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The problem isnt if the other girls will accept me, Im close with them. I need advice on how to not not take any crap from these 2 girls, and how to balance the 2 different relationships.

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by friendsforevarbetta on 1/22/2010 9:00:14 PM

 
 

MOD MOD....I am in a super duper complex situation right now. There are 2 girls who have been my BFFs for a while. It started as a group of 4 and 1 moved. Now there are 3 of us, and well, now I feel like its just the 2 of them. They have changed soo much! They have both been sexually touched, (at 13/14!) and drunk and all of that stuff. Apperently they have been gossiping about me a whole lot, and they didn't even know it was my b day when it was. There is another group in our grade, and the 2 groups do not get along, but I get along well with all of the girls in this other group. I am now good with both groups. The problem is, they gossip about each other A LOT, and I am excpected to be like a spy. I cannot handle this, I have already said a bit that I should not have, and now one of the girls who was my BFF told me "Dont say I never warned you" when I told her I wasn't a gossip. I want to say that I refuse to tell anyhitng even if there is gossiping going on, and I will. But the 2 girls, are of course, popular, and they are making all of the boys be rude to me. I have no idea what to do, my best friends aren't my best friends any more! I am soooo stuck, and I have no one to talk to! Help please, I need some advice

 

hey girl,

 

wow, sounds like a tough situation. but i think what you realized is that the group of "popular" girls aren't who you thought they were. and that you want to be friends with your GOOD REAL friends again. so what you need to do is reach out to them and let them know that you are sorry you dissed them. and they will, if they are good people, understand. I have a feeling they will Wink


 

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by friendsforevarbetta on 1/22/2010 8:39:37 PM

 
 

I don't get it -- why would you want to be friends with girls who are mean?? If it's because you want to be popular like them, it's not worth it. Trust me -- been there, done that. I found myself a really great friend group -- the Nerd Herd -- and everyone is soo nice. You'll end up like these girls if you become friends with them.

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by shelbydiane on 1/19/2010 7:17:13 PM

 
 

hey!if they r so mean, y do want to be their friend? maybe it's time u stop trying to be their friend.find some other people to hang out with. they will soon see that they missed out on a great friend.
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by HollisterChick101 on 1/18/2010 4:44:45 PM

 
 

sorry forgot to put mod mod

most of my friends r really mean. not to me but to other people. i have fun hanging out with them but should i not be their friend because their mean to other people

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