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Dear Lucky,

I ’m in a new school, and a popular girl told me the people I hang out with are losers. They’re nice, but I don’t want to be labeled the dorky new girl. I never cared before what people thought, but now I do!


Anyone who has seen Mean Girls knows there are serious downsides to popularity. “Popular” girls often resort to cruel tactics to demonstrate their so-called superiority. This might not be the case with the girl at your school, but she did call your current friends “losers.” Not the nicest.


Like Lindsay Lohan’s character, you could be invited into the popular crowd, only to later get pushed out and left without real friends. So choose friends based on qualities you think are important, not according to the cafeteria seating. Find girls who are loyal, fun, interesting and caring. True pals give you much more happiness than a glimmer of popularity.


TELL US NOW! Need advice ASAP? Click the purple SEND A QUESTION button to ask our very own Lucky for help!

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Thanks mod! Smile

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by idance_17 on 1/21/2010 7:19:17 AM

 
 

MOD.....
There's this girl who kept following me around because she wanted to be my friend. But she tugged me, made up stories about boyfriends and other stuff. So I felt like she was stalking me. I told her I don't want to be her friend because friends don't make up boyfriends all the time, make up stories and tug people. And now I feel like I broke her heart. But anyways almost everyone knows her 9 the students) think she is a stalker and they call her it instead of she. Idk she really got on my nerves. Do you know what to do on this situation. I told my dad and grandma and friends they think I did the right thing and I took advice from one of my friends to tell her that I dont want to be a friend to her and told the reasons why and seriously do friends lie? They are supposed to be trusted but she wasn't the type for me to have a healthy friend relationship what can I do ? sry this might waste your time.




Hey girl, this isn't wasting my time at all. I agree with your 'rent and grandma on this one: you did the right thing telling her and distancing yourself. Be polite to this girl and feel good that you had the guts to tell her the truth. This girl can't solve her problem until she knows she has one and hopefully it'll be a lesson for her to step back, stop lying and to cling less to people.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

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by 4yah101 on 1/20/2010 11:42:18 PM

 
 

dear MOD,
there's this really cute guy that i'm friends with, and i really like him. he has all of the personality traits that i want in a boyfriend, too. i thought he liked my friend, but it turned out it wasn't true and that they're just really good friends. he is a flirt (but he's not a player and he tones it down when he's in a relationship), so it's hard to decode whether he likes me back or not, but from how he treats me, it's a good bet that he sees me as a possibility for a gf and not just some pretty face. prob is, i'm not the best flirt around the guys i like. i can talk to him, but it's not the kind of talking that helps you get closer to gf status, it's more of the typical just-friends conversations. i'll admit it--i'm not that super bold girl who can walk up to any guy and let him know how hot he is. what are some flirting tips that'll work for me and help me snag this cutie?
thank you so much! i appreciate it! Smile
God Bless!




Hey girl, try teasing and joking around with this guy. Sounds friendly, right? Well, start moving your relationship toward that BF/BGF line. Hint you're looking for a boyfriend and hey, well, a guy like him might just fit the bill. Let him pick up the hints you're into him and then let him decide his move from there. Best of luck, girl! I'm rooting for you.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

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by idance_17 on 1/20/2010 10:51:30 PM

 
 

MOD
One of my friends (I'll call her E) can be really mean sometimes. She thinks it's super funny and stuff, but it's not! One time, during an over night thing at my church, E took my sleeping bag and slept on it. Not only is she super heavy, she wouldn't let go, and she had her own sleeping bag! I'm tired of her doing these little things. I can't change who she is, because she won't listen to anybody. It's like E thinks she's the best girl in the world.
Another friend (I'll call her J) can really just be annoying. She always needs to know stuff. Back when we were having our band concert, she kept begging me to tell her what time the concert started, even when it had been on the board for months! It's like J thinks the world revolves around her. She thinks that everybody will always be there to tell her whatever she needs. Well, they aren't.
ANOTHER friend (I'll call her S) tells my secrets sometimes. Last year, I told her who my crush was, and right after lunch, she shouted it for the whole class to hear! Also, S talks nonstop. I know I talk a lot too, but I never get to open my mouth when I'm near her.
Can you please help me with what to do with these friends?




Hey girl! It sounds like its really bothering you.  How about trying to have a heart-to-heart talk with them and let them know you're really annoyed and just bothered by how they're acting.  If they're not going to be mature, try hanging out with other girls you enjoy being around! 
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by MathGirl98 on 1/19/2010 4:28:02 PM

 
 

Wow, thats EXACTLY like Mean Girls! Lol i luv that movie so watch it and see what u should do ;)

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by SportyGal on 1/19/2010 8:14:30 AM

 
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