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I can't stop thinking about wanting to cut and committing suicide. Last year I was a cutter and I tried to commit suicide and I regret it still, but a part of me wishes I could do it again, except this time, I wouldn't get caught. I really thought I was over this but apparently not, and I don't want to tell my mom or a counselor. I need some advice on what to do.

 

This is a very serious matter, but it’s great that you’re trying to seek help. Realizing that hurting yourself is not the right move is huge, so props on knowing that you need to find another way to deal with what’s going on.

 

This is something that is much larger than you, and you can’t take it on all on your own. You need to tell someone you trust. And trust that they will not judge you but will help you in a way in which you will feel comfortable. This could be your mother or father or a teacher or counselor. But you need to tell someone.

 

This is not something you just get over yourself. Talking to someone will help you understand why you have these feelings and then you can go from there. It is a step in the right direction that you wrote for help, but talking to your mom or a counselor will make a huge difference, I promise.
 
For immediate help, try Teenline, teens helping teens @ 800-852-8336.

BY AMARA WATERS ON 11/26/2010 7:00:00 AM

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What are the laws for verbal abuse?




Hey girl,

Verbal abuse is hard to define because it comes in so many different forms. There actually isn't an official law against verbal abuse in the United States, which makes a lot of people think that it's still ok. But the truth is that verbal abuse can be just as damaging - or even more so - than physical abuse. But if verbal abuse is happening and hurting you, it's important to talk to a counselor or other trusted adult. They're the ones who can help you stop the abuse...and also help you realize that you deserve better than such hurtful words!

Lauren C.

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by harajukulove7579 on 1/24/2011 2:16:07 PM

 
 

Right now I don't feel good about life. I mean what is the point, endless struggle that litteraly get's me nowhere. I can draw real nice , speak 3 languages and counting, get A's but my parent never saticefice with what I get. Right now I'm considering to got to a local art high school (alot of people say I should go) but what is the point really. Compete against 4000 people, kill get a spot for what? I don't even want to be a profesional at art. My dreams are being mocked by my dad.And today he nearly broke my laptop with all my dreams. Nobody at my school like the things I like (which they laugh at me about) etc: HTML,Flash animating, Watching old animation that is made the year I was born and listening to very sad songs like Alice of huamnn sacrifice or servant of evil... I have test like everyday with going to extra classes and going to church every week, but right now I don't want to do anything except for crying and crying.

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by NGE on 1/21/2011 7:26:24 PM

 
 

Hey Girls! If you have any type of problems, I will be open to give you advice on what to do. Contact me on my profile anytime and I will try to reply asap.

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by MelSaysRawr on 1/4/2011 7:27:55 PM

 
 

i am the same way .. and i love how this site is anonomus unless you dont want it to be....i feel i can say anything on here thanks guys!

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by harajukulove7579 on 1/3/2011 11:59:21 AM

 
 

I have no idea how to know if I won the grand prize how can i check that it is not posted??

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