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I don't know what it is, but guys just don't seem to be interested in me. I am fairly attractive I would say. I can talk to boys but they think of me as a friend and nothing more.
My friend said it's because I'm too smart. Are boys intimidated by my intelligence or do they just not like me?
You're so not alone! I can confidently tell you that there are many girlies who go through exactly what you're going through. And you know what? You can get an awesome guy! Here's how.
First tip? Forget about being "too smart." If a guy can't handle your intelligence, he's obviously not good enough for you. However, you gotta show guys that being smart isn't something to be scared of. Let them know that you can help them with their math test or their projects in chemistry. Offer some homework help to that hottie in history. That'll give you and the boys more to bond about.
And seek out some new studs. Total math geek? Join the mathletes. You'll meet guys who are just as dorky about dividing decimals as you are. Dream of being a defense attorney someday? See if your school has a debate team. Doing something you love will up your confidence even more. Guess what? Dudes always dig a gal who's happy and havin' a great time.
Don't forget to relax. Sometimes guys simply don't see what's right in front of them! Just be yourself and allow them to see your chill side. Guys can definitely sense that you're worried or awkward around them. So just let everything roll naturally. Every girl has her Prince Charming...all you gotta do is believe!
BY CAITLIN R. ON 11/6/2009 7:00:00 AM 188 COMMENTS
same here mod
erney on 11/19/2009 9:59:30 PM
WHen i tell a guy how well i read their eyes bug out and they say thats freakish
erney on 11/19/2009 9:58:27 PM
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club colors on 11/18/2009 6:57:04 PM
Hey!!! I am in need of some help. I really like this guy, but im scared to death to talk to him. I don't really want to make it obvious that i like him, until i know if he likes me or not. Please help me! Thanks a ton!!!!
31sftballplayer on 11/17/2009 11:02:56 PM
lindz535 on 11/17/2009 8:43:01 PM
I go through the same problem. I am really smart too, (not to be snobby) and I have a lot of guy friends. None of them are interested in me. But I noticed that there were tons of other guys out there that are smart like me. I used to think that it would be weird for me to date somebody "not popular enough". But in the beginning of the school year, I was in a new class and a really smart and nice guy was in my math class. We talked all the time and started hanging out. When he asked me out, I was really excited. I noticed that if you find a guy who is really smart too, they don't care if you're smart enough. Just be yourself nd the right guy will come!!
libbycm135 on 11/17/2009 6:57:49 PM
I am really smart and advanced in school and guys don't really like me either. I am pretty attractive, not mean, but not too popular either. And sorry, kelsey.m.16, playing dumb is never the answer. I think I am also very unique, not go-with-the-crowd-and-wear-the-same-brands-as-everyone-else-in-your-whole-class at all. Which could be seen as intimidating...
emypig on 11/17/2009 5:35:28 PM
I know how you fill but I think guys are afraid to date girls who are smarter than them they are intimidated of you I whould just tone down the smartness
kelsey.m.16 on 11/16/2009 9:32:11 PM
amo495 on 11/16/2009 1:13:22 PM
TwilightLuva8 on 11/15/2009 10:27:38 PM
I know thats tough, cuz i dont have a bf, and i think i look pretty too! Dont let the guy fool u, u R pretty! (even tho i dont know u, but i bet u r) dont EVER let a guy make u think ur not pretty, anyway, he should care about whats on the inside!!!!!
rebel15 on 11/14/2009 9:51:00 PM
xxlindsey44 on 11/14/2009 1:52:25 PM
**MODD** ohkay so last week i went to this dance and my crush asked me to slow dance for all the slow songs.! (there was 4 of them <3) ANYWAYS so during the first slow song we were talking bout just random stuff and then during the second slow song he was asking me who i liked and he was guessing and stuff and thn my friends came over and were flipping out about how we were dancing and thn they walked away and i was like sorry they just found out i liked you... and he was like really.? and he gave me the cutest smile EVER.! and thn the song ended so he gave me a hug (: so thn i saw him walk up to his best friends and thn this huge group of guys surrounded him and a huge grup of girls surrounded me and all the girls were like ARE YOU GOING OUT.? and i heard my name alot from the guys surrounding him, so then all of a sudden his 2 best friends came up to me and were like JACK LIKES YOU AND HES GOING TO ASK YOU OUT DURING THE LAST SLOW SONG! so then the 3rd slow song came on and it was already gone by kelly clarkson (my new fav song btw) and like we were dancing and i was trying to guess who he liked and he was like you havent guessed the most obv person and i was like i dont want to guess me because ill get sad if you say no and he was like trust me you wont (: and thn like he got really close to me and i put my head on his shoulder ;D it was so sweet he gave me a hug and thn the last slow song started and he was just like looking into my eyes and he told me they were really pretty and i was like AWW THANKS. and thn i was like u have to tell me who u like and he was like well do u like me? and iwas like yuhp. and he was like i like.... aAND THEN MY FRIEND CHELSEA CAME OVER AND INTERRUPTED HIM!she was like u guys should go out.! and we were both like oh.? and she was like jack do u want to go out with lindsey? and he smiled and then she was like well lindsey ddo u wanna go out with jack and i was like mhmmm.! and she was like ohkay,and thn she left and jack and me started talking again and i was like sorry bout tht and he was like its kay (" and thn the song ended and he gave me a hug and walked away.! THEN ALL HIS FRIENDS WERE LIKE DID HE ASK U? AND I WAS LIKE NO.. AND THEY WERE LIKE FLIPPING OUT. but then during school this week we were flirting a ton, and stuff.! do u think i should ask him if he likes me? because im so confused. like i want him to tell me! even though hes shy :/ what should i do? ahh geez sorry its so long PLEASE AND THANKYOU FER ADVICE.!! <3 lindsey
xxlindsey44 on 11/14/2009 1:39:51 PM
sushigirl_5 on 11/14/2009 9:19:14 AM
bridoll on 11/12/2009 6:31:18 PM
Summerinski ♥ on 11/12/2009 5:56:42 PM
dont give up ya brains for boys! the boys wont last forever but a good mind will!if a boy is intimidated by ur brains it is time to find a new one
redupp on 11/12/2009 5:48:32 PM
1. Say ur name 10x 2. Say ur mom's name 5x 3. Say ur crush's name 3x 4. Paste this on 4 other articles, if you do your crush will kiss u the nearest friday
loveforyou09 on 11/12/2009 4:43:05 PM
hmmm, this is kind of like me!!
MiniSpell on 11/11/2009 10:31:33 PM
maddie246 on 11/11/2009 10:23:50 PM
beachbabe141 on 11/11/2009 9:13:08 PM
purplegirl51794 on 11/11/2009 4:10:12 PM
Well, I don't think guys are intimidated by intelligence, really. Like, I get good grades, but I know a lot of guys that have liked me. And sorry, that sounds really stuck-up and everything, but I have a 4.0 GPA and at least seven guys have had a crush on me since the beginning of the year. (And I'm not guessing... either them or their friends told me that they liked me.) But actually I think intelligence can help, because they kinda use my grades as an excuse to talk to me... asking for help in class or texting me later for homework help, or just teasingly calling me a nerd. Which I am, but still. =)
evah713 on 11/11/2009 2:30:14 PM
RainbowStar on 11/11/2009 12:00:58 AM
redsoxlover on 11/10/2009 4:22:15 PM
lilmssunshine on 11/10/2009 3:19:29 PM
Miuluver789 on 11/10/2009 3:18:11 PM
they better not becauase eventually theyr gonna have to relize that all girls have more common sense than them ;)
swimmerxox on 11/10/2009 1:59:27 PM
i so felt like that but you just have to wait for the right guy. I did and it worked i now have a BF. But my point is don't stress the right guy will come along and like u for who u are and thats all that matters.
balletgirl7 on 11/9/2009 6:12:48 PM
That's true. I skipped a grade, and no boy will even look at me. Despite my friend Jason, but he's more of a friend of friend.
orangeslice on 11/9/2009 5:42:14 PM
Mrsedwardcullen1234 on 11/9/2009 12:26:06 AM
TwilightLuva8 on 11/8/2009 10:45:57 PM
laura123 on 11/8/2009 9:19:34 PM
shannonfosho12 on 11/8/2009 8:19:16 PM
soccernerd, hey! sorry, school's pretty hectic. but as for this new younger guy, i think there's a good chance he likes you! you should keep flirting and see where it goes. maybe get his number, ask about his school, mention yours, or anything really. sounds good, and no offense, less complicated than the junior!
TwilightLuva8 on 11/8/2009 8:02:33 PM
TwilightLuva8 on 11/8/2009 8:00:56 PM
guitarskaterchic14 on 11/8/2009 7:33:35 PM
I like this guy...doesnt everyone 8)..any way...he is sweet, nice, interesting, thoughtful, and he is a year younger than me. I like him and i only see him at church and today when i sat by him and our arms were touching and i tested him to see if i moved would he try to go by me again so i moved my arm and he moved his by mine. He also trys to do nice things for me and he always hugs me. He told me today he doesnt have a gf and he doesnt like anyone at his school( i dont go to his school) then he smiled when i asked him about it. He smiles at me all the time and looks at me. Do you THINK he likes me. I need your opinion???Thanks8)
soccernerd on 11/8/2009 7:14:33 PM
nevershoutjessx on 11/8/2009 5:47:32 PM
MOD MOD MOD (my friend couldnt log in to put this up so i did for her and she wants to kno if u could delete it aftr a couple hours plz and thankies:])Ever sinse school [high school] has started, i have had a crush on this guy. At first he didn't seem to notice me, and I acted pretty obvious sometimes. But then I noticed it wasn't working so i tried to keep myself low key and calm. I got more attention from him, friendly attention, he's not really a flirt. I still really like him, but I'm not sure if he likes me. One day in our class together we could work in pairs. I was totally surprised he asked me to work with him, and not the girl that sits behind me, or next to him (he seemed to like her in the beginning.). Then the next day at lunch, he was much more comfortable with me, and so was I with him. Like we knew eachother as old pals. After lunch, we had the class wear he picked me to work with him again. The teacher wasn't in, so it was a free period. I overheard the girl that sat behind me ask him stuff about who he likes, and that she is a good match maker and blah blah. She shoots out names if he would be interested and stuff. Then, I heard her whisper "she likes you" to him, meaning me. "I kno, I'm not stupid" Then I didn't hear much else of what he said because when she mentioned me, i was almost panicking in my seat. About 5 minutes later, my crush's friend buts in their conversation. He then calls my name, i turn around, and he asks me if I would go out with him, or if I would ever go out with him. Ofcourse I would, but i was on the spot, and didn't know what to do. I want to get to know him first, befriend him, before dating him, because he really is a nice guy. I looked at my crush with a distant look on my face, he had on a goofy face, like he was worried but didn't want towant to get to know him first, befriend him, before dating him, because he really is a nice guy. I looked at my crush with a distant look on my face, he had on a goofy face, like he was worried but didn't want to show it sinse he was smiling. I said I don't know him that way. . and he turns to his friend and exclaims "see?/!" I couldn't tell if he was telling him that or asking him that. . . and I turn back around in my seat. The next day, he wasn't as outgoing in class. He payed no attention to me and i don't know if he's embarrassed, angry, confused, or etc! He could be all of them, because my giving him friendly signals thn rejecting him could be confusing. I don't even know if he likes me in the first place (I'm slow when it comes to hints. . . )! I was really okay with him being comfortable around me, and just being friends, cuz that's what Iwanted in the first place! Now, it's like I'm not even there. I thought about asking him if he's okay, but then that gives him the control in the relationship because its like I'm going back to him. What should I do? How do you think he feels? What can I do to be friends with him or being comfortable? And, I don't wanna seem like I'm crawling back, which gives him the control. I know that was ALOT to read, but please help!!
Miuluver789 on 11/8/2009 3:04:37 PM
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inspiringyou on 11/8/2009 2:01:40 PM
Thanks for the advice
skatefun on 11/8/2009 1:15:52 PM
emsha81 on 11/8/2009 12:59:38 PM
wallofllamas on 11/8/2009 11:25:46 AM
livelaughlove4eva23 on 11/8/2009 11:20:08 AM
same
lilmssunshine on 11/8/2009 9:20:33 AM
livelaughlove4eva23 on 11/8/2009 8:42:01 AM
nicoco on 11/8/2009 12:48:16 AM
ugh! i have never been asked out either. this may sound mean but at a party of like 7 girls, the others rated me the second prettiest. but guys apparently dont think so! jk and i get straight As so im smart too. my teeth are really messed up, so that probably why. but, i get my braces in december!
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