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You and your BFF were super-tight until, suddenly, she starts ignoring you and ditches you for a new group of friends. But then, when she has some major boy drama, and comes running back to you for advice! You want to help, but it's hard for you to feel bad for her when she's been so mean to you lately.


My best friend has completely betrayed me for the past two months. First, she was ignoring me. I didn't know why, but every time I tried to join her when she was with her new group of friends, she would walk away. Everyone else would follow, leaving me looking alone and looking like an idiot. I also kept joking around and saying that she was dating Luke, our grade's biggest jerk. She would deny it.


Just today, she sent me an e-mail saying that she really had been dating Luke for the past two months, and he had dumped her over the phone. It was sort of hard to be upset for her after she had lied countless times.


BFF Fix-It: While it was wrong of your friend to ditch you for a new group of pals, it was also mean of you to tease her about Luke! Both of you have not been very good friends to each other, and it's time to apologize.


Step up and say that you're sorry for teasing her about Luke. Tell her that you want to be there for her, but she has to prove she's loyal to you by acknowledging you around her new pals. Let her know that you need her to be honest in the future, and that it hurts when you're left out.


TELL US NOW! Are you dealing with a backstabbing BFF? Vent it out and we'll try to fix your sitch! Click the blue SUBMIT YOUR OWN button and we'll help you erase that evil sistah, ASAP.

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by hcteh on 5/11/2010 12:28:21 PM

 
 

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There's this girl at my school who my friends are friends with whose name is Anna. Well, yesterday, while I was finishing lunch, I got a call from Anna. I never gave her my phone number, so I don't know how she got it. Well, she immediately started talking about how she loves my boyfriend, Nathan. She was like, "Nathan's gonna break up with you and then date me!" and "Nathan's last name sounds better with my name than it does with yours!" and "I want Nathan's bod. He hates you and he loves me!"
Nathan has hated Anna all year, and he's always holding my hand and trying to get me away from others so we can kiss, so I seriously doubt that he's going to break up with me. Also, I never gave Anna my number, and everytime she calls me (which is about twenty times a day), her number comes up as RESTRICTED so I can't call her back and tell her to stop annoying me. Anna wasn't at school today and I barely know her, so I don't know what to do!
I didn't tell my parents because I wasn't sure what I heard because Nathan's always called gross and stuff at school so I didn't think Anna was really telling the truth. Also, my friend and one of her other friends said they would send me Anna's number, but then they walked off whispering to each other and laughing. What do I do?




Hey babe, it sounds like this girl Anna has some serious issues. She's obsessed with her boyfriend and she's not leaving you alone, which is NOT okay.  You should tell your parents or a trusted teacher or adult that this girl is harassing you. You know in your heart what the truth is.  Try to block her number if you can, and don't answer if it's RESTRICTED caller.  Stand up for yourself, don't let her get you down.  She's very jealous.  
Megan R.

by MathGirl98 on 5/10/2010 5:31:17 PM

 
 

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ok so my brother asks me stuff about a girl he likes..and advice...and he also always talks about her to mine and his bgf...and yesterday our bgf told my brothers crush all about what he said. All for 75 cents!!! (my brother isn't on speaking terms with him right now) and he has done stuff like that to me too! what should I do to make him stop? thanks sooooo much!

 

Hey babe,

Wow, not cool!  I know you feel protective about your brother and want to make sure he doesn't get mistreated (I would too!), but remember that this is mostly his issue to deal with.  Did he tell his friend that this stuff was off-limits to tell other people?  When you share a secret with someone, there's always a risk that that person could tell.  It's a risky thing, to trust someone - and unfortunately it back-fired here.  Just keep assuring your brother that YOU won't spill his secrets, so he knows he still has the support of someone.

Lauren C.

by *Sigh* on 5/5/2010 3:05:06 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!! I have a problem. So me and my friend got into this huge fight and now we aren't friends anymore. I was her first bff comming into a new school and we were like sisters. Then after the year passed, all of a sudden everyone wanted to hang out with her and she was miss little popular. She then replaced me with someone else and I tried to be friends with her but whenever I tried to, she was always so mean to me. When she moved, I thought me and my bff were going to be close friends again but then she found someone else to hang out with. I kept telling my friend what she was doing and she was like "oh" and didn't change the way she acted like she said she would. Then she started to ignore me and whenever I wanted to hang out with her, she always said she was going over her other friends house and she even told me before they were friends that she didn't even like her and now theyre best friends. Then she got a bf and they've gone out 9 times and everytime they broke up, she came to me. Then after we got in a fight, all of my other friends are ignoring me and going to her and feeling bad for her when I don't get. I was all depressed at school and none of my friends even talked to me. They were too busy with her and I've told all of them how they act but they don't seem to change. I'm at a breaking point where I want to skip school because I don't want to deal with this. All I want to do is cry all the time. What should I do. I need help! (srry this was so long. I tried to shorten it as much as possible.)

 

Hey girl,
I'm sorry to hear about the friend drama.  If she's been treating you the way that she say she has, then maybe she's not the kind of friend you really want.  Try to find opportunities to broaden your circle, like by joining a new club or activity, to find friends who will treat you right.  If you're at your breaking point, it would be a good idea to find an adult - like a parent, teacher, or counselor - that you trust and can talk to for support.  It's great you reached out for help - hang in there, it will get better.  xoxo


Marie H.

by sj96 on 4/28/2010 5:56:24 PM

 
 

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okay so me and this girl have been bffs for 2 years. in january, she totally ignored me and dumped me. i was very upset. i was only left with like two friends for an entire month and a half. i was heartbroken. in february, we apologized and had a bff makeup. i was so happy to be included again! but then again today i was being ignored. again. what should i do? i really dont want to be in a friendship where im ignored, but i really dont want to start over with a new group of friends!
help me please, im so upset.

 

Hey babe,

This happens in friendships and relationships sometimes - you give a person a second chance but they end up doing the exact same thing.  If you think your friend cares about your relationship and would want to stay friends, talk to her about it.  Give her time to prove she can treat you well.  But you're right - you deserve a friend who WANTS to be your friend, not who ignores you until it's convenient for them.  If your bff isn't sure she wants to be friends with you and isn't sure if she wants to talk to you, she isn't worth your time.  Making new buds is tough but it'll be so worth it to find people who share your interests and genuinely care about you! <3 you can do it.

Lauren C.

by beautiful*smart*brunettte on 4/27/2010 4:25:56 PM

 
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