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I wrote a letter to my crush telling him that I thought he was really nice and that I had feelings for him. He didn’t respond.  Instead, he’s just been ignoring me.  I don’t know how he feels and it’s killing me!  For so long he’s been dropping hints that he likes me.  What am I supposed to think?
 
Hey girly!  So sorry to hear about the confusing sitch!  Boys can be so hard to read, right?  But before you do anything, here are a few things to consider that I hope will help you out.
 
Take a second look
 
One time, my close friend was interested in me and thought I was flirting back.  I wasn’t.  Sometimes a friendly gesture can be misinterpreted as flirting.  Guys tend to be pretty straightforward. 
 
If he knows you’re interested but hasn’t said anything about it, he may be trying to give you a lil distance to let you know he’s just not into you like that.  With this in mind, take a second look on the things your crush has done.  Was he really flirting or just being a friendly guy? 
 
If you think he’s into ya…
 
After looking back on things, if you still think he’s def into ya, then it’s time to make a move.  It may be that he’s a tad too nervous to take the first step.  If you’re really into him and want something more out of your friendship, try talking to him about the note you left him or flirt a little to see how he reacts.  For all ya know, it could pay off!
 
…If you don’t
 
If it doesn’t seem like he’s so into you, it could be kinda tough.  It’ll be hard, but over time it’ll be easier to get over him. Try getting to know the other people in your classes or extracurriculars better.  You could be surprised and end up finding some new great friends…or even your very own Prince Charming!
 
Good luck!
~Kristen Y. <3
 
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POSTED ON 6/4/2010 10:59:00 AM

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ok well i like this guy on my bros. team so i tried giving him "hints" but he still does'nt pay any attention to me what should i do?

 

Hey girl! Guys often don't get hints. Why not just talk to him and maybe eventually tell him how you feel about him.

xoxo

Liz

Liz L.

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by liviliv13 on 6/13/2010 10:19:04 PM

 
 

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ok so in my 11 years of life not many guys have liked me. not even 2! and everyone else has a boyfriend but me! i feel left out. is it because im not pretty? HELP!!

 

Hey girlie,

I felt the same way when I was 11, but I promise you that it isn't true... not everyone has a BF!  What I learned is that it's more important to find a guy who makes you feel really great than to just have a BF for the heck of it - you want a guy who makes you laugh, makes you feel special, makes you excited to spend time with him, etc.  Sometimes that takes a while to find, but it's worth being picky!  Focus on other things {like your friends, your hobbies, and school} and you'll find him soon - most likely through one of those things.  Once you do find someone who interests you, don't wait for him to like YOU - make the first move and start convos, ask him to hang out, etc.  It's funny, but once you stop taking it so seriously, a lot of times it unexpectedly happens!

Lauren C.

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by iheartgl101 on 6/13/2010 2:20:27 PM

 
 

He's just a little confused... Just try and confronting him nicely and talking about it.
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Ok... rite now, I'm kinda heart-broken, but I'm picking up the pieces. Smile

Thursday, my face I was burning: it was grad. day and my crush never showed. I really wanted to know if he liked me, because others made fun of him that he liked me, even though they didn't know I liked him...
I went over to his friend, Joseph, and asked him if my crush liked me. He smiled, and then was all serious and said, "Yeah. He does. He told me the other day." Even though I tried to act like I didn't believe him, I was super siked, and all my emotions poured out that I had liked my crush back, too.
He seemed a little surprised, and said that he went to (my crush's) house and said that he said that my crush said that he was gonna ask me out Friday. I was a little confused 'cause that was the last day of school, but, you know...
So, Friday, I was watching the clock, 'cause he's usually late. He finally came, but it seemed he was avoiding me. He would answer my questions, talk to me, but really just avoid me in class. I decided to confront Joseph, and turns out... he was lying. About everything. My crush wasn't going to ask me out. He never liked me, although as a friend, but I don't know now... and worst of all... I was so siked about when Joseph told me that my crush liked me... that I told him it'd be ok to tell my crush that I liked him... Frown

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by xxaalyxxx on 6/12/2010 2:55:28 PM

 
 

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Ok, so I really like this guy and he is like 16 and I am almost 13...do you think he is too old for me if we went out?

 

Hey girl, that is a kind of a big age difference, especially at that age. If you both like each other then you could try it out, but otherwise it'd probably be better to find a boy closer to your age for now.

Lauren T.

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