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I am in seventh grade and have never even held hands with a boy!

When will romance happen in my life?

You can’t rush or force romance. You never know when it might happen. There isn’t a “right” time to date, and even if some of your friends have BFs, it isn’t weird that you don’t.

You can’t predict chemistry like a science class experiment. Your guy friend could suddenly start looking really cute, or you might get excited every time you see that new guy in homeroom. Relax.

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BY CAITLIN R. ON 11/26/2009 7:00:00 AM 205 COMMENTS

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I'm in grade eight and I have neveerrr held a guys hand . only two guys have ever liked me. And their in grade sevenn. I don't know what to do all my friends have boyfriends. And a bunch of guys liike them. Sometimes i come home crying and never want to go back to school. & when i do like a guy I don't know how to flirt. I am clueless. I'm getting really depressed.

hey babe! If you're depressed you should really talk to an adult or a trusted teacher. Remember you are a great girl, and a guy will come eventually ! you still are young, and things will change once you get to highschool. Trust me, guys are immature in middle school, you're not missing anything! Take this time to focus on yourself! Be confident You're awesome!

Megan R.

pinkgurly on 1/12/2010 8:18:26 PM

i am in the same situation but i have no prob huggin a guy it is just everythin else. but i know you will get threw that step by step. and you will know when you are in love. you will just feel it in your heart.!

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Club_Girlz on 12/23/2009 10:01:06 PM

be patient, not everybody in middle school has a boyfriend.

sixteengirl93 on 12/19/2009 12:53:30 PM

mod!!! well i just wrote a comment about a guy liking my bff, well the problem is is that i sit next to him in class and know like everything about him! is there anything else that i can do

Hey girl! Umm.. let's see. You could try flirting with him. Check out cool flirting tips under Guyville, Icebreakers!

xoxo

liz

Liz L.

bootycall7 on 12/14/2009 9:23:34 PM

MOD Most of my friends have BF's and i don't i don't want one but i do like this one guy, the problem is that he likes one of my bff's! She dosen't like him back but he does like her. what can i do to get him ot like me?

Hey girl! Unfortunately, you can't get a guy to like you. Just try talking and getting to know him better. maybe he'll see your interest and focus on you, not your bff. And remember, there's no need to have a bf. Don't rush it!

xoxo

liz

Liz L.

bootycall7 on 12/14/2009 9:15:28 PM

mod mod mod is it weird to hug your guy friends???? thanks

smiles13 on 12/14/2009 8:07:38 PM

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Hi. I am in 7th grade and have a BF, but obviously the relationship is nothing serious. I enjoy hanging out and talking with him, but lately I have been thinking about holding hands with him. My parents are cool with it, but I have NO IDEA what his feelings are about it, and I don't want to just grab his hand and then it will get weird if he wasn't ready for it or didn't want to do it. But if he likes me (obviously he does) then why wouldn't he want to? Is there any subtle way to try and hold a boy's hand? Thanks for the help!

Hey girl, try holding his hand if you're walking somewhere together or during a scary movie. Make it natural and see where it goes from there. Don't overthink it.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

gardengale on 12/12/2009 11:06:09 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD PLEASE, FOR REAL!!:
One of my BFFs likes my ex-boyfriend. I don't like him anymore,but i still don't like them talking. But its her ex too, but they barely did anything,they went out for only two days because she flirted with his best friend so they broke up. Me and him, on the other hand,went out in the summer,kissed,held hands,walked to our local kroger together and met up alot for 1 month and a half.I dont like him,but it still kinda hurts to see this. My best friend says its not fair for her not to be able to like each other. but when me and my ex were going out he promised me tht would he would never like her again and i think he does. its really confusing and but hurts me. can you help if you get wht i mean?

Hey girl, feelings are hard to guarantee, but let your friend know how you're feeling. She should understand and if she was a good friend, back off for a bit until you're OK with it. No friendship is ever worth losing over a guy.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

meliss1212 on 12/12/2009 11:03:20 PM

OMG I need Help *MOD* *MOD* Okay so I just found out three days ago that my BGF cuts himself.

I'm completly scared for him and after he told me he started to cry hes the toughest guy I know. Hes never hugged me before cause usually hes not comfortable with that and this morning he hugged me for a whole minute! I tryed telling him everything was going to be okay but then he got mad! I'm worryed today the cuts were bigger. What should I do and how can I help him through this? I'm worryed even more because I herd a story about a kid in highschool who commited suicide. I'm scared HELP!

Hey girl! You need to tell an adult... maybe your parents or a guidance counselor. An adult will know how to handle the sitch and will be able to do the right thing. Your friend needs help and the only way he can get it is if an adult is brought into the situation.

xoxo

liz

Liz L.

luckychica101 on 12/10/2009 4:07:03 PM

Hi Mod! mod mod!
i like one of my best guy friends. I dk if he likes me i asked my bff who goes to school with him but she said he nver told! I kno were to young to date but were relaly good firends. At this church thingy he said not to dis soccer to someone and i play soccer and he said" dont diss socce.r my sister me and the girl i like plays it" and when the other kid came up to me and said " He likes u." i didnt wnt my friend to get embarrsed to i pushed that kid down a hill ( ha ha.) how do i kno if he likes me? he smiles at me a lot

Hey girl! He might like you...I am not sure. You should try to get to know him better and then see what happens.

Eryn G.

soccermaster32 on 12/9/2009 4:00:43 PM

hey girls! i love the "quotes/words i live by" part of the profiles. i have alot of quotes. some are funny and some are serious. if you like quotes and/or have alot of them, come leave a comment on my profile cuz i would love to see all you girls' cool quotes!

rightfield1 on 12/9/2009 12:46:11 PM

Mod- what does it mean when a guy kisses you on the chin?

Hey missy, its meaning really depends on the guy. But it could mean they wanted to kiss you but got nervous and went for your chin instead. Or it could mean they look at you as just a friend.

Lynae P.

pam&jim 4ever on 12/6/2009 4:05:56 PM

MOD MOD MOD okay so i like this guy and he told me he likes me too. and he told me one night he had to ask me something but i didnt have my phone. Then later i asked him what he was gonna say and he just said: i was going to ask you out but idk how it would be like...and later at school he said he wished i talked to him more and stuff in school...im kinda shy so idk what to say to him, but we have no prob talking over text....also, idk if im allowed to date and im scared/idk how to ask my mom....he tried to make plans with me but i turned him down bc i didnt know if i could!!! please help me!!!!!!!!!

hey girl!

That is so great that he likes you -- you seem like a great girl, so how could he not? If you want to ask your mom if you can go on a date with him, ask her in advance and see what she says. You should always go to your rents for dating advice. My mom gives me great advice

Then you can go back to him and let him know what she says! If she says you can't date, you can keep chatting and getting to know one another at school. Sounds like a lot of fun!

Good luck!

Sammy

Sammy d.

i<3quest0422 on 12/4/2009 6:55:09 PM

OMG OMG OMG I am in grade 7 too! i haven't even held hands before either!! i really like this guy but wat do i do????

heywassup777 on 12/3/2009 8:34:58 PM

I'm 17 and have never had a "boyfriend"... my life is great, so obviously it's possible to function without one. relax. just focus on being friends with some good guys. you're only in 7th grade, you don't need a boyfriend.

musicaddict92 on 12/3/2009 8:14:28 PM

MOD... i'm a tenth grader and i still never had a boyfriend! all my friends have had one, and it seems like for the general population of Girlslife everyone had one at the latest, 9th grade. And I know I don't need one to be happy, but it still confuses me why I'm so late.

Hey girl! I think you're still young and have plenty of time. Maybe the right guy to start dating just hasn't come along yet. Try not to be too worried!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

supergirllala on 12/3/2009 1:19:20 AM

MoD MOD MOD^^MOD^^MOD^^MOD^^MOD^^
Hey, how's it going?
This is kind of wierd saying this but...What's the best way to get a flater stomach, as well as eating healthy?I mean like what types of things should i do?
And also, My class, and 2 other classes are going swimming on Friday, and I'm kind of self-consious about wearing a bikini, and I don't want to wear a one-piece, what could I do to bring up my confidence?
Thanks So much, I know it's alot!

Hey girl, look in the mirror and pick ten things you love about yourself. And staying healthy? Cardio (running, swimming) are great. Just know you're wonderful the way you are.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

denyyy on 12/2/2009 10:43:49 PM

MOD!MOD!MOD!! I am almost 16 and I have never been in a relationship of ANY kind. I think I am quite attractive, athletic and smart(even though people say otherwise but my report card agrees with me). Even my best friend is telling me to "lower my standards" looking for a guy. But there is a guy I really like but I feel as though those who have already have had a boyfriend are more desirable. I noticed girls who have already had a boyfriend have a bunch of other guys who want to date me. Not me, I have never even been asked out:[ What's wrong??

Hey girl, there's nothing wrong. You're wonderful the way you are. Guys are just silly right now but they'll grow up. There's more to a girl than her dating history.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

lifeisgood68 on 12/2/2009 10:21:44 PM

Im in 7th grade too and I've never even had a guy ask me out. The time when will come when its right, and when it does it will be a great ride. Hang in there!

Love2SwimTaylor on 12/2/2009 10:13:27 PM

i'm im 8th grade and have never had a bf, so u don't really need to freak out about it in 7th grade. just figure that it means u'll have more options of guys to date in high school, not to mention that its sometimes a lot more fun to just be friends with guys, cause they are a lot more easygoing than girls!

oboebs on 12/2/2009 9:11:23 PM

so i have liked this guy since fourth grade, and im in 8th grade now. in fourth grade we went out (waaay to young ladies) and then i dumped him for his best friend (stupid of me and wish i could take it back everysingle day) anyways he still hates me from then. when i don't like him he likes me and when he dosn't like me i like him. right now im liking him n he likes me back, but he told my friend from a different school some mean things about me, such as he wouldn't date at my level. of course my friend told me so i asked him about it at school, and he said he did but he didn't mean it. you don't say those things and not mean it. so told his friend about it and now hes mad at me for telling his friend about our problem, and now were both mad at eeach other. i want to go back to liking, but i don't want to be the one to appologize first, in case he doesn't want to be friends anymore. can you help?

unouloveme on 12/2/2009 8:43:17 PM

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Ok, so first, I'm posting this because I don't know how to post a new thread-thingy (can you do that? Sorry, I'm new here!), and second, I have a problem in the guy-department...
So I kind of know/like this guy. That is, I see him in the halls after homeroom every day.

I know his name, and I know that one of my best friends is also friends with him. But that's about it. I'm pretty sure he doesn't even know my name. I'm really shy when it comes to flirting, and I've tried smiling at him in the halls, but I always chicken out! How can I get him to at least notice me without making it seem awkward?
Thanks so much!!

Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes

Alyssa B.

jujubeans360 on 12/2/2009 7:33:46 PM

MOD *<(:0) MOD My school every year has dancing in P.E. and this year we are doing ballroom. I have a boyfriend but i dont know if he wants to be my partner or not. Also my BGF and old crush both want me to be their partners! I kinda want to go with my old crush just to make him happy and set things straight(He likes me now and i want to tell him i dont feel the same) And my BGF is upset and wants me to choose him but I dont know what to do. Can you help me? Please and thank you!

Hey chica, mhmm this is a toughie. First ask you boyfriend if he wants to go. If he doesn't, maybe you should go by yourself and just hang and dance with your BGF and old crush. That way you're not tied down to one boy, but you make both happy. Hope this helps.

Lynae P.

puppylove123 on 12/2/2009 6:34:30 PM

Im in 7th grade too and you have to realize we really arnt that old. Dont freak out about not having a boyfriend or not holding hands. Even though we might not think so, we still are really young. And holding hands really isnt that great. Some people actually think its weird and its just embarassing when your hands get all sweaty.

kdr5105 on 12/2/2009 4:05:02 PM

Hey, dont worry about it. I'm in seventh grade too and i havnt held hands either.You dont have to rush.

cozuna on 12/2/2009 12:37:57 AM

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im stressing about PE right now. I am not athletic at aaalll. Im horrible at sports, so in PE it looks like im not trying but i really am. My PE teacher is taking off major participation points and its affecting my grade. What should i do?

Hey girlie, as long as you try your best I dont think they can hold it against you,. Honestly, gym class is not the end of the world. I did ok in it, I went to college and now I live in NYC and have a real job. Don't let it stress you out that much. xo JANA

jana k.

animaluver438 on 12/1/2009 10:18:35 PM

MOD!!
hey so thiz guy at skool likes me and wants my number but instead i got his number cuz i dont want him 2 call like a million times a day...soooo he said that he LOVES me 2 death like a million times and he said tht he wants 2 go out with me like a million times and i said no like a million times.... and ive never even talked 2 the guy and he loves me?!?? he is getting on my last nerve and getting reallll ANNOYING!! how do get him 2 stop..4 good?!!? thnxx a bunches!!!

Hey babes, politely say I am sorry, I am just not interested in dating anyone at the moment. Don't give him anymore information. If being polite doesn't work, ignore him. xox JANA

jana k.

summerlover09 on 12/1/2009 9:21:14 PM

MOD!
is it wierd that ive never had a bf before? i am in seventh grade. i have lots of guy friends but dont really like any of them. i also have really ever been asked out except for these stupid games guys played last year, but i think i am pretty attractive. any tips?

Hey Girlie,

Oh my gosh it isn't weird! I didn't have a bf until 9th grade. Everyone matures at different rates. Do what makes you comfortable. You are at an age where guys are kinds still in the "girls have cooties" phase. Give them time to grow up and in the mean time, use your guys friends as practice for future dating. If you can hold a conversation with a dude, even if he is just a friend, then you can hold a conversation with any crush worthy guy that comes along and that is half the battle.

xo,

Jana

jana k.

auburngirl220 on 12/1/2009 8:46:22 PM

MODMODMOD!!!
ok so i have 2 questions.. 1. i was wondering if dark purple is a good color to wear for a nail color??(i have fair skin) and is there any other color that would look good?
and 2. So, Christmas is coming up and i have no clue on that to get for my bf as a present! he likes video games and stuff like that(typical guy lol)
but i don't have tons of money to be able to buy one and i really don't want to buy a gift card. any ideass??
thanks!

The dark purple will stand out great against your fair skin! I think you should try it! How about making him a mix CD? Or getting him a DVD on sale at Best Buy or Target?

Megan R.

peacelovechrist23 on 12/1/2009 8:04:07 PM

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i have a mixer (a dance) with an all boys school on saturday night from 7 to 9 pm. I go to an all girls school. The theme is neon or bright colors because it is a blackout dance with a DJ and everything. My friends and I are going to the mall to get some neon stuff and makeovers. I don't want to look CRAZY but I need to wear color. What should I wear, what makeup would look good on me (I have beige skin, bright blue eyes and light brown/ golden hair), and how can I start a conversation with the guys!

You could wear blush and bright glitter or pink on your eye-lids! Play up your eyes and smile! Just say hey!, You'll be surprised how easy a convo can be if you just initiate the first friendly "hey what's up?"

Megan R.

forever12 on 12/1/2009 7:17:43 PM

MOD...I've never done this before... I would really like a Pea Coat for Christmas, but the only one that I could find under $100 is at T.J.Maxx and it's $80. My mom says that's too expensive, but I really like it, and it fits perfectly. Do you know of anywhere else that has Pea Coats? Thanks a lot!

Hey babe! Kohls and Target have Peacoats...I went shopping the other weekend and I believe they were around 30-40 dollars there. It's still not super cheap, but it beats 80!

Also...Forever 21 may have some cute Peacoats too!

Megan R.

Buhwheat on 12/1/2009 6:19:26 PM

MOD
ok so my school has a dance...
and i hate dancing! absolutley hate it! i cant dance well i can but i am too embarassed too. in gym we did this 10 minute dance warm up and i was too embarrased to even do the YMCA. sad..i know. well my mom is kinda mad i dont want to go because she says i should hang out with friends more (i am very quiet exept for a few friends and my family) my friend already invited my to hang out with her and another friend that night. how should i convince my mom not to make me go? thanks!

Hey girl! You don't want to limit yourself and miss out on something that could be really fun! Let your mom know you got invited to hang out with your friends, and you'd rather do that than go to the dance. You could tell her you think you'd have more fun hanging out with your friends, and that you'd still be doing something social. It's important to get out there and meet people though, you may have more fun at the dance than you expect if you bring your friends along!

Megan R.

potterfreak11 on 12/1/2009 5:12:48 PM

Hey, this is nothing to worry about I promise! I am half way through 10th grade and this is the first time I have ever held hands with a guy! I may seem like a big deal now, but don't worry, it will definetly be worth waiting in the end, I promise!! =)

The Dancing Actress on 12/1/2009 2:09:16 PM

look me up, post a comment, whatever, have fun w/ me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

vk.kelsey14 on 12/1/2009 10:55:10 AM

I just got my period and im bleeding badly..Is this something to worry about???

shopgrl123 on 12/1/2009 9:38:56 AM

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then check out the advice section on my profile; boys, fashion, body, im your girl :]

SierraRylee on 11/30/2009 10:45:54 PM

Don't worry, girl! Just enjoy your life before romantic drama starts. I'm in the 9th grade, and haven't even held hands with a guy. I can understand how you feel (and trust me, I really have felt that way many times), but I can enjoy life as it is for the moment.

dathy8 on 11/30/2009 10:43:14 PM

haha. honey, i'm in ninth grade, and i have never held hands with anyone either, and i've never been kissed. so just sit tight, and love will come- real love won't come until after high school- i promise. (:

♥elphie♥ on 11/30/2009 10:30:50 PM

MOD!!!!!!!!!!!
I have a boy frennd.
Weve held hands and kissed and madeout.
hes startin to get SERIOUS though...
i dnt mind it jus,makes me nervous.
can u help me?
any tips on bein less nervous? thnxx

Hey babe,

You might be nervous because you're not ready for how serious your relationship is going. Tell your BF to slow things down and you'll start to feel more comfortable.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

Holland_Luver on 11/30/2009 9:54:43 PM

MOD!!! okay so I was going out with this guy for almost two years..but i didn't really like him anymore after a while and things seemed like they weren't going anywhere so I broke up with him. I thought that was the right decision and a bunch of my girl and guy friends helped me through it and knew that it was the right decision too. It definately was at the time..or i think it was...but now its been like 2 months and i'm starting to like him again. I think he still likes me...at least thats what he told my friend. And i don't know what to do. I dont really want to get back together yet..but i dont want to lose him...any suggestions??

Hey babe,

You might just miss him and not really like him again. If you are crushing on other guys or are just lonely, don't get back together. Or ask him if you can take things slow and start dating, but don't just in to the girlfriend/boyfriend thing right away. This will give you a bit of hang out time to decide if you really like him or not.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

soccerluvr66 on 11/30/2009 9:16:22 PM

I am in the same spot... it kinda sux cuz all my friends have BFs but I don't even want to get involved because a lot of boys our age aren't mature at all.

hyperpuppy on 11/30/2009 8:38:53 PM

say ur name 10x
say ur mom's name 5x
say ur crush's name 3x
then post this in 4 spots and ur crush will kiss u as soon as possible

Julianna32899 on 11/30/2009 6:20:59 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD
Hey! How was your Thanksgiving?
Two questions...
1) How do I ask my mom to wear makeup... (just like mascara and eye shadow) without it seeming akward? I'm nawt too young or anything, but she thinks I am.
2) I have this little red spots in my discharge... what are they (haven't had my first period yet)?
Thanks so much!

My thanksgiving was great! 1)Just tell her you want to talk to her about something and bring it up. Say you just want to try some neutral colors. 2) Red spots could be spotting, meaning you could be getting ready to start your period soon.

xoxo

liz

Liz L.

iluhvtodance on 11/30/2009 4:36:10 PM

MOD, I've liked this guy for two years. His name's omar, he's sweet,nice,cute... and so much more. I've cried alot just because he doesn't like me in the way that i like him.. i know it's stupid. But i just don't know what to do. He gives me hugs and stuff, and sometimes we'd walk in the field (at school) together. We always stare at eachother, followed by our smiles. His ex is my bestfriend. The person he previously liked is someone dear to me. The one he previously liked, merry, and him are still friends. And she asked if he's ever considered going out with me.He said no... but that he really likes me as a friend. I was torn apart. I got caught up in all of this and i'm only a sixth grader. I think it's too muchh.. (He's a year older by the way.) I want him really bad... and it's been so long ... and i've grown to, maybe love him. (I know you might think " Those are some big words. " ...) But i think it's true.. and because of that, it's impossible for me to move on. How am i supposed to deal with this...?

Hey girl! You should try pulling yourself out of it a little. I know it can be super hard but it might be best to focus on you for a while and do your own thing. You might be able to not focus so much on him and get to know someone else that might return your feelings!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

annasaur. on 11/29/2009 11:45:16 PM

Mod! Mod! Mod! I am really angry. The teachers at our school basically treat us like scum and I am losing the motivation to want to go to school. It's hard trying to talk to the teachers, because none of them understand. I am frustrated that I can't do anything. Any idea as how to get my ideas across?

Hey girl! Yeah, you can try talking to them about it or asking them questions on the bottom of your homework if that doesn't work. It will help you express your question or idea without having to be on the spot!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

Awesomesauce on 11/29/2009 10:58:13 PM

***MOD MOD MOD*** ok, I've got 2 questions..1, almost every guy on tv I c I get a crush on, like Brody from the Hills, Rob from Keeping Up With the Kardashians, Mitchel Musso etc..is this normal?!?!I'm 13 to btw..2, my "friends" went to the movies last Friday(not the one after Thnxgiving, the Friday b4 that) and one of them said they wud call me and tell me when where etc...so Friday nite, I never got a call, and I knew in the pit of my stomach that they went. Sure enough, on Monday my "friend" that was supposed 2 call me came up 2 me, and said they went to the movies, but didn't call me cuz friend A organized it..friend a happens to be a girl I don't get along with her AT ALL..and I was really upset thatshe didn't call me..I wanted 2 tell her that a true friend would have called, but I ddnt wnt to start ne more drama as there already was..HELP ME PLZ!!!shud I stay friends with these girls or not?! ***MOD MOD MOD***

Hey girl! First, yeah, it's normal to crush on guys you see on t.v. No worries! And, you should talk to your girls to see what's really up. They really might have not wanted to upset the other girl. Talk it out and see what's going on.

-Taeler

Taeler L.

FutureWarriorCheerleader on 11/29/2009 9:10:12 PM

MOD MOD MOD k soo ive liked this guy 4 a yr or so and my bff likes him 2. i no 4 a fact tht he likes me. my bff and i came 2 an agreement if tht he asks 1 of us out it would b cool 2 say yes. wat can i do soo tht he would ask me out??

Hey girl! You can't make a guy ask you out but you can talk to him and keep flirting it up. Be careful though, and make sure you really wouldn't be hurting your girl by saying yes!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

wowzers54321 on 11/29/2009 9:09:08 PM

mod, please!
i am starting to realize that i have a self-esteem problem. i am always comparing myself to other girls- and sometimes boys! i can't stop. whenever i go to a party or dance, at first i think i look nice but then in my head i start comparing my qualities to other peoples. i am really worried that this will begin to hurt me physically. what should i do to stop this?

Remember, you are beautiful as you are! There are so many things that make you special and unique. Write a list to remind yourself of all the things that set you apart from the crowd and make you the awesome girl you are. Give yourself positive self-talk,and hold your head high. Believe in yourself.

Megan R.

emmapenguin on 11/29/2009 8:04:33 PM

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Our schools dance is coming up in a few days and i still don't have a date and don't think im gonna get one. I would ask my guy friends but they are all going with girlfriends or exs. Our school has a rule where you cant bring kids from other schools to the dance so I can't ask my outside school friends. This dance is a formal so they play slow music. All my friends have dates or refuse to go because they can't find one. Idon't know what to do because I really want to go but I don't want to go alone. Please Help Fast!!!! thx!
xoxo

Can you ask a guy in your class that you're unfamiliar with? Are there any guys that you want to know but you don't? Try introducing yourself to someone new and see if you have anything in common. If not,no worries. You should still go to the dance! You won't be the only one without a date! Then you can dance with the guys who also go solo! I remember the best dances in my school were the ones where I went with a bunch of girls and danced with lots of guys there!

Megan R.

lnm1996 on 11/29/2009 6:41:11 PM

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