You and your BFF were super-tight until, suddenly, she starts ignoring you and ditches you for a new group of friends. But then, when she has some major boy drama, and comes running back to you for advice! You want to help, but it's hard for you to feel bad for her when she's been so mean to you lately.
My best friend has completely betrayed me for the past two months. First, she was ignoring me. I didn't know why, but every time I tried to join her when she was with her new group of friends, she would walk away. Everyone else would follow, leaving me looking alone and looking like an idiot. I also kept joking around and saying that she was dating Luke, our grade's biggest jerk. She would deny it.
Just today, she sent me an e-mail saying that she really had been dating Luke for the past two months, and he had dumped her over the phone. It was sort of hard to be upset for her after she had lied countless times.
BFF Fix-It: While it was wrong of your friend to ditch you for a new group of pals, it was also mean of you to tease her about Luke! Both of you have not been very good friends to each other, and it's time to apologize.
Step up and say that you're sorry for teasing her about Luke. Tell her that you want to be there for her, but she has to prove she's loyal to you by acknowledging you around her new pals. Let her know that you need her to be honest in the future, and that it hurts when you're left out.
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POSTED ON 3/8/2010 7:00:00 AM
POSTED IN bad friend