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A distant kiss

 

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I recently had my first kiss. The problem is that it took place at a family reunion.
 
He’s not blood-related and I had never met him, but we are related by marriage. He is my fourth or fifth cousin once or twice removed. Should I feel as ashamed as I do?

 

Dear Distant Kiss,

 

Let yourself off the hook. Unless you two were interrupted in the coat room by Uncle Oscar, there is no need to feel endlessly ashamed. Move on, and focus on what makes you proud of yourself rather than what makes you cringe.

 

When girls crush on cousins, it is important not to cross lines or test taboos—so I wouldn’t recommend going there again. This boy is not part of your close circle and besides, you are not asking, “Should I kiss him again?” but “Should I forgive myself?” So my advice is: Yep.

 

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For more on Carol Weston, visit her website: carolweston.com.  

BY CAROL WESTON ON 12/3/2010 7:00:00 AM

POSTED IN GL's best guy advice, crush crash course, kissing crash course

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my first kiss was one of the best moments of my life. I love the guy so much everytime i think about it i feel like i mite die! i was so happy after it happened i turned around and fell down! he laughted (not in a mean way) cuz he knew how much i liked him and i blushed. well watevs. luv him 4eva!

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by dontbafraid2luv on 3/29/2011 5:05:50 PM

 
 

My crush asked me if I liked him? Since he asked does he like me? Should I ask him to sit with me at our school's movie trip? I need answers! Please answer ASAP!!!!! I need to know by February 9th please!

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by ecl.jellybean13 on 1/19/2011 11:09:03 PM

 
 

for all yall know that guy could be rude but u cant judge them hes not hot because its on the outside Smile

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by <3 beingfat on 1/18/2011 7:44:43 PM

 
 

So over the summer i Kissed a guy!!! IT was my first kiss..but there is a twist...Our families are really close and it would be awquard if my parents or his parents found out! He lives in another town so dating isn't really an option. We kissed at like 4 a.m. after everyone was asleep. I kinda want to forget that it happpened but I see him and his family every once in a while and it is awquard.I tell my mom like everything but this is like my big secret!! What should I do?

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by Creative1 on 1/13/2011 8:12:19 PM

 
 

I dont think there is nothing wrong with it because my 5th cousin by marriage has a crush on me i dont really care but its starting to get on my nerves

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by rhodesfan1 on 1/12/2011 10:29:14 AM

 
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