It's fine! It's better then going off and really doing SOMETHING
People are so dramatic there is nothing wrong with it
and it is NOT a sin

by redvelvetluv on 2/14/2013 9:05:16 PM

It's not gross it's better then actually having u know what
If anything I think it helps just make sure u wash your hands
Its not something to be ashamed of a lot of girls do it
Don't worry I think in a way in it helps With hormones

by redvelvetluv on 1/11/2013 3:34:27 PM

First off, sorry for editing your comment - it's not a bad question, but we just want to make sure our website is safe and comfortable for GL readers of all ages As for your question, there's nothing wrong or dirty about what you're doing. If you don't feel comfy with it though and you really want to stop, try replacing the behavior with something else. When you get the urge to do it, try writing in your diary instead. Dance around to your favorite song. Paint or write a story. Go for a jog or even just a walk. Call a friend and talk about their day. Just replace that with something else, and soon you'll totally break the habit

by Rainbows_rawr on 7/5/2012 6:49:58 PM

If you have a bf or are just attracted to them I think simulating sex and acting it out is going to happen. I think its natural and as long as you dont simulate it too much(like that is all you think about)its normal. My mom never said I was going to do it but we did talk that I would wonder what it feels like and simulating it, but not doing it, with a guy is a safe way to be curious without getting pregnant.

Guys have their way and we have ours, and its just a part of growing up.

by luckykel on 2/6/2012 3:01:33 PM

im dealing with the same thing to and i feel sick and still doing it

by redkeys on 1/21/2012 11:08:00 AM

thaks for putting this i feel much better about myself now!

by NancyDrew 1997 on 11/26/2011 12:44:18 PM

i just think about i guy i think is sexy

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by bl0ndiegrl1 on 11/22/2010 6:15:14 PM

I can tell you once you get a bf and get very serious with each other that wondering what sex feels like and wanting to simulate it is very tempting but I think its also very natural because we are getting at that age where we start to think about doing it. And if you are a virgin like me its even 10xs worse.

And icegirl123, even if you dont like sports you could wear workout clothes or go walking and let him see you that way. Or he may be a guy that likes all kinds of girls, but I think exercising is good for everyone so if you can do that he may be more interested.

by luckykel on 11/9/2010 10:16:58 PM

Hey! I can't really talk to you about this, but it's a subject that you should probably ask a parent or guardian about. Good luck! Helen S.

by rainbowscolorfully on 10/14/2010 4:31:15 PM

I suggest you get a hobby or do an activity the next time you feel 'horny'.it will keep your brain occupied and help keep those pesky hormones at bay

by Halobbez1996 on 10/12/2010 6:10:52 PM

Sister, you are going through what all us have or will be going through soon. Do what you feel comfortable with.
When you look at how many of us teens are getting pregnant and how many of us are engaging in sex because society makes you feel weird if you arent doing it, I think it would be better if we could delay having sex.
Before I started dating my mom and I talked about puberty and guys and we went online together and read about what my body is going through. We all have different views about this and whats good and whats not. Meghan D.

by luckykel on 10/10/2010 11:31:02 PM

by volleyskater on 10/10/2010 9:23:17 PM

to whoever asked this question.: ur relatives and friends would probly not think anything bad, unless it is against ur religion or soemthing. its very common i think. and also, ppl, its fine if its against ur religion or u dont believe in it or whatever, but it might hurt other ppl to say its a sin or its wrong. everyone is entitled 2 their own opinions.

by suPerDEEcool101 on 10/10/2010 6:59:06 PM

of course it's alright. the whole 'awkward' thing is just some propaganda Meghan D.

by mollyluv on 10/10/2010 6:56:14 PM

I agree with musicluva246, this article is definitely sending a bad message! The person who wrote to "Carol" is clearly trying to STOP simulating sex, so saying that its "safe" and "not a crime", doesn't help her at all. Not to mention that it's considered a sin...

by ilove2draw on 10/10/2010 6:09:11 PM

Ah... this is a sticky topic. However, I think GL handled this quite well.

I don't do this, but I imagine I would much rather do this than actually have intercourse, and possibly have disease or pregnancy. This method is pretty much 100% safe, as far as safety goes.

Thank you, GL for letting us know that this is okay. It's definitely a private topic, but like I said, this is much better than actually having intercourse!

by hlucero on 10/10/2010 4:15:14 PM

I would never do this. It would make me feel uncomfortable, but we all feel diffrent.

by caligirl99 on 10/10/2010 3:10:13 PM

by meghan1 on 10/10/2010 3:00:30 PM

by jbluva217 on 10/10/2010 2:52:31 PM

by maryssacox15 on 10/10/2010 1:55:25 PM

or u could dream about it

by imari63 on 10/10/2010 1:16:38 PM