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Show your sweetie that you think he’s smart. Catch him on his way out of class and tell him how much you liked what he said or how you totally agreed with his opinion. Something like, “I never thought about it that way before. You’re so smart!” should do the trick.

Ask him how he came up with his idea and if he’ll help you out by talking about the homework with you before your next class. He’ll feel great about himself and you’ll have an excuse to talk one-on-one!

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BY CAITLIN R. ON 11/19/2009 7:00:00 AM 40 COMMENTS

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we were talking this one time and then he was lik im smarter than you and i was lik no i am and he was lik ok fine we're both smart jsut im a little smarter...Lol this made me laugh

xoxozRita on 2/19/2010 6:34:23 PM

He is always so SMUG when he gets something right. He KNOWS he's smarter than I am. This is not my type of flirting technique. Too many compliments and he might deem you as "stalker".

bluebubbles444 on 2/18/2010 10:40:17 PM

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Hey MOD girls...I've got a prob. There is this guy I REALLY like, I think he likes me but I'm not sure...like he is always looking at me in lunch,and when he was with his friend he said something and his friend turned around and stared at me! Oh and to make things worse he's not in any of my classes but lunch and I never get to talk to him! So sould I make a move or wait and see? Also we have a dance Friday, should I ask him?
Thanx,
Adriana♥

hey lady!

Next time he looks at you during lunch, wave and smile! That way he'll come over and start talking to you and you can see how it feels

Sammy D

sammy d.

tennischamp18 on 2/13/2010 1:28:46 PM

i know this doesn't have to do with this but,i like this boy so much but it's like im not even there,he ignores me.he doesn't look or talk to me, wat do i do?!!!!!!!!!!!!

boysloveme on 2/2/2010 9:27:12 PM

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so i have class with a boy that i like. and we had to answer quesitons and he had to write a story about my answers. Would it be stupid for my next piece to ask him to answer the questions to get to know more about him? and to get a convo rolling?

Hey girl! That sounds like a great idea!!! Definitely not stupid. Good luck! xoxo

Megan R.

jellybean666 on 2/2/2010 5:09:58 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!! i likw this guy, he is new to our school and he is a basketball [player. i am a cheerleader and i see him alot! i like that. but apparently i do something different with him bc my bros ex-gf always says, "hannah, stop flirting with him" and i dont mean to. but i want to kick the flirting up and i think i want to tell him i like him but he told me that ha wouldnt want to be seen in public with any girl in the 7th grade and when i ask my friends for advice, they ask who it is nad i dont trust them enough. i need advice about the friends and the guy thx

Hey babe,

Keep flirting with him. Send him signals to let him know that you like him. If you feel like he's sending them back, then tell him that you like him.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

binkysbaby on 12/26/2009 11:33:18 PM

Mod Mod Mod :] okay, theres this guy in my school named chris and i kinda like him. we dont really talk at all because the only time i see him is in the hallways and after my basketball practice because we both play basketball for our skool. i kno that he knos that i sorta like him because my friend told him. whenever we walk past each other in the hallways we always make eye contact. what does that mean? is he interested? and how do i start up a conversation with him? i dont wanna just start randomly talking to him cus then he might think im weird. Help! lol

Hey girly, he could be interested in you, but the way to really find out is to talk to him. Next time you see him in the hallway, wave and say hi. Maybe after basketball practice you could say something like "Have a good practice!" or "Don't sweat too much". Do these work?

Lynae P.

holistrprep88 on 12/20/2009 4:02:17 PM

MOD, I like this boy. I want to flirt with him but I can't. I used to see him often because we went to the same school but I switched to a private school. I can't get his e-mail or phone number because my friends that do know are at the school that I don't go to anymore!I wanna know how to flirt with him. I still live in the same town as him but I never see him.I might be going back to that school but I have a problem.... It would put alot of stress on me! I'd have to do, like, four days work in one!

Hey girl! Try heading to some school events that you think he might be at! You can smile at him or wave and ask how he has been! It will be pretty easy to get a convo going if you start it out!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

PrincessRuby7 on 12/13/2009 11:06:50 PM

MOD!
okay i feel soo guilty abt something and i cant figure out y!! its driving me krazy!!!
thnxx!!!

What exactly do you feel guilty about? xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

summerlover09 on 12/12/2009 5:32:08 PM

MOD ohk.. so i have this guy friend that i really like. He's a freshman, a year older than me, and lives/goes to school 20 miles away, and i only get to see him during the summer or occasionally during the school year. He was my first kiss this summer, and the first guy ive made out with. we had something really special, and i cant wait for next summer to enjoy the happiness again. There's only one catch. Another guy friend, one im really close to and that has liked me since first grade has been really nice to me lately. When he asked me to be his gf, i said yes. We've been dating for almost 3 weeks. I want to say im happy, but everything i do makes me think of my other friend, and what we shared this summer. Sometimes, with my bf i have feelings that are no dif than my other guy friends i spent 2 hrs with him last nite just hanging out, and it felt like i was hanging out with a brother. nothing more. It seems my first kiss liked me more because he wasnt afraid to show his affection where as my boyfriend never does, and still treats me as one of the guys.. I miss him, and im not sure about my bf.. i cannot break up with him. it would kill him.. and i cant do that.. what can i do? thx! Bekah

Hey girly, it's important that you do what makes you happy. You can't make yourself uncomfortable or unhappy for the sake of someone else. So decide which guy makes you happy and go to them.

Lynae P.

nicegurl on 12/9/2009 8:16:32 PM

MOD
my new bf tht ive been going out with for 4 days now got into a fight yesterday at skool with a guy tht i sit next 2 in communications and now my bf wont even talk to me and sometimes i feel like its my fault he wont talk 2 me even tho i had nothing 2 do w/ it.... so wat should i do..i miss him..
thnx

Hey girl!

That's too bad that your boyfriend got into a fight, I'm sorry! If the fight wasn't your fault then your boyfriend shouldn't be upset. Have you tried asking him what's wrong? Maybe he will tell you and you can help him feel better about his fight?

Good luck!

Sammy

Sammy d.

summerlover09 on 12/4/2009 8:22:38 PM

LYNAE! or other mods
I see him during math and if i can change quick i might be able to catch him at his locker so how can I flirt with him without looking like a stalker or overdoing it? thank you soo much!

lolipop247 on 12/3/2009 9:30:12 PM

MOD MOD! thx for answersing my last question dont wat id do without gl mods! anyway that same boy well i wish he were my bf but idk if im ready for one. hes like not even cute but hot! blue eyes brown hair and we r both the same height. so wat should i do just stare at him or talk? also i cant just get up at lunch with 200 kids and 8th graders!and my bffs will think im crazy. also should i like put a note in his locker telling him i like him ..or too soon..plz hurry i need advice for tom!

Hey girl! You should try talking to him first. Say hi or smile at him in the hall. You can strike up a convo with him and get to know him a little better before ya let him know how you feel!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

princess24 on 12/3/2009 2:14:57 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD! help! help! i have a big boy problem....i like this boy but he is noy in any of my classes

but he is in my lunch.he was in my gym class last year but he doesnt know me that well. he is super cute and my bff liked him but now she has a boyfriend... so he could be mine. idk wat to do? how can i talk to him and btw his table pretty crowded..sry its so long hurry!

Hey girl, if you like the boy you have to talk to him at some point. Even though his lunch is crowded this sounds like the only time you have to talk to him. Walk over and offer the table a snack,or ask them if anyone has done the math homework to get the conversation rolling.

xoxo Olivia

Olivia A.

princess24 on 12/3/2009 1:40:56 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!! I really like this guy but I don't know how I should flirt with him! I used to see him at his locker but now that my swimming unit in gym started I don't see him as much. how can I flirt with him without looking stupid in front of my whole class? Thanks so much MOD!

Hey missy, when do you get the chance to see him?

Lynae P.

lolipop247 on 12/2/2009 6:35:31 PM

**MOD*MOD*MOD*!!! I really like this guy I sit next to in 2 of my classes, but I'm not sure if he likes me back. Is there any way to tell if he likes me, or any way to get him to like me more? ANY advice would help at this point.... Thanks! ~*~EMMA~*~

Hey girly, guys can be really shy when it comes to revealing their feelings for a gal, so you have to really pay attention to him. Watch his bod language. Look to see if he holds eye contact with you or smiles when you talk to him. Is he really touchy feely with you? Things like that will let ya know if he likes you or not. But it never hurts to flirt. So bat those lashes. And drop your pencils and books every once in a while.

Lynae P.

emmarrobinson12 on 12/2/2009 4:51:55 PM

hey, I sit next to this REALLY cute guy in 2 of my classes, and I like him a lot. We talk to each other, but he never really seems to be flirting - sometimes it seems he's trying to impress me with a funny joke or comment on our super-weird teacher, but I can't really tell. I'm not sure if he like-likes me or not. Any ways to tell? Or, any ways to get him to like me more? Anything helps please!
~~~~Emma <3

emmarrobinson12 on 12/2/2009 4:34:13 PM

kk thanks SOOOOOOOOOOOO much mod! lol what would i do w/out gl mods?! but seriously thnx u guys helped us get together! and hopefully things will only get better!)

*daisygirl* on 12/1/2009 6:44:50 PM

Mod,
yes he is very shy when it comes 2 girls

but he dosen't put his arm around me or hold my hand or anything! in fact id think he's ever touched me at all! not even accidentaly brushed against me! but so maybe say something like ugh i'm so stressed from the holidays i could really use a hug? or is that 2 obvious 2? thnx!

Nah, I don't think that's too obvious! He def likes you, because he's dating you, but he is just having a hard time showing it. He's probably scared you'll reject him or react funny. Be bold, and go for it! Then he'll start to be more comfortable, after he realizes you want more from him.

Megan R.

*daisygirl* on 12/1/2009 6:32:56 PM

MOD!MOD!MOD!
kk so u have given me tons of advice about this guy that i had a crush on and now he's finally my bf! (yeah!)but see here's the thing, as awesome as he is he's not exactly the greatest bf. I think I'm his first gf. I'm the one putting all the effort into this relationship it seems. In the morning we walk around b4 school but i have 2 go get him he won't even come get me if id we just don't walk around. it's kinda bugging me. but then he comes 2 my locker after school and walks out w/me and i noticed he walks closer and stands closer to me as each day goes by. We've been goin out 4 about 3 weeks now. I gave him my # but he hasn't called (he didn't give me his) and everyone's freaking out cuz we haven't hugged yet id really care if he does or not but i do want him 2 and he acts like he wants 2 but dosen't and everyone keeps sayin hug her but he never does and id want 2 give him a hug cuz what should i do just throw my arms around him? that'd be weird. or should i say like so do i get a hug? or what? is he just not into me? but if he's not y r we goin out? thnx mod so much!

Hey girl! He seems shy. If he puts his arm around you, that's definitely an opportunity for a hug. If he still seems to be holding back, as you're chatting with him you could say something that you're struggling with...(It could be something small), like : I have so much homework, I really need a hug. (Something not-obvious like that), and then he's bound to give you a hug! Once you hug once, you're likely to keep hugging!

Megan R.

*daisygirl* on 12/1/2009 6:21:14 PM

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hi you've given a lot of good advice to me before, so i'm going to ask you about my new prob if you dont mind

there's this 1 guy i absitively posolutely fell head over heels for and he's really cute but his personality is even cuter. i've flirted subtle-y and used your ideas for convo starters (thanks btw

) and thanks to that i can now consider him kinda 1 of my guyfriends.
it seems like he likes to flirt in a really subtle way but only when he's single (he's not a player). he's been looking at me a lot and he'll come up to my desk and talk to me. we've had some "moments" too. it seems like he starts convos with some other girls like he does with me but the other signals he's only directed at me. sometimes i think he likes me...others not. idk what to do!
how can i spark his interest/get him interested so that he realizes i would make a good gf for him?
thanks so much!!! God Bless!

Hey babe,

Take your 'subtle' flirting to the next level. Let you know you like him by shooting more obvious signals his way. He might feel more comfortable making his move if he knows you like him rather than just thinks that you might.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

idance_17 on 11/30/2009 11:12:31 PM

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also, what are good flirting tips that i can use with my crush. he dosent go to my skool and the only way i know him is he has a phone and i txt him and he txts me back and we are on the same swim team and we are close to being friends so we talk a lot but idk how to flirt with him!

Hey girl! When you're with him,you can flirt with him by being really nice, smile, touch him gently when you talk with him,and just be yourself. You could give him a compliment or try a little playful competition at practice!

Megan R.

twilight4everlalala on 11/29/2009 5:45:37 PM

~Mod~ Mod, I need help. Suddenly, I stopped liking my bf. For some reason, after we went to the movies, something unlicked itself. My aunt was there, mind you, but I was way more awkward than comfortable through the whole thing. I had already begun to lose interest, but now... it's gone. He says he loves, me, and I feel bad about losing interest. Plus, he's super tiny. A foot shorter than me, not very big... I feel like I'm kicking a puppy out into the rain. What should I do to make it nice and painless? (I wanna do it in person, not text) Help!

Hey chica, let him know you enjoy spending time with him and really like him, but not in a romantic way anymore. That now you just want to be his friend, but still hang out with him. Just be clear and nice about it and everything should be fine.

Lynae P.

lexibear41 on 11/29/2009 4:39:04 PM

What are some good ways to flirt? And how can I tell if he's sending me signs that he likes me?

soccergirl95 on 11/25/2009 9:30:39 PM

Things don't work that way...he will think you are weird in some cases but it depends on the guy...if he likes compliments and compliments you should definitely do this.

Smileygirl86 on 11/25/2009 3:33:03 PM

mod this wont work for me because i am the smartest girl in my class and lets just say the cute boys arnt isactly up there. are there any outher tips for smart ppl?

Hey girl! Find out what your crush is interested in and start a convo about it.

xoxo

Liz L.

sheba_britney on 11/25/2009 3:01:51 PM

Ok so I really like this guy and I think he might like me back. I can get myself to talk to him sometimes, but I don't really know how to bring up convos with him. Any flirting tips? Thanks!!
xoxoxo

luckyducky14 on 11/24/2009 9:19:42 PM

MOD*** I need some Help! Is is ok 4 a Girl To ask a Guy out who Is a Friend Or Is it Too Risky? Do most Guys Get Scared off If a FRiend ASks Them out? And I Don,t Know if He has a Girlfriend or Not And I Know His older sis sooo. Should I ask her if he does first I really don,t wanna do something to risk our friendship but I really wanna ask him out!!what if he rejects me or worse says thanks but I have a girlfriend I Can P.s I can Pretty Much only Talk To him on Facebook is that a good way to ask someone out? I am soo scared i,ll Embarress myself plus I haven,t told anyone but MY BGF, And he,s Like a year younger than me!

Hey babe, I think it's fine to ask him out as long as you think he's been giving signs that he might like you, too so it won't ruin your friendship if that's not the case. Just get to know him first by talking to him and hanging out with him. Just be casual and be yourself and talk about everyday things like tv, music and movies.

katelin s.

pink15 on 11/24/2009 9:15:45 PM

MOD!!! I like two guys. One's in 9th grade, and one's in 7th grade. I'm in 8th grade. All three of us are in band and on the swim team. Let's call the 9th grader M and the 7th grader N. So M is funny, outgoing, and awesome. N is sweet, funny, and I hang out with him a little more than I hang out with M. Which one should I focus on? And how do I find out if they like me? And how do I flirt with them without being obvious? Thanks! And I totally understand if you can't help me, b/c I know there are a ton of comments, but thanks anyways!

Hey girl! You should really decide who you like best! Flirt it up and talk to them to get to know each better! You will be better able to make a choice when you know who you're more compatible with!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

uconnbball on 11/24/2009 10:29:45 AM

MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!I really like this guy let's call him TR he has a gf and I really like him a lot and I don't know how to get him to notice me and I only have one class with him and it's math but I see him at PE and lunch and when we switch classes thanks xoxoxo SD

Hey SD,

He has a GF, so if I were you I'd leave it be and try and meet a new crush.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

Sdcatlover8 on 11/23/2009 10:55:02 PM

The picture is so cutee

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ImSuperGirl on 11/22/2009 2:05:17 AM

**MOD**
HEy MOD i need some tips on conversations starters with my best friends, cause they usually take over the conversations, but i wanna be able to start the conversations ant let it go on. So, any tips or conversations starters?

How about talking about something that you really care about or think is cool? Like a movie you're really interested in, or something new you found out about.

Megan R.

guitarskaterchic14 on 11/21/2009 12:00:01 PM

MOD******** I,m Going to a party And I was wondering I,m shy around guys How to I flirt with them and get them to notice me and talk to them without getting nervouse???? What is the most effective way to flirt???????

The most effective way to flirt with a guy is to compliment his clothing and be extra nice to him. If you give him attention then he'll notice you. Have fun! xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

pink15 on 11/20/2009 10:58:25 PM

I'm too shy to that and it looks a bit obvious.

Stargirlcandy3 on 11/20/2009 9:32:25 PM

MOD MOD MOD
ok so i used to go out w/ this guy like 5 weeks ago (4 like 2 days) and he claims he broke up with me cause i never talked to him but he never gave me a chance but i wanna talk to him and like be frineds and stuff ( i still like him alot) but i never talk to him i'm too scared he broke his leg 2day idk how i feel so bad i just cant talk how can i get over the fear of talking to guys? i dont like anyone else but him and i still see him look at me alot i miss him
p.s soooo srry its so long THANKS MOD!

Hey girl, why not try sending this guy a get-well soon card? Two days isn't that long and it'll show him you care and wouldn't mind being friends.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

fluffy kittenz on 11/19/2009 6:42:28 PM

Haha guys just looove to feel good about themselves so of course they'll appreciate it when we make them feel that way ^^

Check out my profile girls, and please leave a comment, thanks!

SportyGal on 11/19/2009 5:40:15 PM

Load up on compliments and he may think you're a freak. Just saying.

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