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Ask Lucky: Popular Peeps Say I'm Hanging With Losers

 
Dear Lucky,

I ’m in a new school, and a popular girl told me the people I hang out with are losers. They’re nice, but I don’t want to be labeled the dorky new girl. I never cared before what people thought, but now I do!


Anyone who has seen Mean Girls knows there are serious downsides to popularity. “Popular” girls often resort to cruel tactics to demonstrate their so-called superiority. This might not be the case with the girl at your school, but she did call your current friends “losers.” Not the nicest.


Like Lindsay Lohan’s character, you could be invited into the popular crowd, only to later get pushed out and left without real friends. So choose friends based on qualities you think are important, not according to the cafeteria seating. Find girls who are loyal, fun, interesting and caring. True pals give you much more happiness than a glimmer of popularity.


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I use to have this crush on a boy, jake, but then i found a kinder, sweeter boy who asked me out, ian!
I use to have loads of fun with jake and we messed around and he was like one of my best mates i asked him out but he said no and we just carried on being friends.
But now eversince he found i was going out with ian he wont talk to me at all, or joke around in lessons or even say hi!
What should i do because i really dont want to lose him as a mate?

 

Hey babe,

 

Bummer!  Try asking Jake what is bothering him.  It might be hard to get him to be honest at first, but keep trying.  Guys have feelings too - he could feel like he's being replaced, or he could have realized he made a mistake by saying no, or any number of things.  But if you really wanna keep him as a friend, it's worth telling him how much you value him and how much you miss how things used to be!

Lauren C.

by sophsoph555 on 2/12/2010 7:56:53 AM

 
 

Hey. That is what popular people say to me, and then i stoped hanging out with them and i felt bad. So you sould stay with your friends not those popular people, who cares what they think! Popular people just act all stuck up and preppy and they draw to much attetion to themselves so actually, there the losers!
Hopes it helps!
Hannah Smile
xoxo

by hannahbanana814 on 2/1/2010 8:27:42 PM

 
 

thanks mod!!! you're like my hero-that's a reeeally good idea and i've never thought of saying anything like that before! thanks again! good night! Smile God Bless!




Hey girl, no prob. Good luck!

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by idance_17 on 1/23/2010 12:45:30 AM

 
 

MOD
thanks so much for answering back so fast! i didn't know gargling salt water helped relieve the soreness!
here's my 2nd prob--
so my guy friend/crush recently got a cellphone so today in ACE class he asked me if i had a phone so i said yes and then i heard him ask a mutual friend (she was sitting right next to us) if she could get my number and someone else's number for him. earlier he texted me so we talked for a while about cellphones and then he had to leave for bball. thing is, i'm not sure anymore whether he sees me as just a friend or a potential gf. it's hard to tell since he's a flirt (but not a player). sometimes he flirts with me, sometimes not. i don't want to tell him how i feel since what would be waay awkward.how can i get him to see me as a girl he could date? (like i told you yesterday i'm not the best flirt lol!)
thanks sorry if i'm being annoying! i really do appreciate it--no joke u are one of my fave mods because you give the most specific advice! Smile
God Bless!




Hey girl, thanks so much first of all. Here's my suggestion: I'd try asking him hypothetically where he sees your relationship going. Try hinting to him that you see him as boyfriend material and you're looking for someone. Once you plant seeds like that, it's up to him to act one them and let your relationship grow.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by idance_17 on 1/23/2010 12:34:25 AM

 
 

dear MOD--
i have 2 probs but to make it easier for you i'll post them 1-at-a-time.
so i have a cold and although its not too bad, i lost my voice and i can't talk-all i can do is squeak...yea not good. and my throat hurts whenever i do attempt talking. do you know any cures for laryngitis? my bff might come over tomorrow and i don't know sign language. i've tried not talking and drinking lotsa water but so far no progress. can you help me out? thanks i appreciate it! Smile
God Bless!




Hey girl, try resting your voice, drinking plenty of fluids, and sucking on some cough drops. Your throat just needs time to heal and unfortunately there's no miracle treatment. You can also start gargling salt water to clear your sore throat a bit.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by idance_17 on 1/23/2010 12:02:05 AM

 
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