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I want to hurt myself

 

I can't stop thinking about wanting to cut and committing suicide. Last year I was a cutter and I tried to commit suicide and I regret it still, but a part of me wishes I could do it again, except this time, I wouldn't get caught. I really thought I was over this but apparently not, and I don't want to tell my mom or a counselor. I need some advice on what to do.

 

This is a very serious matter, but it’s great that you’re trying to seek help. Realizing that hurting yourself is not the right move is huge, so props on knowing that you need to find another way to deal with what’s going on.

 

This is something that is much larger than you, and you can’t take it on all on your own. You need to tell someone you trust. And trust that they will not judge you but will help you in a way in which you will feel comfortable. This could be your mother or father or a teacher or counselor. But you need to tell someone.

 

This is not something you just get over yourself. Talking to someone will help you understand why you have these feelings and then you can go from there. It is a step in the right direction that you wrote for help, but talking to your mom or a counselor will make a huge difference, I promise.
 
For immediate help, try Teenline, teens helping teens @ 800-852-8336.

BY AMARA WATERS ON 11/26/2010 7:00:00 AM

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don't. please don't. i know someone who used to cut. it's terrible. you'll regret it your entire life. and you have ot think when you feel this way how will my friends feel,my parents when i'm dead and gone.

by thisisme3 on 12/28/2010 9:17:28 PM

 
 

Mod ? Mod ? Mod ? Mod ? Mod ? Mod ? Mod ? Mod ? SO i LOVE THIS WEBSITE . But I think that the beauty section should be a bit different . Girls come on here of all different races , backrounds , and things like that . And as u know , African Americans or "darker" skinned people have different hair that is more thick and curly. Maybe you can add more advice to girls that have that kind of hair , or more styles that can pertain to them , because most of the styles or adice here "darker" skinned girls really can't do without damagin their hair with perms or relaxers . I think it would help alot ! and would benefit 4 ur website to !!! Thankkksss !

 

Hey girl, I am so glad you love the site!  Thank you so much for sharing your suggestions. Laughing

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by dorigirl116 on 12/20/2010 11:06:08 PM

 
 

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No luck with the phone number:/

 

Really? Did it not go through? Well the next thing you can do is get a school counselor involved to see if your friend will talk to someone. I know not everyone is open to talking, but in my experience, just getting them into the office helps. Offer to go with him if that will make him feel better. But counselors are at schools to help with these problems. If he is thinking about hurting himself, then he really does need to talk to someone. 

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by nicegurl on 12/20/2010 1:23:39 PM

 
 

I was there once, i cried myself to sleep every night, i cut, i was depressed. Nobody knew and i wanted to keep it that way, to this day...only one person actually knew. It's reasonable you dont want to tell a parent or adult figure, so give settle hints to a good friend or something. I survived by thinking about my loved ones and one of my friends comitted suicide, at the memorial service, there were tons of people crying and i realized how many people it would hurt. I have an issue of caring for others and not myself. My pillow was wet with tears every night but i alawys just thought of tomarrow, and know ive made 7 new friends and i got a pet dog, and life is going pretty smoothly (i still cry myself to sleep sometimes) and im soooo glad i didnt give up on myself! People love and care for you, please contact me.
~love ya

by anythingal on 12/13/2010 6:49:16 PM

 
 

its okay your not alone i know someone who tried to hurt their self many of times her life is hard and if she can get throgh it then so can. don`t feel alone and im pretty sure your mom can under stand y u want to do these things if u explain it too her .and there are too many people who love and will miss you if u kill yourself. please do not do it it can be the biggest mistake of your life.this world loses millions of ppl every day.and i dont want you to be one of them. you may not love your life but many of ppl love you. i hope you get help soon. and like i said u r not alone. you can sucseed in any thing u want to if you try ( not including causing death) u have so much to live for. im pretty sure you r u a bright,pretty,smart, young, srtong young girl, so please dont hurt your self. because u have no good reason too. think of how your family would feel if u where gone ( not so good) so i wish u the best good luck

your freind,
tiana

by tiana8552101 on 12/6/2010 4:53:32 PM

 
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