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Now that I’m home, I want to tell my friends how silly guys look when they gawk at me. How do I do that without bragging?

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MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!
ok, so i have a problem. im pretty (not bragging) bt my friends tell me i have the personality of a brick. whenever i ask for advice people just tell me 2 b myself. the only prob is that i think that brick of a personality is just who i am. i think thats just me, so what do i do?

Hey girl, just stick to being you. I tend to be a pretty "boring" person too, but you'd be surprised. It might be that "brick" of a personality that makes you enduring, adorable and just you -- and trust me, it will endear people in its own right too.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

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by nerdygal on 3/31/2010 10:25:34 PM

MOD MOD MOD ok soo I have a bf and he is sooo sweet and the best one I have ever had but for some reason I want him to like maybe one give me a surprise hug or something or hug me when we aren't at our lockers so how can I drop a few romantic hints and what are some things I can compliment him on to make him feel better also how could I get him to say I look good one day lol oh and one last thing is it wrong to make a bf jealous for more attention

Hey girl, I wouldn't go out of your way to make your boyfriend jealous. That's just unnecessarily cruel. What you can do, however, is just have a heart-to-heart about your relationship. Instead of waiting for him to make the unexpected move, why don't you? It might just set the example -- likewise with compliments. You'll find if you treat others the way you'd like to be treated, you'll get that treatment back.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

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by Jolynnsunkisser on 3/31/2010 8:49:45 PM

yeah its nice to be checked out :] but thats not something you wanna go tell your friends unless you want them pissed at you haha

check out my profile guyss!!!!! leave a comment if you want and i check out yours too

peace & love,
moondance

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by moondance17 on 3/31/2010 8:14:39 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!! ok, so i want to break up with my boyfriend, but i have no idea how to do it? or does it matter if its in text or over the phone? or should i do it in person? also, what do i say? how do i dump him? pleasssssse help! thanks

Hey girl,

I would definitely suggest talking with him in person, at a time when you two are alone. That way, you can be clear about what you want to say without the confusion of the text or phone. I would just let him know (kindly!) that you want to break up, and maybe clue him in a little as to why. I know it won't be easy, so def reach out to your friends if you need some support going through it! xoxo

Marie H.

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by sexysportsgal10 on 3/31/2010 5:57:16 PM

ATTENTION ALL GIRLS READING THIS!

if ur reading this girl talk column, u obviously care about advice. visit my profile, post me a question(if its super important, put ***** at the top) and ill answer in 3 days, guaranteed. if ur profile isn't publicly visible, i'll answer ur questions on MY profile(NOW WITH 1400 PLUS COMMENTS!!!). thanks! pass it on to ur friends!

~aspiring advice columnist, lauren

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by soccergirl524 on 3/31/2010 5:25:14 PM