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I have a friend who I’ve known since first grade. We always hung out with each other up until third grade when we both moved. We still talked over the phone, but then it just stopped.

 

I found her on Twitter and we started talking again. Should I ask her to hang out or just keep talking online—I'm afraid of what her response will be.

 

Hey girlie,

 

I think you should ask her to hang out! It can be really fun to catch up with old friends that you haven't seen in a long time. If you two can find things to talk about online, you'll have things to talk about in person, so that shouldn't be a problem.

 

Since you've been talking for a while, I don't think it would weird at all to ask if she wanted to hang out. If you're really nervous about her response, maybe suggest something low-key, like going to see a new movie or hanging out with a group of people. That way, if she does turn you down, it won't be too disappointing because you won't have planned something elaborate. 

 

It might also be a good idea to keep the time frame for whatever you two end up doing to a couple of hours. That way, if you don't get along in real life the way you did online or the way you used to, you have to spend an entire day together. Talking on the phone first might be a good way to see if you actually do click. 

 

And not to sound too much like your mom, but whenever you're meeting someone you talked to on the Internet, it's a good idea to make sure they are who they say they are—safety first!

 

xoxo,

Alissa
 
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MOD MOD MOD!!!! I talked to my immature friend, and calmly told her.I told her in the begining of the week, and I told her that just think about what I said, because I want to help you but I know what I said might sound harsh until you analyze it. Now she really is pissed at me, and my other friends hate it, so do I. Her immaturity has pushed her 3 friends away, and now she's trying to hang on, and I hate it. She didn't listen to what we said, and she said really awful things to me. I don't even want to be near her, but I know she just needs time to cool off. I just don't know if I can be friends with her after everything she said, and her not even caring about anything but herself. I have tons of other friends and now shes stalking me. She ruins my day now. WEhat should I do this started on monday??

 

Hey chica!  I would give her some time to calm down, but if her comments really hurt you than I think she should apologize. You were calmly trying to talk to her and for her to respond this way kind of shows some immaturity. Also, stalking you is definitely not a good way for her to handle the situation. If it continues I would talk to your mom or a guidance counselor because you should not be harrassed! Sorry you've had to go through this, but I hope my advice helps!

Caitlin F.

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by spazzysarah on 1/26/2011 3:26:34 PM

 
 



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My best friend and I had a huge fight, and we both ended up unfriended each other and such online. She wrote me a letter saying how sorry she was so we became friends agian. But my mom is still mad at her and thinks that I am too. How should I tell her that we're friends agian without her judging me?




hey! don't worry what your mom thinks. calmly tell her that you guys have resolved your issues. That's really all you have to do Smile  
Helen S.

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by fatcat97 on 1/16/2011 1:20:19 PM

 
 

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My old best friend is really nice, but shes really immiture! I have told her this many times and that "I would love to hang around her a lot more, but It makes it hard to when she asks so immiture, because that makes me feel as if i can't trust her with seious issues." she only has me, my friend marrissa and Lauren...And we all hate it that she acts immiture. She gets mad at any of us if we dont sit with her at lunch, and will just follow us cuz she doesnt have any other friends! We all were talking about telling her that we would spend more time with her if she was less immiture but we're afriad she'll think we are ganging up on her! How do we get her to be less immiture? How do we tell her this(for the millionth time)? Should I stay friends with her? should I spend time with my other friends instead? please help me!

 

Hey girl. Give it time--Don't end the friendship just because you are having a bit of trouble. Maybe she is having trouble with family and she needs you right now. Be honest with her and say you want her to act more her age about things because you know that she is mature deep down. Good luck!

Elizabeth P.

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by spazzysarah on 12/21/2010 3:58:37 PM

 
 

thanks marie h!!!! you helped me big time <3

 

No problem!  I'm SO glad I could help. 

Marie H.

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by KMN21 on 12/21/2010 12:43:17 AM

 
 

mod mod mod! how do i spend time with other people when the girl im trying to get away from follows me and is in almost every single class and also on the same sport teams? she will actually hold on to my arm until i become her partner in something! help. thank you so much marie h! you rock! if you dont know the answer, i will just deal with her and hope she doesnt take it the wrong way and spread rumors! but thanks xoxoxoxoxo

 

The good news is, winter break is coming up.  You will have some time away from school, so maybe you can get some space then.  Being polite to her at school is a good idea, because you don't want to start drama.  But you don't have to go out of your way to be around her, either.  I would suggest talking to a counselor or another adult if you continue to have trouble. Sometimes they can be really helpful in coming up with solutions! Smile

Marie H.

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by KMN21 on 12/21/2010 12:36:17 AM

 
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