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When should a girl ask a guy out and how?

 
Dave: Girls should never be intimidated about asking a guy out. Sure, there is something to all that playing-hard-to-get stuff, but, hey, it’s 2010. Trust me, we know just how hard it is to approach someone for a date—or even to borrow milk money. So any guy worth his salt will sincerely appreciate the effort because he knows just how tough it is.

A less forward way to take the initiative is by writing a note on your crushes FB wall when he does something cool like the winning run for his baseball team. That might be just the signal that shy boy is waiting for. Keep it subtle though—nothing that begins, “If you ever want to see your dog alive again...”

Bill: One of the most attractive things about girls is their aura of mystery. So if you want to ask that special guy out, do it kind of indirectly. Leave a note in his locker. Send him a photo of a ballpark or something with a fun, casual note on the back. We’re often most attracted to things that are hard to attain. Ask him out, but do it in a way that shows you’re pretty special.

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MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD! I need help! Yous see, theres this guy that I've known scince.... well..... he was the first kid I ever met! And now I'm starting to like him.... but I dont know if he'd ever like me back..... But just making it worse, yesterday my friends started calling me Gary and him Jackalina (idk why?) but then they asked him "Are you going out with Gary?" He thought they just made up a random guys name to match with his girl name (Jackalina) and he said "Sure... I guess so?" and so then my friend pointed to me and yelled "Gary you got a date!" So both of us said Nooo.... and then it got all awkward... thankfully he had to leave early for golf. The next day I thought it would be all awkward, but actually he even sat by me! We had a real conversation and everything! Its been at least 4 years scince I'd had a conversation with him! I dont know if he likes me tho.. help?




hey girlie!

when a guy likes a girl, his actions will surely show it--so pay attention...if he always seems to want to be around you, hang out with you, strike up a conversation with you..then he may be a little interested!  Since you haven't talked to him in a while, I would highly suggest getting to know him better.  Find a more time to hang out with him, and just develop a strong friendship.  Get to know what his hobbies are, what his goals are, what his family life is like....and go from there.  Don't worry so much about whether or not he likes you yet--start from the friendship, and if it's meant to be, it can grow into something else (and it'll be much easier since you guys are so comfortable with each other already!) Smile
Ruth S.

by LostInLove:( on 5/14/2011 2:13:52 PM

 
 

i asked this guy out and he said noFrownmy friends want to help me ask him out but he keeps saying no.my one friend is really trying to get him to ask me out or say yes but he wont do either. any tips?HELP!!!!!!

by softballrules! on 3/5/2011 7:41:31 PM

 
 

***MOD MOD MOD*** HURRY!!! IT'S URGENT!!! I told my crush I like him and now its all awkward between us. I only have one class with him and our eyes have only met a couple times. Anytime I try to tell myself to say hi to him in the hall I chicken out and he usually isn't looking in my direction anyways. And when I text him or chat with him on Facebook he doesn't reply. I know I can't make him or anything but it just bugs me! I know he could like me on the inside but he could just be shy. How do I start a convo with him when we usually don't talk in the first place. I'm trying to move slow( if that's what you want to call it) and talk to him a little, but again I don't think he wants to talk cuz he knows I like him. Should I ask him out anyways? And do u maybe think I'm too young cuz I'm in seventh grade?

 

 

Hey girly girl! I would take it easy for now, since you did already tell him that you liked him. Maybe, back off a little and let him come to you. I would act cool about it, and pretend like nothing major happened. If he looks at your, smile and say hi. And, if you see him in the hall or somewhere where he's approachable, ask him how his weekend was. Keep it casual for now. The ball is in his court Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by horseluver1998 on 2/3/2011 5:49:10 PM

 
 

I have a BF and i have NO clue what to do with him on V-day or even if he wants to do any thing for V-day.I don't wanna go on the classic move or dinner date i wanna do something ORIGINAL!What should I do?

by Katbasketball on 2/2/2011 9:09:55 PM

 
 

I told my crush that I like him and now its awkward between us. I only have one class with him and our eyes have met only a couple of times. Any time I try to tell myself to say hi to him in the hall, I chicken out at the last second. And when I txt him or chat with him on Facebook to say hey, he doesn't respond. I think he could just be shy. I'm in seventh grade. How do I start a convo if he usually isn't facing me? I don't just want to tap him on the shoulder, when we usually don't talk in Tue first place. Also do u think I'm too young?

by horseluver1998 on 1/30/2011 4:11:20 PM

 
 

MODMODMIDMODMOD!
I've only had one bf, and untill now, 2 years later, I haven't gotten over him. The only reason I am now, is cuz I have a new crush. Whenever I fall in love, I fall hard

 

Hey girlie, that is normal, you care about the person you like a lot don't be ashamed of that and don't try to love any less, 

Paige T.

by mag.luver on 1/1/2011 10:20:57 AM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMODOMOD!!
so i have this crush on this super nice boy. Hes sweet cute and allways makes me smile. I always knew i liked him but not as much as i do now. Just a couple of weeks ago he broke up with one of my friends who have been going out for a couple of months but he told me secretly that he never really liked her. Now my friend all ready has a new bf and me and my best friend both like him. We where texting the other day and he says that he trusts me and i tell him every thing same as he does with me but my best friend knows that where closer and i dont want her to get angry. How do i get him to be my boyfriend and still work every thing out with my friend and not to mention she cant even date anyone according to her parents rules.. Help




Hey girlie, talk to your friend about it. Make sure that she won't be upset if you date him. If she will be then it's not worth it. 

Lauren T.

by gigglesxo198 on 12/18/2010 6:58:23 PM

 
 

So there's this gorge guy in my band class who is extremely smart, funny, nice, and cute-- totally fab, and I've been secretly crushin' on him for about 3 months or so. The bad part is, I barely know him at all and am going kookoo over him! I always look for him in the halls, think about him 24/7, he's in my dreams, and I actually wrote a song about him-- that's how hard I'm falling! Plus, I've never been on a date or had a boyfriend before, so how do I get to know more about him???

by TippTopp on 11/13/2010 9:09:34 PM

 
 

Oh i just am so confused about boys!

by Isa19dance on 11/13/2010 8:22:57 PM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD I finaly was talking to my crush and said hi and he said hi and it was kinda okward then a bee flew by and i fan and screamed and he just laugh at me then he ran and caght up to me and we talked about bees then we didnt have anything to say and his friend ran up and said hey ah can you go so we can talk and i said sure then i ran to my bus and didnt look back. So what do I say to him? Was I being stupid about leaving? Do you think he wished i stayed?

 

It's hard to say for sure what he was thinking, but it is a good sign if he followed after you the first time!  I don't think you were stupid for leaving.  Just look for another opportunity to talk with him.  You can ask him about his day, or even make a joke about hoping no bees will interrupt your convo this time.  Go for it! Smile

Marie H.

by tennistar on 11/8/2010 5:45:52 PM

 
 

MOD!
What does it mean when a guy friend who you've known a long time starts doing things like hugging you (he said I was the only friend he didn't hug...), picking you up, and teasing you. A few years ago I rejected him so we've been friends for a while but now it just seems different.
Help! Do you think he likes me again (pretty sure I like him 2).




hey girl! i def think that guys who always tease girls really actually like them deep down, even if they don't realize it.  you should try flirting back and see what happens! if he's treating other girls the same way, don't assume that he only likes you... he might just be a huge flirt or even a player! but if he only seems to be like that with you, go for it! 
Natalie V.

by xxvampsrockxx on 11/8/2010 10:08:26 AM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD!!!!
One of my guy friends told me his best bud ikes me a lot. Sometimes he acts like it and sometimes he acts like I'm invisable. Sometimes he even acts annoyed with me for no reason at all. I like him and he's starting to annoy me. He's a realy sweet guy, but He gets on my nerves sometimes. How can I really tell if he likes me and how can I get the courage to ask him out. He's so cute and sweet that I get intimidated by him and I choke up whenever I talk to him. HELP ME!!!

 

If one of your guy friends says the other guy likes you, then he probably does. His actions also show that he might not know just how to act around you. I don't know why he might be annoyed with you, but he's probably just confused about how to act. If you want to try to have a relationship with him, I would start thinking of him as a regular person rather than a crush. If you think about how he's probably nervous around you, I'm sure that he will be really happy if you talk to him!

 

I don't know if you should ask him out, but try to start talking to him more and maybe you could invite him to hang out in a group. And, you can be flirty. The guy usually likes to ask the girl out, but you can definitely make it easier for him by showing some signs that you like him.

Vanessa J.

by blubabe47 on 11/5/2010 10:40:48 PM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD
I like this boy but he is friends with the cool kids and the cool kids are kinda rude. This boy is also in my math and pe class and one day i think he was flirting with me. So i like him but i feel like if i ask him out he'll laugh then say heck no expesualy if hes with his friends. Oh and one day we were walking to the bus and this jurk head 8th grade was walking backwards and he ran into the boy that i like and said a bad word to him (well the word wasnt bad bad but still i dont want to say it) and so the boy that i like said it back i kinda felt he was sorda protecting me.
Am i being stupid?
Also my mom thinks im to young to have a boyfriend so how do i tell her i have or want one?
please help




Hey girl. If you like this boy then you should talk to him privately not when his friends are around. 
Lauren H.

by tennistar on 11/5/2010 12:31:47 PM

 
 

Unfortunately my crush believes that if a guy is really special he should do the asking. I was going to ask him to homecomeing but he beat me to it. He tried to pay for me which made me uncomfortable, so I told him we were friends. Now I can't seem to get him to know I like him. How do I get him to ask me out?

by arg5890 on 11/4/2010 6:11:14 PM

 
 

i like this guy that rides my bus and hes going out with another girl and he totaly likes this other girl on my bus and always sits with her and sometimes i have an instament and it takes up half of a seat so half of the days he cant even sit with me and im to scared to talk to him and no one talks to me on the bus so im kinda a geek what do i do please help please please please please i need you :}

by tennistar on 10/27/2010 5:17:08 PM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD
theres this guy that i reeeaally like and my friends think he likes me back! i wanna talk to him or say hi or somethin but he is always with his friends and they actually really scare me! what should i do???????




hey! muster up some courage and say hey around his friends. he'll probably be impressed that you had the guts to do it. 

Helen S.

by E+T=<3 on 10/24/2010 2:52:46 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD! Ok... so its been a month at my new school and i dont talk much and havent really made many friends. I kinda like this.. "popular" guy. Ive never had a BF before and id feel weird asking him out. How i do I get to know him? I'd be weird since hes "popular" and im not if i just went over and started talking to him. Plus im not the outgoing talkitive type. I want to go out with him though since all my friends have dated and i havent (and i like him haha). Please help!!!




Hey girl, start by just saying hi in the hallway, just being friendly. Then maybe if you see him afterclass or during lunch strike up a small conversation with him. You just have to play it slow. Then eventually you'll be able to ask him to hang out and get to know him better. =] 
Lauren R.

by swimmergirl97 on 10/22/2010 7:17:27 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD!!!! So I've liked this guy for a REALLY long time now, and I finally worked up the courage to ask him out. He doesn't go to my school though. I mostly hang out with him over the summer, and we've gotten really close over the years. I waited forever for a response and he said he would love to. He also doesn't want his parents knowing though. i said that was fine. He then told me he needed a day to think it over. I'm kind of upset now because he might say no. It's what I feared most: Rejection. I still have hopes, but what does "a day to think" mean and am I doing anything wrong?




Hey, girlie! You def. haven't done a thing wrong! It sounds like his 'rents aren't too  keen on him dating. I think he's just a little nervous about doing this behind their backs. He probably is just conflicted because he's worried about breaking the rules! Remember: he didn't reject you. He wants to, he just wants to be responsible about it too!
Bridget R.

by xoxoheart97 on 10/20/2010 4:52:06 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!! Okay, so after liking this guy for a REALLY long time, I decided to ask him out. We've been friends for a while, but he doesn't go to my school. We were kind of going out for one summer, and we've been in touch a lot. He said he would love to hang out, but he didn't want his parents knowing and he wants a "day to think about it"... Now I don't know what to think. I told him in my letter that I didn't want it ruining our friendship. Did I do something wrong, and is it bad that he needs time to think? (I'll give him as much time as he needs)

 

 

Hey there chickadee! You did NOTHING wrong. This guy obviously just doesn't know what he wants.

xxx

Becca G.

by xoxoheart97 on 10/20/2010 4:18:54 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!
My schools halloween dance is on 1 week, i find a guy really find cute to slow dance, but he barely knows me...Plus his friend and my best friend really like each other and are gonna be slowing all night...leaving me alone...how do i ask him without him thinking im a weirdo?




Hey girl,

It's tough since there's a girl who knows him better, but you can still get to know him and have fun at the dance! If you feel up to it, grab him when he's going to get punch or a breath of fresh air and ask him to dance for a song. If not, just focus on having the best time ever with your girlies and you won't regret the night either way! 
Lauren C.

by jetaimebeaucoup on 10/16/2010 2:17:36 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!! mega help please!!! there is this guy in my science class who im head over heels for and my heart goes crazy when i see him! and i want to ask him out especially for class night or go on a date with him but i get shy and clam up the only times i have talked to him were when i gave him magnets for his science fair project and when i gave him my oreos today please i need help/advice mega time!!






Helen S.

by hardbeingsupergirl on 10/14/2010 7:23:19 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!! Hi i want to ask out my crush i can date and my dad and friends think i should... except my mom wants me to have him ask me out. what should i do????!!!?!?!?!?!?

 

 

Hey girly! Sometimes, parents can be old fashioned. Today, it's more socially acceptable than it was back in her teenage days to ask a guy out. I say, go for it!! Just make sure to be prepared though in case it doesn't go well. If you think you can handle that, then ask! Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by Soccer Chic13 on 10/13/2010 8:14:21 PM

 
 

I really like this guy and he knows (my BFF told him) and so I can't tell if he likes me since we joke around sometimes and I see him alot since his locker is next to mine. I want to ask him to the school social but I don't know what to do, especially if he doesn't like me.
What do I do??

by softballgal101 on 10/8/2010 5:40:01 PM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMOD! Help plz! Some guys keep flirting with me and idk if they really like me or if they are just trying to have some fun. Even one with a gf and a grade above is. What to do, what to do? Plz help! Thnx. <:~)->--<




Hey! it's safe to assume they're just having fun, if they like you, eventually they'll do  something about it. 

Helen S.

by armychic97 on 10/7/2010 4:58:30 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD I need an excuse to talk to this guy. I just can't seem to because it's weird for a girl to come up to a guy and say 'What's your favorite sport'. I also get really shy around him...Please help.

 

Hey girlie, if you have any classes with him then ask him a question about it. Or find something else that you have in common. Asking him a random question isn't the best way to start. Just be confident in yourself.

Lauren T.

by pandagirl12 on 9/29/2010 9:24:31 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD I want to tell a guy I like him. I smile. That's the easy part. I want to tell him I like him without having to talk to him. I know that sounds weird, but it would be easier. Please help.

 

Hey girlie, if you've never talked to him before you need to talk to him about something. You need to be comfortable talking to him before you can give him any signs that you like him.

Lauren T.

by pandagirl12 on 9/29/2010 9:23:08 PM

 
 

MOD
Alright so my best guy friend stopped talking to me a month before hewent to high school. And when he sees me in public he acts like he dnt even know me! He'd always come to me for advice or just wen he needed to be cheered up. And wen we were little kids hed pick on me all the time! I didnt care but that has all stopped do you know whats going on?




hey! It could be he's just making the transition from one group of friends to another. You should let him know what's up. ask him to hang out and see what he says. If he seems like he's avoiding you that's not ok, and you should try to move on. 
Helen S.

by KISSfan1 on 9/23/2010 5:26:39 PM

 
 

there is this very hot guy hes a grade above me but he is a go getter for girls. at a trip to six flags he got eight girls' numbers, but when a loud mouth friend of mine said that i liked him he justed laughed. should i ask himw out? help peoples thanks! Tong Smile Laughing ;)

by ronaldlover on 9/20/2010 8:39:22 PM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMOD I like this guy. We are good friends but not the best of friends. I really want to ask him out but I dont even think he will ever go out with me. Im kinda scared to ask him though not that he will say no but that he will tell all his friends. What should I do?????? Thanks mod!

 

 

Hey girly girl, maybe you should try to get closer to him as friends before asking him out. Ask him to hang out in a big group. Say that a bunch of you are going to the movies over the weekend, or invite him to a fair or carnival with your group of friends (there are lots going on this time of year!). Then, you can see how he interacts with you, and you'll better be able to judge if it's a good idea or not to ask him out Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by kncluvs on 9/19/2010 7:40:48 PM

 
 

i really like this guy at my church and have liked him for three years... and last year he said he didn't like me that way and i don't know how to get over him wat should i do? Frown

by calliewallie97 on 9/14/2010 2:38:31 PM

 
 

what do i do if i make fool of myself as i ask my crush out? what if he doesn't like me even though it looks like he does?!? HELP PLEASE!

by summercandygirl99 on 9/12/2010 2:37:02 PM

 
 

I like the idea of the mystery!

KatieLaughing

by Cupcake1999 on 9/11/2010 9:02:16 PM

 
 

people think the guy has to ask but its not ok its 2010 not 1978 so IF U LIKE SOMEONE AND HE LIKES U AND UR ALLOWED LIKE ASK HIM PLZ OK

by cre8tive_2114 on 9/10/2010 6:50:59 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! ok so i like this guy, and we went on 2 dates this summer with my bff and his bff. but school started yesterday, and he and i are in NOOOO classes whatsoever together! ugh Frown he told me he was mad that we weren't in any classes together. Smile which was sweet, but other than not being in any classes together, how can i still like him, see him, and maybe ask him out or get him to ask me out? i really wanna see him, but its not really possible in my school since we aren't in each others classes at all! i see him in the hallway between 1 class but can't stop and talk. Frown MOD please respond ASAP!!!




Hey girl, get his digits and hit him up! Hang out with him outside of school. Just try your best! You can def talk to him. Try and say hi whenever possible! Go for it girl! 
Lauren R.

by twilightlvr3 on 8/30/2010 8:02:04 PM

 
 

So latley I really like this guy, and we text all the time and He's my closest guy friend. I don't know if he likes me or not because, my friend asked him if he likes me and he said no, but I know that guys lie because they don't want the girl to know right? I'm still confused... should I move on?

by Rachy13 on 8/29/2010 5:32:43 PM

 
 

So latley I really like this guy, and we text all the time and He's my closest guy friend. I don't know if he likes me or not because, my friend asked him if he likes me and he said no, but I know that guys lie because they don't want the girl to know right? I'm still confused... should I move on?

by Rachy13 on 8/29/2010 5:32:01 PM

 
 

MOD
I think their's something wrong with the website. I've tried multiple times trying to add a coment but it would never show up. Anyway i talked to my crush about school, i need something else to talk to him about so i don't sound like a school freak or redundant. 'K thanks! Smile




You gotta find topics you have in common to talk about! Good luck Smile Also i hope the website starts to work for you soon. xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

by sn3rd on 8/25/2010 11:39:21 PM

 
 

Hey mod,
So I'm dating a guy, and I like him a lot! My friend just had her first kiss with her BF, and now, I really want my first kiss! I know it's definetly not the most important thing, but I just can't help imagining it! My friends, have been talking to him, saying hey, you should kiss her, or stuff like that when I'm not around, and according to them, he seems like he wants to. But He's kind of a shy guy, so he might not make the move. How can I drop some hints to him to kiss me?




You can also make some moves! If you two find a quiet moment then you should move in and make it known you want to kiss him. It will work out Smile xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

by americauna on 8/25/2010 10:01:28 PM

 
 

Hey girlies .

by rawrrx3 on 8/25/2010 9:16:17 PM

 
 

don't be scared live ur life

by facebookrocks1= on 8/25/2010 8:05:16 PM

 
 

MOD
I took one MOD's advice and talked to my crush. But i had lost an earring and tried to redo my hair before doing so. And once i got home i realized i looked horrible. And not only that I stumbled across my words it was sooo embarassing so how do i indirectly apologize for my appearance and behavior?




Hey girl, you don't have to apologize for a missing earring or your nerves. Look, chances are he didn't even notice. Just talk to him again more confident. That's better than any apology.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by sn3rd on 8/23/2010 10:31:39 PM

 
 

hey!!! im new and i would LUVVVVVVV LUV LUV it if ppl would comment on my profile!!! thnx!!!!

by jjgirl1710 on 8/21/2010 1:59:14 PM

 
 

hey hey hey!! come check out my profile im really good at giving advice!!! i will seriously answer you the same day i know that when u want advice u want it like now!! believe me im like that so ill give u advice on anything!!
-victoria <3

by bubblegumx96 on 8/19/2010 8:15:39 AM

 
 

a girl should go for it and ask a guy out! i wish i had've when this guy liked me and i liked him! He tried to ask me out but chickened out and now i missed my chance and he has a new gfFrown You just have to think, if he says no its totally his loss on missing out on you!Smile

by lili545 on 8/16/2010 10:22:58 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
me agian. my reallly good guy friend and i just started getting close this year even though we have been friends for years and years. we went out and everyone at our camp found out and he said there was too much pressure and we broke up. we continued staying really good friends and his BFF told me that he still likes me he is just too shy to stay in a comitted relationship. i followed your advice to hint that i like him, but instead of really hinting i texted him saying that i still like him. he is know on a hiking trip for a week and cant text but he never texted me back. do you think it was too soon to tell him i like him? im afraid i ruined my chances with getting back together

 

Hey girl, if he can't text, then don't worry about it. His phone is probably off. I would just wait until he comes home and have a convo with him. You shouldn't worry about expressing your feelings especially if he still likes you! There's nothing for him to be afraid about.

lauren r.

by all*cheerleader on 8/16/2010 7:28:12 PM

 
 

i commented a while ago and it didnt d=show up? why not?

by Caren on 8/16/2010 9:50:18 AM

 
 

I have been chrushing on 2 of my BGF's, they both are CONSTANYLY flirting(which id mind to muchSmile) but i jokingly asked out one of them on im and l8tr explained i was kidding. i just don't know how to handle it all!

Not only with all of that my parents don't let me and my sis date till were each a sophmore,(but my sis has snuck 2 relationships) and ive gotten asked out a couple times, and some of the guys i wouldn't have said no to cus theyre nice and cute, but i had to cus i diddn't wanna break a rule Frown
Help
-mixed feelings

by Caren on 8/16/2010 9:44:42 AM

 
 

MODMODMOD
Is a freshman girl dating a senior guy that farfetched? Especially if they have a lot in common, and the boy wouldn't force the girl into anything she's not ready for. He also has a summer birthday so he's on the younger side for his grade. I don't really see the big deal about the age difference if the two people already get along great (the maturity levels really aren't that different) and they're both on the same page for more physical stuff. Plus, since his birthday is more than 11 month away right now, I don't really see his 18th birthday being a problem for the time being. Your thoughts? Please answer ASAP! Thanks!

 

Hey! A freshman dating a senior doesn't have to be a big deal. The age difference seems big now, but later it won't feel like such a big gap. As long as the relationship is solid and they're both happy it's great! Smile 

Haley W.

by tjacobbabe on 8/12/2010 1:41:50 AM

 
 

Girls, y'all should just wait for the guy to ask you out!!! I don't think girls should ask guys out because guys flirt with everyone! I don't care if you think you know him or not! They flirt with everyone so if they're flirting with you then how do you know your not just among the many?! I say lead em on and wait till they get the nerve to ask you(: You'll be happier you did!!!(:

by bieberlover1222 on 8/9/2010 9:53:48 PM

 
 

help i want to dump this guy but i don't want to be mean Ive tried to before but he takes it as a joke.he also has a reputation of spreading rumors about his exes everybody knows i don't like him except for him.
what should i do???

by sportychic122 on 8/9/2010 5:34:06 PM

 
 

HELP!!! i have a crush on my ex. he is my ex because a girl that i dont like made him break up with me then they never went out so its not like she tried to steal him he hasnt went out with anybody since..... what do i do?

by lexilou5394 on 8/9/2010 1:40:27 AM

 
 

i have been there sooo many times that it gets annoying but dont worry it will get better i fhe gets interested he will know that u r to and neither one of u guys will have to face rejection..... or maybe he doesnt want the entire school to know so u can ask him out yourself

by lexilou5394 on 8/9/2010 1:36:50 AM

 
 

Help! Ok, there's this guy and we're friends. I mean we are like really close, not bgf close, though. Just a little less. Some of my friends keep on saying that he likes me and when my other friends here that, they go and ask him and, of course, he's with his guy friends, and he says "No! Stop asking!". This has happened like thirty times already. I kinda like him but only my two bff's know this and they haven't said anything. And he always seems like he wants to be my bf but sometimes he has a gf.(he's had i think like two this year.) I want to know if he likes me or not. He's been ignoring my texts, though. Can you pretty pretty pretty please help me?(with whipped cream, sprinkles, and a cherry on top?)

by armychic97 on 8/8/2010 9:31:15 PM

 
 

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I am a freshman and I really like this guy who is a senior. Is he too old for me? I have heard of seniors dating freshman before.
ThX!




Hey girl, just a bit. A senior's mind is on college/leaving high school, a freshman's is on getting involved in high school now that they've just entered it. They have different focuses.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by purplemonkey8 on 8/8/2010 8:41:32 PM

 
 

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Last year I dated a really great guy, but our relationship ended over summer. In all honesty I loved him, and it took me 8 months to get completely over him. We've been talking for a few weeks now, and until a few days ago we hadn't seen each other in over a year. When we first saw each other, I felt like the whole world pause for a few seconds, and I don't know whats happening. I miss him, not the relationship, just him as a person and a friend. I know he's off limits because he has a new girlfriend, because we go to different high schools, and because I'm not looking for a relationship right now; but I can't help but think that there is a reason he came back in my life. I don't want to tell him this because I know things will get weird between us, he's also having problems in his relationship as it is. We end up talking more then he does with his girl friend. I know him so well and in a year he hasn't changed one bit. I just don't know what to do anymore.




Hey girl,

First thing's first - remember that your relationship did end for a reason. It might be hard to remember all the bad stuff because you miss him, but keep telling yourself that things didn't work out in that relationship. You can love someone and still not be the right person for them in the long run, you know? If you do miss him and want to bring him back into your life as a friend though, you don't need to tell him anything - just talk to him every so often {try not to let it be every day at least at first, or it will end up being too much}, hang out as friends, and enjoy your time with him. Keep the boundaries clear - you will not treat him like a BF! But there's no shame in trying to be friends with him. After all, you spent a lot of time with him because you liked who he was as a person. If you can stay friends, it's worth the effort to try!
Lauren C.

by CaliSuz3 on 8/8/2010 2:33:31 PM

 
 

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I have a really big crush on this guy, and every time I see him I get really nervous and I'm either quiet or I say something dumb. He's really cute, so all of the more popular girls get him. We're friends but I really want to be more than that. How can I get his attention to be more than that? We're going to different high schools... So is it even worth it?




If you like him...it's worth it! It sounds like you just get nervous because you don't know him that well and are worried about saying something uninteresting {which is something we ALL get nervous about!}. The best way to fight that? Get to know him better! Try asking him to hang out at the pool, help you back-to-school shop, or just grab lunch with ya. The more you're around him, the more comfortable you'll be with talking to him. You'll learn what he likes and what he likes to talk about, which is super important... and he'll also get to know you in the process Smile see how that goes and you can figure out how to make the next move from there!
Lauren C.

by adriannababy on 8/8/2010 1:47:03 PM

 
 

Hey, I could use a little advise. Ok I kinda like this guy, we started texting well a little over a week ago and he told me he found me attractive and liked talking to me and then last friday he asked me if I do "stuff" with guys. I said I don't plan on it and ever since we haven't talked. I'm not real sure what to do. Any advise?

by Snermis on 8/7/2010 5:13:18 PM

 
 

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last year, my friends asked out the guy that i liked, without me knowing.....i mean i love my chicas but YIKES! they told me they tried to get him alone to ask him but his friends wouldn't stop following him, so they ended up asking him right then and there! He said, "not right now" and walked away! and for the entire day he acted really weird and i had no idea what was going on! so based on this, wat does it mean? was he embarrassed or does he not like me? help!




Hey! He was probably super uncomfortable that your pals asked him out for you in front of his friends. Just wait it out and if he wants it to happen then the ball's in his court. Good luck! 
Helen S.

by aceserver210 on 8/7/2010 4:37:22 PM

 
 

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i have a problem. i used to live in Illinois but then we moved because of my dad's job. That's not the problem. The problem is that this guy from my old school is like in love with me...in a creepy/obssesed stalkerish way. Ive known him since 7th grade (i'm sophmore now) and i never really talked to him until 2-3 weeks before i moved. We texted for a while but then i got tired of him asking me out (he asked me to be his valentine) so tried letting him down easily (he has a low self-esteem) by telling him i liked someone else but he didn't get the message, he thought i was saying he had to try harder. Then i finally couldn't take it anymore so i told him that i never liked him and that he was annoying and to just leave me alone. He did...for a while. Now he messages me on facebook and saying he still loves me and saying he misses me and it hurts. It's annoying...not to mention kind of obsessive. Please help!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Yeah- he seems kinda extreme. It was nice that you tried to let him down easy at first, but if he won't stop, then you were right to take action! Maybe you could try getting him to go away with what you did before. You could also block him on Facebook. 

Vanessa J.

by randomusername1218 on 8/7/2010 8:22:38 AM

 
 

Thx for asking this question whoever you! i had trouble asking out my 1st bf and btw this is my first time dating! but with this advice I was able 2. Keeping rocking bill and dave!

by gl chica 98 on 8/6/2010 2:09:34 PM

 
 

MOD None of my comments are showing up!!!!

 

Hey girl!  GL is super-busy today, so I'm getting to them as quick as I can!  Give it a few, and they should be up! 

Marie H.

by chocolover9257 on 8/5/2010 7:57:03 PM

 
 

*****MOD MOD MOD***** I sent in a question yesterday evening, and it still isn't answered!!! Other people who's questions were sent in AFTER mine are answered, and mine wasn't!!!!! It was really long and important and i REALLY don't want to have to type it again!!!Thank you!

 

Hey girl!  I'm sorry, I wasn't online last night, so I don't know what happened.  We get lotsa Qs, so sometimes things get lost!  If you want to ask another Q, I'm here for ya. 

Marie H.

by chocolover9257 on 8/5/2010 7:08:56 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD ok my bf doesnt txt me as much as he used 2 partially because his phone doesnt work as well but it still works and he doesnt put <3 in the txt like he used 2 and he used 2 call me every single nite and now its only every couple days should i b worried we r growing apart or is this normal



First of all, keep in mind that he is still calling you and texting you some - so that is good! I don't know if you should be worried - he could
just be extra busy, or since you said his phone doesn't work as well,
that could be part of the problem. Maybe you could try calling him one
of the nights he doesn't call you to see if he still has a lot to say.
Try to see how he acts around you in person to judge if he likes you
just as much as he did at the beginning. There's a chance you're
growing apart, but there's also a chance that the "new" spark of the
relationship has faded - which is totally normal! If you still like
him, I wouldn't break up with him over this or anything... you could
always bring it up to him if you are concerned and ask why he doesn't
text and call as much (although I wouldn't go into details like the
<3, probably.) Good luck!!

Vanessa J.

by emandemf on 8/5/2010 2:02:41 PM

 
 

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Okay so I really like my BGF and im pretty sure he likes me back... but im scared that if it doesn't work out it will ruin out friendship, too. What should i do?




It's true that it might ruin your friendship... But, I think you should try taking a risk! If you think he likes you back, you're probably right! Next time you're hanging out, ask him if he has a crush on anyone...  
Katie R.

by xoallie13ox on 8/5/2010 12:28:09 PM

 
 

Well I feel like a girl should never I mean never ask a girl out unless you really really like him and he is not going to make the first move . If a guy really likes you he should make the first move

by princessza5 on 8/5/2010 1:48:39 AM

 
 

MOD- What do guys like in a girl? I just want to get an opinion.
Plus, how do you tell if a guy, in 7th grade, likes you?
Thanks Smile

 

Hey babe! If a guy likes you he may show you extra attention, go out of his way to talk to you, or tease you.  If he's really shy, he may try and avoid you and not show his feelings towards you.  All guys are different, it just depends on their personalities and if they're out-going.  7th grade guys like to tease girls they're interested in, but some are more mature than others and will be really friendly and talkative!

Megan R.

by BrainSlushieex3 on 8/4/2010 6:29:18 PM

 
 

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PLESAEEE RESPONNDD!!!! THANKKSS(:
okay so ive been going out with my bf for about 2 months..everything has been going great until lately..everything seems different..im not even sure if i like him that much anymore becasue it seems like we never talk on the fone anymore and anytime he trys to like kiss me i never reallywant too.. idk whats wronng?? weve kissed twice and we havent kissed in like about 3 weeks.. i really dont wanna break up with him but im just not sure about us anymore.. this feeling is eating me up inside.. it just dosent seem like i like him the way i used to like himm.. ughhhh!! pleassee helpp!!! thankkksss

 

Hey girl! Try kissing him again. If there isn't a feeling of chemistry and the spark has faded, it's better to end things and go on a "just-friends" basis.  It's not fair to him if you don't like him as much as he likes you, and it's not fair to yourself if you're unsatisfied with your relationship with him.  There are other guys out there, and a bf/gf relationship should be fun! Go with your heart and your gut!

Megan R.

by jb4eva94 on 8/4/2010 5:46:27 PM

 
 

ok, i'm a helpless romantic, and am always crushing on someone. 2 years ago, i was in a combined class with a boy i really liked. we were really good friends, and when i asked him if he would go out with me, it ruined our friendship. we are now just starting to talk again. i am going to be in a class with him again, but now i'm crusing on another guy in his class, but we're even better friends. i think he might like me back, but i'm not sure. i want to tell him, but i don't want the same thing to happen. what should i do???

by slobcat98 on 8/4/2010 10:48:00 AM

 
 

mod- i dont know why but whenever I see a new guy for at least an hour I have declared a new crush when I dont even like them it makes me feel desperate but im not ive had a crazy love life and im trying to keep it on a down low but its kinda hard when i have a tendency to get really really really close to guys and were like besties and my heart starts to flare everytime time my guy friends fight over me I cant help but blush and im really insecure about myself so is this just a way to make me feel good about myself or am i desperat and love crazy




Having crushes is totally fine! But, it might not be a crush every time.  You could just be nervous about guys! With your heart beating fast, that doesn't necessarily mean you like the boy, but just that you're nervous! Work on deciding whether you truly like a guy, or if your just nervous.  Get to know a guy for who they are, and they you will see that they are either great BF or BGF material, or that they are a no-go, and that they are definitely not crush-worthy.  Be smart, girl! 
Katie R.

by bunnyboo813 on 8/3/2010 1:13:14 AM

 
 

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okay so im 15 and a sophmore and i like this guy who is basically 3 years older than me and a senior. we had a thing in febuary and almost dated but he started dating someone else. he has a bad reputation and is known as the player in the school. everyone told me that its a bad idea to date him but hes really sweet to me and told me tht im the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with. i beleive him cuz he hasnt moved on and its been 2 months since he said that and he keeps coming back to me when we get in a fight. he told me that he loves me and has since febuary and hes sorry for anything he has done to hurt me. he's been through a lot in his life and needs someone in it and i want to be that person but im scared that he is going to break my heart again. should i give it another try? or give up on it before i really give him a chance??




Hey girl, honestly, this guy is going to college next year. I think you ought to give it up for now. He's going different places then you and no matter what he may say to sweet talk you now, when college comes around and he meets new girls, his player tendencies are tend to cause you more harm than charm.

xoox 
Alyssa B.

by dancer_babe on 8/2/2010 11:04:12 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD - I'm ALWAYS falling for older guys. I like them cuz they're more mature and they are taller than me unlike people in my grade. There is a guy i REALLY REALLY like and he is older than me by two years which i don't mind but i'm an 8th grader and he is a sophmore. we flirt every once in a while and he is one of the only people that really get me. do you think that he will go out with me? is it even okay to go out with someone two years older than me??




Hey girl, I don't think it's wrong to date someone who's older, but I think the chances of this guy going out with you as a sophomore are really slim. It's hard when you have different schools between you and he's really in a different place mentally (starting to think about college, etc.).

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by msfrizzie on 8/2/2010 10:42:47 PM

 
 

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OMG! Pleez help me! My two best friends don't like my BF. All my otha friends like him but these two, who I've known since 1st grade, think he's mean. He has been mean to then B-4 but they've been mean 2 n they're all just kiddin round wen they act mean. Wat do I do?!?!?!?!?!?! Help!

 

Hey girlie, ask your bf to hang out with you and your friends and ask him to be especially nice to them. If they see how nice he can be and see that he treats you well they might change their mind about him.

Lauren T.

by MEJE on 8/2/2010 6:14:42 PM

 
 

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My ex bf and I became best friends and then he told me in a text y he broke up with me and that he sttill liked me. he asked me out and i waneted 2 say yes but i said no. idk y i said no but now he wont even talk 2 me. i wanna tell him that i still like him and that i want 2 go out with him but he wont anser my emails, im's, texts, or fone calls. wat do i do?

 

Hey girlie, when you text him and e-mail him you need to make sure you're telling him that you still like him. Maybe he needs a little bit of space, but don't give up on him. Just keep trying to reach him until he's ready to get back to you.

Lauren T.

by mcjaymi1995 on 8/2/2010 5:27:15 PM

 
 

mod!!!!!!!!!! ive like this guy for a while. hes popular and well im not really. im friends with hiim on fb. i dont know what to do. i dont know if i should ask him out or talk to him on there. we sat next to eachother for 2 semesters in school and we talked a little. but the prob is im really shy and i see him in the summer cause his grandparents live in my street. i saw him there a few timestoday also. help i dont know what to do and i really like him.

 

Hey girlie, start out talking to him on facebook. It's great to start out with because you don't have the pressure of talking to him face to face and you have more time to think about what you're going to say. You could mention seeing him at his grandparents and next time you see him say hi.

Lauren T.

by xoomgsaraxo on 8/2/2010 5:06:35 PM

 
 

I'm 17, and have dated, but the guy I like right now is hard to read. He's homeschooled, so not having the more obvious signs as a guy from a public school kinda sucks for me. He's asked me to dance, and told me he was impressed. He talked to me while he was lifeguarding at the local pool, even when he had three other girls who were flirting with him floating smack dab in front of him. He smiles at me with this really bright smile, with the corners of his eyes crinkling a little. He's... A gentleman, but I can't tell whether he's just being polite, or if he might think I'm cute. He lives only 5 minutes away, so close enough that we could date comfortably. Help would be appreciated. Also, he can't remember his phone number, and never seems to have it on him. Any ideas as to what to do about that? (I can tell he's being sincere on THAT.)

by trumpetninja13 on 7/31/2010 11:23:13 PM

 
 

mod: i don't really know how to post a comment asking for advice but if someone happens to read this, please help? so i like this guy, a lot! and we hooked up, made out, tongue kissed, whatever you want to call it! lol. my friend was being really obnoxious about it because she knew him and i both wanted to. but that's besides the point. haha. anyway, he was my first "real" kiss and i only did it because i really like him, no other reasons. i'm pretty sure that because it was his first time too, he kissed me because he likes me back. but i'm not 100% positive. soo i sort of want to find out but i don' know how to bring it up in conversation, i mean it's kind of an odd topic. i've been debating on whether or not i should ask my friend to find out but i feel like that'd be asking too much from her since she was the who practically bashed my face into my crush's face to kiss him. lol! so does anyone have any suggestions on what i should do? sorry for typos, i'm on my iPod

 

I don't think you should talk to your friend about it, since she's already not too happy with the situation. I would talk to the guy about it. If he kissed you, he probably at least likes you some! I would  ask him to hang out again and see what his reaction is. Then you could bring it up casually.

Vanessa J.

by whoaxccx3 on 7/31/2010 2:37:07 AM

 
 

I have been like crushing on the same guy for NINE years! He is so sweet and we used to play sports together all the time (I am a bit of a tomboy)! He always sends me compliments and we get in trouble for talking in class! But well he is uber-popular and i am about a five out of ten on the popular meter. Do you think that that might stop him from asking me out? If not, how can i ask him out without popular girls making fun of me if he says no?!? Help please!

by kendall930 on 7/30/2010 10:23:19 PM

 
 

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I am in desperate need of advice.
I take dance classes with this guy and I have a mega crush on him. I've liked him for months. I've talked to him a few times but have never gotten up the courage to really make a move.
I wasn't able to find him on facebook until now. and i almost had a heart attack when i saw him profile picture. it's of him and a girl. they're not cuddling or anything, but they're sitting really close.
what do I do??? does this mean he has a gf and I should give up? i am panicking right now. i am so freaked out and sad and depressed.
Should I friend him on facebook? I barely know him, but I've been taking dance with him for a year. would friending him just be weird?
oh help help help!!!
thank you.

 

Hey girlie, friending him definitely isn't weird if you've known him for a year. It might just be a friend who's a girl, not his gf. Check his relationship status.

Lauren T.

by purplemonkey8 on 7/30/2010 4:28:41 AM

 
 

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i've liked my boyfriend got close to 4 months, and we've been dating for 2. i liked my friend before him for a few weeks, but he had a girlfriend. we talked a ton, and he recently broke up with her. he started texting me again, and he asked me if i liked him. i told him i did a few months ago, before i got together with my current boyfriend. he said he was mad because he wishes we could of gotten together. he started calling me cute too, and has been hitting on me. my boyfriend is away at camp, but i'm falling head over heals for him, so he has no need to worry. But, i need to tell him, because i don't like keeping things from him. He comes back tomorrow, but i can only text him because he's grounded for three weeks. What should I say?! Thanks!!

 

Hey girl, I think I might just wait until you can see him face to face. Because you won't be able to see him for a bit, it would be kind of odd to bring up over texting. So try and be patient if you can!

lauren r.

by mrsedwardcullen1234 on 7/29/2010 4:20:24 PM

 
 

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I really like this guy and I think he likes me too! But he is going to a different highschool this year and I dont know if I should keep trying to be his GF! Should I just give up and try to find someone at my own school???

 

Hey girl, there's no prob with still liking him and trying, but don't let that limit you.  Still pay attention to guys at your own school cause ya may meet one that you end up liking more and maybe he could like you back!

Brittany B.

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by club peace*love*&happiness on 7/29/2010 1:09:34 PM

 
 

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Hey girls! I have a friend who says you should never ask a guy out or even let him know you like him. She thinks he'll take advantage of you, but I have no idea how she would know this as she's never had a boyfriend. I disagree, but she's a little pushy and a bit of a know it all and sometimes gets very angery at me because I don't think she's right. I think she's being old-fashioned. What's your take? Help!!!

 

I think she's being shy and immature.  There's nothing wrong with letting a guy know you like him.  Guys love to hear that someone thinks they're awesome!

Brittany B.

by swimchick75 on 7/29/2010 11:51:27 AM

 
 

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yesterday i got back from a hotel that was 13 hours away (we stayed there for 3 days). and there was this SUPER cute guy i always saw at the hotel pool and i flirted with him a lot and i think he likes me too but im not sure. now im at home and im really sad because i will never see him again. i actually cried. i feel stupid because i didnt even know his name but i cried over him. please can you give me advice on how to get over him!!! if you can, thanks so much!!




Honestly youll get over him. Just give it time. Good luck hon. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by thevanillaviolet on 7/28/2010 11:19:40 PM

 
 

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He didn't ask me out. Frown After he left I got this text: "im sorry i wanted to ask so bad but you were with people and i had to leave and i would have asked if you weren't with people. im sorry once again." Last sunday he was supposed to ask me but he didnt and now he did it again. Is he for real? Because now I don't know what to do. If he really liked me, wouldn't he have asked to talk alone and then asked me? Now I'm upset because I made up my mind to say yes.




If he keeps putting it off then i suggest you make alone time with him and make it happen! Good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by Booworm2309 on 7/28/2010 10:12:26 PM

 
 

MOd MOD!
Well I have been dyeing for a facebook for years! My mom and at least I think my dad dont really want me to have one. My mom has asked me before if I wanted one and I told her I wasnt sure and She said she didnt know if she was being too strict. I need help figuring out how to ask her and most likely get a yes. Thks!
-Me-

 

Hey girl! Try asking your mom when she isn't busy, she's calm and open ears! She'll be more likely to listen and understand where you're coming from. Explain that you're mature, responsible, and trustworthy and just want to use it to stay connected with your friends. 

Megan R.

by luvin2dance on 7/28/2010 8:49:54 PM

 
 

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Hi girlie! Got some guy issues here.
This boy in my school said my hair smells nice and my eyes are the greatest color... but then the next day he goofs around about me around his friends in a mean way and laughs then he says its a guy thing and he'll never do it again and does it AGAIN the next day!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HELP!

 

 Hey girl! Sounds like he may have a crush on you! He's flirting which is a great sign, keep flirting back if you're into him too! You never know where things could go!

Megan R.

by socerer on 7/28/2010 7:46:51 PM

 
 

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Hey girlie!Howre you?
Anyways, i just got a facebook. Do you think i should ask my crush to be my friendd? We dont usually talk, except during class,soooo..
Thanks Smile
(Btw, im super shy around him,but not anyone elsee.)




Hey babe! I think it would def be cool to friend him on Facebook.  If you talk during class, the more reason to friend him! Maybe you'll talk outside of class too!  
Megan R.

by friendsrforever on 7/28/2010 6:15:41 PM

 
 

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I know the guy I like is going to ask me out today because someone told me. He told me he likes me too. I'm always super nervous around him to the point of getting stomach aches. I've tried deep breathing and meditation but none of it works. If he asks me out, what if I end up having a heart attack while he's waiting for me to answer? And should I say yes? I like him and everything, but if we break up, I don't think I can take it because I took my last breakup very hard. What should I do? I have to leave for youth group soon (that's where I'm meeting him), so please hurry!




Hey girl! Okay, the key is to stay calm.  That is AMAZING, congrats! I hope that he does ask you! Just be yourself, act how you normally act, and say "yeah, that'd be really cool!" or something to the equivalent. Now...on staying calm: try to get out the anxious energy by yelling really loud or blasting really loud music until you're a little out of breath. Then take deep slow breaths, slow in (for 3 seconds) and out (as long as it takes), in , and out! Just breathe, remember things are looking up, so you have nothing to worry about!  
Megan R.

by Booworm2309 on 7/28/2010 6:04:20 PM

 
 

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by iwuffhunter on 7/28/2010 4:59:51 PM

 
 

AHHHH I'M SOOO EMBARASSED!! At a waterpark I want on this rapids tube ride. When I went under the waterfalls my top came off!!! but the worst part was that the hottest guy I've ever seen was a lifeguard and saw it happen!! When I got off the lifeguard was standing there. and I was struggling to tie it back up and try to lift the heavy tube at the same time. He tried to ignore me and just pretend he saw nothing.. ugh next time i'll be more careful to check if my bikini is tied tight!! haha trust me- i avoided him at all costs... AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS EXPERIENCED SOMETHING LIKE THAT?

by tennischic10 on 7/28/2010 4:52:00 PM

 
 

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Okay, so know how freshman year is a great way to come out of your shell and kinda show people a new you? I'm going into my sophmore year, but I kinda want to do that. I want to make more friends and get to know more people and stuff. How can I do this without people thinking I'm a poser and such because I might have changed?
And also, my family is a little low on money right now, so I won't be getting many new school outfits. Any tips on what to get? I'm planning on gettting some tanks, jeans and cardigans, but any other ideas? I'm in shape, but I kinda have big bone structure :/ lol So those tight shirts with logos on them don't really flatter me very much...thansk!




Hey girlie, just be yourself. if people judge you for being more outgoing, then they're really not worth being friends with anyway. i think you should just get basics and things you like! 
Alissa S.

by rhiannon.katrin on 7/28/2010 4:13:23 PM

 
 

I say for bold chicas, go for it. I'm not so bold...haha.

by starr on 7/28/2010 3:39:35 PM

 
 

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by GirlsOnlyClub on 7/28/2010 3:24:00 PM

 
 

bahahahha i luhv the note part! "if u ever want to see ur dog alive..." hahahha

by peace<3 on 7/28/2010 3:05:23 PM

 
 

I say go for it
Ask him out and if everything is fllowing good kiss him everywhere
I did and know i am pregnant. Like in glee how puck did to Quinn I got it.
I named my baby girl Beth and gave it away!
I say KISS him soooo muck

by Quinn Fabray on 7/28/2010 3:04:10 PM

 
 

mmh i personally think that girls should NEVER ask a guy out.. i mean.. guys are suppose to do that.. it's their jobSmile

by sunshine96 on 7/28/2010 2:29:58 PM

 
 

I need some advise! So my cousin's best friend and I like each other, my mom herd something about that and said we should just keep it as friends...idk what to do if he asks me out! He goes to a different school so idk if it would even work! If you have advice please comment on my profile! Thanks

by ~macheetah~ on 7/28/2010 1:59:43 PM

 
 

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by club peace*love*&happiness on 7/28/2010 1:13:50 PM

 
 

Just flirt a lot, then wait for them to talk to you(;

by blueowl455 on 7/28/2010 12:49:49 PM

 
 

Ive asked a guy out....never doing that again....he rejected me...and he for a fact likes me!!!! Frown

by fastbutterflyer on 7/28/2010 11:41:47 AM

 
 

HEY!!! NEED ADVISE ON ANYTHING IN YOU LIFE??? LEAVE A QUESTION ON MY PROFILE AND ILL ANSWER IT WITHIN 12 HOURS!!!! I LOVE TO GIVE ADVISE!!!!<3<3<3

by bruin3 on 7/28/2010 10:47:29 AM

 
 

Ask him out if you think you BOTH like eachother so it doesn't end up awkward if he doesn't like you. Basically go for it if you are both crushin' on eachother! Good luck!

by banana.sun on 7/28/2010 9:30:01 AM

 
 

My friend can ask guys out......me on the otha hand.......not so much! ;)

XOXO~Courtney <333333

by cmn5297 on 7/28/2010 8:53:50 AM

 
 

“If you ever want to see your dog alive again...” hahaha.Smile
An aura of mystery, like guys could ever figure me out.Tong

by i_luv_devin on 7/28/2010 6:42:14 AM

 
 

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so i play softball, and i hurt my knee during a game 4 months ago, and i haven't been able to play or run since, and my knee is now messed up. i cant bend it all the way without pain, and the MRI's have show nothing wrong and steroid shots haven't worked, so mulitple doctors are trying to find out what's wrong with me. I need to start training with my friend soon so we can try to get to varsity next year and become less fatigued when tryouts happen, but i CANT run, and i don't know when i am able to again. I might have a permanent injury that nothing can fix. I might have to pick between going through the pain or not playing. How can i try to pick which one i want?! Im not the best player, but i like the team a ton. i don't want to hurt myself trying to play though! how do i tell my coaches withOUT seeming like a wimp because i'm on JV, and not the best player, but a dedicated player? thanks!




Hey girlie, I think you should decide based on what feels right for you and also from what doctors say about your injury. Your coach will definitely understand that you're not a wimp, just injured! 
Alissa S.

by mrsedwardcullen1234 on 7/28/2010 1:13:07 AM

 
 

I agree with Bill and Dave. I've found that guys think it's really cool if you tell them that you like them first or ask them out.

by omg iits magz on 7/27/2010 10:37:21 PM

 
 

qqqq.....

my bro always tell the boys i DONT like that i like them!!!!!!!! today he came up to my friends older sisters bf and said, 'my sister loves u!'

he told that to someone else and he's absolutly in LOVe with me adn now he thinks i like him! what should i do that wont hurt their feelings and so they wont think that i like them. what should i do.... please answer ASAP!!!!!!!

by dramaqueen92798 on 7/27/2010 10:23:29 PM

 
 

Hey chicas!!! Need advice PRONTO for guys or friends or body but don't know who to go to??? Ask me because I give GREAT advice! I'm an official member of the I <3 Advice Club, I give magnificant advice and I also LOVE to make new friends so if you need ANYTHING or you just wanna chat, come to my profile SmileSmileSmile
-Lexi, from the I <3 Advice Club

by lexipurple on 7/27/2010 4:07:34 PM

 
 

ATTENTION GIRLS!!!! I NEED YOUR HELP!!!!!


Hey girls! I run the christiangirlsmusicclub on girlslife (click on my username to check out the profile!). I really want to get new girls to check out the club, so this is where you come in. Im gonna make a deal with you. If you post at least 1 comment on 1 profile or article telling others to check out the "christiangirlsmusicclub", then I will post 5 comments on 5 different profiles/articles to check out your profile!!! Sound like a good deal? ;) All you have to do is make that one comment about my profile, then comment back to me on my profile telling me that you did it. Thanks so much! I promise, thisll be awesome. Smile

by christiangirlsmusicclub on 7/27/2010 3:12:21 PM

 
 

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by hogwarts1189 on 7/27/2010 2:27:22 PM

 
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