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My friend is anti-boys, while I’m totally obsessed with them. She’s says if I don’t start being less boy-crazy, she won’t be friends with me. She’s a great bud, but what’s better – boys or friends?
 
Dear Boys or Friends,

Since when do you have to choose? And since when do friends have to agree on everything?

Don’t lose a great friend – just make an effort when you’re with her to cease the talk about your endless crushes. Discuss the boys with other girls, but since this friend has made it clear that your incessant conversation about cuties is annoying, choose topics you both care about. Books? Movies? Sports? Actors? Vacations? College? Careers? Clothes? Horses?

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MOD MOD MOD. Oh my gosh! Help me! There is this new kid at my school, and I think he's totally cute, so I told my BFF, and she told everyone I liked him! Even him! She also made up this rumor about me asking if he had a 6 pack! So today when I was going to science, he walked by me, and told me that I was coming on too strong, and that he would NEVER date me. So, I have 2 questions, is my so called BFF a true friend, and do you think I'll ever be able to date this guy, cause he is really cute....UGH.
Thanks, Roxy433




Hey girl, 1) I think your BFF meant well, but she got totally carried away. You should tell her what happened with you and your crush so she knows her actions do have consequences. 2) As for your crush himself, explain to him that you never asked about his abs -- your friend made that up and apologize for your friend spreading that fact. He knows you like him, so you don't have to deny it , but you can and should clear up your side of the story to show this girl your friend portrayed isn't you. Whether or not he's interested then is his call, but you've at least cleared this mess your friend got you into. Next time too, it may be better to keep information like crushes hidden from her.

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Alyssa B.

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by Roxy433 on 1/18/2011 11:28:10 PM

 
 

Hey girlies,
if you need advice on
boys, friends, family, makeup, hair, beauty, fashion, love, school, hard stuff
anything and everything
I would LOVE to help ya out!
No question is off limits
From your girlie<3

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by CHEERR on 10/23/2010 2:53:29 PM

 
 

Im major boy crazy like you. Luckily my friends are mostly equally boy crazy. Friends don't have to be exactly alike, and if your friend can't accept you for who you are, then maybe you should find better friends, who accept your love for boys.

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by blameitontheblueeyes on 10/13/2010 4:14:27 PM

 
 

i so see where your coming from. I am in 8th grade and there is no hot guys. But there are in 7th and I am totally upsessed with this guy. I watch him trough the window when in in pe and he is in history. And he like looks back at us and smiles and everything but last night was the school halloween dance. I went early to help set up and he was there helping too. and we talked. like omg i was so happy. Then during the dance he was talkign to the 8th grade populars and then asked one of them out and they were making out. i got soo mad and my 3 best friends were there for me. even though they hated how upsessed i was they were always there. so stay closer to your friends and the ppl that love you most. dont let any boy take that away cuz usually they arent the right one anyway

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by greasebabe1 on 10/9/2010 1:28:30 PM

 
 

I need some help FAST! last weekend my old time BGF and I hung out. I haven't seen him in over a year and my feelings for him were brought to the surface. We both know we like eachother but we are afraied to date becouse of his rep., Im going with an amasing guy now but he's gettting a little anoying, and the other day he brought me a rose at school. What to do what to do!Help!

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by vk.kelsey14 on 10/8/2010 10:54:57 AM

 
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