Ask A Guy: First Kiss Help!

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I’ve been going out with my BF for three months, and we’ve never kissed! He’s told me that he loves me, but he’s never kissed me! Also, my friends have been texting and talking to him about it. They told me that he said he WANTS to kiss me.

This would be both of our first kisses. I wish I had the nerve to kiss him myself but I can’t summon up the power to do it! Please help!



First kisses are scary, even for a guy. There are way too many things that go through our heads that make us so nervous. I’ve been in this situation before, just waiting for that first kiss. I know it’s hard to be patient—but trust me, it’ll happen.

The key is not to force it. You will know exactly when the time is right. Don’t bug your guy or obsess over it—just let it happen naturally. Oh, and keep your friends out of this, too. You're probably making your guy even more nervous by having your buds blow up his phone about the big moment. If you let it be, who knows? Maybe you WILL be the one to initiate the kiss. Good luck!

BY MIKE D. ON 3/15/2010 7:00:00 AM

POSTED IN kissing crash course