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…then lie and say they are not talking about me when I know they are. It hurts, and I don’t know what to do.

With a small, tiny exception (the Pope, maybe?) most people occasionally talk behind others’ backs. It’s not a nice reality, but humans have an inclination to gossip—whether the tone of the conversation is totally harmless or kinda mean.

Sometimes, a conversation that starts out with perfectly fine intentions can turn into something else entirely. Find out the nature of what your friends have been dishing about. Just some rude comments about, say, your new ’do? It hurts, but it happens.

If it makes you feel better, confront them with a cool head. Tell them you know what they’ve been saying and that if they have something to say about you, you’d like to hear it directly. Then shrug it off. On the other hand, if they are being downright malicious, find new buds. You don’t need “friends” who make you feel bad about yourself.
 
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Girls are soooo immature especially girls in
High school and middle school a lot of the times
They talk behind your back or are mean to you
Is because there jealous I remember driving in the car
With my mom and I was on my Phone I looked up and this girl
Was giving me the dirtiest look ever I just ignored her
My mom said it was because I was a lot prettier then her
And that girls are funny about that I really didn't care the girl
Was just a stuck up snob

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by redvelvetluv on 12/21/2012 11:08:04 AM

 
 

Hey girlies,
if you need advice on
boys, friends, family, makeup, hair, beauty, fashion, love, school, hard stuff
anything and everything
I would LOVE to help ya out!
No question is off limits
From your girlie<3

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by CHEERR on 10/23/2010 2:50:06 PM

 
 

ATTENTION GIRLS READING THIS!!!!!
IF YOUR FRIEND IS DEFINTALLY TALKING BEHIND YOUR BACK SHE ISNT A TRUE FRIEND IF U HAVE BFF PROBLEMS PLEASE COMMETN ON MY PROFILE AND I WILL BE SURE TO HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

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by bree970 on 8/5/2010 11:57:35 PM

 
 

hey if your suppose friends r talking about u that means there not true friends so u really dont need them find others hopes this helps

P.S.MAYBE U MIGHT NEED TO HANG WITH THE NOT SO POPULAR AND JUST MAYBE THEY R YOUR REAL FRIENDS

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by tinymani on 7/25/2010 9:51:57 PM

 
 

They are probably talking behind your back because there jealous and they don't feel good about themselves so they try to make themselves feel better by making other people feel bad about themselves. Don't worry people always talk behind my back, but I just try to ignore it. Just think God made everyone different and everything happens for a reason.

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by MileyCyrus04555 on 7/8/2010 4:00:44 PM

 
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