More Friends = More Fun


Tweets !

1 HOURS AGO QUIZ! What lip color is so ~you~?

2 HOURS AGO <3 @ZacEfron? Come hang w. GL + @DCWax for a VIP figure reveal bash (plus cake, music + more):

2 HOURS AGO These Vaseline hacks are almost too good to be true:


sponsored links

I think I'm mean! Help!


I can be very mean sometimes. I’m not a mean popular girl who wants to make other people’s lives miserable. But I tend to say nasty things when I don’t really mean any of it.

Are there any tips on how I can be less mean to people?

Hey girl! Sounds like you’ve just gotten into a habit of saying mean things and not actually meaning them. So, it’s time to kick the habit for good so people don’t mistake you for actually being mean.

Get your friends in on it

Tell your pals about your plan. If they tell you that you aren’t mean, tell them you think you are and this is something you would like to change for yourself. Have them tell you when you say something mean. They have to stick with this so you can become aware of how often you say something not so nice.

Think before you speak

Believe me when I say this is a problem for a lot of teenagers (and um, some adults, too!). But instead of just blabbing the first thing that comes to mind, stop and think. Ask yourself if what you are about to say is going to hurt someone’s feelings or if it sounds meaner than you actually intend it to sound.

Breaking a bad habit

Just like biting your nails, this can disappear within a month if you work at it. It’s about being aware of what you say at all times and making sure your friends are helping you keep tabs on your comments. Once you start saying nice things, instead of mean things, the bad habit will be gone!


ARE YOU THE ONE CAUSING ALL THE DRAMA? CLICK HERE to submit your own problem to be answered on Girl Talk!

POSTED ON 3/22/2010 7:00:00 AM


comments powered by Disqus
It's time for your monthly sleepover with the girls. What are you gals going to do?


Show off your sporty style...and you could appear in NFL's next teen fashion campaign!


CLICK HERE to enter (plus snag inspo,

details and official rules).

Posts From Our Friends

sponsored links