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One day on my Facebook status this guy wrote no one cares what you say. Then a couple of his friends agreed on my status. These are the same guys who bullied me in the seventh grade, calling me names and pushing me around. I deleted all of them from my friend list and deleted the comments too. And I realize this is why I hate school.

I don't want to go into 8th grade afraid of these guys. How do I stand up to them?

Hey there, girly! Sorry to hear about the tough sitch. It sounds like you were mucho mature about their online bullying and handled it well. But when it comes to a face-to-face encounter, here are a few tips.


Safety in Numbers

Bullying is most likely to occur when you’re in a vulnerable sitch. Don’t let yourself become a victim! Try to avoid walking the hallway or sitting in the cafeteria alone. If you travel in packs, you’ll find security in a buddy system. Bullies are way less likely to pick on you, and if they do, it’ll be a lot easier to fend ‘em off.

Maturity Matters

As much as you may want to yell or talk back to these bullies, don’t let yourself stoop down to their level. Be the mature one. When you’re with your pals, just ignore those guys. Bullies are usually trying to upset you, so if you don’t react, they’re likely to stop. If they keep at it, don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself (or your besties!). You don’t have to raise your voice or get angry, but stick up for each other and tell them to just lay off.

If It Continues…

If they don’t stop and things start to get out of hand, don’t be afraid to let a teacher, administrator, counselor or even a parent know. Sure, you don’t want to seem like a tattletale, but there is def a line between harmless bullying and harassment that should not be crossed.
 
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BY KRISTEN YEUNG ON 9/5/2010 12:00:00 AM

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I get teased a lot. I'm 15 and only 4'9", people think it's "cute", but I never here the end of it. It's mostly guys that bother me, and it's so annoying.

~Kat<3

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by P.i.N.K(: on 1/7/2011 7:54:27 PM

 
 

I'm sorry. Guys can be such jreks.

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by TEDYBear on 12/4/2010 1:36:22 PM

 
 

@Kerra S.
Thanks. Smile I'm glad there are people on this site dedicated to helping people with issues. I have told an adult already and it has helped me get rid of some of the stress. I've just been dreading certain parts of the day when I might see them and if they may say something to me or do the things they've done before (like making gagging noises as I walked by). It's really starting to effect my self esteem even if I don't show it on the outside. Thank you so much for your advice. I really appreciate it. Smile




Just keep ignoring it and im sure it will get better Smile glad i could help!! Good luck. xoxo kerra 

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by Kagura on 11/6/2010 10:07:00 PM

 
 

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My ex boyfriends ex (the one before me), or now gf again (IDK :/) and her friends are obsessed with dissing me. I've been confronted twice, by the ex and then by her friends. It seems like the ex doesn't want to fight anymore, but her friend just lovess the drama. These girls are known for their "tough" image, but its been a month and so far they've been all talk. There were rumors that she did want to beat me up, and my heart beats super fast whenever I see anyone who even looks like her. I'm scared, and I'm sick of it. I don't want to confront them, but I want this drama to be over. I don't talk about them, but they talk about me. I'm scared to walk by them in school and afraid that they'll start doing things to me oustide of school. Do you have any advice on what I could do?




That seems like a sticky situation. Im not sure why they have such issues with you. I suggest you talk to an adult about it. Like a counselor. Im not saying to tell on them or anything. But get a counselors opinion on what you should do to fix this situation. Theyll be able to help you at your school so youre more comfortable. Good luck! xoxo kerra 

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by Kagura on 11/6/2010 9:44:12 PM

 
 

I would say something like

" where would I be without my haters, huh? "

"Gosh, You really are anti-social" or

"Your hating on me, so I know your jelous"

I use these sayings when peope say bratty things to me and they really work!
I hope things get better girl. Dont listen to them, they have nothing better to do than hate. I mean only a loser would be mean to someone 4 no reason!


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by rosesong on 11/3/2010 7:00:59 PM

 
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