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so, im pretty much confused beyond belief. i started talking to this guy, J, who i guess has a rep for being a player. but the more i talked to him, the more i liked him. my guy friends like told me he's no good for me, but i'm supposed to be the judge of that. anyways, he told me this big secret, and i told my guy friend Q and he told like everyone. so then J flipped on me and said we are never hanging out and he's done talking to me and all this stuff because i told Q. then he was gone like a week, but now he's back. we haven't talked, i tried to once but he pretty much ignored me. now everytime i see him in the halls it kills me and i don't know what to do to get him back. i need him back though. any suggestions? please!

I think you should keep trying to talk to him. Keep apologizing. You need to prove to him youre truly sorry. Good luck! xoxo kerra 

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ok, i moved here last year. i made some friends that i thought were really good. then i found out i was sucked into the world of total drama! heres how it started:
i was in a group of 8 girls, including me. there are more but these are the main girls. we would have sleepovers, talk about boys and all that normal stuff. but then i had some friends that would have sleepovers and talk about me and other girls in the group behind thier backs. the girls that were at that sleepover would tell us girls that were trashtalked about what happened, but the other girls that were trashtalking us would say they didnt.
this year im with a different group, but theres more girls in the gorup now, and everyones doing it to everyone. ive noticed even IM doing it. we even do it about girls in other groups. how do i stop being so mean? how are REAL friends supposed to act around you? how do i find better friends?

Hey girl, they are supposed to support you and be there for you. There seems to always be gossip, but it is better to try and not start trouble between everyone. You just have to see how people act and decide if they are trustworthy and contain qualities that you want in a friend.