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Everyone in my school does drugs!

 

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At first it didn't phase me because I didn’t know too many people who did drugs, but the other day there were cops and dogs who had to line up in our school’s hallway. About 10 students were caught with drug possession, and one of the students was a friend of mine.

Now I hate my school because of all the kids doing drugs. I'm afraid one day I’ll be sucked into the craze. How can I handle this?


Hey girl,

Drug stuff is tough. But honestly, students in my high school also did drugs and I never once touched them. Instead, I used all the negative experiences of the people around me as motivation to stay as far away from it as possible.

Stay Strong
You have to remember that you’re a strong gal! You have the smarts to know that you don’t want to get caught up in the drug scene, and how dangerous it can be. You may be peer pressured and curious at times, and there’s nothing wrong with having that feeling. But so long as you can stay true to who you are and not give into pressure, you’ll be able to fight it and stay away from drugs.

Birds of a Feather
I’m really sorry to hear one of your friends were one of the people who were caught. I do hope that because of their experience in getting arrested that they’re able to change their ways and be drug free! At the same time, not everyone in your entire school does drugs. Seek out friends that are just like you and stay close to them. True friends wouldn’t ever jeopardize their friends’ safety or put them in dangerous situations by doing drugs.

As I said before, the most important thing you need to do is trust yourself. You need to realize that you are stronger than the kid’s experimenting with drugs and you won’t get yourself into that mess. You can do it, girl!

xoxo, Lauren R.
 

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that sounds excactly like my school like there has been 3 7th greders that r pregnant! and one is in rehab

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by tampagirl<3 on 3/12/2012 4:13:42 PM

 
 

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My best friend just started getting crazy; she is drinking and smoking cigarettes and weed. She is really getting to be a slut. I hate to say it but over the weekend she lost her virginity and had sex with like four other guys. I told my cousin about it and he told me that the best option was to just stop hanging around her...i know thats the best option for me but I don't think I can do it; just stop being her friend? It makes me cry every time I think about it. I feel like she is growing up wayyyy to fast. she is only thirteen. Is there any other options?




Hey chica,

Although it is important to think of your happiness and surrounding yourself with positive people, sometimes it can be hard to give up on a friendship. If you know you tried and did something to help her, you'll feel better about letting go of the friendship if she's staying on the bad course. 




Here are a few things you can do to help her – you could talk to her and suggest going to a guidance counsellor who might be able to talk her out of her recently picked-up vices – you could try and tell her to stop and think about her future and how she's adversely affecting it –  and asking her what is influencing her decisions and pointing out how those decisions wouldn't help her cause just might work wonders. Talking to her family or guardian about the situation might also help her. Hope this helps!



Krupali D.

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by ~~Abbi~~ on 2/21/2012 3:30:15 PM

 
 

I just moved and at my new school I know a whole bunch of people who do drugs. It scares me and I think their good kids besides their addiction. Its a good school, just some bad people..

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by kiera1798 on 11/11/2011 5:54:20 PM

 
 

Yikes. Tough school much?

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by CheshireCat12 on 10/9/2010 2:30:27 AM

 
 

I KNOW HOW PEEPLE FEEL...MY DAD DRINKS ALCHOHOL MY NEW FRIEND SWEARS,MY PARENTS NEVER GOT MARRIED AND HATE EACH OTHER AND IV GONE THROUGH DEPPRESSION...i know how life feels..............


aman...

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by iwantmyperiod on 6/21/2010 7:42:21 PM

 
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