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How to Date a Vampire (without getting bit)


Crushin’ on a Cullen? Um, who isn’t! There’s something about those haunted hotties that just, sigh, sucks us all in. But before you get cozy with your very own Edward, sink your teeth into these five rules on how to romance a vampire. Wink!

 


Stay Secretive. Bella didn’t dish on the Cullen’s secret life—and neither can you! If you’re one to Tweet every sweet moment with your squeeze, maybe dating the undead isn’t for you. Just have to dish the deets on this dude to your besties? Say he’s a musician. That will instantly explain his late nights and constant brooding!


Respect his age. Your fanged fella may look 15, but in reality he’s a very old soul. So typical teen stuff like millions of trips to the mall and hanging out at sporting events isn’t going to interest this immortal. Even more complicating? Vampires don’t eat, so dinner dates won’t fly. Try a romantic moonlit walk or a late-night movie instead.


True love—or true blood? The scary truth is that some vampires are just out for, gulp, blood. So, how to figure out if he’s only after a big ol’ bite? Get to know him in a public place before hangin’ alone. As you chat, see if he’s paying attention to what you have to say—and not just staring hungrily at your neck.


Tempt not. Even if you’ve established that your crush doesn’t see you as meals-on-heels, vampires are still vampires, after all. So do him a fave by keeping your neck covered up. Wrap it with a fuzzy scarf or toss on a turtleneck. And keep in mind that your fanged friend has extra strong senses, so one spritz of perfume is all you need to hide what he actually finds most alluring—eau de you.


Prepare to get serious. Vampires don’t just crush—they fall truly, madly and deeply in love (hello, Edward and Bella!). Committing to one is a seriously major move. Still into dating other dudes? Do yourself a favor—stick with those who possess a pulse.

 
-Georgia Clark
 
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BY CAITLIN R. ON 1/11/2010 7:00:00 AM 82 COMMENTS

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I do love the Twilight books, but seriously? I agree, this is kind of weird. :p Really though, I was weird-ed out when I saw this in the magazine...

Twilighter13 on 3/18/2010 4:48:13 PM

TEAM EDWARD!!!!!

Sugargirl233 on 3/16/2010 11:04:13 PM

i was gonna say poo if you were wondering..

spunkys on 3/13/2010 11:54:33 AM

EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!! james is nasty idk what all are looking @ but i see obviosly something way different. Maybe something resembaling a bag of ... Nvm

spunkys on 3/13/2010 11:53:57 AM

whyville dot net

shatya95 on 3/12/2010 11:29:25 PM

woow. ;P

Cindy[♥] on 3/7/2010 10:33:50 AM

MOD~MOD~MOD~MOD~MOD~MOD~MOD~MOD~MOD~MOD~MOD~MOD~MOD~
Hola!
Anyway, I have two problems. One involves my BGF, and one involves my crush.
First of all, my BGF got a friend about a week ago. I have d her ever since she accused me of kissing him. I DIDN'T! My BGF and his friend worked it out and they're back together now. I told him the truth about me hating her yesterday. We got in a big fight but we worked it out and it went back to normal. Today I checked my texts and there was one from him that said, "I dumped _____. Happy?" I texted him back saying that I didn't want him to break up with her and he won't text me back. What happened?
Second of all, my guy friend Dilan told my crush (Josiah) I like him, but Josiah said he liked me too. Dilan said he would sell his soul to the devil if Josiah didn't like me. He also said that Josiah said that if he could get enough courage he would ask me out on Monday. I want to know some colors, styles, or jewelry that would make me feel and look lucky and happy and ready for love. Any suggestions?




Hey...first i think bright colored jewelry, anything fun and big is really cute for Spring! Forever 21 and Target both have cute jewelry.  I think you should follow your heart and go for the guy who YOU like, not just if they like you.  Try talking with your BGF face-to-face to see what happened and let him know that you don't want to ruin your friendship, you just want him to be happy and the other girl wasn't being fair or nice to you.  
Megan R.

7714st on 3/6/2010 10:43:15 PM

this is hilar because they are fiction characters and vamps are not real!

Ladybug863 on 3/4/2010 9:15:03 PM

MODMODMOD!! what do i do i am obbsessed with jacob black(taylor lautner, p.s werewolf!) no when i say obsessed i mean it i was looking at his pics on google and i started crying because i caouldnt be with him! CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT!and his posters are all around my room and my facebook profile pic is him! AND I LOVE HIM!!!i get so jelous when i here the new gossip about him dating someone! because im not famous or old enough!! Frown HELP ME GET OVER MY OBSESSION! PLZ MODMODMOD!!!! HELP!!!

 

Hey girl,

Celeb crushes are totally normal, but do you know what's better?  People who are actually in your life!  He's super cute, but don't take your buds or your real-life crushes for granted.  Focus on them and how happy they can make you, instead of constantly thinking about what you'll never have.  It makes life a lot more fun that way!

Lauren C.

Cambria180 on 3/2/2010 8:02:25 PM

i am starting to rethink my boyfriend

patience2468 on 2/28/2010 7:24:39 PM

lol totally fake but funny
but what about WEREWOLVES??? (im team jacob)

karategrrl on 2/27/2010 2:30:07 PM

This actually made me laugh a little.

[xganzxalleinx] on 2/25/2010 12:56:22 AM

I apologise to all you girls out there who are obsessing over Edward and Twilight and all at the moment, but I'm really getting tired of just hearing everyone talking about Twilight all the time. I can't go somewhere or do anything without hearing about Twilight this, Twilight that. I respect your rights to obsess over it, but I wish all the talk about it would just die down a little.

icybridge on 2/24/2010 3:38:31 PM

i'd rather date humans...
how many vampires help you save your school newspaper?
0, that's how many.
plus, either my neck/the neck of a friend or relative is at risk, unless he's a "vegatarian vamp. In that case, my pets are risk!!!!!!!!!!
(If you don't read twilght, "vegatarian" vampires drink animal blood rather than humans.) No way am i going to willingly date danger!!!!

actress2b_<3 on 2/23/2010 7:54:34 PM

love thisss <333

beautiful rainbows on 2/23/2010 6:32:38 AM

I LOVE THIS ARTICLE!!i know its just a joke but its funny u have to admit!

koolkangaroo37 on 2/22/2010 11:23:55 AM

I hope this was meant as a joke...... but wait. They nerd to post a article on dating werewolves. Jk but really-biased much? Team Jacob!!!
-Check out my profile!!

ForeverFifteen on 2/21/2010 5:25:06 PM

bella is SOOO lucky to have edward AND jacob in love with her! i can't stand robert pattinson but i love edwardcullen in the books. i'm definitely team switzerland Laughing

sillyheart17 on 2/19/2010 5:51:11 PM

1. Vampires aren't real.
2. Twilight's not that great.
3. Vampires aren't real.

beckerella on 2/17/2010 8:38:59 PM

1. Bella is SO whiny!
2. Edward isn't hot, he's ugly.
3. Jacob is ok.
4. JAMES IS HAWT!!!
5. None of this matters, Alice is still the best vamp EVER!
6. Good books, tho.

SBCreations on 2/17/2010 5:55:47 PM

This has got to be the dumbest article on GL! "he's a very old soul" "Stick to those who possess a pulse" "Staring hungrily at your neck" WHAT?!?!?! Honestly, I saw this in the magazine and tore out the page.
And not to say I don't like Twilight, I've read the books. I'm just not...ob- I mean, ROB-sessed.

pointeprincess on 2/17/2010 3:42:28 PM

I hope this was a joke. Vampires as boyfriends you got to be kidding me! Sure I like vampire books and Twilight is ok. Right now I'm reading a book about vampires and werewolfs called Bites Scary stories to sink your teeth into.Its by like nine people so I won't list them. Another good vampire book is The Vampire Diaries haven't read it yet but my is dying for me to read it but I'm working on other books right now. Back on the subject I prefer Buffy the Vampire Slayer they need to make a book series of that. Even if Buffy has a vampire boyfriend her boyfriend at least has a soul!

beckerella on 2/16/2010 9:13:11 PM

mitch albom's books r soooo much more awesomer than the twilight series..i'm just sayin....

goats 'n' cheers,
BUTTCHIN LOVER

cheeseball lover on 2/9/2010 8:32:58 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD
ok so 2 questions:
1. i like this guy who is in my class and i think he likes me back but im not sure. I asked him to figure out who liked me and he said, "thats gonna be hardd" and then he asked me and we have been talking about how im NOT crushing anyone and i wanted to say, "i figured out who I like but that would answer the question of who likes you?" through a text but im afraid he wont like me and will tell all his friends.
2. i have been trying to get the free texts and i cant and i think its because im putting the numbers in wrong! how can I answer it right i really want to get gl texts!!




Hey babe! Sounds like this guy may like you back! Be honest, guys are usually clueless!  
Megan R.

binkysbaby on 2/9/2010 6:51:17 PM

Lol haha they have like books about this. haha

Dancing Diva on 2/8/2010 6:06:57 PM

team edward

maddie3299 on 2/8/2010 4:39:56 PM

omg this is so weird. i love twilight, but this is going a bit overboard....if there is such thing as a teen vampire tht wants to suck your blood, i dont suggest going out with him ppl. unless u wanna be bloodless. ur choice.

check out my profile peeps!

bubblybecca on 2/6/2010 9:01:18 PM

I want a vampire!!!! Thanks for the advice!

lillibug618 on 2/3/2010 3:22:28 PM

MOD! MOD! MOD!
Help me my BFF (lets call her Kathy) likes my crush lets call him Camden. He likes her back, Im about to go to mid school, so i keep having nightmare that they are next to my locker smooching, Hello? I NEED HELP BADLY!

 

Hey hey,

 

I'm not a dream expert, but it sounds like you might be worried about Kathy hanging out with Camden so much and leaving you out.  Don't worry!  If it ever happens, just chat with her and let her know that your friendship is totally important too.  But relax when you're going to sleep and think of happier things Smile

Lauren C.

Sky22412 on 2/3/2010 8:10:43 AM

I LOVE Twilight but I think dating a vampire is stupid if there are wolves avalible...

TEAM JACOB all the way XOXO

sk8ergrlz27 on 2/2/2010 5:28:36 PM

MOD MOD MOD
(this might be long)
I like a boy in my class, lets just call him "A". I liked him for who knows how long. All my friends respected that too.
Last year, me and A liked eachother. He didn't talk much.
This year, i like A again, and so do my 3 best friends. I know. SO mean. And i don't know if he likes me because he doesn't talk to me at all, but he talks with other girls. What does this mean? Does he like me?
And what should i do about my friends? I don't wanna hurt their feelings if i dance with him at the next dance, and if i talk about him I don't want them to get upset if i say i thik he likes me. The thing is, my two best friends don't know i know they like A. The other one who likes A told me, and made me promise not to tell anyone.
PLEASE HELP!!!!




Well if you liked A first, then your friends should respect that. I suggest you talk to them about it and let them know how it upsets you that they like A. If theyre your friends theyll respect you and back off from A. Good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

skittles34 on 1/30/2010 7:31:01 PM

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skichick4life on 1/23/2010 5:48:41 PM

haha, thanks for this...but i really think while the volturi are awesome edward needs to die...and bella should have pushed him right back out that window!

abbyrox on 1/23/2010 1:50:49 PM

MOD~
Do u think it is ok to love ur BGF like a bro?




Sure!

xoxo

liz 
Liz L.

Tomatos97 on 1/23/2010 7:54:18 AM

Mod mod mod! i need help how do i talk to a dude without makn it seem weird cause i think he has a gf and what do i sa there in the pop croud

 

hey girl!

 

why don't you ask him to be friends?


 

xoxo

sammy d

Sammy d.

_sunshine_101 on 1/22/2010 7:15:28 PM

OK,that was a weird idea,but slightly funny.

Chelle Belle on 1/22/2010 10:42:00 AM

MOD!MOD!MOD! Hey! Thatnks for the links. I read the article but I don't think any of it has happened yet. I don't think he likes me. What should I do? -Rachel

 

Hey doll!  Well if you don't think he likes you, just be friends with him.  There are plenty of other crush- worthy guys out there besides him.

tyler j.

*crazy*cute*gal* on 1/22/2010 9:42:39 AM

MOD!MOD!MOD!
hey. thanks alot for your advice. But i am not really comfortable by telling them because i know they will tell him. and how am I supposed to know if he likes me or if i am comfy around him?
-rachel

 

Hey doll!  Well if you think they'll tell him, keep it to yourself for now... Check out this GL article for 5 ways to tell if he likes you: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/04/22/top-signs-he-likes-you.aspx and you can tell if your comfortable around him if you feel like you can be yourself and not be nervous when you're with him.  And if you feel bold enough to tell him how you feel, tell him you like him. 

tyler j.

*crazy*cute*gal* on 1/21/2010 9:14:41 AM

this page is so cool. if vamps were reali woud definatly do this!team edward!!

anabana08 on 1/20/2010 7:42:06 PM

MOD! MOD! MOD!
Hey,
I am in 6th grade and I am crushing on a 5th grader. He is a year younger to me. My BFF's are very open and have told me about their crushes. but they are either from our class or they are seniors. I am kinda shy to tell them. What should I do? ( Should I tell my freinds? What next step to take to my crushing? )
- Rachel




Hey doll!  If they are true bffs, you can tell them about your crush.  The age difference is only one year, so it's not really a big deal.  The next step with your crush depends on how comfortable you are with him.  You could tell him you like him or just flirt and get to know him.  
tyler j.

*crazy*cute*gal* on 1/20/2010 7:24:12 AM

MODMODMODMODMODMODMOD I have a SERIOUS case of the luv bug and i relly want him to notice me but im not sure how. I really just want to be friends for now. what shud i do? please dont say try talk to him or tell him i like him.

 

Hey babes, if you just want to be friend for now then dont worry about it. Coming clean will only cause unnecessary stress for you for no reason. Wait and see how your relationship changes with him in the next few months then take a second to determine if your're ready for something more serious. xo JANA

jana k.

turquoise_girl13 on 1/19/2010 9:38:06 PM

MOD
THANKS LIZ!!!!!!!!!

dancergirl2232 on 1/19/2010 3:52:02 PM

MOD!!!
EEP! i think im in love! heehee theres this guy Jake and i REALLY like him and we hang out and Talk like ALOT! and i have caught him staring at me... and also today during math my friend Sarah was passing out suckers (i already got one) and we were studying for midterms well i was using sarah's fashcards and i had a question so i went over to Sarah (BEFORE i realized WHO she was talking to (the guy i love more than a fat kid loves cake (JUST A JOKE) but loves me less than a girl loves moronic guys)) well i went up to her and im like SARAH! oh hi Jake... Hes like HEY!! what do you have? (pointing at my dum dum) im like Mango its my fave! and hes like ooh yummy! and smiled so im like i know and then i walked away and in lunch he sat at my table and i got up with my friend haley and i came back and his best bud was sitting in my seat so im like JAKE!!! and hes like SORRY! and shoved his friend i was like awww thanks Jake! and he goes no prob Smile and hes just SO cute and wonderful and i really REALLY like him! and ive heard him say he doesnt want a girlfriend but its a lie (trust me!) do you think he likes mme??//??? THANKS (BTW guys are so confusing and you mods are SO helpful hahaa!)
Love
Lindsey!

 

Hey Lindsey!

Hmm he's definitely vibeing positive signals by getting his friend to move and being playful in general. There's only one way to find out though: hang out with him one-on-one and see if he's still acting the same around you then instead of in a group setting. I hope your info is right on that it's a lie that he doesn't want a GF, because if he really doesn't- don't press! That'll just push him away. Good luck!

Liz R.

dancergirl2232 on 1/19/2010 3:17:30 PM

this guy has liked me since kindergarten and now we are in 6th grade and i like him!! at a school dance, my friends told him and then he asked me to be his GF. i said yeah. and then the next day i found out that he was cheating on me with a girl that sits in back of me on the bus!!! i'm heart broke. it's been two months and i still get the butterflies in my stomach when i see him. i haven't talked to him since we broke up. i still like him though!!!!

lalalissa on 1/18/2010 7:26:07 PM

Edward suks i mean litterally but jacob is sooooo smexy (smooth and sexy)

sk8trgrl123 on 1/18/2010 5:21:09 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD hey 1. We are playing gym volleyball on monday. It is co ed. EEK!! How can i look cute whilev wearing blue mesh shorts and a blue and yellow tee shirt. how should I weart my hair and stuff!? then 2. There is this guy that I like but I don't know if he likes me back. I walk ith him to math because I go over to talk to him at his locker and as we are walking we have this inside joke where he asks me if he closed his locker. hew does it just to see me smile. Then in class (the class we walk from together) whenever something funny happens he looks at me and i look at him, smile then look away. The thing is though, there is this girl behind me who went to the same grade school with him (we are all freshmen. So I don't know if he is looking at her or me or wether he likes me or not. Then the kicker is is that we are having a Sadies dance on Feb. 13!!!! super EEK! so what should I do? THANKS!

 

Hey girl! Just throw your hair into a pony and go hard when you're playing. You'll be the best when you're trying your hardest! And, keep trying to get to know your guy. Ask him what his plans are for the dance and suggest you guys go together just as friends. It will take the pressure off and be a good place for you guys to learn more about each other!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

lolipop247 on 1/17/2010 10:56:10 PM

****MOD***** There's this guy in my school and he and i guess u can say we're friends even though we dont really talk dat much but he's always flirting with me and i like him but the thing is one day he'll talk to me then the nxt he wont say a word to me soooo wats up???He has always done this ever since i met him and its really annoying. Does he like me or not??? PLEASE HELP!!!!

 

Hey girl! Just answered this one! Try checking out where you posted before to get my answer!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

twilightgurl on 1/17/2010 9:42:07 PM

****MOD***** There's this guy in my school and he and i guess u can say we're friends even though we dont really talk dat much but he's always flirting with me and i like him but the thing is one day he'll talk to me then the nxt he wont say a word to me soooo wats up???He has always done this ever since i met him and its really annoying. Does he like me or not??? PLEASE HELP!!!!

 

Hey girl! He's prob just being a guy. Keep trying to be friendly and nice to him. You might be able to coax him out of his 'tude before too long!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

twilightgurl on 1/17/2010 9:38:39 PM

really?

i mean, was twi really that good or are you all completely and utterly mad?!

Gale4ever on 1/16/2010 10:44:30 PM

I really am confused but I think I sorta get it. They are giving us boy tips but making it humorus...I think.

PrincessRuby7 on 1/16/2010 9:42:41 PM



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