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by mel2999 on 5/3/2013 10:51:08 PM
To any girls curious about masturbating, it is perfectly normal and even healthy. It is when you in a sexual way touch, rub, or otherwise sexually stimulate your vagina. It is (in my opinion) a safer alternative to actually having sex. It is an extremely private affair that most people are embarresed to talk about. The reason I posted this is because I think if a girl is already looking at an article like this, she wants to know the truth, no matter how private. You don't have to do it, but if you do, be sure to do it in private.
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by radkid985 on 9/29/2012 2:41:24 PM
by radkid985 on 9/29/2012 1:48:31 PM
by wizvamp115 on 5/31/2012 6:36:27 PM
I Like goaliegirl1998,that's kinda cool and yes it is a form of masturbation. but careful with your pictures,cause you don't want anyone to find them. the key to masturbation is to have fun,feel good and plus it takes care of stress.
by ASHLEYMANETTI on 12/4/2011 6:01:38 PM
by sweetautumnsunshine on 7/6/2011 12:26:46 PM
by stylediva on 5/29/2011 1:27:05 PM
by iloveecco on 5/21/2011 12:28:54 PM
When it comes to doing things with guys its better to wait to do them if you can. Some of us cant help it and cant wait but some of us can, like my cousin is fully sexually active and she is younger than I am and she seems to be doing well.
And wanting to do things with guys is just natural because of our hormones but it doesnt mean we have to do them. I struggle with that and so do many of my friends, that is why masturbation is there so it can help us get through those tough times until we are ready for sex. Taylor Mumson from GG talks about not having sex and using vibrators to help her and I agree with that.
by luckykel on 2/5/2011 12:36:00 AM
Hey... I'm 11 years old and I just got a bf that is 2 years older than me and has fingered a girl before. We've only been going out a week and he's already talking about like making out and stuff. Like I want to do this stuff but it's kinda weird because I can't talk to any adults because my parents say I'm not allowed to date... Any advice???
by Jewl12 on 2/4/2011 10:54:49 PM
by randomgirl789 on 1/17/2011 7:44:51 PM
by Aquarius1998 on 1/12/2011 8:14:15 AM
by jeffhardyfan1198 on 1/7/2011 1:11:12 AM
THis is really personal, and some may not want to read it!
So I sometimes touch myself, and take pictures, and shove cotton swabs up my vagina, and anal. Is this masturbation?
by goaliegirl1998 on 1/3/2011 6:28:45 PM
how can u find ur vagina without a mirror?
by bananabunny on 1/2/2011 2:16:20 PM
by randomgirl789 on 12/29/2010 12:25:02 AM
by blueseastars13 on 12/15/2010 8:07:15 PM
by Tvxq on 12/13/2010 3:20:46 PM
by peeweehew on 11/21/2010 4:28:37 PM
ZebraStar23, I doubt she will hate you. And remember that your mom went through her periods and feminine stuff too, so I doubt she'll get mad. You don't have to tell her. It's harmless. Never tryed it, but when I learned about sex ed last year my teacher told the class that.
by CheshireCat12 on 11/18/2010 1:28:27 AM
modmodmodmodmodmod!!!!!!! im 12 and at night i always fantacize about things like guys touching my boobs and vagina! wouls masturbating stop this??? and is there a way to stop this???
by mibi11 on 11/16/2010 3:27:26 PM
by lifeandmusic on 11/13/2010 8:29:24 PM
by luckykel on 11/1/2010 5:35:07 PM
lots of girls masturbate at this age even though i haven't try it (or i don't think i want to try it).. it is very normal, and you shouldn't feel guilty because you are not the only one.. just make sure nobody is watching and keep it private..
P.S if you want any advice check my profile!... i give cool tips specially on makeup or fashion!
by sunshine96 on 10/13/2010 4:51:14 PM
i masterbated and i never told my mom and i feel lkke a should but if i do she will hate me or that she will tell my dad what do i do help!
by ZebraStar23 on 10/3/2010 8:38:20 PM
if u need advice just post it on my profile and ill get back 2 u within 24 hours!
by lildiva on 9/27/2010 5:51:45 PM
by lildiva on 9/27/2010 5:51:29 PM
by tiggerlover98 on 9/13/2010 8:29:08 PM
by aignessa on 9/12/2010 7:48:34 PM
by aignessa on 9/12/2010 7:40:02 PM
by taylorluv on 9/6/2010 7:11:53 PM
I know masturbating is normal and a lot of us do it but you have be sure you arent going to casue any problems when doing it. And for us, we can touch around the outside and have it feel good but we can also make it feel good by touching on the inside of down there. Just be smart when doing that and make sure that your hands or whatever you are using is clean and not sharp, when our health teacher told us that you could imagine the laughs. Its still funny but its true.
by luckykel on 9/5/2010 11:54:47 PM
by proarchergal42 on 8/29/2010 6:08:39 PM
O GOSH!im a horse back rider haha
by camicool on 8/29/2010 5:16:34 PM
by proarchergal42 on 8/29/2010 4:32:02 PM
I think mine broke from bike riding.cause Ive never done *it* before.I use to ride bikes with my old friend all the time.
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by malibu96 on 8/21/2010 12:04:50 PM
funlovingirl22, We dont get erections, only guys do. But we do have something like that when the blood starts flowing down there when we get excited or turned on but its not called an erection. It just happens naturally to us when we start puberty, but it isnt that same as what guys get.
by luckykel on 8/16/2010 10:28:01 PM
by clairinetplayer84 on 8/14/2010 5:18:39 PM
sometimes when i get an erection it starts to hurt in the back area of my vagine...is that normal? should i be worried?
by funlovingirl22 on 8/13/2010 3:36:08 AM
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by Halzabalza on 8/10/2010 3:51:03 PM
MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!
do u know how i can change my user name??????
by cmz456 on 8/8/2010 11:08:26 PM
Thanks for the time anyway...i thought maybe you'd know more, but that was sufficient enough♥
by cmz456 on 8/8/2010 11:06:26 PM
by cmz456 on 8/8/2010 10:57:25 PM
by girlsliferocksss98 on 8/8/2010 10:32:58 PM
i got caught masturbating and i didnt feel guilty about it untill i got a beat dow . funny huh?
by poohbearbarbie on 8/7/2010 8:22:05 PM
I'm not allowed to tell you how, but it's not wrong and you shouldn't feel guilty about it. Helen S.
by GagaGrrl on 8/7/2010 1:31:05 PM
I had the talk about guys sex and masturbating with my mom and even if our moms dont say anything they know we masturbate or will start sometime. And its normal at first to feel guilt from doing it because we feel pleasure from it. Part of the guilt could be because it has to do with us doing something 'down there' that feels good. But the more you masturbate the more you will feel that its normal to do it.
And if you feel paranoid that your parents know, just try to do it when they arent home and you have more privacy, just lock your bedroom or bathroom door when you do it.
by luckykel on 8/5/2010 11:59:13 PM
Hey girl, it involves touching yourself "down there." As the title says, it is a "private matter." Vanessa J.
by jbjmacluver42796 on 8/5/2010 3:37:00 PM
Hey, I masturbate sometimes but then afterwards I get a huge feeling of guilt. And then I get really paranoid about thinking that my parents know that I did it. Is this normal, and how can I get over being so paranoid?
by eerin25 on 8/2/2010 7:35:33 PM
Okay, this is kind of a weird topic. I'm 14, and I can't really say that I know how to do it....
Am I immature for not knowing or not doing it??
by HawaiianJersey on 8/2/2010 3:40:24 AM
I really think this is kind of a weird topic. Gosh, I don't even know how...?
Am I immature for not knowing?
by HawaiianJersey on 8/2/2010 2:55:05 AM
MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
can you erase my last unanswered question?? thanks so much!
by silverpheonix on 8/1/2010 8:27:01 PM
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by kyluvsjoe98 on 7/30/2010 4:51:03 PM
Taylor Momsen from Gossip Girl talked about toys!
About the "toys" thing, has anyone heard what said Taylor Momsen from "Gossip Girl" said about them this week?
It was all over the movie teen blogs about what she said about them and using them. At least she was brave enough to say something about them, most people would have never said what she did.
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by bestiez on 7/28/2010 12:19:26 AM
so if u where a tampon u will still be virgin????
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by clairinetplayer84 on 7/24/2010 10:14:35 PM
mod mod mod
to complete the other q idk the mods talk bout toys to "do it"
by silverpheonix on 7/24/2010 8:55:34 PM
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by abbyb24 on 7/23/2010 7:25:21 PM
OMG. My friends and i never argued about that, but i always have wondered about it. Thanks
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by wstewa14 on 7/20/2010 11:34:24 AM
Kudos to you that you have guts to ask a tough question. Its your life, and if you want to masturbate, go ahead? who are we to judge. I'm not going to lie, masturbating can make you feel good and improve your self-esteem. And if you feel sexually active masturbating is the way to go. i read that in the old Cosmo girl issue, don't remember which month. Masturbating is a safe normal thing to do, we shouldn't be ashamed its natural, just make sure you have clean hands if you plan to. you don't want to get bacteria in your u know what.
by alias1020 on 7/18/2010 10:56:57 PM
by alias1020 on 7/18/2010 10:56:36 PM
Its completely normal for girls to masturbate. We dont talk about it like guys do but we do it to. And when it comes to toys, I would watch that Oprah tv program that went over things for girls to understand about masturbating and using toys and how normal it is. I watched it with my mom online and it was a big help, some of it was embarrassing but it was good for both of us to watch, especially for me to learn about toys and realizing I am not weird.
Just do your own research about it, because I think its good to know things about it.
by luckykel on 7/18/2010 10:06:16 PM
by sn3rd on 7/18/2010 12:19:45 AM
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by clairinetplayer86 on 7/17/2010 12:38:26 AM
god!it feels so good 2 do it ....anyway girls if u want 2 ask about ANYTHING u can ask me on my profile ,,don't feel emmbaresd ..
by haneen.pop.princess on 7/16/2010 5:54:46 PM
Hey! Sure I can make your question private 1.No 2. Yes 3. There are all kinds of addictive behaviors that people learn to control with help, but this situation wouldn't be very common. Hope this helps!
by poohbear(: on 7/16/2010 11:23:43 AM
by clairinetplayer86 on 7/15/2010 9:34:08 PM
by clairinetplayer86 on 7/15/2010 2:14:47 AM
Is it possible to masturbate too much where it can cause any problems? And isnt it better if you get to urge that we go ahead and do it because it can take away the urge to do something with a guy that we may not be ready for?
by luckykel on 7/7/2010 11:36:00 PM
by silverpheonix on 6/30/2010 8:23:27 PM
Can anyone please post on my profile how to... ya know? Because I'm very curious... =\ Its weird, I know but still!
by FrenchMani<3 on 6/29/2010 12:58:02 PM
by silverpheonix on 6/23/2010 2:03:30 PM
I'm not sure specifically about the Catholic faith, but I don't think it's a sin. Lots of girls (and guys) do it and it's perfectly normal and healthy. Vanessa J.
by karategirl78 on 6/22/2010 4:19:22 PM
by silverpheonix on 6/21/2010 2:11:37 PM
omg masturbation is probably one of the best things u'd ever wanna do.Its completely safe,normal and makes u feel a lot more comfortable with ur bod.
by peaches/cream on 6/18/2010 9:54:33 PM
by Swimmababe on 6/18/2010 2:17:56 PM
masterbating is totally normal! i think everybody will do it at one point or another. it makes you feel great! some times you may feel more of an urge to do it...........idk......
by dancer19 on 6/16/2010 4:17:16 PM
Hey girl, sorry I can't post your question. I can't comment much on this matter, but I would try talking to someone like a counselor about their opinion on the matter. lauren r.
by blueseastars13 on 6/14/2010 8:10:09 PM
volley..ball820, I think we all go through those feelings, I did when I first started exploring down there. I am kind of over feeling weird about doing that now but we are all different, and if you want to stop I hope you can. I know our hormones have something to do with it, so that is why we get those urges to masturbate. And for me if I see a cute guy or if I even read or watch something on tv, it might make me think about doing it and I end up giving in and doing it.
But like the mod said just start cleaning or exercising and it does take some practice to not give into to wanting and having those urges to do it. Part of me just kind of gave into it realizing its normal, but thats me.
by luckykel on 5/5/2010 4:33:29 PM
by volley...ball0820 on 5/2/2010 3:26:05 PM
When will I get my period? It's not like I'm anxious to get it (no way!) I just want to know if there are any signs for it. I get vaginal discharge (mostly clear) and about every-other day.
by kattiluv9393 on 4/24/2010 3:42:25 PM
by fired up on 3/31/2010 4:12:09 PM
Masturbating isnt gross but it isnt something we should just talk about with anybody, its a private thing just like the article says. And since I think we all do it, including the guys we know, and if we arent doing it now we someday will, we shouldnt feel bad about doing it.
And if you do wonder what masturbating is just listen in health class or ask your mom because even my mom and I had talks about it. And if you cant do that just look on google or wikipedia because they explain what its all about.
by luckykel on 3/19/2010 4:36:46 PM
by koolios on 3/18/2010 10:54:02 PM
by Chibivampire on 3/18/2010 9:57:47 PM
Masturbation *isn't* gross...I thought this was 2010. People really need to be getting over these dumb ideas.
by cacophony on 3/17/2010 3:40:57 AM
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by lipsmackergal5 on 3/8/2010 9:35:24 PM
by luckykel on 3/7/2010 12:35:38 AM
StarsCollide idk i haven't heard a case but im thinking no its kinda like if you touched your chest would they get bigger no hopefully not!
by Ladybug863 on 2/28/2010 9:10:56 PM
LOL! Can you get your period by masturbating? And who would admit to it?!?!
by StarsCollide on 2/28/2010 5:44:28 PM
save_the_sharks, you could just ask your healh teacher about it, maybe you have as good and open health teacher as i do and you can do that. But if you dont its basically touching down there like the article says, and most of us do it or start to do it around the ages we are now. We do it because it feels good and it helps us learn about our body.
And just like Ladybug863 said you can surf the web for questions and answers, there is a lot of information about it.
by luckykel on 2/27/2010 7:28:22 PM
Mod mod Im only asking cuz it's wat this is about..but..how do you masterbate? And is it bad to do??
by save_the_sharks on 2/27/2010 4:35:12 PM
i know what masturbating is and it is when you put your hand down there and touch it so you reach a point where you feel a great and lovely sensation.I have two everyday and they feel soooooo good i am in love with it.
by stripedsocks101 on 2/25/2010 3:55:36 PM
by dachshundluver on 2/25/2010 3:06:10 PM
I agree its not bad to do before or after you start having your period and as long as it doesnt get in the way of everyday things like doing school work and being social its totally normal and natural! And I know there are times when you will want to do it more and when you want to do it less, so dont get scared when that happens because we are all kind of going through the same thing. And a lot of that is because of hormones, puberty and thinking about guys. And best of All, Its Safe!
by luckykel on 2/23/2010 11:49:46 PM
i know what masturbation is and it wont hurt you it wont cause any pain so really most people are involved in it look around makes you wonder lol!talk to your parents and it isnt bad to do this b4 your period it wont do anything! i got all this from my mom!oh and dont be embarrassed about it and its natural and its most certainly not weird. surf the web for q's about it! thnx
by Ladybug863 on 2/23/2010 10:26:56 PM
is it bad to do this before you get your period?
by iluvedward1396 on 2/23/2010 9:30:03 PM
Oh nooo! i just went bike riding and i'm bleeding there. but hmm i don't feel any pain. :/
by Sunofelder on 2/18/2010 8:36:31 PM
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by All.Time.Low.Is.All.Time.Love<<33 on 2/14/2010 6:16:57 PM
google it or ask someone but that would be sssooooooo AWKWARD!
by Katiekins130 on 2/12/2010 5:14:28 PM
i go to a REALLY small private school and we don't have a health class there, so i never learned about any of this stuff.
by sillymeoops on 2/12/2010 9:40:02 AM
I say that it would be easier to masturbat because unless your old and want to have a child you would have sex.
by computer386 on 2/10/2010 6:15:32 PM
I am glad my teacher brought up the subject of masturbating and breaking our hymens in class when we went over human development because it wasnt something we were going come out and ask. She said it was very normal and that most people do it even if they dont admit it.
And I know on The Secret Life show they are talking about it a lot, and I think they are doing that so people will understand its an alternative to us having sex with a guy. Maybe if people understood that teen pregnancy would go down or we wouldnt get involved with a guy as young as some of us are doing. I kind of agree with that.
Our teacher said, blame it on hormones and being curious and not because its gross or bad to do.
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