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My friend's totally two-faced!

 
I have a friend that sometimes calls me a loser. When we’re with friends, it’s like she hates me. But then when we’re alone, she calls me her BFF. But what if I don’t want to be her BFF? In my opinion, BFF’s don’t call each other losers. I want to change friends, but I know that she’ll get defensive and mad at me if I do.

Hey girl! I’m sorry about your “friend.” You’re right when you say friends don’t call each other losers, and I’m glad you want to do something about it.

Tell her what you think
 
The next time the two of you are one-on-one, ask her why she calls you her BFF when you are alone but a loser in front of other people. If she doesn’t have an answer, let her know how it hurts your feelings and that you won’t tolerate it anymore. Be strong and serious when you have this conversation with her.

Branch out with other besties
 
While you can still be friends with this girl, find some new people to hang out with. That way, if you decide you don’t want to spend any more time trying to figure out if you are a loser (which you aren’t!) or her BFF, you can go hang out with people who actually respect you.

Give her an explanation
 
If she gets defensive and mad when you start hanging out with new people, tell her why you are hanging out with them. Let her know you appreciate their respect and aren’t called a loser when you are with them. If she’s a good friend (and worth being given the title), she should apologize and stop the mean namecalling.

Remember, girls who call other people names usually are insecure. Maybe your “friend” is self-conscious or wants to be liked by certain people. You don’t need a friend like that. You need friends who call you their BFF all the time.

Good luck,
Liz
 
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Ok, my friend is really starting to annoy me. In school (in front of everyone)she calls me rude names and sometimes its really hurtful and sometimes inappropriate. When shes not in front of everybody we usually have fun but when we do stuff she usually takes all the credit and I'm sick of it. I really want to tell her to stop but I don't want to ruin our friendship. What do I do? Well I guess it's not really a friendship when she calls me mean names but still, what do I do?

 

Hey! tell her how you feel, and if she doesn't shape up, say good bye.

Helen S.

by DramaGurls01 on 4/16/2011 1:27:25 PM

 
 

MOD HELP! my friend (well aquentecne) is always bring EVERYTHING in her life down on me! whenever she gets mad she competly stops talking to me to the point that my mom and her mom have to bring us into the same room and have us talk about it. what should i do? i try to talk to her when she's not talking to me but then she just ignors me and lies to other people abou it. HELP ME! i can't take it any more!




Hey girlie. Talk to her about it when she's not in a bad mood. Be super nice when you're telling her. Maybe she doesn't realize what is causing the fights between you two. 
Marly Z.

by NLdancer on 3/7/2011 7:51:18 PM

 
 

I have a friend like that!! When she is away from her little clique she hangs out with me, gives me stuff and calls meher BFF!! But then when she hangs out with other people she ignores me comepletely! Once I went to avalentines party that she had put together and she ivited me and her friends that ignore me! i had the worst time ever!!!! Then the same night over the phone she told me that the only reason she invied me was so I wouldnt get mad!! I was mad anyway so I wish I didnt even go! Now we both have cellphones and she texts me constantly and always brags to me! She wont leave me alone but i have learned to live it and ignore it

by Kenziemonkey on 8/2/2010 7:56:59 PM

 
 

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i have a friend who haa been acting really rude and self centered lately. I keep giving her more chances, and she is still rude to me, and once we got in a fight and she just exploded at me. She told me she always was being kind even though she didn't care about this this and this. Before, she'd told me i was getting annoying and she didn't care about this. If I'm not mistaken, she was saying that to everything I had told her! Basically, I feel like she doesn't care about me unless I'm talking about her or something she likes. She has a bad temper, and i try to get past that, but she makes it hard. I'm too close to her to just stop being her friend...but shes rude and doesn't see it when she is.

 

Hey girlie, when she's rude stop talking about her.  You need to give her some indication that she's doing something wrong and she's being rude.

Lauren T.

by blueseastars13 on 7/30/2010 3:12:18 PM

 
 

totaly dont be her friend

by molly 77889 on 7/28/2010 6:17:20 PM

 
 

Hey Mod- My cousin and I are bffs, but we dont get to see each other often, so we stay in touch over the computor. Well, one of her friends from her school told me (innocently) that she, my cousin and her sis, and some other girls are going to a movie. My cuz never told me, so it kinda stung that she invited other girls. What should I think, and what should I say to her?

 

Hey girl, I'm not really sure what to say.  It's definitely a possibility that she didn't mean to hurt you - she may just not have known that you would want to come, or if you knew those other girls.  You could just ask her about it, but if you two are BFFs, I wouldn't worry about it too much.  And feel free to start up some plans of your own! 

Marie H.

by ManderzRockz on 7/1/2010 8:25:18 PM

 
 

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I have this friedn who im pretty close to. Shes part of the group of friends i hang out with all the time, and we tell esch other a lot. Lately tho, she's been acting kind of mean to me. She insults me a lot and tells me im stupid, lame, dumb, etc. She told me b4 that she was really insecure about herself and thought we didn't want to be her friends anymore. She can be so much fun to hang out with still. its annoying.I know i need to talk to her about it, but what can i say? I dont want to mess up our friendship cuz shes still one of my best friends!!! Please help me!

 

 

Hey gurlie, sorry I  had to cut down ur message a lil, so you should definitely sit down with her and tell her how you feel. Tell her it hurts you really bad that someone you care about will say such inconsiderate, rude and hurtful things. As your friend she has to respect and consider your feelings. If she can't and she is unwilling to change and control her tongue she is not a friend you want to hang on to you. You friends should build you up not break you down. 

Paige T.

by Sandytoes22 on 6/25/2010 9:14:02 PM

 
 

thank you so much!!!!!!!!

by freddymylove on 6/17/2010 3:28:11 PM

 
 

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Okay, so every year my church has a fair with cool rides and my friends and I are going. Except my best friend cant go but this girl I dont like is coming because she thinks we are friends. Then, without talking to us, she goes and invites a person that is a year above us and is SO ANNOYING, more annoying than she is. I don't want to be with them! How do me and my other friend find a way to leave? If I say I want to go on another ride, I know they'll say We'll come too. So what do I do??????????
Fair Foes




Hey girl! If you don't want to hang out with them, then you definitely don't have to ! Don't feel obligated to spend time with people that make you miserable! It's your life, you should do what makes you happy and surround yourself with people you like.  Go with your friend that you like on the cool rides, and say something like: Let's split up and meet up later because you want to do this and we want to do that!  Say something like: if you wait around you all won't be able to get to do everything you want to do!  Just go have fun at the fair and don't worry about the girls you don't like.  
Megan R.

by freddymylove on 6/16/2010 7:33:27 PM

 
 

omg iam in the SAME EXACT spot as you, my friend acts like that all the time, i juss stopped hangin out with her and hung out with another set of friends. also she is always like I KNOW A SECRET! then tells a different bestie of hers its annoyting

by rejected :( on 5/28/2010 10:29:19 PM

 
 

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so i am having problems with my bff. so me and my bff (let call her brittany) have anthother bff (lets call her amanda) and we are all bff's. well when brittany is with only me and we are talking on the phone she says she doesn't like amanda because she is mean but when we are at school it is all amanda and never me! Brittany is at amandas right now and i thought we were all bff's. i am always left out and i don't like it. all my other friends are in different classes! anyway brittany told me she wasn't going to amandas today but she did and i wasn't invited! This is the second time this has happened i tried talking to them but they go "we all have other friends and we should be able to hang out with them" i am at a loss and don't know what to do any more. any help? sorry this is so long




Hey babe! Whatever you do, don't bad mouth your friend Amanda when Brittany is gossiping about her.  It sounds like Brittany is starting to cause drama, and it's hard to tell when people are being real and honest when they say one thing, but then do another.  A lot of girls act this way, and it can be really frustrating weeding through real friends and sometimes-friends.  Hang out with the girls who are going to be real and upfront with you, and ignore the ones who are going to lie and just bring you down. Stay true to yourself, and don't bad-mouth Brittany because two wrongs don't make a right.  Hang out with your girl-friends who make you happy and are honest Smile  Good luck 
Megan R.

by Coke-Cola on 5/24/2010 4:07:42 PM

 
 

hey ppl
got a prob
skools tuff
buds got u mad
guys wanna make u punch em in the gut
ask me
anythin
ill try to help and if its super important put sm!
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by iluvjustinb830 on 5/22/2010 2:49:47 PM

 
 

mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod Okay, so I have a guy friend that I have known since I was really really little. We're in the same grade and recently he has been getting bullied by kids in the grade ahead and his "friends." At his baseball games teammates are mean to him even when his batting average is WAY better than everybody elses. My friends don't like him and are mean to him, and I try to stand up for him, but it never works. I've heard that in gym older kids take his clothes and put hem under the fosset to get them all wet. There's even more mean stuff that people have done to him. He's told him mom and my mom knows (cause they're really close friends) but they dont wanna tell teachers abou it cause the bullying will get worse. People make fun of him all of the time and it's not fair and I feel really bad, what should I do???? (sorry it's so long)

 

Hey chica! That's terrible. I don't understand why people are so cruel. You're a good friend to be concerned. Definately let him know that you're there for him as a friend. He needs one right now. And try talking to your friends....because it's pretty messed up that they're mean to him too. Maybe if you start inviting him to hang out more, they'll realize that he's actually pretty cool. I know it's hard because you don't want to get made fun of, but you'll feel way better in the end by being a good person...

xxx

Becca G.

by kittycadet101 on 5/21/2010 9:58:34 PM

 
 

mOD MOD MOD MOD MOD i have a best friend who can be so mean to me. she made me break up with my boyfriend because she butted her way into my relationship with him and then he did something mean to her, i think about him everyday and miss him so much that i cry Frown<3 she calls me a flirt and now trys to get me away from guys because not to be self conciede but guys like me and i have a lot that like me and are my best friends. she talks behind my back sometimes right in font of me and is soo mean. I MISS MY BOYFRIEND!!!! he was the first boy i ever liked and i loved him and i cant stop thinking about him, literally. now she tells me he never loved me and all this crap just to put me down and makes fun of me for it.but i could never date him again and its all her fault!because she butted her way into my relationship without my permission and ruined it for me. and now im put down because of it and at the last minute she changed her mind and wanted to still be his friend when she never was and argued with me if she could still be his friend when i broke up with him for her!!!!!!!!!! FrownFrownFrownFrownFrown i fell like i hate her, but shes also my best friend. she then trys to make sure i only hang out wth her and freaks at me when i hang out with other girls. yet she can do whatever she wants and its fine. what do i do????

 

Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes

Marie H.

by ottoliv on 5/19/2010 6:30:22 PM

 
 

OMG!!!! A girl my bff (2) used to be friends with was SOOOO like that...except she was soo nice when bff (2) was around and was totally jerky to me and my other bff (1) when bff (2) was gone. me and bff (1) finally told bff (2) he didnt like her and bff (2) ended the friendship...cuz all of a sudden the mean girl started being mean to bff (2)...she was such a jerk

by metrostation3xx on 5/18/2010 8:56:50 PM

 
 

sorry about your friend

by sixteengirl93 on 5/17/2010 6:29:35 PM

 
 

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Ok well ive been friends with this girl for about 4 years and we moved to a diferent school (together) and i met this new girl and was trying to be friends with both and in the middle of the year of they decided to gang up on me and now the girl that i knew for years doesnt talk to me and the new girl was calling me names and now thinks everything is better but i dont know what to do!!! Please help!




Hey girl, I would just try and find new friends. Don't bother with the girl that's making fun of you...and try talking to your friend who's not talking to you. See what's up with her and why she's acting so funny. 
lauren r.

by italdancer9 on 5/15/2010 4:10:30 PM

 
 

hey i know how you feel. my friend does this a lot. we'll be hangin with our other friends and she'll randomly call me a loser. it annoys me sooo bad. she does this when ever we're either hangin with both our friends or when we're around my bf! i tell her to stop and she does for a little bit then she starts it up again. but don't worry your not alone.

by bffsrock on 5/15/2010 12:09:04 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!! i have a guy bud and he is friends with a mean girl who is suuuppeer mean. i have tried everything and he dosent notice how mean she is. i hate her soo much. i have been friends with him since play-skool wat do i do?
p.s. i have tried parents counslers and teachers and im going to middle skool next year. i dont want to end up with a bully pestering me next year thnx =]




Hey girl, I think what you have to realize is that while this girl may not be the nicest, whether or not your BGF is friends with her is his call. Put yourself in his shoes: you wouldn't want another friend telling you who you can and can't hang out with, right? I'd let it go and just stay clear of her if you can. Realize that while you can put a word in to your BGF that she's not the nicest, you can't stop him from being friends with someone just because you don't like them. That's just not fair to him.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by missladybug on 5/12/2010 8:45:41 PM

 
 

Hey, girlies! Are you in 4th-6th grade and need advice? If you do, then head on over to my profile! Ask me anything! See ya then!

by iDance4Him on 5/8/2010 9:20:45 PM

 
 

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by GoGreenGoPeace on 5/7/2010 6:38:14 PM

 
 

Okay i have this friend and she always talks about me to my best friend... It gets really annoying sometimes she says that she only needs guy friends when i confront her about it and say how much she is hurting me she says shes sorry and takes it back then when she gets pissed at me again she says it i just don't know what i can do or say to her or if i should even be her friend because i've given her chance after chance i just don't know look at my profile and comment back please i wld like to make new friends

by *Brittany* on 5/6/2010 4:49:16 PM

 
 

i hav a friend like tht but ive made new friends and my life is 100% better now! and a guy actually likes me now! just go w/ ur instinct Smile
<3 KR and mee!haha and lol,
~Wahah~

by Wahah on 5/5/2010 5:59:24 PM

 
 

i wish that some girls would jus GROOW UUUP!!

by kimmohya on 5/5/2010 2:55:04 PM

 
 

Give `em a chance! They might be totally nice!

by Mjpmmd on 5/3/2010 8:04:07 PM

 
 

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ok so i go 2 a VERY small school w/ only 25 ppl in my 7th gr class and im bffls w/ these 3 girls their unfair 2 me like the treat me differently then themselves like my one friend gives my other friend a bunch of stuff but gets mad wenvr i wanna look at something and wenvr my friends r upset i always comfort them but wenvr im upset they nvr care im so sick of them!!! i wanna make new friends but idk how and i cant just "hang out w/ other girls in my class" cas the only other girls there r total wierdos

by twilightgrrl678 on 5/3/2010 4:26:41 PM

 
 

1. take a deep breath
2.think of someone you like
3.press f10 five times
4.send this to five pages
5.look at your background

by sassyjustinbieber on 5/1/2010 2:00:57 PM

 
 

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I like this one boy named Nicky and So we had this talent show and everything I was in it so was Nicky. And my friend. so he sat by me and my friend sat by me too. We all know she likes this one boy named John S. But everytime a boy does something to her, even if it was my BF she'll say oh yeah ur BF smiled at me today! But So while Nick was singing Do Re MI grace (friend) was singing with him, EVERYTIME! and everytime he said "Did u watch this last night" even though Grace didn;t she still says she did. I think she likes my crush and shes so mean to him, I hate her I have no clue what to do!




Hey girl! In this sitch, the best solution is to be honest with your friend. Talk to her one-on-one. Be honest and tell her how you're feeling - not in an accusatory way, but if she knows you like this guy, then as a friend, she should be acting differently. Get her perspective. Good luck! 
Kelli S.

by Demilover99 on 5/1/2010 9:02:42 AM

 
 

Hey girl, I know how you feel. It happened to me once. The main thing to do is to talk it out with her. Tell her that you want to know why she acts like this. She may not even know or think about the things she says to you.
Hope it helps,
Shan R Smile

by puppyluv16 on 4/30/2010 7:33:46 PM

 
 

Hey girl, I know how you feel. It happened to me once. The main thing to do is to talk it out with her. Tell her that you want to know why she acts like this. She may not even know or think about the things she says to you.
Hope it helps,
Shan R Smile

by puppyluv16 on 4/30/2010 7:32:16 PM

 
 

I used to have a best friend. Then I moved to a different city and we barely talk anymore. When we do talk on the phone, she tells me about all the new friends she has made since i moved. I don't know if I am jealous, or just miss my friend. She was the best friend ever, and now I can barely get a hold of her. Who knows what she talks to her friends about now. Me? I really want to know, but i haven's seen her in forever. The worst part is that she didnt invite me to her birthday. I texted her happy bday, and she did not respond. We used to talk and talk abut what she was going to do for her eleventh bday, and how she always said she was gonna invite me. Should i invite her to mine???? I am so stressed out about, and she doesn't know how much I think about her. She probably doesn't think about me at all. Someone plz help me!!!!

by hollywoodchic on 4/30/2010 6:10:57 PM

 
 

(: !!!MOD MOD MOD!!! Smile I don't really have a best friend. At the very beginning of this school year and last year's school year I was friends with the "Popular" girls. Then they started acting all rude and self-centered so I stopped hanging out with them. Now it's like I just walk around at recess and bathroom breaks looking for some people to talk to. I do have three good friends (but not BFFs, yet), so it's not too bad. How can I find a best friend who has got my back and will always be there for me? Also, our school is kind of small. Only one or two new girls come every year. Thanks!

 

Hey girly, the best you can do is keep hanging out with these good friends. Keep inviting them over to your house, and out to have fun. Once you hang out enough and get more comfortable, it might turn into a BFF! Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by memory975 on 4/24/2010 5:38:24 PM

 
 

ATTENTION ALL GIRLS READING THIS!

if ur reading this girl talk column, u obviously care about advice. visit my profile, post me a question(if its super important, put ***** at the top) and ill answer in 3 days(max), guaranteed. if ur profile isn't publicly visible, i'll answer ur questions on MY profile(NOW WITH 2000 PLUS COMMENTS!!!). thanks! pass it on to ur friends!

~aspiring advice columnist, Lauren

by soccergirl524 on 4/24/2010 5:22:58 PM

 
 

my boyfriend would always act in love with me when we are alone and hanging out but when ever he is with his friends he keeps saying im a bitch and i dont know why he does that, what do i do?

by brittneyteen98 on 4/24/2010 2:03:00 PM

 
 

MOD i have a friend EXACTLY like this but i can't just stop being her friend because my mom and hers are best friends, my dad and her step dad are friends, and my little sister and hers are best friends, i am also friends with her mom. she is so rude and thinks everything revolves around herself she is such a "popular" snob when she is at school but then when she is just with me like at her house we get along pretty well. THe other day one of the really immature guys (her friend) in my class got in a huge fight and the counselor told him he should have just walked away (which i so agree witih) and she and a bunch of the "popular" girls got all mad and yelled at the counselor and told him that he did walk away (because throwing somebody accross the tables outside is sooo walking away) they are all just such snobs and think everything revolves around themselves sometimes and at other times they can be really nice. i don't know what to do because i go to a really small school and if i quit be ing all of their friends that leaves me with like 3 other girls in my class to be friends with ( there are only 19 people in 7th grade @ my school. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!!?!?!?!?

 

Hey chica! I'm so sorry to hear this. Girls like this are so not fun to be around. The best you can do it be friendly and nice, but try to hang out with the other three girls as much as you can. You don't have to have a huge "I don't want to be friends anymore" drama, just slowly cut down the time that you spend with them. Once you get to high school, there will be lots of other girls, and guys to be friends with.

xxx

Becca G.
Becca G.

by hayleerose9 on 4/24/2010 12:54:38 PM

 
 

I HAVE A FRIEND THAT IS JUST LIKE THAT.. SHE ACTS LIKE SHE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT ANYTHING IN LIFE WHEN SHE IS WITH CERTAIN PEOPLE, BUT WHEN SHE IS WITH ME.. I AM HER ONLY FRIEND AND SHE SAYS I AM HER BESTEST FRIEND.. IN MY HEAD I JUST SAY "PLEASE GIRL, YOU WEREN'T LIKE THAT WHEN YOU WERE HANGING OUT WITH CATHERINE THEM"

by elmorockz1252 on 4/23/2010 10:29:58 PM

 
 


Remember, girls who call other people names usually are insecure. Maybe your “friend” is self-conscious or wants to be liked by certain people. You don’t need a friend like that. You need friends who call you their BFF all the time.

THATS HOW MY FRIEND IS

by bff61 on 4/23/2010 7:14:56 PM

 
 

ATTENTION ALL GIRLS READING THIS!

if ur reading this girl talk column, u obviously care about advice. visit my profile, post me a question(if its super important, put ***** at the top) and ill answer in 3 days(max), guaranteed. if ur profile isn't publicly visible, i'll answer ur questions on MY profile(NOW WITH 1900 PLUS COMMENTS!!!). thanks! pass it on to ur friends!

~aspiring advice columnist, Lauren

by soccergirl524 on 4/23/2010 7:09:40 PM

 
 

irishkaren-
hey girll!! sooo if youre goin to a baseball game...i would look up the weather and either wear capris or jeans. and then wear a t-shirt. on top Smile its a baseball game so no need to dress up. if you havea jersey def wear that. if not wear like the teams colors if you can because whenever you go to a baseball game people usually dress in the teams colors they're rooting for more often than notSmile just dress casual and enjoy the gameSmile i hope you do i love baseball lol
anyways i hope i helped a bit!!! just dress comfortable and enjoy yourself!!!!
<3

by iluv2sing on 4/23/2010 3:31:00 PM

 
 

i have a friend that does that too it is so annoying. i hate when she does that somtimes i want to cry but i stay strong

by stubbybabe on 4/23/2010 12:22:30 AM

 
 

Yah, My "friend too. She'll be all like, "hey my bff how r u doin?" and then when she's with another girl she'll be like "uh, why do you hang out with those losers?" (she's refering to the person she just hung out with) Why do they do That? They wanna look cool. C'mon evreyone has to admit they've done it sometime in their life.

by GabbyRocks1010 on 4/22/2010 8:40:00 PM

 
 

Yah, My "friend too. She'll be all like, "hey my bff how r u doin?" and then when she's with another girl she'll be like "uh, why do you hang out with those losers?" (she's refering to the person she just hung out with) Why do they do That? They wanna look cool. C'mon evreyone has to admit they've done it sometime in their life.

by GabbyRocks1010 on 4/22/2010 8:33:13 PM

 
 

. take a deep breath
2.think of someone you like
3.press f10 five times
4.send this to five pages
5.look at your background

by tatertot71798 on 4/22/2010 8:19:32 PM

 
 

Okay I am a preteen and looking for good books to read. Books I have read:

Harry Potter
Series of unfortunate events
Percy Jackson and the Olympians
Peter and the Starcatchers

Please give me good book ideas on my page. Thank you!

by zajren on 4/22/2010 7:45:12 PM

 
 

1. take a deep breath
2.think of someone you like
3.press f10 five times
4.send this to five pages
5.look at your background

by muney574 on 4/22/2010 7:05:13 PM

 
 

ATTENTION ALL GIRLS READING THIS!

if ur reading this girl talk column, u obviously care about advice. visit my profile, post me a question(if its super important, put ***** at the top) and ill answer in 3 days(max), guaranteed. if ur profile isn't publicly visible, i'll answer ur questions on MY profile(NOW WITH 1900 PLUS COMMENTS!!!). thanks! pass it on to ur friends!

~aspiring advice columnist, Lauren

by soccergirl524 on 4/22/2010 5:19:08 PM

 
 

Hey! Check out my profile! If you need advice,feel free to ask me!

by mileycrazy99 on 4/22/2010 5:07:15 PM

 
 

I relate, too. I have a "friend" who only comes to me when she has problems with her "popular" friends. She picks and chooses friends according to who's popular at that moment...

by tivalove123kt on 4/22/2010 4:06:50 PM

 
 

I relate, too. I have a "friend" who only comes to me when she has problems with her "popular" friends. She picks and chooses friends according to who's popular at that moment...

by tivalove123kt on 4/22/2010 4:05:31 PM

 
 

Ily Catherine

by Ily Catherine on 4/22/2010 12:58:41 AM

 
 

Hey, just litsen to your heart and if sparing her feelings is more important than yours are than stay her friend if not tell her you dont want to be her firned anymore. It would be better that way.
Ily Catherine

by Ily Catherine on 4/22/2010 12:57:36 AM

 
 

I gave up on a friend like that an dyes she was sad and all but it was worth it because I'm much happier now. My advice, do what you think is right and what your heart tells you. Good Luck! Smile

by Ily Catherine on 4/22/2010 12:54:54 AM

 
 

wow my so called BFF is sooo like that too! and she is stealing my nice bff from me!

by cdcd39 on 4/21/2010 11:47:14 PM

 
 

wat a two faced jerk.
i mean i have my BFFs & wwe joke around and call eachother losers n stuff but we dnt do it in a mean way. its juss how we are.

by verenice<3 on 4/21/2010 11:36:59 PM

 
 

Two-faced friends cant be trusted. Just when you think you can their two faces come out. And in many way gossiping and being two faced is common with a lot of people.

by luckykel on 4/21/2010 10:57:01 PM

 
 

mod (:
i've liked this guy a tinyy bit for a while, like a month or two. i never told anyone cuz i only liked him a little. then a couple weeks ago one of my friends told me and my other friends she likes him. i've been talking to him more lately and today we flirted alot. i feel like im getting in over my head because i think he might like me and if he asks me out, i would have to say no because of my friend. and that would be heartbreaking ): haha but yeah, so what should i do? should i try to get over him? and how do i be a friend, but not flirt with him? thanks (:




Hey girl, I think that's a hard Q. The thing is you really can't just be friends with a guy you have feelings for -- it creates tension. I would let it go for now and see what happens. If it seems like he's going to ask you out for sure, have a heart-to-heart with your friend about it and see if she'll be OK with it. Clear it with her first before you dive in heart first.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by partyy like a rockstar on 4/21/2010 10:33:51 PM

 
 

wow i can totally relate to that.. i have a friend that acts like my best friend when i'm with just her, but when we're around other people, she acts all different and tries to show off to them. it gets me mad, because she turns into a completely different person! and i know that she's a good person. i don't really know.. i have other friends, but i would feel bad ditching her. so yeah. i dunno. but ANYWAYS, my main point was, i can relate to that all the way.

by chlojo98 on 4/21/2010 10:19:49 PM

 
 

i can totally relate 2 that!
im sure your NOT a loser, so just ignore her and dont let her tell you what to do because she is NOT the boss of you. im sure u have othr. bff's too, try to hang out with them insted of your so called "BFF."

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by crazy4coke on 4/21/2010 9:45:27 PM

 
 

I remember a couple of years ago I was talking to this guy on the phone (he was my friend). And he called me a two-faced back-stabber. And I was not and am not a two-faced back-stabber! I was like, oh my gosh.....

by jdizzle09 on 4/21/2010 9:40:25 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD
ok so im going to a football on saturday with my dads friends.. we have boxseats with them and apparently these people who usually come have a girl about my age who is living with them now.. i really want to talk to her and at least have one friend there so im not lonely all this football season.. (btw cant bring any of my friends) but im not sure how to talk to her or what to say? how can i make her my friend and it not be akward with her totally hot older sibling or something there?




Hey girl, just start gradually. Introduce yourself and just ask some general questions about her interests. You'll find with time that friendship will build until you're sharing inside jokes during the games. (;

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by Jasper_rox12 on 4/21/2010 9:36:56 PM

 
 

Hey girlie!
So I have a "bestie" that is totally two faced too. Like, yesterday she was so mad and said I was a loser and so stupid. Then today she was like "I'm sooooo sorry I totally over reacted."
I'm sick of being called names!!!

by twinz-4ever on 4/21/2010 9:19:17 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!! i dont know what to do!! my friend and i just got in a fight because she said that i come off like 'pushover' (even though thats totally not true) and i asked her why. and it all just went round and round, until finally she said she was done being my friend. (all of this was online btw) so i told her not 2 sit by me in the one class we have together and 2 delete me as a contact. i know i made it worse but i dont want to lose her either. (sorry this was so long!)

 


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by historyfreak on 4/21/2010 8:03:40 PM

 
 

MODMOD*** I have a ffriend ive known 4ever but since we went to middle school shes totally leaving me 4 new friends... should i leave her be or talk to her

 

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by caitcait5 on 4/21/2010 7:49:35 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD How come I'm feeling so lonely? I'm not comfortable hangin with anyone in my class and who I do hang out with, I still feel like I dont quite belong. I can only trust 2 people totally in my group of 6, and even then I get nervous about if I'm saying the right things to them or acting the right way. I'm going to high school next year and I am totally open to making new friends except I dont really know how. Everyone always thinks I dont want to be talked to, but I love talking to people. How can I change my image,feel more comfortable with myself and with my friends? Thanks.

 

Hey girl,
I'm sorry to hear about the friend troubles.  It's important to start with what you do have, though - having two friends that you do trust is a great thing, even if it feels small.  The best way to show people you like to be talked to is by being friendly and open yourself - saying "hi" or even just smiling can show that.  If you've been feeling really lonely, I would definitely suggest talking to a counselor or another adult you trust.  They can help you work through the sitch and gain some confidence so that you can have an awesome high school experience.  Hang in there, girl! 


Marie H.

by musicbratxoxo on 4/21/2010 7:49:24 PM

 
 

dear mod i have no idea wat to do right now plz help!! im havent been going to gymnasatics lately because i'm on the fence about staying because i dont see the point of going into a gym and being screamed at anymore and this mean girl keeps txting me if i quit and i said idk then she just replied u either did or u didnt and im so mad and hurt i sont wanna send a mean txt but that was so rude!!! ai hav "well if i did its none of ur busines so theres no need to be mean to me about it" is this bad thing to say?????

 

Hey girl,
I think it's a good thing to try to stay away from the drama.  I would just tell her you are having a tough time with the decision, and you think it's just best to keep all the info between you and your fam right now.  You can fill her in more once you know what's right for you.  xoxo


Marie H.

by *gymbum* on 4/21/2010 7:41:03 PM

 
 

i have a friend who does that.She doesnt call me names,but she's meant o other people.She's also is bff's with my worst enemy,says that she hates her,and then goes over to her house.If she talks trash about my enemy to me,i bet she talks trash about me to my enemy. I've been meeting new friends btu i miss her.She really was sweet.
But,
at least my new friends don't make fun of other people.
And they let me borrow their pencils since i always lose mine(:
-----Racheeaalll------

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by Paramore Fan Club on 4/21/2010 6:48:18 PM

 
 

MOD!!!!!!!!!!! one of my friends jokingly hits me and my bf alot. but she hits really hard. we tell her to stop but she laughs and says she was just kidding. she hits really hard and we want her to stop but we don't know how to confront her because this particular girl has a really short fuse and is easily angered. please help thanks xoxoxo -Liz

 

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by rightfield1 on 4/21/2010 6:47:48 PM

 
 

Hey, I feel u girl, today my BFF stabed my finger with a pen today! I bled my own blood! (lolz)

by vampirelvr1998 on 4/21/2010 6:45:09 PM

 
 

this exact same thing happened to me last year! and my "BFF" was also my cousin so I couldn't be mean or confront her in this way. It was a very tough situation to handle, and eventually she has become considerably better. I handled this problem by telling her that I didn't like it and started hanging out around other people and not her as much. Smile

by countrygirl3636 on 4/21/2010 6:38:17 PM

 
 

MOD**MOD** hey.! I'm going out if town and when I get to my destination, one of the things we are going to do is go to a baseball game. What do you reccomend to wear.? I'm going to look up the weather bit I'm not sure what you wear to games one that..like a tee shirt or dress or tennis shoes.? I'm not sure what to wear could u help me out.? Thanks a bunch.!!

 

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by XxClairexX1187 on 4/21/2010 5:44:45 PM

 
 

ugh my brother says stuff like that all the time and it really hurts my feelings Frown

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by summerlover0116 on 4/21/2010 4:44:36 PM

 
 

she could be kidding. <3

by reggee on 4/21/2010 4:21:54 PM

 
 

I hate two faced people!!!!!! I used to have a friend like that! You should inform her you don't like when she says that. And if that doesn't work.. ditch that girl!!!!!!!!! No point in wasting your time over someone who upsets or makes you mad!

Megan <3

by Photochickie on 4/21/2010 4:16:04 PM

 
 

Mod- How do deal with my family where I'm certain my Dad needs a therapist or a shrink for depression/anger management, My Mom is acting lke she hates me whenever shes with my aunt, My older sisters are freaks who obsess over clothing (they don't let me wear their stuff yet they are wearing my stuff anyways, My older brother is mean and likes to hit, my younger brother is spoiled and none of them respect the privacy of my own room?

 

Hey girl,
I'm sorry to hear the family situation is so stressful.  Since there is so much going on in your fam, I would think about talking to a counselor or teacher at school you trust about how you're feeling.  Also, if you feel comfortable talking to one of your parents, I would definitely let them know what your frustrations are.  Hopefully they can help work through the probs.  Best of luck! 


Marie H.

by lovemenot on 4/21/2010 4:04:41 PM

 
 

I CANNOT STAND THIS GIRL WHO DOES THAT!!! SHE THINKS HER AND ME ARE BFFS BUT WE SURE AS HECK AREN'T!!!!!!!

by tudebiebs on 4/21/2010 3:53:36 PM

 
 

Ugh, I have a "Friend" like that and it is positively annoying. I'm planning on ditching the friendship next year because I'm so sick of her "sarcasm".

by pointeprincess on 4/21/2010 3:49:45 PM

 
 

There was a girl like that in my fourth grade class. When you were with hr she'd call you her BFF. Then, when she was with someone else, she'd talk trash about you. So annoying! Smile XOXO~Courtney <3 Do you need GREAT advice?? Then come to me, the Advice Queen! From boys to fashion, I know everything and anything. Just post your Q on my pro. I'll answer either on your profile or mine.(You specify.) Hope you check me out! Smile
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by save_the_sharks on 4/21/2010 3:21:15 PM

 
 

that sounds sort of like a girl i know
shes alwayz like if you do this for me your my best friend and its sort of like what if i don't want to be your best friend and she pretty annoing nobody really likes her caz shes so annoing and
she says just caz you've know someone the longest means their your best friend!

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by chihuahuagirl900 on 4/21/2010 2:24:49 PM

 
 

Yeah, people that call you a looser in a mean way do not deserve to be your friend. me, my friends and cousins call each other dorks and losers but in a teasing, fun, nice way, when we are just messing around. friends are not really friends if they call you a loser in a mean way.

by Beckles on 4/21/2010 1:42:54 PM

 
 

i agree with GL...stay strong and remember if she's really that mean then she doesn't deserve another second of your time!

xoxoxo

by keri49 on 4/21/2010 11:57:31 AM

 
 

my friends like that too .
but me and my besties call each other losers all the time (:

by olivia13 on 4/21/2010 11:24:09 AM

 
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