MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD. This summer I was growing a friendship with a girl who made me laugh and I had very good times around her. In August I lost contact with her for a good while - I later found out from a trustworthy friend that this "friend" of mine had called me a 'greasebag' behind my back. Now we're back in school again, and I always find that she looks at me as if I'm a puny little speck. Its as if she forgot all of our good times together in a wink! Now the same girl is hanging out with my best friends more.. I want to know how to become friends with her again so that I can join in when my best friends & her hang out. I hope you can help me with this crazy situation! xoxo, taylorswiftfan

 

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I have a friend who is making some really poor decisions in life, she is one of my best friends, and i am really worrying, i promised not to tell anyone about her problems, what should i do??

 

Even though you told her you wouldn't tell anyone, sometimes telling someone trustworthy is the better thing to do, especially if the decisions are really hurting her life and will have bad long- or short-term effects. I would talk to your mom about the problems to see what she can do. Let her know that you weren't supposed to tell anyone, but you need help and trust her to help you know what's best for your friend. I wouldn't talk to other friends at school about your friend's problems, though. You could also try to talk to your friend about the decisions she is making or suggest that she talks to someone if she is going through a rough patch.