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I’m 14 and desperately anticipating sex. Enough to where I simulate it. I promised myself I’d stop, but I keep breaking my promise. I keep thinking what my relatives and friends would think. I can’t talk to my parents about it.

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Don’t be so hard on yourself. Simulating sex is safe and common. A really bad idea would be to rush into the arms of a random guy just because you feel curious or desirous. Too-soon sex can leave a girl pregnant, diseased, heartbroken or all of the above. But simulation? Not a crime. Just be sure to lock your bedroom door during these private moments.

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thaks for putting this i feel much better about myself now!

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by NancyDrew 1997 on 11/26/2011 12:44:18 PM

im dealing with the same thing too thanks for putting this i feel much better now.

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by NancyDrew 1997 on 11/26/2011 12:39:13 PM

i just think about i guy i think is sexy

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by ponyjumper on 8/12/2011 10:28:39 PM

Thanks, GL! I'm in the same situation and was worried that I was alone.

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by iloverupert on 6/19/2011 7:34:41 PM

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ok so i read this book about this girl on drugs and stuff and it mad me really sad what should i do?

Im glad you connected with the book and it upset you. But you have to realize that its just a book and you have to...basically move on. Its good you felt sorry for the girl and her struggles but you cant let it bring you down so much. Good luck! xoxo kerra

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by Taffy18 on 2/23/2011 9:09:20 PM