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Fighting Back Against Bullies

Brigitte and her book
 

Lots of teens sit back and don’t get involved when their peers are getting picked on. But 15-year-old Brigitte Berman decided to make a difference.


Brigitte got to work and penned a book called Dorie Witt’s Guide to Surviving Bullies. GL chatted with Brigitte about why bullying is not OK and how YOU can make a difference.


While Brigitte wasn't so much bullied for her milk money, she def witnessed a lot of kids at her school being mean to each other. This inspired her to make other teens aware.


”I learned that so many people were dealing with bullying but they didn’t know what to do. I’ve always liked writing so [I thought] why not make a book,” Brigitte spills. Brigitte used her site doriewitt.com to gather info about bullying from kids.


“I took all of these stories and everybody’s experiences with bullying and put them together into Dorie Witt,” Brigitte said. “I really wanted to write something that was meaningful.”


Verbal and non-verbal bullying (like shunning girls or leaving people out on purpose) are pretty common.


”I want girls in America to know there is help out there,” she says. “There’s someone who is saying, ‘You know what? Bullies have to stop. This isn’t okay.’”


Dealing with a real-life bully? Brigitte says the first step is to tell them to knock it off. If that doesn’t work, get a group together to confront the meanie. And definitely let an adult know what’s going on.


“If you have a person who clearly does not want to listen, it’s important to talk to your parents and teachers,” she tells us. “Get them involved because they want to help.”


To find out how you can make a difference and help put an end to bullying head over to doriewitt.com. You can learn more about Brigitte, bullying and her very own book!


-Taeler Lottino

BY CAITLIN R. ON 11/6/2009 7:00:00 AM 16 COMMENTS

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livelovelaugh! on 11/10/2009 5:30:09 PM

that's really cool

hit.the.surfs. on 11/7/2009 11:39:03 AM

Woah, that's definitely cool that she wrote a book on something so important.

soccerchick06 on 11/6/2009 11:46:57 PM

I was bullied about 2 years ago. It was the worst experience of my life. But if i wasn't bullied, i wouldn't be who i am today.

Sky780 on 11/6/2009 9:16:54 PM

thats wayyy cool. rock on girl!!

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thats rlly awesome

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pinkandpurple14 on 11/6/2009 7:29:47 PM

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CLUB GLAMOUROUS! on 11/6/2009 5:50:42 PM

Thats inspiring. I think that lots of schools have problems with bullying, ecspecially mine.
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CountryCutie4 on 11/6/2009 4:37:40 PM

Cool, we've got an anti-bullying program at my middle school.
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club 4 girls on 11/6/2009 3:35:28 PM

thats so cool that shes already written a book. shes the same age as me, too. you go Brigitte!

hello x beautiful 94 on 11/6/2009 2:46:15 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! k so i haven't liked any guys in a while. i mean, i like guys and all, but in the past few months, all the guys around me seem like total jerks. my friends think im lying when i tell them i dont like anyone. they get pretty mad b/c they always tell me who they like. i dont want to make up someone, either. what should i do?! is there any way to make myself to like someone?

 

Hey Chica,

 

Do not feel like you have to force yourself to like someone! Crushes should happen naturally!.. and you can tell your friends that if they think you're lying!  It's awesome that you can be happy and confident without a guy by your side... plus guys totally dig girls like that!
 

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pinkandpurple14 on 11/6/2009 2:03:43 PM

That's cool. Me and my brother started a program at my bros school. It E.A.B.C. Endervous anit-bullying campign. SSuper cool!!!!!!

Purpleboo on 11/6/2009 11:16:29 AM

i belie

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