mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod hi most of the boys i like don't like me back. why and i'm not ugly

Hey girl! You just need to be super friendly and talk to them so that they get to know you better. You should be more active in the guys you like, so that they can see the real you, and then like you.

Eryn G.

fashionismything on 11/3/2009 3:10:21 PM

Is it okay if your a freshman & he is a junior to go out???

soccernerd on 11/3/2009 1:19:18 PM

Thanks taeler! Also what kind of new styles for winter do you know? i am one of those people that like to stand out.

soccernerd on 11/3/2009 12:07:45 PM

Well i took your advice on talking to the guy at my next band practice this was my comment "I really like this guy and he is the band im in and a soccer player like me. He smiles at me and he asked me some questions once but it was because my friend had a project. All my friends think he is hot and they say he is really nice. He is a christian. He doesnt go to my school, he goes to my church.He doesnt even know my name. And my friend (lets call her chelsey) says to him "get these girls away from me(she was kidding) go flirt with them(me and my friend)" he said"no i have a girl." chelsey says" you have a girlfriend" He says "no" But i dont know if he was kidding because he laughed.What should i say to him i want him to talk to me but he doesnt know my name. I have practice with him tomorrow. What should i do?????" I talked to him well actually HE asked ME My name and asked me how old i was (14) and then he said"why does everyone have to be young" Than we started talking and laughing about this girl we know.Then he told me drove here and than he did something funny he started to sing in the microphone it was funny. I laughed and said you think this funny with a smile on his face. I felt so idk in love at the moment. Than we talked and "chelsea" said to me "he wants to go out with you" He said"i am talking to a girl but she cant date till 16" and i was thinking i wonder how old she is?? And i think he likes me but im not sure. He kept on coming by me and doing things that made me laugh.I dont know if he likes me?????does he??I am going to see him thursday and i dont know what to do???help please sorry its so long>>

Hey girl! You should just keep talking to him and try flirting a little! Be yourself. He could like you but the only way to know for sure is to find out from him! Be confident and go for it !

-Taeler

Taeler L.

soccernerd on 11/3/2009 11:05:08 AM

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I have no idea what to do. There is this guy, let’s call him Nick, which I have liked since the sixth grade and we are both in ninth grade now. The problem is that we both go to rival schools. I know that that shouldn’t be a problem but Nick has started to act really weird around me. In middle school everyone thought that we were dating or that we would make a cute couple, except for him. In seventh grade we had six of seven classes together and I learned so much about him on the walk to each of our classes. He would also flirt with me and give me a hug every day after school. Then this summer we were both at a friend’s house and we were playing truth or dare. I was dared to kiss him by one of our friends and I did. Then he was dared to kiss me by the same friend and he did. It was both of our first kisses. Then all of a sudden he started to be a jerk to me and made me cry twice, in public. He blew me off the first time and then was just a complete jerk to me the second. Then I finally asked him what his problem was and he said that he started to act weird after we kissed because it was awkward and he told me to just forget about it. He then started to act like his old self. One day he randomly told me that he had a gf at his school. I asked him what her name was and her name is the same as mine. My other friend that goes to that school said that she has blond hair and high cheekbones just like me, plus she is a woodwind player who is in the pit (front ensemble) and so am I. Both of my friends who go to school with him think that he is dating her because she looks like me. What should I do? Should I tell him how I feel or leave things as it is? And sorry this is so long. Thanx.

Hey babe,

He might be dating the girl because she is a lot like you, but he might also just really like her. Tread carefully. He may have started to act awkward because you go to different schools now and don't see each other very often and he felt like he needed to push you away. You could tell him how you feel, but don't expect him to break up with his girlfriend and come running to you. Be careful of yourself and your heart.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

xoxo_kevinjonas_xoxo on 11/2/2009 10:58:21 PM

MOD!!!MOD!MOD!I have a HUGE CRUSH!!!I really like this guy and im 14 turning 15 soon and he is 16. But it seems like he likes me but i dont have the confidence in myself to talk to him. He smiles and stuff at me and says hey.I have never been nervous around guys but this time its different. I dont want to mess it up.All the older girls are so much prettier than me and i know how to act cool and stuff. I have lots of older friends. I dont know what to do???? But there is also this boy in 8th grade and i am in 9th and he is my friends brother. I like him a lot too and i know he likes me because he flirts with me and will do stuff for me like put up my jacket(it was sooo sweet) and get me a drink(he paided).But i dont know if i should go for the younger or older? I really like them both its really hard to choose. I dont know if i should go out with one and then if it doesnt work out look at the other one are just be friends with both and see which one i like the most????what should i do??????ASAP PLEASE????

Hey girl! Keep talking to both. Eventually you will figure out which one you like more and then take it from there. There's nothing wrong with talking to two guys that you are interested in. (I went out on 3 dates with 3 different guys in the past week, lol) Just don't settle and be with a guy because he likes you. Make sure you really like him back. Good luck!

xoxo

Liz

Liz L.

soccernerd on 11/2/2009 11:21:24 AM

I really like this guy and im 14 turning 15 soon and he is 16. But it seems like he likes me but i dont have the confidence in myself to talk to him. He smiles and stuff at me and says hey.I have never been nervous around guys but this time its different. I dont want to mess it up.All the older girls are so much prettier than me and i know how to act cool and stuff. I have lots of older friends. I dont know what to do???? But there is also this boy in 8th grade and i am in 9th and he is my friends brother. I like him a lot too and i know he likes me because he flirts with me and will do stuff for me like put up my jacket(it was sooo sweet) and get me a drink(he paided).But i dont know if i should go for the younger or older? I really like them both its really hard to choose. I dont know if i should go out with one and then if it doesnt work out look at the other one are just be friends with both and see which one i like the most????what should i do??????ASAP PLEASE????

soccernerd on 11/2/2009 10:03:10 AM

MODMODMOD I have this HUGE crush. I really reallyreally wanna find out if he likes me, but he gives NO CLUES WHATSOEVER. He's the way he alwawys is around me, and it is driving me INSANE. HELP PLEASE!!

Hey girl! The only way to know for sure is to find out from him! Just keep talking to him and try flirting a little!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

vickychen231 on 11/1/2009 10:59:41 PM

MOD~MOD~MOD I was texting my crush today and yesterday(I got his number yesterday) and we were texting for so long.It's so weird. He wants to go to the same high school that my parents want me to go to. I want to know if he likes someone but I don't know how to ask. Plus he's a year older than me, how can I ask without sounding weird? I also like someone else in my grade so if he asks who I like should I say him or the other guy?

Hey girl! You should figure out who you like more first so you don't lead anyone on! Just ask casually if he likes anyone or is interested in any girls! You don't have to make it awkward! Be confident, chick!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

maddie246 on 11/1/2009 10:14:58 PM

Alright, well I dated this boy he's really nice. I met his parents, they seemed to like me.. they took me to six flags and then a few months later I didn't think it was working out for me and him so I broke up with him, we lasted about six months. Because, you see I'm a freshman and he's an eigth grader and we really didn't see eachother that much and/or talk. So I waited two months and I met this other guy. He's really nice, tall, freshman, and then I go to a party where him and his family invited me to, and I see who his mom is, and it turns out that his mom hates my brother, and it looks like she hates me, I love my brother we do practically everything together. so I decided to break up, we lasted one week two days but before that I had already got to know him a lot. I broke up with him because I thought I couldn't have someone who's mom hated my brother and it kinda looked like she hated me and because I sorta thought he was a bit clingy. Heres my problem, I really like both of those guys, and Im having a quinceañera (sweet 15) and I want them to be in my court of honor. I don't know who I want for my main chambelan. I don't want to upset them if I didn't choose either one or the other. So I need help?

misfits02 on 11/1/2009 8:20:25 PM

misfits02 on 11/1/2009 8:16:44 PM

MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD!MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD!MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! My schools having a dance in a week and this guy is going to ask my friend to it. I know because we talked and he told me. I kind of feel jealous but very happy for my bff. Now my friend wants me to get a date but I dont know who to ask. I kinda like this guy but i dont think hes going to ask me, how do i get him to notice me?

hey girl! If you ever lock eyes, shoot him a sweet smile or a friendly wave. Strike up a convo when you're near him by asking how his weekend was, if he's looking forward to the dance, etc. If you don't think he's going to ask you, go ahead and ask him yourself! It's kinda scary, but what's the worst that could happen? best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

hgirl411 on 11/1/2009 7:43:56 PM

MOD MOd MOD MOD Mod okay so i have this good guy friend who i like, but idk if he likes me back! He talks a lot to me, waits for me by my locker when we hav some classes together, and we share A Lot of the same interests, values, etc!! when i was iming him this one time, we were talkin bout rollercoasters and i sed i was so scared i'd hav to hold someone's hand, and he sed "i'm okay with that" then he said "what are friends for?" does he like me???? THANK YOUUUUUUUUU!!!! <3333 ps i haven't gotten the latest issue of GL yet! what should i do?

Hey girl. It's really hard to say whether or not this guy likes you. I would try flirting a bit to see if he flirts back too. And sorry for the delay of GL! Some of the shipping got mixed up and delayed. If you don't get it this week, contact us or call into the office and let us know what's up. best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

elphie612 on 11/1/2009 7:31:35 PM

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