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Guys Were Checking Me Out!

 

I was out of town for spring break with my family and noticed a lot of guys checking me out.


Now that I’m home, I want to tell my friends how silly guys look when they gawk at me. How do I do that without bragging?


Dear Don’t Want to Boast,

If your inner censor tells you to beware, listen. When a girl goes on and on about guys checking her out, it makes other girls feel less confident about themselves.


It won’t make them like you any extra, either. While it’s nice to be noticed, keep that good feeling to yourself. You can even say, “I met some cute boys.” But if you say anything even close to “I got checked out,” that’s not sharing—that’s boasting, which you say you don’t want to do.


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I've always been a litttle awkward looking ( too big feet and hands, long skinny legs, crazy frizzy hair). all of a sudden, i've been getting a lot of attention from guys... and not the normal attention.I'm not sure if it's sincere tho... should i flirt with the guys, or just ignore them?? Love, J.

 

Hey babe,

Are the guys who are flirting with you known to be nice guys?  Or are you getting attention from "bad" boys, guys who are known to be mean to people, etc.?  Just try to figure that out first and you might be able to see their intentions more clearly.  We all go through that when a guy shows he's interested - we all have to try to figure out what he's after and if the attention is positive or not.  But make sure you don't miss out on anything because of your own body image.  If these guys are nice and actually want to get to know you better, don't push them away because you're worried about your "flaws."  They're seeing something really great about you that you should try to see too Smile

Lauren C.

by jackieluvfeather on 5/23/2010 1:10:28 PM

 
 

lol u should not care about them go 2 ur bff and tell her/him wat happen

by lol2000 on 5/21/2010 10:49:58 PM

 
 

hey girls! MODS busy and not answering your question? head on over to my page and i'll be glad to help! boys, friend problems, periods, school stress, ANYTHING. you ask, i'll answer!
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by heyimjoanna on 5/4/2010 5:27:39 PM

 
 

Heyy,
My bf just went on a class trip to D.C and his X-gf is there to. Should I be worried??




Hey babe, there's no reason to worry if you trust your bf!  Exs are in the past and if the past is behind him, I wouldn't think twice about it because she doesn't matter. He picked to be with you!  
Megan R.

by Mik27 on 4/19/2010 6:06:52 PM

 
 

weird oo

by i<3lilwayne on 4/19/2010 2:25:03 PM

 
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