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My BF and I have kissed only once, about a week ago.

He told me he loves me, but I want him to kiss me more often. Why won’t he?

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Ok so, my bf just gt busted for doing drugs yesterday at school..and i didn't even know he did drugs! so now no one looks at me the same anymore. including my teachers and friends! i love my bf more than anything, but i wish he would of told me about the drugs. so now all my friends are telling me to drop him, but i really dont want to. but idk.

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cheerbaby3 on 3/19/2010 12:53:38 PM

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Okay, I'm completely in love with my ex. ive read all the break up advice, and how to get over it, but i dont want to let go. I want him back so much. Please help me.

Hey girl,

Breakin' up is so hard to do, and it takes time to get over an ex. If you were the one to break up with him, then go up and tell him you think you made a mistake. If he broke up with you, it might be time to move on. Start hangin' with your friends and keeping yourself busy. The more time you spend doing things, the less you will think about him, and eventually you'll be yourself again!

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twilightfan1696 on 2/23/2010 7:26:04 AM

after r first date my guy said that i love you and i wasent sure if he meant and im still not sure its only been little over a mounth so he keeps saying it tho so im statringto belive him more

countrygirl12460 on 2/21/2010 5:17:39 PM

OMG almost the same thing happened to me. My ex said that he loved me the day after he asked me out. I didn't feel the same way about him.
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SuNsHiNe_LuVeR on 2/16/2010 3:47:14 PM

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Okay, so there's this guy, Jake, who liked me and I liked him. We both knew it. Then, last night, he was texting my friend, Erin, because she was asking him why he wasn't asking me out. He said my friends were annoying him and he wasn't sure if I was worth them. This made Erin upset, and she felt so bad that she could have ruined our relationship for me. Then, I got really upset and mad at him because he obviously didn't like me as much he had said and I had thought. Plus, I didn't want to be involved with a guy who didn't like my friends. He also said that he wouldn't know if he was going to until today, so I said, "Oh, that will be a great birthday gift if you decide not to." (My birthday is today.) So, he said, "Ok, I'll wait until the next day then! I don't know what to tell you!"
Today, he was saying how bad he felt for ruining my Valentine's Day and birthday. I am thinking that I'll forgive him, but I'm not sure if he still likes me. He said he still wants to be friends, but I'm not sure if that was because I was mad and he thought that I didn't like him anymore, or if it was because he decided not to ask me out. I'd be talking to him now, but he has to turn off his phne by 8:00PM. What do you think I should do? Should I forgive him? What should I say to him?
Thanks!

tjacobbabe on 2/15/2010 11:09:38 PM

One of my bffs says i luv to her bff all the time and he says it back.... they havent shared thier first kiss yet and they seem quite happy but i am a little worried they might be goin a little to fast...but i am still very very happy for her because she has found the perfect guy for her...oh yeh they have been dating about three months

horsecazy1234 on 2/13/2010 3:12:58 PM

Mod Mod Mod I have a crush on a sophmore (I'm a freshman.) He's in one of my classes and I see him at the basketball games and stuff. The problem is, I'm not sure he knows I exist. I've talked to him a little, and I've caught his glance and stuff, but I'm not sure he knows my name. How can I get him to notice me? And I've never even had my first kiss. When did you get your first kiss? Plz help me out. Thank you!

Hey missy, try talking to him a little more. Since you guys have a class together, ask him for his notes sometimes. You could also try to sit next or close to him at basketball games. The first kiss is something really special. You'll have it when the time is right and with the right person.

Lynae P.

trumpetgirl1 on 2/12/2010 10:20:57 PM

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okay so this guy really likes me and i used sorta like him 2. we always text and talk to eachother.hes bought me candy and told me he really likes me the prob is my parents wont let me date and i want 2. i think hes going to ask me to be his valentine and i dont no what to do!!!help!!

Hey girlie,

If your parents don't want you to date right now, there's not much you can do. But make sure he knows that you really like him but you're just not allowed - don't just disappear on him! He sounds like a sweet guy, so keep texting and getting to know him. When you feel like you know him really well, try approaching your parents and tell them that you think you're ready to date and you've found a guy who treats you well, who makes you smile, etc. Be mature and tell them you'll be responsible, and see what they say. Good luck! <3

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jojoyce_27 on 2/12/2010 5:53:34 PM

we say it everytime we hang on the fne,...so i am like really lucky....

blossomzzz13 on 2/12/2010 7:07:33 AM

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ok so this guy acquaintance (cuz he's not really my friend) of mine said he loves me and asked me to be his valentine. problem: i don't like him...at all! he's annoying and kind of a creeper. like after he asked me to be his valentine he was like "i wish i could be in your arms right now." it's really annoying because he won't leave me alone even after i told him i don't like him in that way. i don't want to hurt his feelings cuz he has a really low self-esteem so how do i say i would never date you, you're annoying and a creeper, and i won't be your valentine in a nice way???

Hey Darlin! Just tell him that you don't really want to have a valentine this year. You'd rather just skip the holiday for the time being. I'm sure that will fly as a good reason! xo Lizzie

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christiangirlsclub on 2/11/2010 6:53:38 PM

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My school has this Prince/Princess King/Queen Coronation thing every year before Valentines Day, and I got picked for a princess and this other popular girl did too. The Princes are my crush and this really weird, gross, mean kid. Of course, the popular girl will pick my crush, and he likes her so.. yeah. So now I get stuck with the other kid to walk arm in arm in the gym tomorrow! What should I do??

Hey babe, It's just one day and you still have the huge honor of being picked to be a princess, so I think the best thing to do is just take the bad with the good. You never know, this other guy might surprise you! But either way, don't let one little downside ruin something that could be a lot of fun.

xoxo Allie

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Bellward on 2/11/2010 4:59:36 PM

MOD*MOD*MOD I'm in seventh grade and no one has really liked me yet. There is this guy Devon who sits next to me in French. He's always really sweet: holds doors open for me, helps me if I don't get something and is just nice. Most guys call me wierd but he (I guess) sees me differently. I think he might like me. If he does like me, what should I do?? I'm confuzzled...!!

hey girl!

maybe he's just being polite, but if you like him you should write him a note saying you think he is really nice and sweet and you would love to hang out some time!

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soccergirl524 on 2/11/2010 9:47:44 AM

MOD! My crush and I are going to our upcoming dance together, but just as friends. I really want to go out with him, but I'm to shy to ask him myself. What should I do?

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wait til during the dance and drop a comment like "so, why'd we have to come to this as just friends? we should go out together sometime!"

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vklover on 2/11/2010 12:34:02 AM

MOD!! sorry to bug ya again, but i need advice about my friend. she really likes this guy, but he's one of the "bad" kids. we know that he's on drugs, smokes, and beat up his brother and got suspended!!! and despite all this, she still likes him! i mean, she's really smart and in advanced classes and stuff, and i and her other friends dont want her to get involved with this crowd. please help!! (oh and thanks for the other advice. i'll try dropping some hints)

Hey girl, sometimes overachievers can fall for those bad boys: the best thing you can do is voice your concerns and try to turn her attention to someone else -- preferably to a guy who doesn't do those activities. Let your friend know you're worried and that she deserves better than that guy. Help introduce her to other guys and distance her from this questionable guy. She'll appreciate your help in the long run.

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lovin*da*sunshine on 2/10/2010 10:55:41 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!! ok, so there's this guy and i think he likes me!! i mean, we only have a couple classes together and only one of them where we can actually talk cuz he sits next to me, but he is always talking to me and smiling when he does. i really like him too!! neither of us are really good at flirting and/or dating (as neiter of us has been in a relationship before) so i'm not really sure what to do. i really want him to ask me out (possibly for valentine's day) but i think he's kinda shy towards doing something like that. also, i can't talk to him outside of school cuz i dont think he has a cell phone and his facebook was deleted!! how do i get him to ask me out??

Hey girl, why not try hinting in class how you're free Valentine's Day weekend. Suggest maybe seeing a movie together and leave whether you're going as friends or something more up to him.

xoxo

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lovin*da*sunshine on 2/10/2010 10:35:35 PM

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I'm slightly confused. For the last year or so me and T have been close friends, and he's always invading my personal bubble, but I dont mind that much. The other day we got into a pretty bad fight and I refused to talk to him all day today. He did everything he possibly could to get my atention, and when I ignolaged him we started talking about our fight and I asked why it mattered if I talked to him, and he said, and I quote. "Well, my girlfriend is nice and all, but shes just not enough, I need to talk to you." Does he like me more than a friend, or just as a close friend?

Hey girl, just sounds like he's emotionally using you. He sees you as a close friend, but he uses you for the emotional support his GF doesn't give him. If you're OK with that and don't have romantic feelings for him, then it's no biggie. If you do, however, then you might want to spend some time apart: it's unfair to you if he has a GF but is still treating you like his emotional one.

xoxo

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gussing-girl on 2/10/2010 9:19:36 PM

MOD!MOD!MOD! i really like this guy and a while ago we were texting till like 3am and he said he liked me and i told him that i liked him. I expected him to ask me out and that we would start dating but he never did! We talk and Text but he hasn't asked me out! What should i do?!

Hey girl, why not hint you'd like him to ask you out? Sometimes guys just need a little push. (; If he doesn't pick up your hints, just have a convo overall about where he sees your relationship going.

xoxo

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christiangirlsmusicclub on 2/10/2010 7:46:36 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD 2 things Frown 1. My bf likes my best friend more than me! My bf is going out with me of corse but he thinks my best friend is hotter than me! we have only been dating for 2 weeks... should i be mad??? 2. My bf is confussing me! Last night online (not here) he was somewhat flirty and sweet even with his friends on and today i called him hot and he said "ur making me feel uncomfortable" we laughed it off but it still affected how i feel.... HELP!

Hey missy, I would be a little mad if I were you. You want your bf and bff to have a good relationship, but not so good to the point where he pays more attention to her. So just talk to him and see what's up. Mhmm that's odd. Maybe he's more comfortable flirting online because he can't see or hear you but when he's actually talking to you he gets nervous. Talk to him about that too.

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twee teen on 2/10/2010 7:30:01 PM

I personally wouldn't say "I love you" for a really long time, and only when I'm absolutely sure. There's a difference between casually saying "love ya!" instead of like, bye, to someone. But actually telling a guy seriously that you love him is a huge step, i think. I would reserve that word for a really really long time.

Sandytoes22 on 2/10/2010 7:04:28 PM

MOD< MOD< MOD< Vday is coming and i totally need an idea of what to get my guy friend. We arent dating but we are SUPER close and i have the worlds best crush on him, and i found out that he really likes me back.. anyway, i need advice ASAP... Thanks Oh, and ALL girls feel free to brainstorm a little here for me... if you think of something, you can post it on my profile or even post it here.... BUT PLEASE help me out!!!!! Tanks a Bunches... <3

Hey girly, you could get him some cute boxers with hearts on them, make a photo collage of the two of you hanging out together and cut it out in the shape of a heart, or you could burn him a cd.

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missAttitude<3 on 2/10/2010 5:45:05 PM

my crush said i love you to me!!! 5 times!! hahaaha i love him lololololz....and we are not evn goin out! if anyone wants to talk about boys or anything comment on my profile! IM HAVING SOME TROUBLES HONESTLY NEEED ADVICE.

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fudgey88 on 2/10/2010 2:58:35 PM

yo chill things will work out hunni!

NashvilleGirl13 on 2/10/2010 1:45:45 PM

MODDDDDDDD PLEEEEEEEEEEASE HELP ASAP
Ok, so me and my bf have been going out for three almost four weeks and i have no idea what to get him for valentines day. we havent kissed yet, so i plan on kissing him as part of the gift. but i feel like i should like buy or make him something, but i dont know what. we're thirteen. any ideas?

lotsa luv!
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laneybug24 on 2/10/2010 1:28:46 PM

my bf tells me i luv u everyday and im only in 6th grade!!! i asked him once if he really meant it (cuz luv is a big feeling) and he said yes he means it and he says it from his heart! i waz lyk WOAH!!! also he wants to kiss me this friday before valentines day but im not sure im ready for that kinda stuff yet! HELP!!!!!!

Hey GIrl! Don't do anything that you're not ready to do. Make sure your first kiss is special and that you both like each other in the same ways. xo Lizzie

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marrabb on 2/10/2010 1:12:45 PM

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2 things
1. My bf likes my best friend more than me!
My bf is going out with me of corse but he thinks my best friend is hotter than me! we have only been dating for 2 weeks... should i be mad???
2. My bf is confussing me!
Last night online (not here) he was somewhat flirty and sweet even with his friends on and today i called him hot and he said "ur making me feel uncomfortable" we laughed it off but it still affected how i feel....
HELP!

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sarahs advice :D on 2/9/2010 10:02:27 PM

I might feel a little strange if a guy said I love you to soon. I think it can be to soon and if it leaves you wondering why he said it. Even if in the end you do love each other I think if its to soon it can be scary.

We dont have to love every guy we date or who is our bf. I just think love is a special word and we shouldnt be saying it to guys and not mean it and they shouldnt do the same.

luckykel on 2/9/2010 9:32:07 PM

my boyfriend said "i love you" like 5 days after we started going out i thought it was kinda wierd......:/

cool_birdie4 on 2/9/2010 9:00:30 PM

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im going to be baby sitting my nieace for the whole month and this is like my first time , shes 1 close to being two and shes a wild one any tips on how to survive this experience?

Hey babe, Talk to her parents and get as many details from them about the best way to take care of her. Get all her likes and dislikes and the best way to get her to calm down or go to sleep. The more prepared you are the better it will go!

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LithicBlossom on 2/9/2010 8:07:28 PM

WOAH! If this font size was bigger, it would be HA-YUGE. I think you need to tell Mr.LoveMachine to slow his gears. Love is not like Rhianna. It doesn't go 0 TO 60 in 3.5. Oh and by the way, YOU start kissing him more often!

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There's this guy at my school that's a year older than me. LEt's call him AJ. He flirts with alot of the girls. I happen to be one of them. He's the bad boy, wants to have sex with evry girl type. I know what those kinda guy's lead to. He's been flirting with me like evry day since the like the beggining of the school year. I am fed up with the flirting and want nothing to do with his excistence! Plus, he makes me feel real uncomfortable and it's affecting me getting a different guy for a BF! How can i get him to stop the flirting and leave me alone without saying a word to him?

Hey babe, try to stay away from this guy as much as possible. Ignore him, so that way you don't egg him on. If he continues to bother you, tell a trusted adult.

Megan R.

tye-dyegirl105 on 2/9/2010 6:43:12 PM

lol yea slow down a little bit!
lol this picture is so funny

serafinasunshine23 on 2/9/2010 6:33:50 PM

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okay, so my BFF has gotten together with one of my BGFs just about a week ago. i know they really like each other, but they're kissing each other (on the lips too) alot. its weird cuz they do it in public and its really weird when i'll be talking to her. he'll come over, put his arm around her, and give her a kiss. and we're all in 8th grade. do you think i should tell her that several people (including me) think that they're going to fast and doing too much for just middle school? please help me out!

Hey babe! I don't know if I'd word it like that, but it'd definitely be a good idea to let her know you and other people feel uncomfortable when they have a lot of PDA. (kissing and touching in public)

Megan R.

tofutezee on 2/9/2010 6:23:25 PM

Did you tell him how you felt?

sixteengirl93 on 2/9/2010 5:20:02 PM

i don't have a bf SAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know

hitthemall#1 on 2/9/2010 4:42:36 PM

dude, my bf and i say i love u all the time! were only in 7th grade!!! who cares! watevs

fluffy kittenz on 2/9/2010 3:46:38 PM

personally, i don't think that saying "I love You" is a such a big deal!!! My friend's boyfriend told her he loved her before they even kissed!!! and she wuz totally cool with it and wuzn't freaking out. its not HUGE deal.

guitarskaterchic14 on 2/9/2010 2:43:13 PM

Is it bad for a girl to date younger guys?

SweetHoney on 2/9/2010 2:39:24 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MODD Hey! Well my bf and i have been going out for almost a month and a half now. Everything has been going great, i even shared my first kiss with him. Anyway, hes super sweet and cute so a lot of girls like him. He's nice to everyone so i cant help but feel a little jealous when he talks to another girl about an inside joke or tickles her or something. I know he doesnt mean anything because hes going out with me and not them. What can i do to not feel jealous?

hey girl! it's all about trust. nice guys are the best to be with, but sometimes they make you feel insecure/jealous. Don't be that ugly jealous person! Keep being sweet to him and try to plan a few extra special dates

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hgirl411 on 2/9/2010 12:57:37 PM

The guy I like kissed me last Friday!

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