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On a class trip to Ireland, I got close to a guy friend. He confessed that, although he has a GF, he had a minor crush on me.

However, we never discussed it the rest of the trip. I still see him, but we never talk. What’s up?

DAVE: Vacations are prime for flings. But vacations, along with their magic, come to an end. Then it’s back to everyday life. And, unfortunately, that life includes a girlfriend.

BILL: You’ve experienced the RDF (Reality Distortion Field) that often accompanies an intense trip with someone you like. With RDF, the emotional time frame speeds up since you’re away from your normal routine. The result can be intense emotion, which slows down when you return to real life.

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BY CAITLIN R. ON 11/7/2009 7:00:00 AM 104 COMMENTS

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Mod instead of telling her in person can i e-mail and tell her i'm too scared to? Kayla xoxo

Yep you can do that, as long as you let her know.

Lynae P.

redsoxlover on 11/15/2009 2:23:21 PM

Mod the thing is i only talk to him on facebook and I'm really scared to tell my mom about it i mean i really like him now he liked me then which i don't even remember our past but i do believe him on it.Have any suggestions on telling my mom or how to? Kayla xoxo

Sit your mom down and tell her about him. Let her know about your past and how you found him on Facebook. Let her check out his Facebook so she can see him.

Lynae P.

redsoxlover on 11/15/2009 2:17:09 PM

Mod I need your opinion on this be honest so there's this guy and we had a past in 6th grade that I don't remember but he said it happened and he has had a crush on me since then now i'm in 11th grade i'm 16 and he's 18 and we both like each other.We want to meet each other again.What do you think about this? Kayla xoxo

Hey chica, I think you should go for it. It's good to rekindle old flames. You may find that you like him even more than you did in 6th grade.

Lynae P.

redsoxlover on 11/15/2009 2:02:48 PM

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I think this kid a year younger than me might like me, and i kinda like him too, but then i also have 3 guys that i think like me(women's intellection-1 im sure of, my BGF told me-and i like two of them, but ones a bad boy, the another's a perv, and the last my parents don't approve of. and they don't even know about the younger kid on my bball team. i usually don't listen to my parents, but here idk. HELP!!!

Hey girl! You should talk to your parents about dating a younger guy. You guys could start hanging out and maybe get to know one another before you do anything serious.

Eryn G.

daydreamer9987 on 11/14/2009 2:05:51 PM

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There is this guy that i kind of like and i know that he likes me, but i dont know how much he likes me, because i know he likes my friend, Emily who hes known and liked for like all ofhis life. now im in the picture and i think he likes me, and Emily thinks hes really weird and annoying and she doesn't like him AT ALL, he still thinks Emily likes him even though i told him that she doesn't. So anyway winter formal is coming up and like everyday he asks me if i have a date to winter formal and then he told me that he's gonna ask this one girl, but then today he asked me again if i'm taking anyone and then told me that he's gonna ask Emily.... Does he like me and really just wants to ask me? is he trying to make me jealous?

Hmm it sounds like he really trusts you and holds your opinions highly. He may just want to be really good friends with you, and thinks you're a cool girl that would be worth keeping as a friend. Try asking a different guy to formal, and try not to focus on having him as more than a friend.

Megan R.

sillymorgan on 11/14/2009 11:55:22 AM

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I have a crush on this boy at my school and my friends believe he has a crush on me too but the thing is he won't talk to me! And everytime I try talking to him he starts backing away or he runs off.And sometimes when I say Hello he is with his friends and acts jerky to me.I try talking to him when we're alone but he never seems to be alone and we have NO classes together except one which is p.e. What should I do?! Please Help!!!!!!

Hey girl! It seems like this guy may be afraid or shy. I think you should leave him alone for a bit and see if he comes around. Try hanging out with other people and chattin with other guys. If he still avoids you, he isn't worth your time!

Megan R.

xD♥Fearless♥xD on 11/14/2009 2:35:53 AM

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okayy well ive got a couple questions.
1st: why is it that i always want guys to want me if i dont want them? its like i dont like a guy but i have fun talking to them but then if i find out that they like somebody else i get jealous. i just dont get it.
and 2nd: i think i might like my friend. but the thing is hes like my best friend. we also dont see each other much and he goes to a different school than me. but we talk all day every day. literally. hes a really good guy. but yeaa i just dont know wat to do bout him.
helpp!! haha please and thank you!

Hey babe! It sounds like these guys really like you as a friend. It shows they want to keep you around as a friend. Girl-friends come and go, but they think you're cool and want you to stick around. That's tough, but remember they like you and think you're cool to hang out with. There will be other guys who think of you as more than a friend. i think this new guy is worth trying! Keep chatting him up and see where things go! Good luck!

Megan R.

anjelly3195 on 11/14/2009 12:32:29 AM

Okay so me and my ex went out for five months and thought i really loved him. we broke up earlier this year i was super bummed. but eventually i got over it and tried being friends. But when i did try to strike up a convo, he would say something about how wierd and gross looking i am and call me some insulting names. I was hurt but i just laughed it off. Now all of a sudden he texts me saying how he used to love me, and he only trated me meanly because he liked me and missed me. To me taht made no sense, but i went along with it. I'm best friends with one of his friends and my ex told my best friend that he thinks he loves me again. So i told my ex i still have feelings for him and that i had heard he liked me alot too. And he confimed that he likes me alot. I was flattered and wanted to ask him out again and when i was like "so wat if me and you went out again?" and he shook his head "no" and walked away. I have no clue what that means. Do you?

Hey gal, mhmmm, I'm not sure what he means either. He might just be a little unsure about his feelings right now. He may not know if he wants to be your boyfriend or wants to remain just friends. So give him some time to figure out what he wants.

Lynae P.

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club colors on 11/13/2009 4:20:42 PM

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this guy is going to ask me out really soon. I don't know what to do though. I can't decide if i should say yes or no, and if i had a boyfriend my parents will make it awkward. Everyone is expecting me to say yes though. What should i do??

Hey girl,

What do YOU want to do? Regardless of everyone else you gotta decide if you really like this guy and are ready to start dating.

Caitlin R.

animaluver438 on 11/13/2009 3:38:03 PM

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I was texting my guy friend the other day, and we were talking about another boy in our class named Joe. For some reason I kept bringing Joe up. My guy friend asked why, and I got really angry. I accidentally let it spill i had a crush on Joe. Joe and my guy friend are pretty good friends, and I'm afraid he'll tell Joe. My guy friend asked if he could tell Joe, and I said no because what if he didn't like me? My guy friend said what if he does? Me and Joe liked each other last year. . .but I stopped. . Joe flirts with every girl in my class. Does he like me?

Hey girly,

He could, but the only way you'll know for sure is if you ask. It may be a good idea to have your guy friend mention something because then you don't really have to do anything. If you really don't want to find out then tell your guy friend not to tell and I'm sure he'll respect that. Your guy friend could probably do some pretty easy detective work to find out though. Instead of having him come straight out and ask if Joe likes you, he can just start a convo with Joe asking him what girls he's into. Have your guy friend report back to you and then you'll know! Good luck!

xoxo

Katarina E.

skittles34 on 11/13/2009 12:37:52 PM

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okay so i have liked this guy alot for about a year. Last year we had the same home room and three classes together, but he didnt even nkow my name!! but last year i was shy and qiut and well nothing like this year. This year i wear make up, im loud, i show my personality, so i changed alot. Well now i think he likes me. This year we also have computer and 4 classes together, and in three classes we sit right next to each other, he always flirts with me, and we always talk. HE is sooo funny and sweet, and he is usually nice but he is the guy that will ask a girl out to see if she likes him and then never go out with her. Well my bgf is his best friend and told him i liked him so at first he teased me a little saying that he thinks its cute, and now he asked me out!! but i dont know if it is like he is just asking me out to nkow if i like him!! oh and he asked me out yesterday in 5th hour and when i went to my locker after 8th he sang to me!! (he is in all state choir soo man he can sing) but im not really sure what to do!?! should i take a risk or not?

Hey girly,

Yes!! You'll never know unless you try and trust me the "could have beens" are a lot harder to deal with than a broken heart. Plus you like him, so it's def worth the gamble. It seems like he really does like you and why would he ask you out to see if you like him when your bgf already clarified that for him. If it makes you feel better than just tell him that you really do want to go out with him, but explain to him what's holding you back. If he really cares he will more than willingly listen to your concerns. Good luck!

xoxo

Katarina E.

ashhagan104 on 11/13/2009 7:41:30 AM

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my bff usually texts me back. well ok sorry if this is long. the past couple days whenever i text her she doesnt text me back...like ever or she just says doing hw. i know she doesnt get that much homework...she just got a new bf but she would tell me if she was talking to him to. i just IMed her and i was like hi and she said doing hw. i said really? and she was like so stop and i asked her stop what so she said stop IMing me. she didnt have to be so rude and i dont know why she isnt texting me back
it always seems like i have to call her to talk to her or text her, she never calls me. i always like listen to her and stuff when we do talk and when i talk she never listens because she is watching tv or just doesnt care. i am really annoyed...what should i do and whats up with her! thanks sorry it is so long

Hey babe, it sounds like maybe she's dealing with something right now that she's not ready to share with you. Give her some space right now and in a few days talk to her calmly and ask her if there's something she wants to talk to you about. I'm sure you can work it out!

katelin s.

potterfreak11 on 11/12/2009 9:21:03 PM

OMG HELP!!!! by bgf/ crush is totally amazing... on his good days. his dad is continually abusing him, him mom abandoned him, and now he has confided in my that he wants to run away and even comit suicide!!!! i suport him all i can and he goes to the guidence counciler but he told me that nothing helps and he has just given up. how can i get him to wake up from his nightmare!!!!!!! i like him too much to see him like this! PLEASE HELP ME!!!

peaceluver73 on 11/12/2009 8:38:40 PM

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Hey, ok heres the problem........................
there is this guy that i like a lot but my mom really doesnt. me and this guy (ill call him Ry) are going out and my mom got all pissed she told me that it was a mistake and it is not a good idea. she doesnt like him because she thinks he is really rude, but she has only met him once i think he is really sweet.....what should i do about this problem???????

Hey girl, try proving your mom's judgement wrong. Tell your mom to give this guy a second chance and see if he can come over for dinner. If he's the gentleman you know he is, he'll impress her def.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

misskatie9987 on 11/12/2009 6:34:33 PM

Ok mod listen up I want to join the Guard in my middle school (the one ill be goin too in a year

im in sixth grade)The Gurad is part of the school marching band AKA flag twirlers but im not sure if i should cause ill be doing so many other things im goona be doin everything i can because in elemantry there arent many things only band strings and churs(i know i spelled it wrong ;D)AND i want no HVAE too get into the show churs its the top singers in the school and i am preety good but im just not good ENOUGH!any tips?ansewers?thx! PS i cant wait for middle school! ;D

Hey girl, all I can say is go for your goals. If you want to do Guard and chorus go for it. If it becomes to much you'll know your limits. When you try new things you never know what to expect, but that is how we learn.

xoxo Olivia

Olivia A.

Dogyocatyo on 11/12/2009 4:05:42 PM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

dancing_cheerleader28 on 11/12/2009 3:59:28 PM

MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD! ok i've liked my best dude friend 4eva but he doesn't realize it, even tho i flirt with him (well i flirt with evry1)so i moved on even tho i could never stop liking him. so my BFF thinx i like another guy. i do, just not as much as my BGF. so she asked my BGF out n he said YES! im TORN UP inside bcuz i WANT 2 hate my BFF but i cant. n i cant tell her bcuz shes a HUGE blabbermouth! i dont no wat 2 do! i was crying in my bed last nite! HELP!

Hey girl, this is a tricky situation. Your BFF wasn't trying to hurt your feelings since she obviously waited until she thought that you were over your BGF. In my opinion I think you should go for that other guy you like, and like you said, move on. Sometimes friendships with guys are best left as friendships.

xoxo Olivia

Olivia A.

HeartsGetBroken on 11/12/2009 1:33:53 PM

Modd!!!
Heya! I have a problem- I am homeschooled, which is great. The only thing is that it is very easy to fall behind a week or so. I'm experiencing that right now and I'm finding I don't have the motiviation or the time to catch up! Do you have any tips for how I can get back on track and still maintain a life? Thanks! xoxo

Hey girl, try making a to-do list. Tacky, I know, but it totally helps me prioritize. Decide what you need to get done first and complete the list from there. Don't forget to reward yourself in between for each item you cross off!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

annagurl on 11/11/2009 11:49:20 PM

My bf is really really weird. He is the sweetest guy, sometimes. Other times, he acts the complete opposite. He gets all cocky and into himself and saying the only reason i like him is because he is sexy(that is definetely not the reason though!)Its so weird. It seems like im dating 2 guys. A sweet guy, and a fathead. Help!!

luvs0ccer13 on 11/11/2009 9:48:19 PM

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ok so there is a guy and on facebook he always talks to me and says im really pretty and cute.. and he asks if i have a bf and stuff like that.. problem is that he has a gf.. he told me hes just dating her to date someone and he doesnt really like her. and shes one of my friends.. i feel realy bad. i kinda like him. what should i do???

Hey babe,

You should definitely avoid this guy! It's nice to hear compliments but if this guy is dating your friend that's already a problem since if she knew you two were talking like this she would definitely be hurt, but the fact that he's flirting with you while he's dating anyone at all is a bad sign. It means he could very easily do that to you if he was dating you. This guy probably doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone. I think you're definitely better off ignoring him.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

xoxox on 11/11/2009 7:52:46 PM

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lovepeaceandsoul on 11/11/2009 3:47:56 PM

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Hey! Okay, so this same kinda thing happened to me. Sort of. Except we didn't go to Ireland, this all happened at school.
There's this guy in my class, and he liked (or maybe still likes?) me. And during the first part of the year we flirted. A lot, and really obviously. Or so everyone says, anyways. The thing was, I just liked him as a friend, and I didn't realize he liked me... I didn't really mean to flirt. It's just how I act, I have a very bubbly personality. So we just kinda stayed friends. And then we went to a football game (we didn't go together, we were just both there and we sat together.) But we were sitting next to each other on the bleachers, and talking and laughing, and I think that's when I realized that I liked him. But I couldn't say anything because earlier that day, he had asked this other girl to go out with him. The thing was, he was upset because he said he wanted to go out with someone else more, but he wouldn't tell me who. Later that night we were texting, and he told me that he liked me and I was the girl he wanted to go out with. And I sort of liked him too, but we decided to stay friends because he couldn't break up with his girlfriend. Anyways, we TRIED to stay friends, but we ended up talking less and less because it would always get really flirty and awkward and we'd both feel guilty, like we were cheating on his girlfriend. Lately we started talking again, and it's always him who talks to me or texts me first. We're not really flirting anymore, tho he DID ask me to the movies-twice-but I couldn't go because I was grounded. I still kind of like him, but I think I may be getting over him. So my question is: do you think he still likes me, even tho he has a girlfriend, or is he trying to be friends?

Hey girl! He may be trying to like you less, but he might still have a thing for you. He pbly doesn't want to hurt his gf, so he might need some space, but he misses you. You can talk to him and hang, just be careful that nothing happens.

Eryn G.

YouKnowYouLoveMe on 11/11/2009 3:15:30 PM

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me and my bf broke up just a week ago and well i broke up with him because i didnt think he was mature but i still lik him. (and i mean he acted like a 5 year old) so my best friend is one of those girls who goes out with a guy for a day and dumps him for his brother. (she has done this before) so when i told her all about us breaking up she said he sounded wierd and wondered why i went out with him. TWO DAYS LATER!! they are going out!! not only was he my bf, but he was my first bf and now he is going out with my bff. ME and him are still friends. soo when i heard this i was sooo mad!! i didnt answer any of my friends phone calls so she called my mom and told her all about our fight. well she broke up with him because i told her i wasnt over him yet. well he tells every1 at school that a had a fit. well i told her they could go out i dont care (even thou i do care) and now its there 4 time going out. and she cheated on him twice and since me and him are friends i really want to tell him but she is my bff. but she did steal my boyfriend! what should i do? cuz im mad at both of them but i dont want to stop being bffs because a boy???

Hey girl! Your BFF has obvi never heard of Girl Code! You never go out with your best friends ex-bf and you need to let her know that it hurts your feelings. It's always better to stay away from ex's... just cool down, let your bff know how you feel and stop talking to your ex-bf. Everything will work out, don't worry.

xoxo

Liz

Liz L.

ashhagan104 on 11/11/2009 7:47:46 AM

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i am trying out for my schools musical, but i don't know what song to sing for auditions! i was thinking something slow, any suggestions? thanks!

Hey girl! I don't really know any songs because I've never done school musicals, but I would suggest you ask someone who has auditioned for musicals before. You could even ask the school musical director what he suggests. I'm sure they will all be willing to help out.

xoxo

Liz

Liz L.

sweetbabe! on 11/11/2009 1:11:07 AM

MODD MODD MODD::::: my rents are divorcing and i wanna live with my mom(so does my sister)we told my dad we'd come over on the wkends and stay but i think he's kinda hurt.......plus my mom just found a house and we cant wait to get in but i dont know what i should take with me and what i should leave at my dads. i know im takin my clothes, and im gettin a new bed so i can leave my old one there but idk what to bring other than that so any help???

Hey girl! So sorry to hear about your parents! Tell your dad how much you love him and how much you'll look forward to weekends! Call him during the week so he knows you're still thinking of him! Take whatever you will need with you! If you have doubles of something, leave one at each house!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

softball babe!!~ on 11/10/2009 8:17:02 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD::::::: ok so your always told to be yourself but sometimes thats hard for me and im not a shy person by no means. these girls in one of my classes are always together in class and laughin and havin funn. i hate not being apart of that because i love to laugh and i usually am in a group like that....i guess they make me feel intimidated...idk im so confused. when i do try to talk to all of them and joke, i feel like im introding or what they might think of me. ive known one girl for 4 yrs and another is in all my classes almost but we barely talk. how can i be better friends with them??

Hey girl! Try talking to them a little every day. Be confident! Being yourself takes practice and there's no better way to do that then to push yourself into situations you're not always comfy in!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

softball babe!!~ on 11/10/2009 8:03:25 PM

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Do you need help? Advice? Are you scared? Stressed? Anything that needs an answer, I'm answering it! I get back within' a day (if not,(which never happens) it's prob cuz I'm on vacay)I'm really good! Everyone in school comes to me for advice! So get those mouses and click on over to my pro! LOVE YOU ALL!

xmonkeybrain10 on 11/10/2009 8:00:49 PM

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jenine123 on 11/10/2009 7:52:36 PM

Hey girl! You should def stop talking to him and tell an adult ASAP. It's not okay that he is requesting that stuff from you and you should tell someone!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

popstar12125 on 11/10/2009 6:51:48 PM

i 4got 2 mention tht he lives in a differnt state far away frm me and the fact i cant tell my parents.... but he is going 2 the same city as me for thanksgiving and i really wanna c him but id how 2 explain it 2 my parents. Any ideas??? he said i should just tell him we r good friends but then i wouldnt know how 2 act around him bcuz they will prolly b with us the whole time. Thanks again for your help!!!!!!!

Hey girl! You can try mentioning to your 'rents that you like someone or have been talking to someone. They might react differently than you think!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

tennisstar21 on 11/10/2009 6:21:08 PM

MOD I have a HUGE crush on a guy i was friends with last year. I still want to be friends with him, but I'm a nervous wreck whenever I even look at him, like Candace on Phineas and Ferb, only worse. Please help! I really wanna be friends with him again!

Hey girl! Be confident, chick! Try saying hi or asking him how he has been! You can def draw some attention your way by smiling, too!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

bugsbunny2009 on 11/10/2009 6:03:44 PM

MOD! ok so i went on this trip 2 d.c. for a leadership conference and i didnt know any1. but i met a guy ther and he asked me out. i said yes because i liked him alot and ya. we will prolly c eachother next summr at the follow up but idk for sure. and i cant tell my parents becuz they treat me like a baby and they would prolly make fun of me evn tho i am 13. ok so do u think this will evr work out???? i really like him and he always txts me saying i luv u and i nevr no how 2 respond. i think about him constantly and everything. Will this evr work out????? Thanks for ur help!!!!!!!!!

Hey girl! That really depends on how well you two work together. If you both try and put effort into your relationship, it could work for a while!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

tennisstar21 on 11/10/2009 5:58:06 PM

MODMODMOD ok my annervirsy with my bf is coming up we've been goin out for 3 years this dec 23th its the dead of winter so i need to look amazing like a beautiful snow angel have any ideas ive already tried curlin my hair and same goes for straight ironing so i need somethin different thx this will help ALOT

Hey girl! Try wearing a pretty color or swiping on some new makeup! For your hair try throwing it in some hot rollers to help your hair hold the curl better!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

alyssa+jackie on 11/10/2009 5:29:02 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD Alot of people think I'm annoying! What should I do?

Hey girl! You should try to get down to why they are thinking of you this way! See what you can find out and see if you can make it better!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

Smileygirl86 on 11/10/2009 4:52:38 PM

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thanks for the advice

hunny-puff87 on 11/10/2009 4:50:44 PM

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I have a ? is it true that a boy should ask a girl out aor it dosn't really matter causei like this boy i might ask him out not shure yet
thanks

Hey girl! It doesn't really matter, it up to what you feel most comfy with. You can try to hang out with each other before you go on a real date.

Eryn G.

hunny-puff87 on 11/10/2009 4:38:26 PM

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This guy and i both sent each other nude pics, and i realized he only wants be sexually, so last nght i told him to erase them and he said why would i want to erase photos of a nude sexy chick, i think i need to get the police involded but if i do that means i would also get in trouble and i dont want that, but i want it to stop, lke today i got my phone taken because my grades suck, so he cant text me, but im lost, there so many choice to be made
help me

Hey girl! You should talk to your parents and his parents before you involve the police. That might lead to an easier solution.

Eryn G.

popstar12125 on 11/10/2009 4:35:18 PM

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How do i tell i just wanna be freinds? And my sister and me both have the same type of phones and same color, and her and mom had to go to the doctors and before she left, she grabbed my phone instead of her, and what if my mom reads my texts, im freaking out, wow, Liz he sort not a creep makes me feel specail

Hey girl. He might make you feel special because he's giving you all of this attention and it might be something new for you, but it doesn't make it right. You shouldnt be worried about your mom reading your texts (which she probably wont) and the fact that you are worrying makes it definitely not ok with this guy. You might feel special, but you also feel uncomfortable, and that's not a good feeling.

xoxo

Liz

Liz L.

popstar12125 on 11/9/2009 4:22:59 PM

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Okay i need ur help, a guy i meet on summer vaction in Flordia and during our little one night thing, we made out in a pitch black baby pool,and then toward the end of August he gets my number from some girl at school, and then me and him start talking, and some times he talks very sexually and i dont like it, I act like I do to please him and make him happy, but it just hurts me inside talking sexually back to him, and this guy also sent me nude pics, but dont worry i didnt send him any back, Also he lives in another state and is in high school well im in middle school, and its like why cant u find a grl ur owen age, he 3 years old, and i am lost of what to do know, he got my number by googling my name and then contacting some grl who had my number, its hurting me more then he knows, please help me

Hey girl! Don't be afraid to speak up!!! Tell him you don't want to talk that way with him and it makes you uncomfortable when he talks that way. This guy only wants one thing, and it's not to be friends with you. So stop talking to him- it will make you feel better because you def don't need to be around a creep like that. Block his number (usually you can do this on cell phones) that way he can't call or text you. If it gets really bad, tell your parents. They can get law enforcement to help you out. Please please please say something! This guy should not be talking this way to you.

xoxo

Liz

Liz L.

popstar12125 on 11/9/2009 3:25:54 PM

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Club Scoodaloo on 11/8/2009 10:33:57 PM

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daydreamer66 on 11/8/2009 10:21:37 PM

MODDDD so I was wonderin about Limewire. Is it illegal? Just so I know before using it. Thanks! :]

Hey girl! Hmm..this sitch is pretty complicated but basically, LimeWire is legal and safe. However, using it to download copyrighted music and other material without the artist's permission is illegal. Be careful what you use it for!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

jessicaashley11 on 11/8/2009 10:08:17 PM

K...so I blogged on one of the sections, but it's not there anymore, so would my question still get answered? I get kinda confused on the website cuz there is so many different links...Thanks!

Hey girl! I've answered and approved all the questions I've gotten so far! Try asking again!

-Taeler

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Love*Laugh*Dance on 11/8/2009 9:38:48 PM

K so ilike a guy but he is going out with someone right now but usually relationships don't last longer than a few weeks. How can I try to impress him or get him to think I'm cute in the event tht they break up so maybe I'll have a chance with him. Or can u tell me how to get over him?

Hey girl! Just be yourself. Your confidence will be a big draw to you. Do your own thing and he will notice you!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

bballplaya23 on 11/8/2009 9:09:39 PM

MOD MOD MOD!- This is long so be prepared. so last year i was going out with this really nice guy named Jack, i then realized i didnt like him anymore and i like Jace. So i broke up with Jack and a couple weeks later i asked jace out. he rudely said f*** no. my heart was broken and then he went out with another girl. they broke up. now its the start of the school and my best friend sydney moved and now goes to my school.Jace and Sydney went out. I was so mad..... then sydney came to school and said she didnt want to go out with jace cuz he was mean to me. so after school syd broke up with jace and jace texted me and said u a** hole and all these mean things and said it was my fault. the next day sydney came to my house and started texting jace on my phone. i got kinda mad at her but i got over it. she told him it was her and then i grabbed the phone and told jace not to talk or text me.ever. He keeps calling me rude names and lieing,What do i do?

hey girl! It sounds like Jace is a total jerk. The best thing to do is ignore him. He's trying to hurt your feelings since Sydney broke up with him, so if you act like it doesn't bother you, he'll stop. Also, if you don't do anything, that means you're too good for him. You're the bigger person. He'll end up looking like the immature boy he is, and you will be the more mature one. Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

hannahluvsnickj on 11/8/2009 8:50:55 PM

MOD MOD MOD Ok, I really like my guy friend, and Im pretty sure he likes me too. Here are clues- He gives me hugs out of random, puts his arm around me, we hang out together alone, He goes to my house a lot and complients me. Its just that, instead of how I normally crush, I feel different crushing on this guy. I mean, I feel adventurous and as long as he is by my side I know I will be fine. And I always have a certain feeling when Im with him, I feel excited, happy, nervous, and almost every emotion at the same time. Usually when I have a crush I just feel giddy and hyper. Theres something different about this guy I cant explain. Do you think I might love him?

hey girl! You definitely love him as a friend...at least. It may be that you're just more comfortable with this guy than the others, but it does sound like you might be falling in love with him. All I can say is that when you're in love, you'll know it. There's no rush, so just relax and let things work on their own time. best, Kristem

Kristen Y.

justalilcrazy on 11/8/2009 8:25:21 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD I like this guy and he's always talking wit me but he also is always sorta flirting with other guys... i try to keep my cool but sometimes i just barge in and ill be like.. hey wats up blake and he'll start talking to me and the grl he was talking with will just stare then walk off... wat should i do..?

hey girl! If the other girls leave, it's not really your fault. For now, just keep talking to him and getting to know him better. If he becomes more interested, he'll start making more of an effort to talk to you alone. Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

cookookay on 11/8/2009 8:18:33 PM

I JUST posted this and No ONE answered me so i am posting it again please answer?????I like this guy...doesnt everyone 8)..any way...he is sweet, nice, interesting, thoughtful, and he is a year younger than me. I like him and i only see him at church and today when i sat by him and our arms were touching and i tested him to see if i moved would he try to go by me again so i moved my arm and he moved his by mine. He also trys to do nice things for me and he always hugs me. He told me today he doesnt have a gf and he doesnt like anyone at his school( i dont go to his school) then he smiled when i asked him about it. He smiles at me all the time and looks at me. Do you THINK he likes me. I need your opinion???Thanks8)

Hey girl! I think it def sounds like he likes you! best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

soccernerd on 11/8/2009 7:56:29 PM

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