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I can't stop checking my ex's Facebook wall!

 
My ex and I broke up recently, and Facebook is making it much harder to deal. My feelings for him are still going strong. I logged into Facebook, and saw that he had added a new album called "Me and Katie <33."
 
I'm nosy, so I checked it out and saw pictures of him and another girl kissing! How do I keep myself from looking at his Facebook long enough for me to get over him?
 
Hey girly,
Don’t sweat a thing! There are plenty of things to do to get your mind off your ex without completely logging off from your Facebook or deleting him. It won’t be all smooth sailing at first, but you’ll find yourself indifferent about your ex in no time flat!
 
Hide that guy
 
First of all, you’re gonna “hide” your ex from your Facebook. The next time you see a something about your ex or Katie, go to the right side of that news feed and just click “Hide.” This way, you won’t have to deal with their relationship online unless you really want to know what’s going on between them… which is obviously not that case.
 
Step away from the computer
 
Next step? Don’t dwell too much in Facebook. Now, don’t get me wrong! I love me some socializing time online, but if you’re spending lots of time on facebook, you’ll probably be tempted to do some snooping around.
 
So instead, find something that you really enjoy to do that’s NOT online. Maybe you like to paint? Take a jog? Or catch up on some sleep? There are tons of activities you can turn to!
 
Explore new sites
 
Along the lines of finding different activities to do other than Facebook, if you just gotta be online, try visiting some websites that will switch your focus. Personally, I like to read other people’s blogs or get in on the latest celebrity gossip. You’re on the World Wide Web hon! There are plenty, and I mean plenty, of options that will catch your attention.
 
With these tips, you can see that the best way to get over your ex is just keep yourself occupied. Literally, “move on.” If you live your life, doing the things you enjoy then you’ll find yourself unconcerned about who’s doing what.
 
Best of wishes,
Jean
 
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~aspiring advice columnist, Lauren

by soccergirl524 on 6/17/2010 11:21:40 AM

 
 

Hey girls!!!! I am totes good at answering qs about boys!!! All my friends come to me for advice! I check my wall many times a day so leave me tons of post and ill answer them ASAP!!!

by dramaqueen92798 on 6/17/2010 11:21:33 AM

 
 

Mod!
okay so my bgf told me that he liked me after textn back and forth for a while. During the conversation he said some of the nicest things any boy as ever said to me and when he asked me whether or not i liked him i couldn't answer because for one i wasn't sure (lol i was really confused about everything) and two he has a gf so i dont wanna be expressing feelings to someone else's bf. so at the end of the day we decided to stay friends, though i realized almost after that i liked him (oh the irony). he texted me first three days straight and we didn't text on the fourth day but he texted me on the fifth day so on the sixth day i decided to text him first but no response! so i waited for almost five days we havn't talked at all. if i can't have him as a bf i still want him as the good friend i had but i don't want to text him after the fact he didn't respond to me. what should i do?
Thanks!
qu33nie~luvz~ya




Hey babe, I think you should text him. It shows you're mature about the situation and know what you want. You want him as a friend and you want things to be normal between the two of you, in order for this to be the case, you have to be bold and tell him how you feel, communicate.  
Megan R.

by queenie14 on 6/16/2010 8:19:06 PM

 
 

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Last summer i met this guy at an overnight camp i went to for a week. on friday (the last day of camp) there is usually a dance. anyway, i noticed him looking at me all week and he asked me to the dance.i really liked him and the problem is when we got to the dance that night i couldn't find him! It was dark and there were TONS of people.He probably hates me now because he probably thought i stood him up. Im going back to that camp this year in a few weeks.If i see him, how do i approach him? I don't want him to be mad. Do i just forget that it happened? HELP!!!




hey girl! He doesn't hate you.  Just be honest and let him know there was a miscommunication!  He'll understand!  
Megan R.

by chocolatebunny12 on 6/16/2010 6:16:14 PM

 
 

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ok, so i have this crush, and at some times, he seems like he likes me bac as a crush, sometimes he seems like a friend, sometimes he seems to ignore me, and ocasionally, he seems to hate me. he's going to a different skool after the skool year ends, and the nxt time i see him, itz gonna be in high skool, so idk....should i tell him i like him...or not....or express more flirting to him than usual?




Hey girly,

If you're not going to see him for a while, it might be best to just remain friends! I think you should try to keep talking so that you can keep your friendship going in high school! 
Alissa S.

by OMG123 on 6/16/2010 2:49:22 PM

 
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