My BFF reads my diary, even though it has a lock. I’ve already tried talking to her about it. Help, please!

Wow! Busting into your diary is a big no-no and, since you’ve already talked to your BFF, be firm. Make her understand that, if she disrespects your privacy, she is not welcome in your bedroom. You could also get a new diary—and a spygirl-proof hiding spot for it.

Then, write in your old diary, “This is meant for my eyes only, and a good friend would never be reading this because it is an invasion!” She should get the point loud and clear.

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POSTED ON 6/3/2010 11:48:00 AM

POSTED IN 411 on fighting with friends, by bestie is spilling my secrets, my friend keeps lying

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hey ppl!!!,
i kinda wanna start a type of club...any ideas?? comment bac.
KK

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by mintywonder22 on 6/14/2010 10:29:10 PM

mod! MOD!
1. i have a boyfriend and he's OBSESSED with me!! i want to break up with him, cuz i dont feel i like him anymore. how can i do it without him getting mad at me?
2. i dont know my dad. he left me when my mom was pregnant with me. my mom wont tell me who he is, but i think i deserve to know. i mean, hes my dad! its been 12 years without knowing. how can i convince her to tell me?
thanx!!
AlLiE<3

Hey girl, 1) you need to have a heart-to-heart with him. Break-ups are never easy and are seldom taken well. That said, you need to find the strength to do it. Peg it on you or timing if you need to or just say you need to take some time to really find yourself. Then give yourself some distance. It'll help you both get over it. 2) That's def a big thing and it may take time before your mom tells you. It's important, however, to be mature about it and understand she may not tell you now. Tell her that you understand that it's a really hard thing, but you feel like half of you is missing. Ask her what age you can know (she may let you know at 16, for instance) and if she wants to talk about it. Emphasize how important this is to you. You understand they may not have had a good past together, but he is your father and while relationships come and go, that won't change.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

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by alexaprincess on 6/14/2010 9:35:30 PM

hi evry1!! if any1 needs advice just ask me on my profile- ill b glad 2 help!

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by bff111111 on 6/14/2010 5:33:07 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!! ok, so i have two questions:
1. i really want to get a facebook. ive asked me dad several times, but he always says we'll see and never gives me a answer. he has one, and he wold have to be able to go on and check it, just like my email, so hes not alowed to use any excuses like that. any ideas?
2. i really want to get a blue, purple, or pink streak in my hair, but my mom says i would look stupid. i dont find it stupid looking at all, and ive seen kids at my school with more than just a streak. one kid had his whole head dyed blue. im willing to pay for everything, and i know where to get dye and am willing to do research for perfesionals. and ideas?

Hey girl, he's just making "excuses" because Facebook, depending on how it's used can be as dangerous as myspace or any of those. He's just being a protective father. It's okay all fathers are, just means he loves you! I think you should come up with an agreement with him, or write him a note with all your thoughts. Like a compromise so that if he uncomfortable he can check your Facebook and all that jazz. -- I went through the same exact thing with hair trends. I wanted my whole head all sorts of different colors for like 4 years straight. My mom HATED the idea. I never really got to, but looking back on it I was kind of glad I didn't. BUT if its something you really want to do, try explaining to her its your hair and it will grow right back. You can even do the temporary dye which will only stay in for 2 weeks max.

lauren r.

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by puppydogs101 on 6/14/2010 5:00:09 PM

Hey girls! do YOU need advice ASAP??
search no longer because i give advice on just about anything and i will reply the next day at the latest. so go ahead! post a question!

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by sassykitty60 on 6/14/2010 12:00:30 PM