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I have been through a lot of stress and considered cutting myself. Please help.
 
Dear To Cut of Not to Cut,


No, no, no, don’t cut yourself! That will not help anything. I’m sorry you’ve been stressing, but there are healthy ways to relieve stress. Spill all in your diary. Make art. Eliminate activities you aren’t totally into to free up your schedule. Go to bed earlier. Walk with a friend or parent. Take up running or a sport. Instead of hurting yourself, take care of yourself. And above all, find someone to talk to, like a school counselor or understanding aunt or older friend, or talk to your parents about seeing a therapist. You don’t have to feel this way.


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BY CAROL WESTON ON 11/27/2010 7:00:00 AM

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realy dont cut yourself it will leave scars you dont want that

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by justinbieberlover22 on 1/17/2011 9:23:02 PM

 
 

No, cutting is bad! Don't do it!

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by Chrys98 on 1/14/2011 5:22:36 PM

 
 

Sometimes I have thoughts of doing that, but when I ever think of that I just watch TV or lay with my dogs, but whatever you do, do NOT cut yourself.

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by ariirocks on 1/13/2011 7:00:17 PM

 
 

Hey chicas! This is Happy. I love giving advice- ask me anything- I’ll give you advice on school, boys, clothes, style, makeup, hair, beauty, family, friends, parties and other hangouts, gifts, jobs, workouts, eating, health, accessories, your body, entertainment, hobbies, after-school, depression, drama of any kind, difficult situations, holidays, bullies, and anything else you want help figuring out! Ask your question on my profile, and I’ll post your question with well-thought out advice underneath on your wall ASAP!
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by Ask Happy on 1/12/2011 9:48:18 PM

 
 

thank you so much, i have honestly never had someone say that to me, thank you ^.^

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by harajukulove7579 on 1/3/2011 12:46:46 PM

 
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